MedWorm provides a medical RSS filtering service. Over 6000 RSS medical sources are combined and output via different filters. This feed contains the latest medical blog items that have been tagged with 'alcoholic recovery'. Sat, 03 Sep 2011 02:57:00 +0100 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=5159847&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Faa-works-long-term%2F Conclusions The findings highlight the unique and positive impact of AA involvement on long-term SUD treatment outcome and extend understanding of why AA is beneficial for patients. Research report; Predictors of 4 year outcome of community residential treatment for patients with substance use disorders. Addiction. 2008 Apr;103(4):671-80. Laffaye C, McKellar JD, Ilgen MA, Moos RH. See also; Brief-TSF is designed to as adjunctive therapy for anti-craving medication. Twelve Step Facilitation 12th Step Works Are there Patterns to Denial Behavior? :Sweden Likes AA TooAlcoholics Anonymous with Narcotics Anonymous success in England12 Step Treatment Reduces Healthcare DemandSpiritual Awakening for RecoveryDouble Trouble in Recovery (Source: Recovery Is Sexy.com) Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=5159847 Thu, 25 Aug 2011 02:27:00 +0100 5159847 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=5131056&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35804&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.addictionrecoveryblog.com%2Falcoholic-recovery%2Fan-honest-review-for-twenty-four-hours-a-day-hazelden-education-materials%2F The Lowest Price we could find is $14.95 $6.86 Since 1954, Twenty-Four Hours a Day has become a stable force in the recovery of many alcoholics throughout the world. With over nine million copies in print (the original text has been revised), this “little black book” offers daily thoughts, meditations, and prayers for living a clean and sober life. A spiritual resource with practical applications to fit our daily lives. “For yesterday is but a dream, and tomorrow is only a vision” is part of the Sanskrit proverb quoted at the beginning of the book which has become one of the basic building blocks for a life of sobriety. In addition to a thought, meditation and prayer for each day of the year, this handy, pocket-sized volume also contains the Serenity Prayer and... Addiction Recovery Blog blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=5131056 Mon, 15 Aug 2011 11:40:08 +0100 5131056 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=5131057&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35804&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.addictionrecoveryblog.com%2Falcoholic-recovery%2Fhonest-review-12-stupid-things-that-mess-up-recovery-avoiding-relapse-through-self-awareness-and-right-action%2F The Lowest Price we could find is $14.95 $8.15 Are you sabotaging your own recovery? To grow in recovery, we must grow up emotionally. This means getting honest with ourselves and facing up to the self-defeating thoughts and actions that put our sobriety at risk. Although there are as many ways to mess up recovery as there are alcoholics and addicts, some general themes exist, which include: confusing self-concern with selfishness not making amends using the program to try to become perfect not getting help for relationship troubles believing that life should be easy In simple, down-to-earth language, Allen Berger explores the twelve most commonly confronted beliefs and attitudes that can sabotage recovery. He then provides tools for working through these problems in daily life. This... Addiction Recovery Blog blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=5131057 Sun, 14 Aug 2011 11:40:09 +0100 5131057 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=5069829&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35804&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.addictionrecoveryblog.com%2Falcoholic-recovery%2Finteresting-video-just-another-night%2F This is a pretty good video I came across. Wanted to share it with everyone. EnjoyAuthor’s Description: Just another night, I stare at my empty Wonderin how much it will take for my feelings to I been runnin’ from something, just ain’t sure if it’s me or When the glass is empty the time passes for the next round, jukebox playin And the neon lights hum a melody, of an all too familiar Thoughts come crashin’ down like shooting The memories they come and go, some left me with The bartender, she asked me I said that’s what I came here to Order the next round, it should drown my She could see I’d been hurt bad, I’ll be hurtin worse She poured two shots, said cheers to the wreckage of the Well I can certainly drink to I kept on drinkin’ she t... Addiction Recovery Blog blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=5069829 Tue, 26 Jul 2011 12:00:06 +0100 5069829 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=5036580&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35804&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.addictionrecoveryblog.com%2Falcoholic-recovery%2Fmy-review-for-a-gentle-path-through-the-twelve-steps-the-classic-guide-for-all-people-in-the-process-of-recovery%2F The Lowest Price we could find is $18.95 $6.91 Revised Edition. Carnes offers us exercises, inventories, and guided reflections for those of us facing the daily challenges of attaining or maintaining an addiction-free lifestyle. This revised edition of A Gentle Path through the Twelve Steps is a treasure chest, a rich and powerful resource for anyone working a twelve-step program. Carnes is a gifted teacher and leader in the addiction recovery field.Wendy Maltz, M.S.W., Sexual Healing Journey This unique, non-threatening workbook emphasizes common themes at the heart of all Twelve Step fellowships…an especially clear explanation of what “working the program” means.Claudia Black, Ph.D., It Will Happen to Me The revised A Gentle Path through the Twelve Steps gets my hi... Addiction Recovery Blog blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=5036580 Sat, 16 Jul 2011 12:00:10 +0100 5036580 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4953369&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35804&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.addictionrecoveryblog.com%2Falcoholic-recovery%2Fa-review-for-stray%2F Best Price $3.99 Therapist Tomas Cleaves is many years sober from his addiction but is now losing his mind. He is sure that the addicts he treats must have infected the womb of his wife. Add to that the occasional seizure and voices in his head, he may be more unstable than any of his clients. And with clients like Jason Boston Senior, the Ancient Heroin Wizard, who moves about the citys underground like the Merlin of smack, Tom is in desperate need of a client who can give him some hope. James White is one such client– a newly orphaned alcoholic dead bent on drinking again until he finds himself rescuing lost strays at the next door animal shelter. It is here that he meets the mystical nurse and animal control worker Rachel. Rachel cleans cages, rescues strays, but then has the unfo... Addiction Recovery Blog blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4953369 Mon, 20 Jun 2011 12:00:09 +0100 4953369 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4872489&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FRecoveryIsSexycom%2F%7E3%2F0G0MuxtzXeI%2F Two recovery books in one.Detachment and Enabling combines the two classic, user-friendly texts designed for loved ones, codependents, of chemically dependent people.After you have done all you can to help an alcoholic/ addict and he or she continues to drink or use, it’s time to detach. Detachment tells us how we can continue to love someone who is chemically dependent and, at the same time, no longer focus on that person’s behavior. It is about taking back our lives. Enabling describes the problems we can encounter when we focus on the alcoholic or addict in order to keep peace at any price. The authors encourage us to consider if we are really helping the alcoholic or ourselves when we prevent the alcoholic from feeling the true consequences of his or her actions.