MedWorm provides a medical RSS filtering service. Over 6000 RSS medical sources are combined and output via different filters. This feed contains the latest medical blog items that have been tagged with 'addictions'. Sat, 03 Sep 2011 02:02:28 +0100 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=5182329&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Faging-and-addiction%2F Addiction among older adults is a hidden and hushed problem. Signs and symptoms of alcohol or medication abuse can easily be mistaken for conditions related to aging. And even when friends or family members recognize signs of addiction, they often discount the need for intervention or treatment. With an estimated three million older Americans struggling with alcohol and drug misuse and abuse, Aging and Addiction is a much-needed resource. The authors, both experts in the field of addiction treatment and intervention, provide a respectful, definitive guide for recognizing and addressing substance abuse among older adults. Key topics include: understanding the relationship between aging and addiction, finding help for a loved one, and recognizing the treatment needs of older adults. ... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=5182329 Thu, 01 Sep 2011 17:34:53 +0100 5182329 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=5159848&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2F8-common-questions-about-sex%2F Alcoholics, addicts and co-dependents in recovery may experience an awakening sexuality. Some of these questions may help. Sex therapist Laura Berman reveals the answers to your most intimate questions and shows you how to spice up your sex life. It happens at my speaking engagements, of course, but also at cocktail parties and PTA meetings, even in department stores: People who’ve learned that I’m a sex therapist have tons of questions for me. Some just want to hear more about what I do, but most are concerned with very specific issues — things they’ve been wondering about but haven’t felt comfortable asking (until they run into me shopping for shoes!). I’m happy to answer, if time and the setting permit. Not only does it keep life interesting, but it als... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=5159848 Wed, 24 Aug 2011 02:16:59 +0100 5159848 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=5107904&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fthe-perils-of-sober-dating%2F When I said goodbye to alcohol and all its attendant drama, I never intended to bid farewell to dating, period. I saw my romantic future shimmering atop a cotton-candy cloud of contentment and stability. Without the crutch of alcohol, I was convinced that my once-jumbled love life would fall easily into place. Now that I was sober and ready, Mr. Right would surely be waiting for me (albeit at the local coffee shop instead of the next bar stool.) It sucked to discover that alcohol-free dating was still, well, dating: an ever-awkward dance of anticipation, expectations and artifice. And for those of us who don’t drink, dating can be even more of a mixed bag. Why? Because, in case you missed the memo, most Americans are all about alcohol, especially when it comes to getting hitched (or laid... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=5107904 Mon, 08 Aug 2011 04:05:31 +0100 5107904 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=5103518&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fsex-for-recovery-after-40%2F Variety can be the spice of intercourse Recovery from alcoholism, addiction, gambling or co-dependency is common for people in their forth decade. Often sexuality in relationships has been absent or troubled. This may be true for straight, gays or lesbians. Too many men and women in long-term relationships lament that “the thrill is gone” but often don’t understand why. Some blame themselves or their partners or tell themselves that sexual boredom is as inevitable a part of growing older as wrinkles and reading glasses. It doesn’t have to be that way. And here’s why: To coin a cliché, variety can be the spice of intercourse. There are many kinds of sex play, but here let’s consider intercourse and different ways to do it — that is, experiment with positions. This doesn’t m... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=5103518 Sat, 06 Aug 2011 06:12:48 +0100 5103518 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=5103519&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fhow-children-deal-with-parents-alcoholism%2F Millions of Americans suffer from the psychological and physical disease of alcoholism. The resulting emotionally destructive impact on the children of alcoholic parents and the family unit is enormous. Alcoholic parents usually act out their addiction in one of two negative ways: violent and abusive behavior or emotional unavailability and neglect. People who grow up in an alcoholic family often demonstrate a pattern of specific emotional issues and behaviors as a result of their parent’s addiction and dysfunction. For example, among alcoholic families, there is a high percentage of abuse — physical, verbal and sexual. The resulting dangerous climate in the home often pits the children against one another. Full story at; How children deal with parents’ alcoholism » Lifestyl... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=5103519 Fri, 05 Aug 2011 23:49:49 +0100 5103519 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=5086268&cid=t_120260_109_f&fid=34859&url=http%3A%2F%2Fblog.davemsw.com%2Farchives%2F2011%2F08%2Fthe_death_of_amy_winehouse.php Tragically another music icon ends an incredibly creative life at age 27. Besides the uncanny fact that so many (10) incredibly talented musicians who died at 27, there is the other apparent truth that they all had everything their peers could have wanted. They were incredibly successful, had huge fan base, and were selling albums and tickets to concerts galore. What could possibly have gone wrong? Ms. Winehouse said living dangerously generated her creativity, and she was often photographed half-dressed, wild-eyed and disheveled. The English tabloids reported she had suffered brain damage from excessive use of drugs and alcohol." Image via Wikipedia Teresa Wiltz's early 2007 profile of Winehouse foreshadowed the singer's brief career, noting that her song "Rehab," seemed all too poigna... Ψ Dare To Dream... blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=5086268 Tue, 02 Aug 2011 00:38:50 +0100 5086268 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=5086562&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Frussell-brand-on-amy-winehouse%2F When you love someone who suffers from the disease of addiction you await the phone call. There will be a phone call. The sincere hope is that the call will be from the addict themselves, telling you they’ve had enough, that they’re ready to stop, ready to try something new. Of course though, you fear the other call, the sad nocturnal chime from a friend or relative telling you it’s too late, she’s gone. Frustratingly it’s not a call you can ever make it must be received. It is impossible to intervene. Russell Brand on Amy Winehouse: ‘We have lost a beautiful, talented woman’ | Music | guardian.co.uk. :Ever Wondered Why?Women’s Sexual AddictionWomen’s Sexual Addiction30 Natural HighsI Finally Listened to Their Stories (Source: Recovery ... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=5086562 Sun, 31 Jul 2011 20:45:39 +0100 5086562 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=5051244&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fcelebrity-sober-companions%2F Everyday people in recovery often turn to 12 Step Fellowship support groups or an Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) sponsor when they face a possible relapse, but some celebrities and other wealthy addicts are turning to paid “sober companions” to help maintain their sobriety, the New York Times reported. Sober companions like Ronnie Kaplan, a former addict and ex-con, can earn fees of up to $1,000 per day for their services. “I get there and I sit him down and relax his mind,” Kaplan said of his interaction with one wealthy client. “I ask him ’What brought this on?’ It’s always something.” Kaplan said he will even search the client’s home for drugs if he thinks it is warranted. Some sober companions become part of a celebrity’s entourage, like a perso... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=5051244 Fri, 22 Jul 2011 02:11:52 +0100 5051244 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=5051246&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fwater-wisdom-2%2F This article may help establish a starting point that you can adjust to suit your specific needs. You’ve heard all the advice: Drink eight glasses of water a day. Stay properly hydrated while exercising. Sports drinks aren’t just for professional athletes. Yet you’re still unsure whether you’re drinking the right amount for good health. How much fluid should you really be taking in daily? Do you need to add extra when you’re physically active? And is too much water dangerous? Everyone’s body needs water. We lose it by sweating, excretion, or simply not taking in enough through foods—like fruits and vegetables—and drinks. Mild dehydration (losing less than two percent of your body weight due to inadequate fluids) can cause health problems, includin... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=5051246 Wed, 20 Jul 2011 08:33:57 +0100 5051246 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=5029221&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Frecovery-self-awareness%2F Meditating Mindfulness for Recovery Mindfulness is a form of self-awareness training adapted from Buddhist mindfulness meditation. It has been adapted for use in treatment of depression, especially preventing relapse and for assisting with mood regulation. Mindfulness has been described as a state of being in the present, accepting things for what they are, i.e. non-judgementally. It was originally developed to assist with mood regulation and relapse prevention in depression and has been found to have considerable health benefits. These exercises are designed to introduce the principles and can be used by anyone recovering from a mood altering disease such as alcoholism, compulsive gambling, food problems, addiction, codependency or adult children of alcoholics.. If you let cloudy water s... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=5029221 Fri, 15 Jul 2011 00:01:05 +0100 5029221 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=5008669&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2F12-12th-step-activities%2F Service to Others in Sobriety This twelth step work activity list was developed by talking to Alcoholics Anonymous and Narcotics Anonymous members for a research project. They seem to apply to all 12 Step Fellowships. Took calls or spent time with a sponsee Guided an alcoholic/addict through the 12-Steps Held a service position in a 12-Step program (Within meetings; coffee maker, door greeter, chairperson, secretary, treasurer) (Outside of meetings: service delegate, public outreach organizer (i.e. jails, etc.), literature delegate). Say something positive to an alcoholic/addict Listened to an alcoholic/addict for at least 10 minutes at meetings, on the phone or face-to-face Say hello to a newcomer Reached out to an alcoholic/addict having a hard time Shared personal story wi... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=5008669 Thu, 07 Jul 2011 15:42:00 +0100 5008669 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4997828&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Frecovery-sets-us-free%2F Freedom is what recovery is all about. Not only are we free from addictive behavior, but we are free to become who we are and enjoy all that life has to offer. We may not hear bands playing and see fireworks every day, but we will know a new dimension of peace and serenity. Although recovery does not guarantee freedom from pain and distress, it promises us greater resources for coping with trouble. With the help of abstinence and the Twelve Steps, we become free to work toward resolving our difficulties instead of escaping into false solutions. We must remain strong and guard the freedom that comes with abstinence. Whatever threatens abstinence should be avoided: we don’t want to transfer one obsession to something else, such as compulsive shopping, or addictive relationships. To re... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4997828 Tue, 05 Jul 2011 03:53:43 +0100 4997828 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4953373&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2F12-steps-for-a-sponsor%2F Twelve Steps of SponsorshipThese can be applied to all 12-Step anonymous fellowships such as Al-anon, Alateen, Gamblers Anonymous, Alcoholics Anonymous, Narcotics Anonymous etcI will not help you to stay and wallow in limbo.I will help you to grow, to become more productive, by your definition.I will help you become more autonomous, more loving of yourself, more excited, less sensitive, more free to become the authority for your own living.I cannot give you dreams or “fix you up” simply because I cannot.I cannot give you growth, or grow for you. You must grow for yourself by facing reality, grim as it may be at times.I cannot take away your loneliness or your pain.I cannot sense your world for you, evaluate your goals for you, tell you what is best for your world; because you have your... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4953373 Sun, 19 Jun 2011 15:36:13 +0100 4953373 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4803244&cid=t_120260_109_f&fid=35044&url=http%3A%2F%2Fadultaddstrengths.com%2F2011%2F05%2F09%2Fbc-premier-christy-clark-im-absolutely-committed-to-working-with-you-on-it-re-opening-bc-adult-adhd-clinic%2F BC Premier Christy Clark “I’m Absolutely Committed To Working With You On It” Re: Opening BC Adult ADHD ClinicPost from: Adult ADD Strengths I went to the town hall meeting that BC Liberal Premier and Point Grey riding by-election MLA candidate Christy Clark had last Friday at St. Mark’s Church in Kitsilano, Vancouver. I asked Premier Christy Clark a question about re opening the BC adult ADHD clinic at an adult hospital that the BC Liberal govt closed down in 2007 after it had a 12-14 month wait list for an entire year. 8% of kids and 5% of adults have ADHD so there are more adults with ADHD than children, and most don’t know they have it and many doctors have NO training on ADHD. UBC medical students only get 1 hour of training on ADHD. I get em... Adult ADD Strengths blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4803244 Tue, 10 May 2011 05:25:28 +0100 4803244 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4872483&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FRecoveryIsSexycom%2F%7E3%2FHpjG0gbvcCY%2F Why Do I Keep Doing That? A recovery book that builds on overcoming the insanity of doing the same thing and expecting different results.Why We Do What We Don’t Want to Do–and How to StopWhy Do I Keep Doing That? Why Do I Keep Doing That? explains why we all experience the “compulsion to repeat” and discover the most successful ways to stop doing what we don’t want to do . . . whether we drink it, smoke it, snort it, pop it, spend it, gamble it, eat it, work it, feel it, or have sex or a relationship with it.As a recovering alcoholic, Dennis Wholey knows firsthand what it takes to break an addiction. In his New York Times bestseller The Courage to Change, Wholey brilliantly changed the way people viewed the negative pattern of substance addiction. Now, in this highly anticip... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4872483 Sun, 08 May 2011 14:55:00 +0100 4872483 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4872484&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FRecoveryIsSexycom%2F%7E3%2Fkd_pr0-E_hs%2F HBV Some of the highest rates of hepatitis B are in alcoholics and addicts. Hepatitis B is a liver disease caused by the hepatitis B virus (HBV). The virus is carried in blood and body fluids. It can lead to serious liver damage, life-long infection, liver cancer, liver failure and even death. Fortunately, there is a vaccine that can protect you against HBV.BackgroundHBV is one of a group of viruses that attacks the liver. Many hepatitis viruses have been identified but three – known as A, B, and C – cause about 90% of the acute hepatitis cases.HBV is the most common form of hepatitis virus in the world. It is easily transmitted and is significantly more infective than HIV.HBV is primarily transmitted from one person to another through blood or other body fluids, such as vagina... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4872484 Sat, 07 May 2011 14:06:01 +0100 4872484 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4872488&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FRecoveryIsSexycom%2F%7E3%2Fh-94W9hbtX8%2F Mature sexualityMen in their 50s have more satisfying sex lives than men in their 30sMen in their fifties are more satisfied with their sex lives than men in their thirties and forties, recording similar levels to 20-29 year-olds, according to a survey published in the February issue of BJU International.A team of experts from Norway and the USA surveyed 1,185 men aged between 20 and 79, asking them about various aspects of their sex life, including drive, erections and ejaculation.They found that although there was a strong relationship between a man’s advancing age and his declining sex drive and ability to have an erection and ejaculate, there wasn’t such a strong link between age and overall sexual satisfaction.The men who responded to the Norwegian postal questionnaire wer... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4872488 Thu, 05 May 2011 17:18:01 +0100 4872488 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4872489&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FRecoveryIsSexycom%2F%7E3%2F0G0MuxtzXeI%2F Two recovery books in one.Detachment and Enabling combines the two classic, user-friendly texts designed for loved ones, codependents, of chemically dependent people.After you have done all you can to help an alcoholic/ addict and he or she continues to drink or use, it’s time to detach. Detachment tells us how we can continue to love someone who is chemically dependent and, at the same time, no longer focus on that person’s behavior. It is about taking back our lives. Enabling describes the problems we can encounter when we focus on the alcoholic or addict in order to keep peace at any price. The authors encourage us to consider if we are really helping the alcoholic or ourselves when we prevent the alcoholic from feeling the true consequences of his or her actions.- Order to... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4872489 Thu, 05 May 2011 17:18:00 +0100 4872489 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4872490&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FRecoveryIsSexycom%2F%7E3%2FPx6YB1i7sYU%2F What is sexual abstinence?Can it benefit my recovery?Relationships and sexual activities are controversial in recovery from alcoholism, addiction and co-dependency. But there are benefits to sexual abstinence. These apply equally to heterosexual, gays and lesbian.Sexual abstinence is a choice to refrain from sexual activity. This choice is usually made for a specific reason. The reason may be moral, religious, legal, or for health and safety.It may only be short-term celibacy. It’s fine to go through periods of your life in which you choose to abstain – the decision to have sex is yours to make, each and every time.Abstaining does not mean you are frigid or destined for life as a monk or a nun – it may just be a temporary decision. Taking some time out for your body, mind... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4872490 Wed, 04 May 2011 16:45:01 +0100 4872490 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4771347&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FRecoveryIsSexycom%2F%7E3%2FbIQFLtbqj_w%2F The words “Gangsta Recovery” was actually meant to describe somebody who is really “doing the deal”, as far as 12 Step recovery is concerned.It started it out as somewhat of a joke until it began to effect people in a positive way.My name is Jacob, I am a alcoholic/addict and I am from Little Rock, Arkansas, and have had the pleasure of working with hundreds of young people all over Arkansas.Full story at Gangsta Recoveryhttp://gangstarecovery.wordpress.com/about/http://gangstarecovery.wordpress.com/Originally posted 2009-11-23 12:32:46. Share, print or e-mail this articleRandom ArticlesEating DisordersStages of an Eating DisorderMy Name Is MethHow AA Members Get Sober in TaiwanStyles of Enabling Behavior (Source: Recovery Is Sexy.com) Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4771347 Fri, 29 Apr 2011 15:45:01 +0100 4771347 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4762939&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fdrop-the-rock%2F A recovery book to extend sobriety by addressing;Resentment. Fear. Self-Pity. Intolerance. Anger. This cast of character defects will undermine the best-laid plans for recovery from addiction, alcoholism or codependency. It’s not uncommon for individuals in recovery to hang on to negative, self-defeating behaviors after they’ve given up their addiction. These are the “rocks” that can sink sobriety – or, at the least, block further progress. With more than 100,000 copies sold, Drop the Rock is the definitive guide to removing character defects that can prevent gratifying, long-standing recovery. Based on the Twelve Step program, particularly the principles behind Steps Six and Seven, Drop the Rock combines personal stories, practical advice, and powerful insig... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4762939 Thu, 28 Apr 2011 16:40:05 +0100 4762939 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4762940&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fstay-on-the-beam%2F Just for Today – Stay on the Beam“Today most commercial flying is done on a radio beam. A directional beam is produced to guide the pilot to his destination, and as long as he keeps on this beam he knows that he is safe, even if he cannot see around him for fog, or get his bearings in any other way.As soon as he gets off the beam in any direction he is in danger, and he immediately tries to get back on to the beam once more.Those who believe in the All-ness of a Higher Power, have a spiritual beam upon which to navigate on the voyage of life. As long as you have peace of mind and some sense of the Presence of God you are on the beam, and you are safe, even if outer things seem to be confused or even very dark; but as soon as you get off the beam you are in danger.You are off th... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4762940 Mon, 25 Apr 2011 16:45:07 +0100 4762940 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4759045&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Frecovery-burnout%2F This article may help you think about the issues involved.Burnout is subtle. It creeps up on you slowly. How do you know if you are burning out?I know well the face of burnout. I found myself questioning my motives, feeling guilty, and being greatly misunderstood. Sometimes I was shamed for not “working the program!”What are the signs of burnout?As a professional counsellor I have researched burnout. According to the best research available on the subject there are three aspects of burnout:1. Perception of Inequity/Unfairness/InjusticeWhen you start to feel like you are getting the short end of the deal, being mistreated, under-appreciated, the program is not working for you… You may be burning out.2. Emotional ExhaustionWhen you start to run out of emotional gas you know something i... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4759045 Fri, 22 Apr 2011 15:59:02 +0100 4759045 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4742648&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fchemical-dependency-and-the-family%2F Everything You Need to Know about Chemical Dependence – Addiction, Alcoholism AlcoholHeroinAmphetaminesTobaccoInhalantsCocaineMarijuanaMedications By Vernon E. Johnson, D.D., founder of the Johnson Institute. Former faculty member of Rutgers University Summer School for Alcohol StudiesDr. Johnson compiled the most popular Johnson Institute literature on chemical dependence for this complete family guide. It includes answers to these important questions:How can I recognize chemical dependence?How can I avoid it?How can my family solve the problems that come with it?How is chemical dependence different for men, women, teenagers, children, and the elderly?How can I prevent my child from using drugs?Designed for easy access, this practical guide to prevention, intervention, and recovery will... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4742648 Fri, 22 Apr 2011 13:25:00 +0100 4742648 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4724268&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fresolve-to-be-thyself%2F Resolve to be thyself; and know that who finds himself, loses his misery.–Matthew ArnoldIn recovery from alcoholism, addiction and ACOA our need for approval compels us to try to look good – no matter what’s going on. We imagine that somehow everything will be okay as long as it looks okay. Our hearts may be breaking from fear, disillusionment, and rejection, real or imagined, but we keep smiling so that no one will guess. Why do we do this to ourselves? Is it so hard to turn to a friend and say, “Hey, I’m hurting. I’ve been having a bad time and I need help”? Would the earth tremble if we said it right out, just like that?We’re not likely to get what we don’t ask for.  Instead of denying that our knees are shaking, our hands are sweat... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4724268 Mon, 18 Apr 2011 16:21:00 +0100 4724268 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4724270&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Faffirmations-for-recovery%2F On Becoming Your Own Loving ParentAffirmations to be Repeated Each DayThese affirmations apply to recovering addicts, alcoholics, co-dependents, adult children of alcoholics / addicts and anyone working for recovery from a dysfunctional upbringing.Affirmations with other recovery program work are a powerful tool for addressing our critical nature toward ourselves and others. These affirmations represent the basic truths that most of us did not receive as children, but we can claim as adults. Read these affirmations out loud for several weeks.  You may also write down some of them and post them where you can read them. With affirmations, we begin to change our inner Critical Parent.  We learn to give ourselves a break.It is okay to know who I am.It is okay to trust ... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4724270 Sun, 17 Apr 2011 16:32:00 +0100 4724270 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4693511&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2F6-most-common-stds-in-men%2F Image via WikipediaThe 6 Most Common STDs in MenMany recovering alcoholic or addicted men can remember the alcohol and drug induced sexual activities that may have exposed them to STDs. Recovery, for me, means healthy living in all aspects of my life. Prevention of gaining or giving STDs is one of these practices.You can prevent STDs. Here’s how.Italians called it “the Spanish disease.” The French dubbed it “the English disease.” Among Russians, it was known as “the Polish disease.” Among Arabs? “The disease of Christians.”No one wanted to claim it, and with good reason. The disease, syphilis, begins by causing crusty sores in private places. After hiding out in the body for years, it can emerge to drive people insane and then kill them.Syphilis is just one of more than a... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4693511 Fri, 08 Apr 2011 19:23:32 +0100 4693511 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4696958&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fal-anon-12-step-recovery-program%2F Families of alcoholics / addicts often walk on eggsFor those who don’t know or have never heard of Al-anon, it is a 12-step recovery program that is the counter-part to the Alcoholics Anonymous 12-step recovery program. It was initiated by Lois Wilson (the wife of Bill Wilson; one of the original founders of Alcoholics Anonymous) as a safe haven and support group for anyone who is dealing with a loved ones alcoholism (and/or drug addiction)I have been attending Al-anon meetings for 20 years and came away from my first meeting thinking…”What a bunch of losers, as well as… I heard some interesting things here.”As a professional family substance abuse counselor, I encourage my clients to attend Al-anon and find out if it is something they wish to incorporate in t... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4696958 Fri, 08 Apr 2011 16:23:02 +0100 4696958 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4684767&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fyour-first-aa-meeting%2F Practically nobody looks forward to going to their first Alcoholics Anonymous meeting.In most cases this is an occasion of extreme shame, dread and despair. The majority of individuals going to AA for the first time are doing so reluctantly, either because they have promised someone else to go or because they have been directed to attend by a judge, an employer, a therapist or an addictions treatment program.Even first timers who "go on their own" are usually in an intensely ambivalent and negative state. Nobody wishes to need the help that is provided by AA, and as a result virtually everyone attending their first meeting wishes that they were someplace else doing something else.It is an act of great courage to walk into an AA meeting for the first time. Many people with severe ... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4684767 Thu, 07 Apr 2011 16:25:00 +0100 4684767 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4677117&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2F6-sex-slip-ups-men-make%2F Expert sex tips for men who have sex with women.After learning the facts of life — most of us are left to figure out sex for ourselves. Guys tend to take a lot of cues from adult movies, and we all know how true-to-life those are. Experience may help, but many women can be shy when talking about what they like.Addicts, alcoholics and co-dependents may also have developed habits counter to good sexual relations. These few tips may help in recovery.You Know What She WantsMen often make assumptions about what a woman wants based upon what they’ve done with other women. But women aren’t all the same.You Have All She NeedsSome women can’t have an orgasm with less than 3,000 rpm. No human tongue or fingers can generate that kind of vibration. But men typically think somet... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4677117 Mon, 04 Apr 2011 16:42:00 +0100 4677117 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4677118&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fsecret-scars-of-self-injury%2F Secret Scars; A Recovery Book What is self-injury? Why would people deliberately hurt themselves? Why can’t they stop? What can I do to help?These questions are asked and answered in Secret Scars, a revealing look at the addiction of self-injury. Self-injury is one of the fastest growing health problems among teenage girls today. Despite its prevalence, however, self-injury remains a behavior shrouded in mystery and misconceptions. Secret Scars is a groundbreaking book that demystifies self-injury by explaining it as an addiction. The author takes both an engaging and scholarly approach to help the reader understand the dynamics involved in self-injury. Not only does Turner share case histories and her personal struggle as a former self-injurer, she backs it up by citing studies, res... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4677118 Mon, 04 Apr 2011 14:45:21 +0100 4677118 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4670339&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fmothers-multiple-partner-offspring%2F Numerous US women have children by more than one manMany alcoholic and addictive women may have children by multiple fathers. You are not alone and there is no shame in such situations. Its just a fact of life.The first national study of the prevalence of multiple partner fertility shows that 28 percent of all U.S. women with two or more children have children by more than one man."I was surprised at the prevalence," said demographer Cassandra Dorius. "Multiple partner fertility is an important part of contemporary American family life, and a key component to the net of disadvantage that many poor and uneducated women face every day ."While previous studies have examined how common multiple partner fertility is among younger women, or among women who live in urban areas... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4670339 Sun, 03 Apr 2011 16:56:00 +0100 4670339 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4664484&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fstraight-sex-is-best-sex%2F NEWYou Can Help an AlcoholicHave vaginal orgasm and be happyHaving a penis-vaginal orgasm rather than just clitoral stimulation or masturbation results in a better life.Researchers studied over 1,200 women in Sweden and found that vaginal orgasm resulted in greater satisfaction with sex life, mental health, relationships with partners and friends, and life in general. Additionally these women had greater sexual desire and less recent masturbation.Better sex life was also associated with their first sexual orgasm being from intercourse rather than masturbation.Vaginal orgasms were not the result of partner masturbation or cunnilingus.It seems that straight sex, penis – vagina is still the best sex. Other ways of having an orgasm, at least for women, are OK but not as satisfying.Stuart... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4664484 Wed, 30 Mar 2011 15:30:25 +0100 4664484 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4653610&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fstigma-and-alcoholism%2F There is no physical or psychiatric condition more associated with social disapproval and discrimination than alcohol and/or other drug (AOD) dependence. Alcoholism/ addiction-related social stigma constitutes a major obstacle to personal and family recovery, contributes to pushing addiction professionals to the fringes therapy and their organizations, and limits the funding and community provisions allocated to AOD-related problems.Efforts to develop “recovery-oriented systems of care” inevitably confront social stigma as a barrier to shaping community attitudes and policies supportive of long-term addiction recovery.Stigma Defined Stigma is the experience of being held in contempt (shunned or rendered socially invisible) because of a socially disapproved position. It involves process... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4653610 Sun, 27 Mar 2011 16:37:08 +0100 4653610 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4684382&cid=t_120260_93_f&fid=36531&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FJeffreyMD%2F%7E3%2FrN6uc1wrk_A%2F I have been on the Psychiatry service for almost 3 weeks now. This week I was assigned to the Addictions unit. It has been quite the eye-opener. It has been filled with meeting people at various stages of recovery. I have sat in on Al-Anon , AA, NA, and other group meetings. They have been filled with stories. Sad stories. Tearful stories. Stories filled with despair. And stories filled with hope and inspiration. The biggest thing about this week is the realization that addiction is a disease that does not discriminate. There were successful professionals. There were homeless members. There were women and men. There were people like me. And that scared me. Because I realized that if I could be sitting in one of those chairs and telling one of those stories. (Source: JeffreyMD.com) JeffreyMD.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4684382 Thu, 24 Mar 2011 20:00:23 +0100 4684382 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4581092&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fwhat-are-drug-users-looking-for-2%2F What are drug users looking for in treatment; abstinence or harm reduction?Within the UK and in many other countries two of the most significant issues with regard to the development of health and social care services for drug users has been the growth of the consumer perspective and the philosophy of harm reduction.These researchers looked at drug users’ aspirations from treatment and consider whether drug users are looking to treatment to reduce their risk behavior or to become abstinent from their drug use.They interviewed 1007 drug users starting a new episode of drug treatment in Scotland. Participants were recruited from a total of 33 drug treatment agencies located in rural, urban and inner-city areas across Scotland.There was widespread support for abstinence as a goal of tre... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4581092 Sun, 13 Mar 2011 15:13:26 +0100 4581092 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4578020&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fmedication-in-recovery%2F Image via WikipediaWhat medications are safe to use in recovery?If there is one question that I am asked regularly by alcoholics and addicts, it is “What medications are safe to use in recovery?”The answer is this: All medications have the potential to be abused, some much more than others.The first thing you should do is be upfront with your physician/nurse practitioner and pharmacist about your addiction. Although some “addictive” medications (stimulants in cold medications, short term opiates, etc.) may be appropriate for you, medical professionals may have other suggestions that would work just as well and put your recovery at much less risk.Recently, I was able to attend a seminar at which Dr. Marv Seppala, was speaking. He shared a story of a person who did notify his physici... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4578020 Sun, 13 Mar 2011 03:57:40 +0100 4578020 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4570765&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Favoiding-relapse%2F In some ways, the hardest part of establishing and maintaining long-term recovery from alcoholism or addiction comes when the initial, intensive part of treatment has been completed.To avoid relapse, most recovering people need to be in the warm embrace of loved ones – whether their close, biological family or the new "family" of other recovered people that they can turn to when they feel in danger of relapse.One study identified the five factors that most often contribute to relapse:inability to manage stress or negative emotional statesinterpersonal conflicts with family or othersfailing to stick to the recommendations of doctors and counselorsnegative thinkinglow motivation to changeThese are discussed in the HBO Avoiding Relapse VideoRelated articlesStress Affects Relap... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4570765 Thu, 10 Mar 2011 16:31:00 +0100 4570765 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4566345&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fprinciples-of-recovery%2F Image via WikipediaThese are the Guiding Principles of Recovery for alcoholics, addicts and co-dependentsThere are many pathways to recovery.Recovery is self-directed and empowering.Recovery involves a personal recognition of the need for change and transformation.Recovery is holistic.Recovery has cultural dimensions.Recovery exists on a continuum of improved health and wellness.Recovery is supported by peers and allies.Recovery emerges from hope and gratitude.Recovery involves a process of healing and self-redefinition.Recovery involves addressing discrimination and transcending shame and stigma.Recovery involves (re)joining and (re)building a life in the community.Recovery is a reality. It can, will, and does happen.Source: CSAT White Paper: Guiding Principles and Elements of Recovery-Or... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4566345 Wed, 09 Mar 2011 16:03:00 +0100 4566345 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4549941&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fstress-relief%2F Guide to Stress Relief.Many people in recovery from alcoholism, addiction, gambling and co-dependency have diminished or lost ability to cope with stress. Due to the anethetising effects of alcohol and drugs many people also do not recognise that they are under stress – they just feel uncomfortable, angry, or sad.Untreated stress can lead to relapse.Stress is bad, right? Or is it good? Well, if you talk to the experts, they’ll say both are true. You need some stress to just get out of bed in the morning. And when you drive to work in your car, you need stress to stay alert and respond to what is in front of you. So stress has its place.  But what if a high level of stress goes on and on? The doctors tell us that ongoing stress becomes Chronic Stress. Chronic Stress is bad news. It... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4549941 Sat, 05 Mar 2011 10:30:56 +0100 4549941 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4545258&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Frosebud-and-the-12-steps%2F Having been ship wrecked by the sea of alcoholism, Rosebud hits rock bottom and lands in the Cocoon where she makes astounding discoveries by finding the Twelve Steps.On an island far away Meggy Snail and Miranda Starfish hike to a mountain top where they converse with the Talking Tree of Hope, spend nights under the stars and attend a camp fire meeting filled with colorful characters.Rosebud later discovers treasures beneath the sand in ribbon wrapped boxes.The difficult subject of alcoholism is illuminated in a new and creative way through fantasy creatures and their separate journeys.The second section of the book gives insight into the Al-Anon program through the author’s personal journey.Not only are meetings described but her lessons learned may help the reader look within.In a... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4545258 Thu, 03 Mar 2011 16:12:00 +0100 4545258 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4528016&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fnarcissism-in-a-bottle%2F : The Self Centerdness of Addiction | RecoveryView.com.Over the years I have listened to a sort of running monologue from clients who grew up with an addicted parent. It goes something like this: “I felt like it was all about them, like what was going on inside of me was sort of invisible, like what they wanted or needed always came first.” They go on and on describing a family dynamic that circulated around the immediate needs of the addict. They talk about how they often found themselves staying quiet and well behaved so as not to disturb a drunk or hung-over parent or bring a torrent of anger down on them. They also describe a world in which their other parent was constantly over-burdened; hiding the extent of the problem and working double time to make the family seem “normal”.... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4528016 Mon, 28 Feb 2011 07:52:36 +0100 4528016 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4528017&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fwhat-is-relapse-video%2F Image via WikipediaRelapse is a cardinal feature of alcoholism and addiction, and one of the most painful.Most people who struggle with addiction will have one or more relapses – the return to drug use after a drug-free period – during their ongoing attempts to recover. This can be extremely frustrating for patients and for families, as they have already experienced great pain.What leads to relapse?Multiple – and often interactive – factors can increase the likelihood of relapse. These are some of the commonly cited precursors:drug-related "reminder" cues (sights, sounds, smells, drug thoughts or drug dreams) tightly linked to use of the preferred drug(s) can trigger craving and drug seekingnegative mood states or stresspositive mood states or celebrations... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4528017 Sun, 27 Feb 2011 16:39:00 +0100 4528017 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4522296&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2F30-workaholic-questions%2F Workaholism or Work Addict?Answer yes or no to each questionIs your work very important to you?Do you like things done ‘just right’?Do you tend to see things as black or white, not grey?Are you competitive and often determined to win?Is it important for you to be right?Are you overly critical of yourself if you make a mistake?Are you afraid of failing?Are you restless and impulsive and easily bored?Do you drive yourself, and have high levels of energy and stamina?Do you suffer periodic bouts of extreme fatigue?Do you take work home and work nights and/or weekends?Do you feel uneasy or guilty if there is nothing to do?Do you think you are special or different from other people?Do you read work related material when you eat alone?Do you make lists of things to do or keep a daily diary?Do... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4522296 Wed, 23 Feb 2011 16:07:01 +0100 4522296 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4512620&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fwords-are-just-words%2F – Let Them BounceThe power of the human language is such that single words can wound us terribly or lift us up and give our imagination flight. They can lay us low, mourning our plight, or inspire our renewed efforts to push forward in our recovery to the maximum of our abilities.When you hear someone say something that you know is directed at you or about your alcoholism or addiction, it will be very helpful if you can adopt the attitude that allows you to let them bounce right off you.Words have no sticking power if you don’t let them. You can be like Teflon, so that hurtful words and phrases, awful names and such have nowhere to latch on.Granted, this takes a bit of doing. Okay, so a lot of doing. But think of the benefits of not internalizing negative comments.By letting harmful c... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4512620 Wed, 23 Feb 2011 16:07:00 +0100 4512620 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4512621&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2F9-problems-that-affect-sexual-satisfaction%2F While alcoholics, addicts and co-dependents may know of the effects of alcohol and drugs on their sexuality, in recovery there may be other conditions affecting their sex lives.Here’s the good news, the bad news, and some more good news about sexual health: Most (64 percent of people, according to one recent study) are satisfied with their sex lives. But many health issues can get in the way of having a good sex life, from prescription medication side effects to depression to sexually transmitted diseases.In many cases, physicians can work with their patients to improve the situation, whether by changing the dosage of a medication, helping to treat depression or other medical conditions, or by providing sound medical advice for people who have STDs."For people who are not satisf... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4512621 Tue, 22 Feb 2011 16:13:00 +0100 4512621 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4507587&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FRecoveryIsSexycom%2F%7E3%2FhjYF8cI3ZEA%2F Depression symptoms increase over time for addiction-prone womenWhile alcohol problems and antisocial behavior tend to decrease in women as they age, depression does not, U-M study findsUnlike alcohol problems and antisocial behavior, depression doesn’t decline with age in addiction-prone women in their 30s and 40s – it continues to increase, a new study led by University of Michigan Health System researchers found.The analysis examined the influences of the women’s histories, family life and neighborhood instability on their alcoholism symptoms, antisocial behavior and depression over a 12-year period covering the earlier years of marriage and motherhood.The research, published in Development and Psychopathology, is part of an ongoing project focusing on families at high risk for su... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4507587 Mon, 21 Feb 2011 16:20:00 +0100 4507587 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4498394&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fwhat-are-stages-of-sex-addiction%2F Addicted people often feel handcuffedProblems in controlling sexual behavior usually reveal themselves in four distinct stages:Preoccupation: The person continually fantasizes about sexual prospects or situations. Constant sexual focus results in a high level of arousal which can trigger an episode of sexual “acting-out.”Ritualization: A preferred sexual activity or situation is often stereotyped and repetitive, and may include a wide variety of activities intended to keep arousal at a high pitch, rather than being aimed at sexual release.Compulsion: The person continues to engage in sexual activity despite negative consequences and a sincere desire to stop. A sex addict can feel as powerless as an alcoholic or drug addict over his or her addiction.Despair: Sex addicts experien... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4498394 Thu, 17 Feb 2011 15:23:02 +0100 4498394 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4495440&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fenhance-your-romance%2F This study suggests that if your romantic relationship has a case of the doldrums, having fun with another couple may help make your own relationship more satisfying,” said Slatcher.To review the full study, visit When Harry and Sally met Dick and JaneRelated articlesHealthy & Unhealthy Friendships in Sobriety (recoveryissexy.com)Hazelden’s Jewellery & Gifts Page Healthy Friendships A Lifeline to Sobriety (recoveryissexy.com)Romance and To Thine Own Self be True (recoveryissexy.com) Share, print or e-mail this articleA Kiss Is A Kiss – Or Is It?It’s the Little ThingsSexual Recovery Anonymous (Source: Recovery Is Sexy.com) Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4495440 Thu, 17 Feb 2011 15:23:00 +0100 4495440 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4489983&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FRecoveryIsSexycom%2F%7E3%2FKdv704Rtv8c%2F MusiCares for MusicianMission MusiCares provides a safety net of critical assistance for music people in times of need. MusiCares’ services and resources cover a wide range of financial, medical and personal emergencies, and each case is treated with integrity and confidentiality. MusiCares also focuses the resources and attention of the music industry on human service issues that directly impact the health and welfare of the music community.In their own wordsIn recognition of September being National Recovery Month, MusiCares has launched new online resources to continue our commitment to educate the music community about substance abuse issues. Please take a moment to explore the new offerings. While MusiCares works in confidentiality with clients, the artists and manag... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4489983 Tue, 15 Feb 2011 20:15:30 +0100 4489983 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4489984&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FRecoveryIsSexycom%2F%7E3%2F8A5Eh-hqYy4%2F CONCLUSIONS: NA/AA can support and supplement residential addiction treatment as an aftercare resource.In view of the generally poor alcohol use outcomes achieved by drug-dependent patients after treatment, the improved alcohol outcomes of NA/AA attenders suggests that the effectiveness of existing treatment services may be improved by initiatives that lead to increased involvement and engagement with such groups.Gossop M, Stewart D, Marsden J. Addiction. 2008 Jan;103(1):119-25. Epub 2007 Nov 20. Attendance at Narcotics Anonymous and Alcoholics Anonymous meetings, frequency of attendance and substance use outcomes after residential treatment for drug dependence: a 5-year follow-up study.See also;Twelve Step Facilitation is designed to support people returning to their communityMy First Yea... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4489984 Tue, 15 Feb 2011 15:17:03 +0100 4489984 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4464708&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fdefence-denial-mechanisms%2F Denial is Hazy ThinkingAlcoholics, addicts and co-dependents use many and varied combinations of these. Identify yours and work to eliminate them.When one door closes another door opens; but we so often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door, that we do not see the ones which open for us – Alexander Graham BellDefence and denial mechanisms are used by all human beings and may be necessary for survival in some situations.We’ve all used defences and denial to distance ourselves from distressing feelings and maintain a sense of emotional stability. Our defence and denial patterns began in childhood when they prevented us from becoming overwhelmed with anxiety. However, as an adult we outgrow their usefulness. If we continue to use outgrown defences or denial, we are more... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4464708 Thu, 10 Feb 2011 14:56:01 +0100 4464708 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4460187&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fpoor-emotional-recognition-by-addicts-alcoholics%2F Drug-abusers Have Difficulty in Recognizing Negative Emotions such as Wrath, Fear and SadnessUniversity of Granada scientists have been the first to analyze the relation between drug abuse and recognition of basic emotions (happiness, surprise, wrath, fear, sadness and disgust) by drug-abusers. Thus, the study revealed that drug-abusers have difficulty to identify negative emotions by their facial expression: wrath, disgust, fear and sadness.Further, regular abuse of alcohol, cannabis and cocaine usually affects abusers’ fluency and decision-making. Consuming cannabis and cocaine negatively affects working memory and reasoning. Similarly, cocaine abuse is associated to alterations in inhibition.For the purpose of this study, researchers carried out a psychological evaluation (with thinki... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4460187 Thu, 10 Feb 2011 14:56:00 +0100 4460187 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4455490&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fself-esteem-myths%2F This article and the book may help debunk some of the myths of self-esteem and aid recovery.Self esteem is a woman’s issue;Self esteem is the same as confidence;Self esteem is the end goal;Self esteem comes from something outside of yourself, e.g., right man (or woman), lots of money, living in the right neighborhood, our parents;We are born with self esteem;Self esteem is all about how we look.The truth is self esteem is NOT the same as confidence, we are NOT born with it, we CAN’T get it from our mothers or husbands or jobs, men and women BOTH suffer from this malady, it’s not the destination—it’s the journey.The most compelling and truthful statement about self esteem is what I have discovered from years of hard knocks and even more years of hard work is that self esteem comes... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4455490 Wed, 09 Feb 2011 14:14:28 +0100 4455490 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4446038&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Finternet-porn-or-cybersex-addiction%2F This article may help identify a form of ‘stinking thinking’ that may result.The Internet is a wonderful tool for communication. However, it can become an escape from reality that has the appearance of safety, intimacy and anonymity. Use of the Internet for games, gambling, messages, porn or cybersex can become as addictive as any other drug.What is Internet or Computer Addiction?A student has difficulty getting his/her homework done because computer games occupy all after-school time.Someone connects to the Internet at 9:00pm and suddenly discovers it is dawn and he/she has not left the computer.A wife is distraught because her husband has replaced their sexual relationship with Internet porn and online sex.Searching for information, skimming news headlines, downloading your f... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4446038 Mon, 07 Feb 2011 15:15:12 +0100 4446038 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4446039&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fwomens-sexual-problems%2F Recovery may uncover sexuality issuesMany women in recovery find some problems with their sexuality have emerged from the haze of alcoholism or addiction. This may be true for heterosexual and lesbian women.These notes may help. Talk to your doctor if there is any signs apparent.There are four recognised disorders of Female Sexual Dysfunction as defined in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Medical Disorders. These are:Sexual desire disorders – A lack of sex drive or low libido. This is the most common type of sexual disorder among womenSexual arousal disorder – An inability to become aroused or maintain arousal during sexual activityOrgasmic disorder – A persistent or recurrent difficulty in achieving orgasm after sufficient sexual arousal and ongoing stimulationSexual pain di... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4446039 Sun, 06 Feb 2011 15:57:01 +0100 4446039 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4439025&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35805&url=http%3A%2F%2Ftwelvestepfacilitation.com%2Fprevalence-of-addictions%2F Opium Poppies – Image via WikipediaPrevalence of the Addictions: A Problem of the Majority or the Minority?An increasing number of research studies over the last three decades suggest that a wide range of substance and process addictions may serve similar functions.The current article considers 11 such potential addictions tobacco,alcohol,illicit drugs,eating,gambling,Internet,love,sex,exercise,work, andshopping,Their prevalence, and co-occurrence, based on a systematic review of the literature. Data from 83 studies (each study n = at least 500 subjects) were presented and supplemented with small-scale data.Depending on which assumptions are made, overall;12-month prevalence of an addiction among U.S. adults varies from 15% to 61%.The authors assert that it is most plausible that 47%... Twelve Step Facilitation.