- Order to... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4872489 Thu, 05 May 2011 17:18:00 +0100 4872489 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4759044&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35804&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.addictionrecoveryblog.com%2Falcoholic-recovery%2Fa-review-for-alcoholics-anonymous-big-book%2F Best Price $4.99 Alcoholics Anonymous is a fellowship of men and women who share their experience, strength and hope with each other that they may solve their common problem and help others to recover from alcoholism. The only requirement for membership is a desire to stop drinking. There are no dues or fees for A.A. membership; we are self-supporting through our own contributions. A.A. is not allied with any sect, denomination, politics, organization or institution; does not wish to engage in any controversy; neither endorses nor opposes any causes. Our primary purpose is to stay sober and help other alcoholics to achieve sobriety. Features:Original First & Second Edition ForewordsDoctor’s OpinionMain 164 PagesSpiritual Experience40+ First and Second Edition StoriesMain 164 pag... Addiction Recovery Blog blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4759044 Wed, 27 Apr 2011 12:00:09 +0100 4759044 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4709425&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35804&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.addictionrecoveryblog.com%2Falcoholic-recovery%2Fseattles-best-mexican-food-how-much-can-you-eat%2F A short film starring Christopher A. Miller as a hungry desperado needing to quench a dispute between his stomach and a hot plate. Filmed on location at Gordito’s Healthy Mexican Restaurant in beautiful yet deadly Greenwood area of Seattle Washington. Who will win this saga as the night moon approaches? Only one will walk away… Keys: Chips Salsa Burrito Greenwood Avenue 85th Avenue Northwest North Seattle Fremont Phinney Ridge Ballard Caliente Hot Sauce Tomato Guacamole Sour Cream Cheddar Chesse Comedy Raw Sobriety Musicians Guitara Musica Senorita Hombre Christopher A. MillerComedy Tagged with: battle, mexico, live, salsa, gordito’s, healthy, mexican, food, cuisine, nacho, nachos, greenwood, Seattle, North, comedy, 85th, street, hot, sauce, cheese, funny, fremont, phinne... Addiction Recovery Blog blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4709425 Wed, 13 Apr 2011 13:20:06 +0100 4709425 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4696956&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35804&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.addictionrecoveryblog.com%2Falcoholic-recovery%2Faddiction-and-recovery-developing-new-traditions-for-a-sober-july-4th%2F The fourth of July is typically a drinking holiday for alcoholics/addicts and their families. When one person in a family of alcoholics gets sober, they often struggle to deal with the ongoing drinking traditions within that family. It can be quite a challenge to deal with the feelings of loyalty to the family and the hurt that the newly recovering person may experience when family members do not make accommodation for their sobriety needs. On one hand the newly sober person may not want to impose on the family by asking that they not drink or not have alcohol available. On the other hand, they may hope that family members would be considerate enough to host family get togethers without alcohol to help safeguard his or her sobriety. The recovering person, like anyone else, wants to be acce... Addiction Recovery Blog blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4696956 Sun, 10 Apr 2011 12:00:16 +0100 4696956 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4696957&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35804&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.addictionrecoveryblog.com%2Falcoholic-recovery%2Fas-a-drunk-sees-it-part-11%2F It now has been a few years without a drink or drug but the work is still not complete. To recap the progress made to date; a problem was recognized, a conscious effort was made to seek help, and one day at a time there has been no drinking or drugging. A program was developed in therapy and/or borrowed from AA or some other treatment program to change the old habits into a new lifestyle that does not include drinking or drugging. The program also teaches responsibility and accountability and the alcoholic/addict returns to being a productive member of the family and the community. Grandiosity has been replaced by humility and the drunk understands that a power greater than himself was responsible for the drunk finding recovery. Those who chose the twelve step program of AA have successful... Addiction Recovery Blog blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4696957 Sat, 09 Apr 2011 12:00:18 +0100 4696957 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4670337&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35804&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.addictionrecoveryblog.com%2Falcoholic-recovery%2Freview-women-who-love-too-much-when-you-keep-wishing-and-hoping-hell-change%2F The Lowest Price we could find is $16.00 $5.68 The relationship classic hailed by Erica Jong as “life- changing” — now updated with a new introduction and resource section! The #1 New York Times bestseller that asks ARE YOU A WOMAN WHO LOVES TOO MUCH? Do you find yourself attracted again and again to troubled, distant, moody men — while “nice guys” seem boring? Do you obsess over men who are emotionally unavailable, addicted to work, hobbies, alcohol, or other women? Do you neglect your friends and your own interests to be immediately available to him? Do you feel empty without him, even though being with him is torment? Robin Norwood’s groundbreaking work will enable you to recognize the roots of your destructive patterns of relating a... Addiction Recovery Blog blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4670337 Sun, 03 Apr 2011 11:40:18 +0100 4670337 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4664481&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35804&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.addictionrecoveryblog.com%2Falcoholic-recovery%2Fcosts-of-alcohol-detox%2F When an alcoholic cannot stop drinking and needs to have a clinical alcohol Detox and perhaps further rehab at a treatment centre, can a price be put on their recovery? In order to get the correct care, the patient needs to be admitted to an alcohol detox centre where there is a guarantee that they will receive the best medical and comprehensive care package available. This package needs to be bespoke, tailor made to suit the alcoholic individual, as each person is different no one-size fits all will work best. Whether admission to a clinic is done voluntarily or through intervention, this may mean a private detox clinic that costs more than a state-funded alcohol rehab centre. Although the costs of alcohol detoxification may be more expensive at a private rehab clinic than at its state fu... Addiction Recovery Blog blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4664481 Fri, 01 Apr 2011 11:40:07 +0100 4664481 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4643000&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35804&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.addictionrecoveryblog.com%2Falcoholic-recovery%2Fdont-i-deserve-to-be-mad-at-my-husband-over-this%2F Elle Z asks the question: Myself and my brother are both recovering alcoholics. He recently “fell off the wagon” and he called me for support. I told him that every day is hard for me and I know he’s going thru the same and he just needs to take it one day at a time. He is going back to rehab on Monday. I’d like him to come visit after he’s been discharged. My husband said “I just don’t think it’s a good idea. Who knows what drama he’ll bring with him” As far as I’m concerned he might as well have said it about me. I’m going thru the same thing as my brother and for him to want to turn his back on him makes me feel like if I weren’t his wife he’d turn his back on me too. And just to clarify……it&... Addiction Recovery Blog blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4643000 Sun, 27 Mar 2011 11:40:10 +0100 4643000 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4643001&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35804&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.addictionrecoveryblog.com%2Falcoholic-recovery%2Fnlp-anchoring-live-nigel-hetherington%2F Laughter, like applause can be one the most honest states. Laughter is priceless and is one of the most transformative and powerful resources you can have. Laught your Socks Off! Recorded at Nigel Hetherington NLP Practitioner Training in Newcastle upon Tyne. 123 of NLP Anchoring Full video of approximately one hour covering the essential 123 of anchoring. 1.) Setting Frames, 2.) Eliciting / Installing and 3.) Testing. Click the link here to buy NLP LIVE – Anchoring at £12.30. Recorded LIVE at NLP Practitioner Training with Communicating Excellence. www.paypal.com It is honestly worth this just for the laughter! www.paypal.comEducation Tagged with: NLP Anchor, NLP Anchoring, NLP Practitioner Newcastle, NLP Metaphor, Hypnosis Metaphor, Metaphor, Milton Model, NLP Practitioner, NLP ... Addiction Recovery Blog blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4643001 Sat, 26 Mar 2011 11:40:07 +0100 4643001 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4627024&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35804&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.addictionrecoveryblog.com%2Falcoholic-recovery%2Freview-twenty-four-hours-a-day%2F Best Price $11.99 With over nine million copies in print (the original text has been revised), this ”little black book” offers daily thoughts, meditations, and prayers for living a clean and sober life. A spiritual resource with practical applications to fit our daily lives.”For yesterday is but a dream, and tomorrow is only a vision” is part of the Sanskrit proverb quoted at the beginning of the book which has become one of the basic building blocks for a life of sobriety. In addition to a thought, meditation and prayer for each day of the year, this handy, pocket-sized volume also contains the Serenity Prayer and the 12 Steps and 12 Traditions of Alcoholics Anonymous. It is a simple, yet effective way to help us relate the Twelve Steps to everyday life and helps u... Addiction Recovery Blog blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4627024 Wed, 23 Mar 2011 11:40:08 +0100 4627024 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4622508&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35804&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.addictionrecoveryblog.com%2Falcoholic-recovery%2Fis-aa-degenerating-to-the-point-of-uselessness%2F titou asks the question: Again. I know. But more comments would be appreciated, especially encouraging ones. I have been “in recovery” in AA for 20 years, and sober for the last 12. During this time, I have experienced what seems to be a generalized change in the conduct of AA meetings and its members. With few exceptions, gone is the welcoming spirit I found in the beginning, replaced with a self-satisfied complacency. “Step Series” meetings predominate here in Miami where I live, with some especially worthy speaker “sharing his experience, strength, and hope” for 12 consecutive weeks — chosen of course by a committee of worthies. Never mind the pamphlet ‘A Member’s Eye View” which says, “The newcomer is greatly relieved th... Addiction Recovery Blog blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4622508 Tue, 22 Mar 2011 11:40:11 +0100 4622508 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4552148&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35804&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.addictionrecoveryblog.com%2Falcoholic-recovery%2Fdoes-anyone-else-see-a-common-personality-profile-in-aa%2F abnjim5 asks the question: I have been researching self-help groups and find a common psychological profile with Alcoholic Anonymous members. Among the many characteristics that I have discovered is a strong desire to seek assistance outside their bodies (brain) with their addiction to alcohol. Most will speak of a god or a spirit that is responsible for their “recovery” form drugs like alcohol. The use of self-will or using positive cognitive energy is discouraged. This finding of entities outside the body contradicts personal problem solving as I know it because to unlearn a behaviour (they say disease) one must go to the source of addictions which is in the body. I am puzzled, can anyone help me understand this AA process? Answer:Absolutely! Alcoholism is only a symptom of ... Addiction Recovery Blog blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4552148 Sat, 05 Mar 2011 12:40:08 +0100 4552148 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4532576&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35804&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.addictionrecoveryblog.com%2Falcoholic-recovery%2Feating-dissorder-recovery-or-relapse%2F Luna asks the question: I’ve had an eating disorder for about 4 years. Well I say I was born with it to be honest. 2007 is when it all came out, I lost allot of weight and weighed just 5 stone 10 and mum forced me to get better – I didn’t get better I got fat and was still depressed. since the “recovery” I have been bulimic. I know I have. but now , now I am tiered of it. I still go to see a councilor every two weeks but my life is so mucked up that I don’t tell them i make myself sick. My mother is an alcoholic so I don’t live at home and right now she is making my life unbearable. She hates me, she’s told me on several occasions. So, right now I am relapsing in my anorexia, exercising every moment of each day. my boyfriend is making it ha... Addiction Recovery Blog blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4532576 Tue, 01 Mar 2011 12:40:08 +0100 4532576 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4517355&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35804&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.addictionrecoveryblog.com%2Falcoholic-recovery%2Faddiction-is-genetic-recovery-rates-are-so-slim-addiction-causes-most-of-the-worlds-problems-why-dont-we%2F Having a Bad Day. asks the question: Addiction is genetic. Addiction leads to homelessness, spouse abuse, child abuse, neglect, child abandonment, and destroys a child’s fragile little mind, leading them to destroy their own offspring, repeating the generational transmission of trauma over and over again. Recovery numbers are so very small… The damage that these addicts do to their children, their family, their friends, their community, their SPECIES that their “Recovery”, if it is successful, doesn’t come NEAR to making up for the horrible things they have done. Why on earth do we refuse to talk in realistic terms about addiction and the damage it does to the world? WHY do we continue to swallow the nonsensical platitudes about “You have to WANT to ge... Addiction Recovery Blog blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4517355 Thu, 24 Feb 2011 12:40:09 +0100 4517355 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4495437&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35804&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.addictionrecoveryblog.com%2Falcoholic-recovery%2Ffather-is-alcoholic-and-homeless%2F Dan Moore asks the question: Hello, My dad is/was an alcoholic for many years. He cheated on mom mother and divorce took place. He moved to MN with the lady he cheated with