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4439025 Sat, 05 Feb 2011 16:46:00 +0100 4439025 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4439026&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Frecognizing-co-dependency%2F Alcoholism may be a disease of isolation, but it is rarely an individual problem. Understanding how "enabling" works is the first step in helping both the alcoholic and the co-dependent seek help.Enabling is any action by another person or an institution that intentionally or unintentionally has the effect of facilitating the continuation of an individual’s addictive process.Who Is An Enabler? Most often, enablers are persons who genuinely care about the alcoholic — family, friends, co-workers, clergy.Their love and concern, unfortunately, often leads them to do things that actually help the alcoholic stay that way.They "cover" for the alcoholic, inventing excuses for absenteeism, tardiness, or inappropriate behavior.They "save" the alcoholic by taking... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4439026 Sat, 05 Feb 2011 15:12:00 +0100 4439026 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4436946&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Flack-of-sleep-in-recovery%2F Image via Wikipedia Click to enlargeWhat Lack of Sleep Does to Your MindPeople in recovery from alcoholism, addiction and co-dependency may need to address all aspects of health – including sleep.One catch cry of recovery is; HALT – Don’t get too HUNGRY, ANGRY, LONELY or TIRED.Sleepiness can damage your judgment, work performance, mood, and safety.Do you often forget things that you’re sure you know? Is it hard to concentrate on complex assignments? Do you get less than six hours of sleep a night?If so, you’re probably not getting enough sleep. That’s right; lack of sleep can hinder you from thinking clearly and keeping your emotions at an even keel. Studies show that excessive sleepiness can hurt work performance, wreak havoc on relationships, and lead to mood prob... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4436946 Fri, 04 Feb 2011 15:50:00 +0100 4436946 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4419455&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fmens-low-sex-drive%2F This article may help affected men in recovery identify and seek help.The male libido is always in overdrive, right? Wrong — one out of five men actually have a low sex drive.Men. High sex drive. Panting sexual animals. We know what they want. And we know when they want it: right now.Even doctors tend to see men as "sexual automatons," hardwired always to want sex, says pioneering sex researcher Irwin Goldstein, "But that is not the case at all," Goldstein tells WebMD Magazine. "Many, many men — about one in five –have such low sexual desire they’d rather do almost anything else than have sex."One in five men doesn’t want sex? How can that be true? And why haven’t we heard about it? Actually, many women have — the ones hea... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4419455 Mon, 31 Jan 2011 13:55:36 +0100 4419455 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4419456&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fmy-name-is-nicotine%2F Hello my name is NicotineYou might know me well, I’m more thanI seem. I’ll be your best friend throughstresses and doubts, then I’ll neverleave your side, even when I’m put out.I’ll make you cough and smelly too, I’mgood at that, it’s what I do.And once we’ve met, in my smoke you’lldelight. But try to give me up and youmay get a fright.For I am much stronger than heroinor pills. Because many more people, Imanage to kill.Not only that, the earth I destroy, this ismy destiny, it’s what I enjoy.I need lots of your cash if you wantme around, but you won’t care, youraddiction is sound.So come and join me in my campaign todestroy your wellbeing through illnessand painSo your health and your money, Ican slowly drain.And if you give me up, I hope we meetagain.By Fiona Related... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4419456 Sun, 30 Jan 2011 15:40:00 +0100 4419456 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4414681&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fhelping-others-helps-alcoholics%2F Stay on the Road to RecoveryResearcher Pagano Reports Findings in Alcoholism Treatment Quarterly, Says Other Chronically Ill Patients May Benefit Too Participating in community service activities and helping others is not just good for the soul; it has a healing effect that helps alcoholics and other addicts become and stay sober.In a review article published in the Volume 29 issue of Alcoholism Treatment Quarterly, Maria E. Pagano, PhD, sheds light on the role of helping in addiction recovery, using the program of Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) as a prime example. She cites a growing body of research as supporting evidence.“The research indicates that getting active in service helps alcoholics and other addicts become sober and stay sober, and suggests this approach is applicable to al... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4414681 Sat, 29 Jan 2011 15:38:00 +0100 4414681 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4414682&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fdeaf-hard-of-hearing-addiction-treatment%2F Hearing Impairment sign – Image via WikipediaGetting Help | SAISD.The John L. Norris addiction treatment centre is proud to offer the only inpatient program for the treatment of deaf and hard of hearing persons in New York State and is one of the only six programs in the United States. The length of stay for this population is slightly longer than the average length of stay for hearing patients. Counseling staff is fluent in American Sign Language (ASL). Interpreting Staff are Registry of Interpreters for the Deaf (RID) certified. Treatment features include: group and individual therapy, educational lectures and movies, self help meetings, and recreational therapy.Getting Help | SAISD.Related articlesDeaf and Hard of Hearing Recovery (recoveryissexy.com) Share, print or e-mail this a... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4414682 Sat, 29 Jan 2011 06:09:17 +0100 4414682 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4411728&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fyour-loved-ones-addiction%2F Educating Yourself About Your Loved One’s AddictionRegardless of the status of your loved one’s recovery program or lack thereof, I recommend to clients that they educate themselves about substance abuse to discover as much as they can on a personal level.We all know knowledge is power, therefore the more you learn, the calmer your state of mind will be.Concepts to ExploreHere are some concepts to consider which may help when furthering your education of your loved ones addiction issues (they are expanded upon in the original article, see below): Do Your Own Research on AddictionBe Wary of Well-Meaning AdviceBe Mindful of Who You Talk ToAttend Open Alcoholics Anonymous Meetings (meetings open to anyone with or without an addiction issue)Attend Al-Anon meetings (meetings for the... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4411728 Fri, 28 Jan 2011 15:09:00 +0100 4411728 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4411729&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Ffaith-in-something%2F Something Greater than MeA Glacier Melts“A.A. provided for me a means by which I could overcome the compulsion to drink and, more important, a means by which I could achieve a personality change or spiritual awakening-a surrender to life. Though I have had problems and deep troubles since that summer ten years ago, my faith has not been shaken. I cannot say that I have found God as I understand Him, but rather that I have faith in Something which remains a mystery to me and which I continue to seek. – Fresno, California, USA”AAWS, Inc.; Came to Believe, 2004, pg. 59Originally posted 2009-12-23 12:37:08. Share, print or e-mail this articleAction and Patience (Source: Recovery Is Sexy.com) Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4411729 Thu, 27 Jan 2011 15:40:01 +0100 4411729 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4406038&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fsafe-use-of-medicines%2F Image via WikipediaPrescription drugs and over-the-counter medicines can help cure diseases and make you feel better. But it is important to use medicines carefully.RisksAll medicines carry some risk. Your body can have a mild reaction to a medicine, like a minor rash, or a serious allergic reaction. Often, these reactions are unexpected. It is important that you are aware of the risks of each medicine and weigh them against the benefits before you decide to take it.The Risks of Taking MedicineSome of the risks of using medicine include:adverse reactions when the medicine is combined with certain foods, beverages, vitamins, and herbal or other medicines – the more of these you combine, the greater the chance of a reactionthe medicine not working as prescribedthe medicine causing more... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4406038 Thu, 27 Jan 2011 15:40:00 +0100 4406038 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4399832&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2F10-reasons-for-change-stagnation%2F Image via Wikipedia“We must become the change we want to see.” Mahatma GandhiTop Ten Reasons for Change Resistance, Rebellion or Objection. In alcoholics, addicts or co-dependents these may be deliberate or subconscious – part of the denial syndrome.THE RISK OF CHANGE IS SEEN AS GREATER THAN THE RISK OF STANDING STILLPEOPLE FEEL CONNECTED TO OTHER PEOPLE WHO ARE IDENTIFIED WITH THE OLD WAYPEOPLE HAVE NO ROLE MODELS FOR THE NEW ACTIVITYPEOPLE FEAR THEY LACK THE COMPETENCE TO CHANGEPEOPLE FEEL OVERLOADED AND OVERWHELMEDPEOPLE HAVE A HEALTHY SKEPTICISM AND WANT TO BE SURE NEW IDEAS ARE SOUNDPEOPLE FEAR HIDDEN AGENDAS AMONG WOULD-BE REFORMERSPEOPLE FEEL THE PROPOSED CHANGE THREATENS THEIR NOTIONS OF THEMSELVESPEOPLE ANTICIPATE A LOSS OF STATUS OR QUALITY OF LIFEPEOPLE GENUINELY BELIEVE T... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4399832 Tue, 25 Jan 2011 15:28:00 +0100 4399832 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4394753&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fdance-for-recovery%2F Image via WikipediaThe Workout You’ll Look Forward to DoingAlcoholics, addicts and co-dependents in early recovery may be out of condition, unfit. Here is one fun way to lose weight and get fit.If dancing is a rare activity for you, one you take part in only at the occasional wedding reception (if then!), then it’s time to get in touch with your inner Debbie Allen.Dancing, like walking or cycling, is a great no-cost or low-cost way to build aerobic fitness, improve balance and strengthen your muscles at any age. And you don’t have to wait for a special event or find a partner to enjoy dance’s benefits.You can even pick dance as your main physical activity. Research presented at the 2009 annual meeting of the American College of Sports Medicine showed that dancing gi... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4394753 Mon, 24 Jan 2011 15:10:00 +0100 4394753 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4386473&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2F10-lame-condom-excuses%2F Condoms are Fun to UseTen reasons why these are lame excuses not to use a condom…I don’t have any infectionsMake sure it stays that way – use a condom every time you have sexI can’t find one that fitsCondoms can stretch to around 3 feet long and 18 inches wide – don’t boast!I have superb controlWith a condom you don’t need to – accidents do happen and you can really get carried away by the passion of the momentSex doesn’t feel as goodUsing a condom stops those niggling worries about pregnancy or STIs – great sex is safer sexCondoms cut off my circulationCondoms can hold 40 litres of air – more inflated than your ego!If you love me you wouldn’t ask me to wear oneIf you loved me you’d protect meThey smell terribleNot any more – they’re vi... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4386473 Fri, 21 Jan 2011 15:40:01 +0100 4386473 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4372251&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fabusive-relationships%2F Image via WikipediaAn alcoholic or addictive relationship may be marred by abuse. This symptom list may raise ones awareness of the problem.There are many signs of an abusive relationship. The primary sign is fear of your partner. Other signs include a partner who belittles you or tries to control you, and feelings of self-loathing, numbness, helplessness, and desperation.To determine whether or not you’re in an abusive relationship, answer the questions in the table below. The more questions to which you answer “yes,” the more likely your relationship is abusive.Signs of an Abusive RelationshipYour Inner Feelings and ThoughtsDo you :fear your partner a large percentage of the time?avoid certain topics out of fear of angering your partner?feel that you can’t do anything right for y... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4372251 Wed, 19 Jan 2011 15:01:00 +0100 4372251 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4343345&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fsexual-abstinence-in-recovery%2F What is sexual abstinence?Can it benefit my recovery?Relationships and sexual activities are controversial in recovery from alcoholism, addiction and co-dependency. But there are benefits to sexual abstinence. These apply equally to heterosexual, gays and lesbian.Sexual abstinence is a choice to refrain from sexual activity. This choice is usually made for a specific reason. The reason may be moral, religious, legal, or for health and safety.It may only be short-term celibacy. It’s fine to go through periods of your life in which you choose to abstain – the decision to have sex is yours to make, each and every time.Abstaining does not mean you are frigid or destined for life as a monk or a nun – it may just be a temporary decision. Taking some time out for your body, mind... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4343345 Thu, 13 Jan 2011 17:22:07 +0100 4343345 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4331245&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Flawyers-and-addiction%2F A Lawyer’s Guide to Healing A recovery bookStress, power, and high expectations of the legal profession can leave lawyers especially vulnerable to addiction. What’s more, personality traits that contribute to a lawyer’s success can impede recovery.Don Carroll, the director of the North Carolina Lawyers Assistance Program (NCLAP), has written the definitive guide on addiction and depression in the legal profession.In A Lawyer’s Guide to Healing, Carroll discusses the disease of addiction, how it affects addicted lawyers in every aspect of their lives, and how recovery can help lawyers reclaim their personal lives and professions.Order today >> A Lawyer’s Guide to Healing  Share, print or e-mail this articleRandom ArticlesEasy Does ItBill W on Humilit... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4331245 Tue, 11 Jan 2011 15:07:00 +0100 4331245 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4331247&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fhelp-for-attorney-addicts%2F Hazelden lines up new help for attorney addictsThe program, likely the state’s first, targets a high-pressure career often fueled by drugs and alcohol.Hidden under the high-pressure, high-stakes life of a lawyer can be the need for a debilitating crutch.When Chuck Rice was a corporate defense lawyer, it was alcohol and cocaine.It’s a frequent but little-known problem among lawyers, who are nearly twice as likely to abuse alcohol as the general population and also suffer an elevated rate of depression.Rice spun through treatment twice after colleagues urged him to seek help. But each time he returned to the same long hours and crushing pressure, only to relapse. He finally overcame his addictions 15 years ago with help from Hazelden, the treatment center near Center City, Minn.Read mor... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4331247 Mon, 10 Jan 2011 06:33:34 +0100 4331247 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4324904&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fprivate-sexual-addiction%2F Sexual addiction can be a devastating disease and carries a high rate of stigma.Alcoholics and addicts can easily ‘switch’ addictions in recovery.Recovery Zone has three questionnaires that you can use to anonymously assess your own sexual behaviour. Additionally there is one for partners or ex-partners of sex addicts.Sexual Addiction Screening Test (SAST)The SAST is designed to assist in the assessment of sexually compulsive behavior which may indicate the presence of sex addiction.More information about the Sexual Addiction Risk Assessment (SAST)Sexual Addiction Risk Assessment (SARA)SARA is an anonymous and private sex addiction self-assessment; it compares your answers with thousands of other sex addicts who have preceded you in treatment. Thus, you have the benefit of comp... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4324904 Sat, 08 Jan 2011 15:30:00 +0100 4324904 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4324905&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fcharacteristics-of-sexual-compulsion-2%2F Sexual compulsion may seem like a life locked in battle with selfSexual Compulsives Anonymous is a 12 Step Fellowship of men and women who share their experience, strength and hope with each other, that they may solve their common problem and help others to recover from sexual compulsion.These are the characteristics most of us seem to have in common:As adolescents, we used fantasy and compulsive masturbation to avoid feelings, and continued this tendency into our adult lives with compulsive sex.Compulsive sex became a drug, which we used to escape from feelings such as anxiety, loneliness, anger and self-hatred, as well as joy.We tended to become immobilized by romantic obsessions. We became addicted to the search for sex and love; as a result, we neglected our lives.We sought oblivion in... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4324905 Fri, 07 Jan 2011 06:18:11 +0100 4324905 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4322697&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fdisruptive-doctors%2F Image via WikipediaDisruptive Docs « The Hazelden Blog.“Although addiction affects the brain in the same way whether you’re a neurosurgeon or a longshoreman, physicians face some unique issues,” says Omar Manejwala, M.D., medical director at Hazelden in Center City.“First and foremost, it’s really, really hard for people who spend their lives treating patients to themselves be patients,” he says. “When you remove alcohol or the drug, the individual can often feel a tremendous sense of shame,” he says.Read moreRelated articlesSurvey finds that many recover from alcoholism (recoveryissexy.com)Disturbing Denial (recoveryissexy.com)Day by Day Recovery (recoveryissexy.com) Share, print or e-mail this articleWomen’s LibidoLegal, but LethalAl-anon Helps Alcoholics TooDepend... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4322697 Fri, 07 Jan 2011 06:18:10 +0100 4322697 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4302976&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fthe-nature-of-spirituality-in-recovery-2%2F Stories of Spiritual Awakening; The Nature of Spirituality in RecoveryAddiction to substances is considered a medical disease, characterized by the continued use of substances despite significant substance-related problems.The heavy use of substances is often related to, and precipitated by, the individual’s need to improve intolerable emotional states.The utility of drugs for making the individual “feel better” or “feel normal” can lead to regular use. In some cases, regular users become addicted to drug use, a transition that is the result of complex interactions of biological, psychological, and cultural factors.Addiction can lead to the loss of family, friends, work, and home. It is often associated with the development of a set of behaviors and thought patterns that enable t... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4302976 Sat, 01 Jan 2011 15:19:00 +0100 4302976 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4302286&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FRecoveryIsSexycom%2F%7E3%2Fsmlsa_fZZ-4%2F : Uncovering the Spiritual Dimension in the Treatment of Addictions – A Recovery BookMillions of alcoholics and addicts recover through spirituality. In The Soul of Recovery: Uncovering the Spiritual Dimension in the Treatment of Addictions, author and journalist Christopher D. Ringwald tells how and why they seek and achieve these transformations.Ranging as far back as the Washingtonian Total Abstinence Society in 1840, Ringwald discusses the use of spirituality within a wide range of treatment options — from the famous Twelve Step-style programs to those tailored to the needs of addicted women, Native Americans, or homeless teens not ready to quit. Focusing on the results rather than the validity of beliefs espoused by these programs, he demonstrates how addicts recover throu... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4302286 Fri, 31 Dec 2010 08:54:09 +0100 4302286 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4302288&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FRecoveryIsSexycom%2F%7E3%2FtI6xyf80gfQ%2F Recovery Is Sexy has had a record year in visitors and page views. Here are the 15 most popular posts in 2010.10 Reasons for Low Libido12-Step Speaker Tape Links5 Ways to Please Your Man In BedAddictive RelationshipsAddictive Thinking, Stinking ThinkingAlcohol & SexualityAlcoholic Family RolesSensual MassageSex for Men Over 50Sexuality in SobrietyStinking ThinkingThirteenth SteppingTwelve Step SponsorshipWomen’s Sexual ArousalWomen’s Sexual Fantasies- Share, print or e-mail this articleThirteenth SteppingStinking ThinkingAddictive Thinking, Stinking ThinkingDistorted, Stinking Thinking (Source: Recovery Is Sexy.com) Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4302288 Wed, 29 Dec 2010 15:45:00 +0100 4302288 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4302289&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FRecoveryIsSexycom%2F%7E3%2F6UXBnW6HjLU%2F Take care of yourself“Live a full life of your own.”“Make sure you live a life of your own that does not depend on the undependable person.”“Carry on with your life after you’ve let the alcoholic know you aren’t babysitting anymore.”“Let them go, and focus on your own health and peace of mind.”These comments from masters underline the importance of taking care of yourself despite the problems with the drinker.Often, however, in an attempt to hide a family member’s alcohol abuse from others, spouses withdraw and isolate themselves from friends and other family members.Taking care of yourself might mean signing up for a class in the evenings, getting together with buddies from the past, or going away by yourself for a weekend.See also;AA and ... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4302289 Sun, 26 Dec 2010 15:28:01 +0100 4302289 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4287585&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FRecoveryIsSexycom%2F%7E3%2FN0vztXo_0FE%2F Image via WikipediaMany areas of our life need healing.One important part of our life is our sexuality. Our feelings and beliefs about our sexuality, our ability to nurture, cherish, and enjoy our sexuality, our ability to respect ourselves sexually, our ability to let go of sexual shame and confusion, may all be impaired or confused by our co-dependency.Our sexual energy may be blocked. Or for some of us, sex may be the only way we learned to connect with people. Our sexuality may not be connected to the rest of us; sex may not be connected to love – for others or ourselves.Some of us were sexually abused as children. Some of us may have gotten involved in sexuality addictive behaviors – compulsive sexual behaviors that got out of control and produced shame.Some of us may have... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4287585 Thu, 23 Dec 2010 15:44:00 +0100 4287585 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4287587&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FRecoveryIsSexycom%2F%7E3%2FhDfPTM_iT2c%2F The “Good-Enough Sex” model for couple sexual satisfaction “Then we have the voices who cry for sex and more sex; who bewail the institution of marriage; who think that most of the troubles of the race are traceable to sex causes. They think we do not have enough of it, or that it isn’t the right kind. They see its significance everywhere. One school would allow man or woman no flavour for their fare and the other would have us all on a straight pepper diet. We want to stay out of this controversy. We do not want to be the arbiter of anyone’s sex conduct. We all have sex problems. We’d hardly be human if we didn’t. What can we do about them?Whatever our ideal turns out to be, we must be willing to grow toward it.” Alcoholics Anonymous, pp 69. The Goo... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4287587 Mon, 20 Dec 2010 15:19:01 +0100 4287587 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4287588&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FRecoveryIsSexycom%2F%7E3%2F6iKgemJAL-0%2F During the past 12 months how often have you: Given money to your partner thinking he/she might buy alcohol or drugs with it?Purchased alcohol or drugs for your partner?Taken over your partner’s typical chores and responsibilities neglected because of his/her drinking or drug use?Lied or made excuses to family or friends to hide your partner’s drinking or drug use?Drank or used drugs with your partner, or in your partner’s presence?Told your partner that it was okay to drink or use drugs on certain days or for special family or social gatherings?Borrowed money to pay bills caused by your partner’s drinking or drug use?Changed or cancelled family plans or social activities because your partner was drinking, using drugs, or hungover?Had sex with your partner when you ... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4287588 Mon, 20 Dec 2010 15:19:00 +0100 4287588 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4287589&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FRecoveryIsSexycom%2F%7E3%2FAJBulOEZelE%2F Sexual lubricants Image via WikipediaStudy examines effect of water-based and silicon-based sexual lubricantWomen in recovery from alcoholism, addiction and co-dependency may find the use of sexual lubricants increases pleasure, sexual satisfaction and reduced pain during intercourse.A new study by sexual health researchers at Indiana University found that women who used lubricant during sex reported significantly higher levels of satisfaction and pleasure.The study, involving 2,453 women, is the largest systematic study of this kind, despite the widespread commercial availability of lubricant and the gaps in knowledge concerning its role in alleviating pain or contributing to other health issues."In spite of the widespread availability of lubricants in stores and on the Internet, it ... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4287589 Sat, 18 Dec 2010 15:58:00 +0100 4287589 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4287590&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FRecoveryIsSexycom%2F%7E3%2FlQa8_FSAwnc%2F .A new research study reveals a strong link between alcohol dependency and gambling problems, Reuters reported.According to researchers at the Research Institute on Addictions at the University at Buffalo, N.Y., adults with an alcohol addiction are 23 times more likely to have a gambling problem than those who do not drink.“If you’re in trouble with alcohol, the odds you’re also in trouble with gambling increase enormously,” said lead author Dr. John W. Welte. “Most of that correlation is that problem behaviors tend to cluster in the same people.”The study also found factors that identified which racial and ethnic groups were more likely to have a gambling problem. “Gambling is more common among lower socioeconomic people, blacks and Hispanics, than among ... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4287590 Fri, 17 Dec 2010 17:57:02 +0100 4287590 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4266278&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fpositive-moods-for-recovery%2F This article may help.Humor is known to be therapeutic just as is music to set a mood.People who watch funny videos on the internet are not necessarily wasting time. They may be taking advantage of the latest psychological science—putting themselves in a good mood so they can think more creatively."Generally, positive mood has been found to enhance creative problem solving and flexible yet careful thinking," says Ruby Nadler, a graduate student at the University of Western Ontario. She and colleagues Rahel Rabi and John Paul Minda carried out a new study. For this study, Nadler and her colleagues looked at a particular kind of learning that is improved by creative thinking.Students who took part in the study were put into different moods and then given a category learning task ... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4266278 Fri, 17 Dec 2010 17:57:00 +0100 4266278 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4265857&cid=t_120260_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2010%2F12%2F17%2Ffriday-flashback-for-december-17-2010%2F It’s been awhile since I’ve done one of these, but as we head into the holiday season, we slow down a bit here. So enjoy these great golden oldies from days of yore. 15 Years Ago on Psych Central Seek Out Help One of the first things I wrote for the website was an editorial piece about how you should nearly always seek out psychotherapy in addition to medications for treatment of mental health issues (which is even more true today than it was 15 years ago). And I announced a call for articles for a new online mental health magazine called Perspectives. 5 Years Ago on Psych Central At trial, noted cardiologist criticizes Merck’s behavior Talk about the “tip of the iceberg.” In this blog entry from December 2005, I noted how a cardiologist was calling out Merck for... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4265857 Fri, 17 Dec 2010 13:33:02 +0100 4265857 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4266279&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fmeetings-spirituality-recovery%2F The effects of spirituality in Alcoholics Anonymous on alcohol dependenceNew research shows that attending Alcoholics Anonymous meetings may increase spirituality and help decrease frequency and intensity of alcohol useAlcoholics Anonymous is a widely known 12-step program that can help individuals control their dependence on alcohol, and spirituality is a large partA new study shows that spirituality does increase over time, which can lead to better alcohol outcomes and an improved rate of recoveryThese results indicate that spirituality is an important factor in the multi-faceted recovery from an alcohol-use disorderAddictions, whether it is to drugs or alcohol, are a very difficult hurdle for individuals to overcome. But, there are ways to help people with their recovery through 12-step... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4266279 Thu, 16 Dec 2010 15:30:00 +0100 4266279 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4259199&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fabstinence-can-work-wonders-2%2F I am a recovering addict. I, along with many, many others who have at one time been through the ‘harm reduction’ method, found that it only brought us right back to our ‘drug of choice’. The only way for millions of addicts/alcoholics around the world to begin to cope with underlying issues in their lives has been to abstain altogether.There are many of us that abstain, take anti-depressants or other psychotropic medications. However, these, along with therapy, counselling, 12-step programs and utilising the work it takes to realise we either change everything or die, have been able to remain drug/alcohol free, live very peaceful lives and regained our places in society.We are moving forward regardless of our ages, criminal backgrounds, etc.We have become productive members of soci... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4259199 Tue, 14 Dec 2010 15:53:00 +0100 4259199 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4253458&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FRecoveryIsSexycom%2F%7E3%2FM3QA4GFti3k%2F Image via Wikipedia Goldie Hawn still sexyThe secrets to staying sexually vibrant forever.These ideas for alcoholism, addiction or co-dependency recovery can empower all women who want to stay hot and sexy forever.Sex is agelessUnlike other species, we humans have a sexuality that can last way beyond the years of fertility and procreation. In fact, barring serious health problems, we have the ability to stay sexually active (with or without a partner) until we die.  Sexual fitness makes a differenceGood sex has a lot to do with stamina, flexibility and blood flow. Thus, keeping yourself in general good health—by eating well and exercising regularly–may be the most important thing you do to keep sex alive as you age.  Comfortable settings, comfortable vaginas... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4253458 Sun, 05 Dec 2010 03:37:33 +0100 4253458 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4225667&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fa-new-day-a-new-life%2F A Recovery Book Grounded in both addiction science and Twelve Step spirituality, A New Day, A New Life–a guided journal and video–is designed to serve as a steadfast companion for those facing the challenges and joys of early recovery. The video features an intimate, candid discussion between best-selling author and recovery advocate William Cope Moyers and a diverse group of people in recovery. By sharing their personal experiences, they give people who are newly sober a breadth of knowledge about what it takes to stay on track. The journal–consisting of daily inspirational and educational messages, meditations, prayers, and affirmations, as well as space for writing thoughts and feelings–helps readers connect the knowledge that they have drawn from the vi... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4225667 Fri, 03 Dec 2010 15:38:00 +0100 4225667 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4225668&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fcompulsive-gambling%2F Image via Wikipedia Compulsive gambling is being unable to resist impulses to gamble, which can lead to severe personal or social consequences. Symptoms: People with Compulsive gambling often feel ashamed and try to avoid letting others know of their problem. Compulsive gambling is assed as having five or more of the following symptoms: Committing crimes to get money to gamble Feeling restless or irritable when trying to cut back or quit gambling Gambling to escape problems or feelings of sadness or anxiety Gambling larger amounts of money to try to make back previous losses Having had many unsuccessful attempts to cut back or quit gambling Losing a job, relationship, or educational or career opportunity due to gambling Lying about the amount of time or money spent gambling Need... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4225668 Thu, 02 Dec 2010 15:29:00 +0100 4225668 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4225669&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fdisturbing-denial%2F Denial Breaking through denial is alcoholic’s first step in recovery Looking in the mirror and accepting what we see can be one of the hardest things we ever do. It’s especially hard when the image staring us in the face is painful or doesn’t fit with how we want to see ourselves. Sometimes, the truth is so painful that we avoid it at any cost. Refusing to accept a painful reality that alters the perception of ourselves is a psychological defence called denial. As human beings, we may use denial to protect ourselves from knowledge, insight or awareness that threatens our self-esteem, mental or physical health, or security. The term “denial” is often used in the chemical dependency field to describe people who deny substance abuse problems. “Denial is the tendency of... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4225669 Sat, 27 Nov 2010 16:15:01 +0100 4225669 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4206092&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fwhen-painkillers-become-dangerous%2F A Recovery Book Americans, it seems, have a history of self-medicating for pain. The high profile and increasingly widespread cases of prescription pain medication abuse that we’re seeing today serve as the latest chapter in America’s long-standing love/hate relationship with painkilling drugs. In this fascinating, informative, and timely book, Dr. Drew Pinsky and other leading experts in the fields of addiction and recovery discuss; why Americans are using drugs such as OxyContin and Vicodin, how American’s used and abused other painkillers in the past, what makes some people vulnerable to addiction, and how to get help for yourself or a family member in trouble with drugs.   When Painkillers Become Dangerous - Shar... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4206092 Sat, 27 Nov 2010 16:15:00 +0100 4206092 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4200736&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fgamblers-play-suicide-odds%2F Dealt a bad hand: Pathological gamblers are also at risk for mental health disorders.Pathological gamblers are risking more than their money, they are also three times more likely to commit suicide than non-betters. A  new Montreal inter-university study has shown these gamblers are also plagued by personality disorders. These findings, published in a recent issue of the Psychology of Addictive Behaviors, may have implications for developing improved targeted suicide prevention programs.“The World Health Organization estimates that suicide is one of the top ten causes of death in the Western world,” says study co-author, Richard Boyer. “In addition, pathological gamblers account for five percent of all suicides. These staggering statistics motivated us to study the difference betwee... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4200736 Thu, 25 Nov 2010 15:06:00 +0100 4200736 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4200737&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fneurosis-alcoholism-codependency-and-recovery-2%2F Dr Karen Horney saw neurosis as continuous with normal life.Specifically, she saw neurosis as an attempt to make life bearable, as a way of “interpersonal control and coping.” This is, of course, what we all strive to do on a day-to-day basis, only most of us seem to be doing alright, while the neurotic seems to be sinking fast.In her clinical experience, she discerned ten particular patterns of neurotic needs. They are based on things that we all need, but they have become distorted in several ways by the difficulties of some people’s lives.Let’s take the first need, for affection and approval, as an example (see below).We all need affection, so what makes such a need neurotic? First, in the neurotic the need is unrealistic, unreasonable, indiscriminate. For exampl... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4200737 Tue, 23 Nov 2010 15:36:01 +0100 4200737 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4190529&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fpassages-through-recovery%2F A Recovery Book "Abstinence from alcohol and other drugs is only the beginning of sobriety. It’s the ticket to get into the theater, not the movie we are going to see." — Passages Through Recovery One of the most important things we learn in recovery is that there really is a way out of all the misery–if we know which way to go. But abstinence from alcohol and other drugs is just the beginning of our journey, not our destination. And, that journey can be a rough one if we don’t know what lies ahead. Based on the experiences of thousands of recovering men and women, Passages Through Recovery presents an action plan for preventing relapse, on what can help us understand how recovery works and what is needed to move from active... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4190529 Mon, 22 Nov 2010 16:32:00 +0100 4190529 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4183347&cid=t_120260_109_f&fid=34859&url=http%3A%2F%2Fblog.davemsw.com%2Farchives%2F2010%2F11%2Ftodays_great_american_smokeout_and_what_we_learn_a.php I quit smoking 28 years ago. The final effort started the previous year on "Great American Smokeout", 29 years ago. I'm very glad I succeeded. I used to joke that quitting smoking was easy, I'd done it 100s of times. Unfortunately it was all too true. I struggled with attempts to quite smoking over most of my adult years. It's a major bad habit, with the further complication of addiction to Nicotine. At one time I smoked three packs a day. I was thoroughly hooked.In my experience, I've found that major bad habits of all kinds are very difficult to break. Many a New Years' resolution has gone unfulfilled due to this problem. Despite our best intent and efforts, somehow all the logic in our arsenal cannot overcome an well established habit. That is because it has been "hard wired" into the b... Ψ Dare To Dream... blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4183347 Fri, 19 Nov 2010 00:56:46 +0100 4183347 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4179527&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fwhat-is-mania%2F Mania is a state of extreme physical and emotional elation. Many alcoholics and addicts suffer mania episodes, especially while under the influence. Symptoms and types of mania A person experiencing mania or a manic episode may present with the following symptoms: Elevated mood. The person feels extremely ‘high’, happy and full of energy; he or she may describe the experience as feeling on top of the world and invincible. The person may shift rapidly from an elevated, happy mood to being angry and irritable if thwarted. Increased energy and overactivity. The person may have great difficulty remaining still. Reduced need for sleep or food. The person may be too active to eat or sleep. Irritability. A person in a hypomanic or manic state may become angry and irritated with those w... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4179527 Thu, 18 Nov 2010 14:47:40 +0100 4179527 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4172331&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Frecovery-and-healthcare-spirituality%2F Spirituality is universal; in recovery from alcoholism, addiction,  co-dependency; or in the practice of health-care, the principles are the same. This is an extract from an article by the Royal College of Psychiatrists In healthcare, spirituality is identified with experiencing a deep-seated sense of meaning and purpose in life, together with a sense of belonging. It is about acceptance, integration and wholeness. According to one definition, “The spiritual dimension tries to be in harmony with the universe, strives for answers about the infinite, and comes especially into focus in times of emotional stress, physical and mental illness, loss, bereavement and death.” This desire for wholeness of being is not an intellectual attainment, for it is no less present in people with learning... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4172331 Tue, 16 Nov 2010 15:01:00 +0100 4172331 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4168215&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Finfertility-treatment-in-recovery%2F This article is based on the book, "Pregnancy Miracle" by Lisa Olson. Lisa is an author, researcher, nutritionist and health consultant who dedicated her life to creating the ultimate pregnancy solution guaranteed to permanently reverse the root of infertility, help you get pregnant quickly and naturally and dramatically improve the overall quality of your life,  without the use of prescription medication and without any surgical procedures. Learn more by visiting her website: Infertility Treatment  Click Here! Share, print or e-mail this articleRandom ArticlesSex is Good for your HealthLife Cycle of a PenisGood-Enough SexSymptoms of Co-dependenceRecovery Self-awareness (Source: Recovery Is Sexy.com) Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4168215 Mon, 15 Nov 2010 15:42:00 +0100 4168215 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4163060&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Femotional-bankruptcy-or-alexthymia%2F Emotional bankruptcy refers to the emotional condition experienced by most early recovering people. Emotional bankruptcy usually means that a person has used up every emotion in attempts to support their alcoholism / addiction and has no emotion left to manipulate themselves or others. Alexithymia refers to a condition that is characterised by; a difficulty in identifying and communicating feelings, a difficulty in distinguishing between feelings and bodily sensations impaired symbolization, as evidenced by paucity of fantasies and other imaginative activity, and a preference for focusing on external events rather than inner experiences. The term was coined from the Greek a- (prefix meaning "lack"), lexis ("word") and thymos ("feelings"), and hence can... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4163060 Sat, 13 Nov 2010 15:24:00 +0100 4163060 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4159515&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FRecoveryIsSexycom%2F%7E3%2FB89Iwnnh86c%2F Image via Wikipedia People in recovery will know that abstinence from addictive substances or actions is only the beginning of recovery. The writings of the various 12-Step Fellowships is full of spiritually sound ideas and goals. These Six Mistakes of Man are, to me, similar in principle to the Serenity Prayer and the Prayer of St Francis of Assisi. And, as they are over 2000 years old they demonstrate that spirituality is timeless. Marcus Cicero was a prominent philosopher who was born in 106 BC. He was a statesman, poet, orator and a philosopher all combined into one. I think he had a tendency to hit the nail on the head with his philosophical writings. Here are what he thought were “The six mistakes of Man”: The delusion that personal gain (emotional, sexual or money) is mad... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4159515 Thu, 11 Nov 2010 14:54:19 +0100 4159515 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4159518&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FRecoveryIsSexycom%2F%7E3%2F7fKiJ3Jw9uY%2F A Bill of Rights For Adult Children of Alcoholics / Addicts and, in fact, all people. Bill of rights I do not have to feel guilty just because someone else does not like what I do, say, think, or feel. It is OK for me to feel angry and to express it in responsible ways. I do not have to assume full responsibility for making decisions, particularly where others share responsibility for making the decision. I have the right to say, "I don’t understand" without feeling stupid or guilty. I have the right to say "I don’t know" I have the right to say "no" without feeling guilty. I do not have to apologize or give reasons when I say no. I have the right to ask others to do things for me. I have the right to refuse requests which others make of... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4159518 Tue, 09 Nov 2010 16:19:00 +0100 4159518 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4143022&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fmaturity-of-mind-through-a-spiritual-awakening%2F Image via Wikipedia Recover Maturity of Mind and Adult Behavior Through a Spiritual Awakening The 12-Step program of recovery from alcoholism / addiction / codependency, in part, takes one through the process to maturity. Maturity is gradually attained through the process of the spiritual awakening which is a result of working the 12-Steps. The 12th Step states “Having had a Spiritual Awakening as the result of these steps …” The Oxford Dictionary defines the word "maturity" as deliberateness of action, mature consideration, due deliberation, fullness or perfection of natural development, ripeness, due promptness, the state of being complete, perfect, ready, and so on. This is the literary definition. What is maturity? Maturity need not necessarily come w... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4143022 Thu, 04 Nov 2010 14:49:13 +0100 4143022 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4143024&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fspirituality-and-sexuality%2F Image via Wikipedia A golfer is in a competitive match with another man, who is ahead by a couple of strokes. The golfer says to himself, “I’d give anything to sink this next putt.” A stranger walks up to him and whispers, “Would you give up a third of your sex life?” The golfer thinks the man is crazy, but perhaps this is a good omen and will put him in the right frame of mind to make the difficult putt. “OK,” he says, and sinks the putt. Two holes later he mumbles to himself, “Boy, if I could only get an eagle on this hole.” The same stranger moves to his side and says, “Would it be worth another third of your sex life?” The golfer shrugs and says, "Sure." And he makes an eagle. Down to the final hole. The golfer needs yet another eagle to win. The ... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4143024 Wed, 03 Nov 2010 16:36:00 +0100 4143024 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4134269&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FRecoveryIsSexycom%2F%7E3%2FElYHmQOkI2g%2F Image via Wikipedia The wide range of sexual practices between individuals can provide pleasure and allow for creative self-expression. By implementing the protective measures described here, people in recovery can be assured healthy enjoyment of the following sexual practices. Masturbation (manual or other nonpenetrative stimulation of oneself or a partner for sexual pleasure) Self-stimulation involves no risk of pregnancy or transmission of STIs. In partner or group masturbation, there is a possibility of disease transmission from one person to another because body fluids and infections can be transmitted by contact with the hands or objects used. To maintain general hygiene, partners should wash their hands and any objects used before and after masturbating themselves or each othe... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4134269 Wed, 03 Nov 2010 16:07:00 +0100 4134269 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4134270&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FRecoveryIsSexycom%2F%7E3%2FQPvJfguvlWo%2F Step Ten; Building the spiritual basis for recovery each day The Twelve Step program of recovery from alcoholism and other addictions rests on a notion of spirituality that is not about having the "right" beliefs. Instead, it is about adopting daily practices that help people stay clean and sober. These daily practices are the subject of Step Ten of the Twelve Steps of Alcoholics Anonymous: "Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted it." Here the word "inventory" means taking stock of our emotional disturbances, especially those that can return us to drinking or other drug use. Step Ten suggests that we watch for these disturbances every day and make an immediate response. Taking a daily inventory is important to all peop... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4134270 Tue, 02 Nov 2010 16:38:00 +0100 4134270 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4134271&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FRecoveryIsSexycom%2F%7E3%2FzOcKrlCuSWw%2F Robert started drinking at age 18 and was an alcoholic by the time he entered law school. "I managed to get my degree and go to work for a Wall Street firm. After that I changed jobs every two years or less. I just couldn’t hang on to one. Nobody ever mentioned drinking to me. But I’m sure that with every job I lost, drinking was the main reason." Images of hard-headed, hard-drinking lawyers abound in popular culture. These images make a point: The professional status granted by a law degree offers no immunity from addiction. The same can be said for people in other prominent professions, such as physicians, pilots and politicians. In fact, the rate of addiction for attorneys may exceed that for the general population. In 2002, the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services A... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4134271 Tue, 02 Nov 2010 16:25:00 +0100 4134271 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4125288&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fis-it-harm-reduction-or-harm-continuation%2F Conclusions This author is of the opinion that what is ‘passed off’ as harm reduction in the UK is, in reality, a process that facilitates the continued use of toxic, psychoactive drugs. Whether or not that is the intention is open to speculation. What is indisputable is the fact that it is simply not working insofar as the rehabilitation and recovery of addicts and alcoholics are concerned – an outcome which includes relinquishing criminal activities, living in a safe and stable environment, and, in the fullness of time through gainful employment, becoming a self supporting member of society. Further, the architects of this disaster persist in hiding their failure by the time consuming and expensive process of producing sanitised statistics (which do not in anyway aid recovery b... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4125288 Mon, 01 Nov 2010 15:31:53 +0100 4125288 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4121918&cid=t_120260_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2010%2F10%2F31%2Fhey-tipper-and-al-why-divorce-after-40-years%2F I’m the skeptical, jaded type who believes the passionate kiss former Vice President Al Gore and his wife Tipper exchanged in front of the Democratic National Convention in July of 2004 was most likely staged. But I am truly puzzled, with the rest of America, on why a couple who seemed so together is now splitting after 40 years. I’m not only puzzled, but also disheartened. Because I respect and admire couples who have made it beyond their silver anniversary. Like everyone else confused by the Gores decision, I suppose I attach a layer of immunity to the partners who’ve raised their kids, launching them successfully. Now they are safe to buy that double burial lot because, like or not, they are sticking together. No so, says Betsey Stevenson, an economist at the Universi... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4121918 Sun, 31 Oct 2010 20:53:20 +0100 4121918 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4122080&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fmind-guide-to-relaxation%2F Image via Wikipedia Learning how to relax improves day-to-day living, and can be a valuable tool for coping with stress of any kind. Suitable for anyone in recovery from alcoholism, addiction, ACOA, co-dependency, compulsive gambling & etc. This booklet explores why people have problems trying to relax and how to resolve them. It explains how to introduce more relaxation into your everyday life, and how to take it further. It is not designed to go into specific deep relaxation techniques. Topics in this article include; What’s the link between stress and relaxation? What’s wrong with the way I relax now? How does relaxation differ from recreation? I feel too tense to relax. What can I do? How can I introduce more relaxation into my everyday life? How can I ta... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4122080 Sat, 30 Oct 2010 16:57:00 +0100 4122080 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4125289&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fdental-recovery%2F This article may help but one may also consider seeing a dentist. With all the whitening and brightening products available for your teeth, it’s easy to forget that cosmetics aren’t enough to achieve a healthy mouth. There’s regular brushing and flossing, of course, but your teeth and gums need even more. Like the rest of your body, good health in your mouth starts with getting the right dietary nutrients. What you eat makes a difference in whether your gums, teeth and the bone they attach to are able to stand strong against plaque bacteria that can cause disease. Among the dental health nutritional standouts: Calcium: The more milk, cheese and yogurt you consume, the less likely you are to develop periodontal, or gum, disease, a chronic bacterial infection. Calcium is i... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4125289 Thu, 28 Oct 2010 16:51:02 +0100 4125289 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4119730&cid=t_120260_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fdetachment-from-emotion%2F This article may help. Letting someone else’s behavior determine how we feel at every turn is irresponsible. Our emotions should be determined by us, not by someone else. But no doubt we have spent years confusing the boundaries that separate us from other people. Whether at work or at home, we have too often let someone else’s “insanity” affect how we behave and how we feel. At first, it may seem insensitive not to react to others’ problems or negative behavior. We may fear they’ll think we simply don’t care about them. Learning that it is far more caring to let other people handle their own lives takes time and patience. But with practice, it will begin to feel comfortable. In fact, in time it will feel freeing and wonderful. I will work on detac... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4119730 Sun, 24 Oct 2010 16:08:01 +0100 4119730