and there he stopped working since she had a good job and it was tough to find a job in the small town they lived in. So he sat at home all day and watched TV and drank while she worked. A few years later she died of some weird throat bleeding (guess it is not all that uncommon). He was left unemployed and shattered. Since then he has been in a couple different recovery places that give you a place to stay, you have to be in by a certain time, no drinking etc etc. He got kicked out of the last recovery “clinic” he was staying at because he was caught with a pipe that he says was his friends pipe…whatev... Addiction Recovery Blog blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4495437 Fri, 18 Feb 2011 12:40:08 +0100 4495437 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4489983&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FRecoveryIsSexycom%2F%7E3%2FKdv704Rtv8c%2F MusiCares for MusicianMission MusiCares provides a safety net of critical assistance for music people in times of need. MusiCares’ services and resources cover a wide range of financial, medical and personal emergencies, and each case is treated with integrity and confidentiality. MusiCares also focuses the resources and attention of the music industry on human service issues that directly impact the health and welfare of the music community.In their own wordsIn recognition of September being National Recovery Month, MusiCares has launched new online resources to continue our commitment to educate the music community about substance abuse issues. Please take a moment to explore the new offerings. While MusiCares works in confidentiality with clients, the artists and manag... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4489983 Tue, 15 Feb 2011 20:15:30 +0100 4489983 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4489986&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FRecoveryIsSexycom%2F%7E3%2FZa0qJUk3-VE%2F Stop Enabling the AlcoholicDiscontinuing “enabling,” along with putting the onus for the drinker’s behavior and its consequences on the drinker.Do not cover up for them. Let them be responsible for their actions.Accept your responsibility, if any, for enabling, and then transfer 100 percent of the responsibility back to the alcoholic once you have talked it over.He or she is then unable to use you as an excuse.Enabling includes protecting the problem drinker from the negative consequences of alcohol use. After all, if someone makes excuses when you miss appointments because of drinking too much, reheats dinner because you’ve missed it after stopping at the bar on the way home from work, readily has sex with you even if you’re drunk, or lends you money every time you lose your job... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4489986 Tue, 15 Feb 2011 15:17:00 +0100 4489986 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4470531&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35804&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.addictionrecoveryblog.com%2Falcoholic-recovery%2Freview-the-spirituality-of-imperfection-storytelling-and-the-search-for-meaning%2F The Lowest Price we could find is $18.00 $5.73 I Am Not Perfect is a simple statement of profound truth, the first step toward understanding the human condition, for to deny your essential imperfection is to deny yourself and your own humanity. The spirituality of imperfection, steeped in the rich traditions of the Hebrew prophets and Greek thinkers, Buddhist sages and Christian disciples, is a message as timeless as it is timely. This insightful work draws on the wisdom stories of the ages to provide an extraordinary wellspring of hope and inspiration to anyone thirsting for spiritual growth and guidance in these troubled times.Who are we? Why so we so often fall short of our goals for ourselves and others? By seeking to understand our limitations and accept the inevitably of failure... Addiction Recovery Blog blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4470531 Sat, 12 Feb 2011 16:00:10 +0100 4470531 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4429229&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35804&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.addictionrecoveryblog.com%2Falcoholic-recovery%2Fhow-well-do-alcohol-recovery-programs-actually-work%2F almintaka asks the question: Hi Everyone, Alcoholics Anonymous (“AA”, spiritual), Rational Recovery (“RR”, cognitive), SMART (cognitive), Save Ourselves (“SOS”, cognitive) and other alcohol recovery programs all claim varying levels of success in helping alcoholics on the road to recovery. However, there is a lot of controversy surrounding their claims, as even a quick search on the internet will reveal. Viewing this chaos of opinions from “outside the box”, it certainly seems as though they’re all blowing smoke. Anecdotal arguments are used, tabloid-style quotations are touted as being authentic, and “my way or the highway” rationalizing is often used. One thing they all have in common is that apparently none of them has a ... Addiction Recovery Blog blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4429229 Wed, 02 Feb 2011 16:00:11 +0100 4429229 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4414680&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35804&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.addictionrecoveryblog.com%2Falcoholic-recovery%2Fdo-i-have-to-be-an-alcoholic-for-my-whole-life-even-if-i-dont-drink%2F Leah K asks the question: Two years ago I received an MIP. As a result, I had to attend AA meetings and do an alcohol education program. At AA, they told me I had the disease of alcoholism. They said that I will never not be addicted to alcohol and could only be “in recovery”–I would never be cured. They also said I needed to go to AA for life. Even if I didn’t drink alcohol, without meetings, I would only be a “dry drunk.” They said I would pass the gene onto my children. So I decided to NOT DRINK ANYMORE. Since my MIP, I have not had a drink. I have no desire to drink. I drank during my first semester at college because I thought drinking was cool. Now, I don’t allow people to pressure me into drinking. AAers keep calling me and asking me what my... 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(Source: Addiction Recovery Blog) Addiction Recovery Blog blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4122078 Sat, 30 Oct 2010 15:00:09 +0100 4122078 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4119723&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35804&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.addictionrecoveryblog.com%2Falcoholic-recovery%2Freview-drinking-a-love-story-2%2F Best Price $16.00 Fifteen million Americans a year are plagued with alcoholism. Five million of them are women. Many of them, like Caroline Knapp, started in their early teens and began to use alcohol as “liquid armor,” a way to protect themselves against the difficult realities of life. In this extraordinarily candid and revealing memoir, Knapp offers important insights not only about alcoholism, but about life itself and how we learn to cope with it. The roots of alcoholism in the life of a brilliant daughter of an upper-class family are explored in this stylistic, literary memoir of drinking by a Massachusetts journalist. Caroline Knapp describes how the distorted world of her well-to-do parents pushed her toward anexoria and then alcoholism. Fittingly, it was literature tha... Addiction Recovery Blog blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4119723 Thu, 28 Oct 2010 15:00:10 +0100 4119723 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4119731&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fcoping-with-alcoholism-addiction-in-the-family-ii%2F Image via Wikipedia In relations with alcoholics try to avoid doing the following: 1. Don’t make threats you don’t intend to carry out. This will succeed only in reducing your credibility and in weakening the limits that you do intend to enforce. 2. Never argue with an intoxicated person. Nothing can be gained from fighting with an intoxicated person and you may be placing yourself in a dangerous position. If you wish to make some points with the alcoholic / addict in your family, wait until they are sober. Remember that alcoholics and addicts like to provoke a fight because it distracts everybody from their drinking and drugging. 3. Avoid shame, ridicule, or scolding as a means for influencing the alcoholic member of the family. Remember that they often drink out of self-hatr... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4119731 Sun, 24 Oct 2010 16:08:00 +0100 4119731 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4098467&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35804&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.addictionrecoveryblog.com%2Falcoholic-recovery%2Fwhat-you-should-do-to-stop-drinking-alcohol%2F In the US, there are about 100,000 deaths caused by alcohol dependence and addiction annually. With this sad reality, it is about time that alcoholics realize what they are getting into. It is better to stop drinking alcohol early on before you fully succumb into the addiction. 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In January 1939, Wilson and other AA founders distributed 400 copies of his typescript to everyone they could think of ‘who might be concerned ... Addiction Recovery Blog blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4061079 Tue, 12 Oct 2010 15:00:09 +0100 4061079 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4053485&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35804&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.addictionrecoveryblog.com%2Falcoholic-recovery%2Fhow-to-quit-alcohol-2%2F I used to wonder if I could ever quit alcohol, sometimes I just couldn’t afford to drink and the thought of going without for a few days would instill me with panic. I would drink the cheapest, strongest and nastiest alcohol, so that gives you an idea about how desperate and financially dire my situation was! I was addicted for nearly thirty years, started the day with a drink and alcohol was never out of my system. If you’re serious about quitting, you could do it today, right after reading this article you really could make the decision to stop and never drink again. Stopping drinking is easy, the hard part is getting motivated to do it. How do you get to be motivated? It took me a long time to find the answer to that question. The problem is when you are an alcoholic you put... Addiction Recovery Blog blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4053485 Sun, 10 Oct 2010 15:00:08 +0100 4053485 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4031506&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35804&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.addictionrecoveryblog.com%2Falcoholic-recovery%2Fa-look-at-alcohol-and-depression%2F Which came first the chicken or the egg? What about alcoholism and depression? Many drink because they’re depressed while others are depressed because they drink. As a recovering alcoholic, I believe they are some definite connections between the two, but believe that the drinking came first. Let me explain. I started drinking in my early teens. When I became an alcoholic, I’m not sure, but alcohol remained fun for me for many years, well into my late twenties. Some say that an alcoholic stops growing emotionally at the time they began drinking alcoholically. The point is that for so many years I used alcohol to dampen my emotional feelings. When I was happy or sad I drank, it didn’t matter what I was feeling, alcohol was always part of my life. Although I didn’t re... Addiction Recovery Blog blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4031506 Tue, 05 Oct 2010 15:00:14 +0100 4031506 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4013552&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35804&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.addictionrecoveryblog.com%2Falcoholic-recovery%2Fhelp-for-christians-with-a-drug-addiction-problem%2F Why would you choose to go to an alcohol treatment center? After all, aren’t there other options? Yes, there are, but they are not as effective. Options outside of an alcohol treatment center include individual counseling, help from family and friends, and a 12 step program. These are all very helpful and are good methods to support the recovered alcoholic, but when sobriety is very new or has not been acquired yet, it is better for the alcoholic to have a more comprehensive approach to treatment. After all, when in the midst of alcoholism and feeling the need to do something about your drinking, life may feel very out of control. An alcohol treatment center is designed to take care of all aspects of an alcoholic’s recovery in a complete manner and help that person get things b... Addiction Recovery Blog blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4013552 Tue, 28 Sep 2010 15:00:11 +0100 4013552 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4001807&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35804&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.addictionrecoveryblog.com%2Falcoholic-recovery%2Falcoholic-intervention-and-alcohol-abuse-help%2F Alcoholic intervention is a big step forward towards providing valuable alcohol abuse help for someone dealing with an addiction. An alcoholic intervention is a meeting which includes the alcoholic, family members, friends and possibly the addict’s colleagues or employer, along with a specialist who is able to provide professional alcohol abuse help. During this step in the recovery process the problem drinker is spoken to regarding his or her drinking behavior. The individual is made aware of the impact that his or her excessive, abusive and reckless drinking has on family members, friends, co-workers and others. The meeting is managed by the alcoholic intervention expert. A safe environment is provided for the family members, friends and colleagues to express concerns about the per... Addiction Recovery Blog blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4001807 Sat, 25 Sep 2010 15:00:11 +0100 4001807 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3987238&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35804&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.addictionrecoveryblog.com%2Falcoholic-recovery%2Falcoholics-anonymous-online-meetings%2F A question often asked by those whose lives are affected by a drunken partner, family member, or friend, is why does there seem to be such a major difficulty getting boozers to moderate their drinking or sober up altogether? Well, first is there’s that all too common trait known as denial. Denial allows far too many drinkers and drug dependent people to think they don’t have a problem. Until a drunk actually admits to their addiction with alcohol, there will be slim chance of them taking positive steps towards seeking a solution to their malady. Pride is another obstacle. Even when an alcoholic does throw in the towel, reaching out for help from others often proves too difficult. This is when Alcoholics Anonymous Online Meetings can come in very useful. Alcoholics Anonymous Onl... Addiction Recovery Blog blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3987238 Tue, 21 Sep 2010 03:48:33 +0100 3987238 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3981019&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35804&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.addictionrecoveryblog.com%2Falcoholic-recovery%2Fwhat-everyone-ought-to-know-about-alcoholism-recovery-2%2F Alcoholism is one of the most common addictions in the present-day world. Once an alcoholic has identified him or herself as such, then it’s time that they reach out for help for their addiction. In many cases, the alcoholic’s family or friends have to take the first step in getting the addicted person into a recovery state. Sometimes an intervention is staged, where the alcoholic is given an ultimatum: go to rehab or get out of our lives. Other times, simply speaking concern to the alcoholic can snap them back to reality and make them realize that their addiction has progressed into a disease and is affecting others. Once an alcoholic is ready to seek help for his or her addiction, he or she must choose how to stop drinking. One of the more popular ways to rehabilitate an alco... Addiction Recovery Blog blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3981019 Fri, 17 Sep 2010 15:00:12 +0100 3981019 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3969186&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35804&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.addictionrecoveryblog.com%2Falcoholic-recovery%2Falcoholic-boyfriend-how-alcoholic-behavior-destroys-your-trust%2F As a psychiatrist that specializes in addiction, I have heard a lot of complaints over the years from different clients about their experiences dating an alcoholic boyfriend. The stories are like a country western song where the chorus is always the same. The recurring theme is a pattern of alcoholic behavior which includes being irresponsible and lying. Here is a recent case from my practice that illustrates the difficulties of having a boyfriend with an alcohol problem. T.R. is 24 years old and has been dating a recovering alcoholic for six months. They get along well and she has been very pleased that he treats her 4 year-old son in a loving and kind way. Her son has become very fond of him. Several weeks ago, T.R. was at a family dinner with her alcoholic boyfriend, her parents, and so... Addiction Recovery Blog blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3969186 Wed, 15 Sep 2010 02:07:08 +0100 3969186 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3958062&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35804&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.addictionrecoveryblog.com%2Falcoholic-recovery%2Fshould-your-alcoholic-spouse-take-antidepressants%2F As a psychiatrist that specializes in addiction, most people I treat for an alcohol problem have underlying depression and anxiety. The key question is which came first the chicken or the egg? In other words, is your alcoholic husband or alcoholic wife self-medicating their depression and anxiety with alcohol or is alcohol causing these symptoms? In most cases your alcoholic spouse started out “self-medicating”, but now is actually causing more depressive symptoms using alcohol. Here are 2 typical cases that illustrate the combination of alcoholism and depression: M.J. is 42 years old and has been drinking on and off for the last 25 years. Recently, he has had trouble sleeping, has lost his motivation for work, and does not feel a sense of joy for much of anything. For the last... Addiction Recovery Blog blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3958062 Fri, 10 Sep 2010 20:07:06 +0100 3958062 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3958064&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Ffaces-voices-of-recovery%2F United States Mission Faces & Voices of Recovery is committed to organizing and mobilizing the millions of Americans in long-term recovery from alcohol and other drug addiction, our families, friends, and allies to speak with one voice. Our organization is dedicated to changing public perceptions of recovery, promoting effective public policy in Washington and in all 50 states, and demonstrating that recovery is working for millions of Americans. It is our collective strength that will ensure our success, and it is our mission to bring the power and proof of recovery to everyone in America. Goals Faces & Voices of Recovery is a national organization of individuals and organizations joining together to supports local, state, regional and national recovery advocacy by increasing acce... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3958064 Fri, 10 Sep 2010 13:51:38 +0100 3958064 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3935922&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35804&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.addictionrecoveryblog.com%2Falcoholic-recovery%2Falcoholic-wife-tips-on-how-to-handle-her-first-alcohol-relapse%2F As a psychiatrist that treats a lot of addiction, I have worked with a number of families in which the husband is married to an alcoholic wife. K.J and his wife C.T. have been married for 4 years. They have a daughter that is 2 years old. Before their daughter was born, they went out to the clubs 5 nights a week. K.J. works at an electronics store and his wife stays home with their child. K.J. gave up the partying life style about 2 years ago as his work demands increased. Also, he said he felt a lot of responsibility for his wife and daughter and wanted to spend the evenings with his family. They both had a glass of wine or two with dinner. However, K.J. noticed his wife started to drink alcohol at lunch with friends which started spilling over into the afternoons. One day he announced to... Addiction Recovery Blog blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3935922 Sun, 05 Sep 2010 17:07:09 +0100 3935922 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3943032&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Ftwelve-step-sponsorship%2F Passing it on is a key concept in the Twelve Step community and many of the traditions and knowledge of the Twelve Step recovery program have been passed down by word-of-mouth from one generation of sponsors to the next. Twelve Step Sponsorship effectively takes this knowledge and tradition and applies it to a working manual for sponsors, guiding them through their role in reaching out and helping new program members. Designed as a “how-to” program for sponsors, Twelve Step Sponsorship offers: reading assignments common questions that sponsors face procedural suggestions for leading a newcomer through the Twelve Steps general guidelines for becoming an effective sponsor Twelve Step Sponsorship offers sponsors the first complete handbook for working with a newcom... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3943032 Fri, 03 Sep 2010 13:31:25 +0100 3943032 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3921081&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35804&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.addictionrecoveryblog.com%2Falcoholic-recovery%2Falcoholic-spouse-what-happens-when-only-one-spouse-decides-to-quit-drinking-alcohol%2F It is very bad luck for a child to be born into an alcoholic family that has one alcoholic parent. However, it is truly the worst luck to have two alcoholic parents. As a psychiatrist that specializes in addiction, this is not an uncommon scenario. Not only are their children at twice the genetic risk of developing an alcohol problem, the chance of both alcoholic parents remaining clean and sober is not very high. Here is a case from my psychiatric practice: M.F. and S.V. met in college. At that time, every one around them was drinking and using drugs so that their drug and alcohol use did not stand out. However, they are both thirty years old now and have a son in 8th grade and a daughter in 4th grade. M.F. and his wife S.V. have continued drinking excessively with no significant periods ... Addiction Recovery Blog blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3921081 Tue, 31 Aug 2010 14:07:07 +0100 3921081 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3907787&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35804&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.addictionrecoveryblog.com%2Falcoholic-recovery%2Fdo-we-know-the-cause-of-alcoholism-alcohol-abuse%2F What Is The Cause of Alcoholism Alcohol Abuse Alcoholism affects hundreds of thousands of people all over the world and is the cause of many deaths. There are many differing views on Alcoholism Alcohol abuse however one thing is certain, as of yet we do not know what causes alcoholism alcohol abuse. I know from personal experience that Alcoholism can be treated but this can only happen if the Alcoholic admits and accepts they have a problem and wants to stop. I suffered from Alcoholism alcohol abuse for many years and eventually there came a point in my life when I simply could not do this to myself any longer, I had reached a point in my life where I knew something had to change, and alcoholism alcohol abuse was slowly but surely stripping me of everything. I am a recovering Alcoholic and... Addiction Recovery Blog blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3907787 Thu, 26 Aug 2010 11:07:05 +0100 3907787 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3889304&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35804&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.addictionrecoveryblog.com%2Falcoholic-recovery%2Fdetox-from-alcohol-a-must-know-alcoholic-recovery-process%2F Detox from alcohol is the process of cleansing the body from alcoholic substances. A person has to undergo a detoxification process in order to truly quit alcohol addiction. Not everybody knows what detoxification is or what goes on in the process. Even some individuals suffering from alcoholism, don’t know where they can turn to for help. Detox and Rehab Centers Detox centers is a place where an alcoholic can seek help to detox from alcohol. In a detox center, the person is given medications or goes through programs to extinguish their desire for alcoholic drinks or substances. Detox from alcohol is a slow process, in is done with extreme care by professional to prevent an individual from suffering a severe withdrawal syndrome. After the detox, when the person is free from alcohol,... Addiction Recovery Blog blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3889304 Sat, 21 Aug 2010 08:07:08 +0100 3889304 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3816777&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=39090&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2Fhelpalcoholicfamily%2FxITS%2F%7E3%2FJaThugbVrsg%2F Are you living with an alcoholic? If so, Alcoholics Anonymous meetings (AA) is a very important part of any addiction intervention. However, not only are 12 step programs key for recovery, but  finding the right sponsor to guide your alcoholic husband or alcoholic wife through the 12 AA (alcoholics anonymous) steps is very important.  How can your alcoholic spouse find the right sponsor? Check out these 6 criteria: It’s an advantage for your alcoholic spouse to find a sponsor with a lot of sobriety under his/her belt. As a psychiatrist, my patients who have had a sponsor with over 5 years of sobriety seem to have the best experience in their alcoholic recovery. There are exceptions, however where a sponsor can be great who has only 2-3 years of sobriety. It is usually best for the... Alcoholic Spouse Advanced Help blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3816777 Tue, 13 Jul 2010 12:56:57 +0100 3816777 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3743722&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FRecoveryIsSexycom%2F%7E3%2FnGKOwtMDL2Y%2F It is important to put the responsibility for dealing with the alcohol problem squarely on the person in question while continuing to love him or her. What works depends on the individual. Doing the "right" thing can depend on how severe the alcohol problem is and on how in touch with it the person in question seems to be. What works for someone who is highly functional in daily life and who knows that alcohol is causing trouble, for instance, may not be the solution for someone who denies that there is a problem. Suggestion #4: Address the drinking problem directly Over and over, people shared comments like these: "Let them know that you are aware of their drinking problem. I thought I had everyone fooled, and they never told me otherwise." – alcoholic lady. &qu... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3743722 Mon, 12 Jul 2010 00:38:00 +0100 3743722 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3743725&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FRecoveryIsSexycom%2F%7E3%2FykTo0qwvojs%2F It is important to put the responsibility for dealing with the alcohol / addiction problem squarely on the person in question while continuing to love him or her. What works depends on the individual. Doing the "right" thing can depend on how severe the alcohol problem is and on how in touch with it the person in question seems to be. What works for someone who is highly functional in daily life and who knows that alcohol is causing trouble, for instance, may not be the solution for someone who denies that there is a problem. Suggestion #9: Be there for them when they’re ready Most comments on this subject go like this: "Be available when the alcoholic reaches out." "When they hold out their hand for help, grab it." "Help as many times as you are asked.... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3743725 Fri, 09 Jul 2010 15:28:00 +0100 3743725 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3730107&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=39090&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2Fhelpalcoholicfamily%2FxITS%2F%7E3%2FXl1i-YSK67c%2F I treat a number of alcoholic families where there are two alcoholic spouses. Their children are growing up in an incredibly toxic environment. What is the most interesting is that each spouse often accuses the other of being the more serious alcoholic. In this situation, both partners are giving the other spouse “permission” to drink. There is no voice of reason. What happens to these couples? The usual scenario that I witness is divorce. Here is why. Usually, the alcoholic wife or alcoholic husband at some point suffers a serious consequence from drinking whether it is a DUI, health problem (liver disease, pancreatitis), or job loss. Once one alcoholic spouse is put in the position to stop drinking alcohol, there is pressure on their partner to do the same. If one continues t... Alcoholic Spouse Advanced Help blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3730107 Tue, 06 Jul 2010 23:59:05 +0100 3730107 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3655805&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fhelp-an-alcoholic-7-2%2F Set a good example From her own experience, a wife thinks it’s important for family and friends not to drink in front of people they’d like to stop drinking. Indeed, one of the common themes in advice to loved ones is to be good role models, setting an example by taking steps like avoiding drinking around them and not bringing alcohol into the house. She adds, “Don’t let your good times revolve around drinking.” She recalls how many of the things she and her husband did together used to involve alcohol: “Every event I perceived as a good time revolved around booze. And he just went along with me. We would go to his softball games and out for beer afterward. And if we went to parties or summer picnics, alcohol was always involved.” In short, if a major focus of your relati... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3655805 Sat, 12 Jun 2010 15:11:00 +0100 3655805 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3645061&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fhelp-an-alcoholic-5-2%2F Seek help It’s dumbfounding to learn that some never seek help of any kind with severe alcohol abuse. One wife says, "If my husband had sought help, he would have been admitting how serious my problem was. It was a big family secret." But other people emphasize the importance of not going it alone when someone you care about has a drinking problem. This comment captures the essence of many suggestions: "Join a support group to keep your own life buoyant and prosperous and to analyze your own negative coping strategies." Not surprisingly, many people who take traditional twelve-step recovery routes suggested going to Al-Anon, also a twelve-step-based program. Also, a number of people make a general comment that family and friends should seek counselling for their ow... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3645061 Wed, 09 Jun 2010 15:33:00 +0100 3645061 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3641334&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fthe-role-of-aa-sponsors-2%2F CONCLUSIONS: The roles identified broadly corresponded with the AA literature delineating the duties of a sponsor. This non-random sample of sponsors was highly engaged in AA activity but only had a past history of moderate alcohol dependence. Research; The role of AA sponsors: a pilot study. Whelan PJ, Marshall EJ, Ball DM, Humphreys K. Alcohol Alcohol. 2009 Jul-Aug;44(4):416-22. Epub 2009 Mar 18. See also; 12th Step Works Relapse is Never an Accident The Alcoholics Anonymous Big Book Unplugged Sober Companions If You Want What We Have The Twelve Steps Of Alcoholics Anonymous: Interpreted By The Hazelden Foundation by Hazelden Foundation Hazelden and HCIBooks Online Spirituality Books Inspirational Books Love & Relationships Books Addiction & Recovery Books (Sour... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3641334 Sun, 06 Jun 2010 14:08:49 +0100 3641334 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3542888&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FRecoveryIsSexycom%2F%7E3%2Fxn5hLhsO0eY%2F During the past 12 months how often have you: Given money to your partner thinking he/she might buy alcohol or drugs with it? Purchased alcohol or drugs for your partner? Taken over your partner’s typical chores and responsibilities neglected because of his/her drinking or drug use? Lied or made excuses to family or friends to hide your partner’s drinking or drug use? Drank or used drugs with your partner, or in your partner’s presence? Told your partner that it was okay to drink or use drugs on certain days or for special family or social gatherings? Borrowed money to pay bills caused by your partner’s drinking or drug use? Changed or canceled family plans or social activities because your partner was drinking, using drugs, or hungover? Had sex with your partner ... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3542888 Fri, 07 May 2010 14:09:34 +0100 3542888 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3511784&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fhelping-helps-the-helper%2F CONCLUSIONS: These findings provide compelling evidence that recovering alcoholics who help other alcoholics maintain long-term sobriety following formal treatment are themselves better able to maintain their own sobriety. Research; Pagano ME, Friend KB, Tonigan JS, Stout RL. Helping other alcoholics in alcoholics anonymous and drinking outcomes: findings from project MATCH. J Stud Alcohol. 2004 Nov;65(6):766-73. See also MP3’s and Movie of Bill W. Recovery Stoppers Twelve Step Sponsorship Emotional Sobriety Tools of Recovery Alcoholism, Addiction & Codependency Recovery Bookstore Hazelden Books, DVD's & Medalions (Source: Recovery Is Sexy.com) Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3511784 Tue, 27 Apr 2010 09:53:56 +0100 3511784 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3441063&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FRecoveryIsSexycom%2F%7E3%2Fc-e8awKCTnM%2F Set a good example and flow around drinking From her own experience, a wife thinks it’s important for family and friends not to drink in front of people they’d prefer not to be drinking. Indeed, one of the common themes in advice to loved ones is to be good role models, setting an example by taking steps like avoiding drinking around them and not bringing alcohol into the house. She adds, “Don’t let your good times revolve around drinking.” She recalls how many of the things she and her husband did together used to involve alcohol: “Every event I perceived as a good time revolved around booze. And he just went along with me. We would go to his softball games and out for beer afterward. And if we went to parties or summer picnics, alcohol was always involved.” In short, if a m... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3441063 Tue, 06 Apr 2010 15:59:00 +0100 3441063 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3441064&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FRecoveryIsSexycom%2F%7E3%2FPhtNxLg61PM%2F Detachment and Enabling combines the two classic, user-friendly texts designed for loved ones, codependents, of chemically dependent people. After you have done all you can to help an alcoholic/ addict and he or she continues to drink or use, it’s time to detach. Detachment tells us how we can continue to love someone who is chemically dependent and, at the same time, no longer focus on that person’s behavior. It is about taking back our lives. Enabling describes the problems we can encounter when we focus on the alcoholic or addict in order to keep peace at any price. The authors encourage us to consider if we are really helping the alcoholic or ourselves when we prevent the alcoholic from feeling the true consequences of his or her actions. - Order today >> Detachm... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3441064 Mon, 05 Apr 2010 17:18:00 +0100 3441064 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3429457&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FRecoveryIsSexycom%2F%7E3%2FUlgqkozJBOk%2F Seeking Help Could Quadruple the Likelihood of Abstinence To quantify the effect of help seeking on recovery from alcoholism, researchers in the United States analyzed data from 4,422 adults who had participated in a nationally representative survey and developed alcohol dependence at least 1 year before their participation. Only 26 percent of subjects had ever sought help for their alcohol problems; 3 percent participated in a 12-step program only, 6 percent in formal treatment only, and 17 percent in both.  Help seekers drank more and had higher lifetime prevalence’s of other drug use, mood disorders, and personality disorders than did subjects who had not sought help. In analyses adjusted for potential confounders, help seeking significantly increased the likelihood of ... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3429457 Wed, 31 Mar 2010 23:22:30 +0100 3429457 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3429458&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FRecoveryIsSexycom%2F%7E3%2FOF5ANYSGzas%2F Seek help It’s dumbfounding to learn that some never seek help of any kind with severe alcohol abuse. One wife says, "If my husband had sought help, he would have been admitting how serious my problem was. It was a big family secret." But other people emphasize the importance of not going it alone when someone you care about has a drinking problem. This comment captures the essence of many suggestions: "Join a support group to keep your own life buoyant and prosperous and to analyze your own negative coping strategies." Not surprisingly, many people who take traditional twelve-step recovery routes suggested going to Al-Anon, also a twelve-step-based program. Also, a number of people make a general comment that family and friends should seek counselling for their ow... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3429458 Wed, 31 Mar 2010 15:33:00 +0100 3429458 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3416332&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fmedia-attention-misrepresents-long-term-recovery%2F The spate of articles on high-priced private treatment programs that are dominating the nation’s airwaves with misinformation and scintillating details about people still struggling with addiction are incredibly one-sided. They certainly aren’t helping people who still need help, or their families, find the pathway to recovery that will help more people experience the reality of a new life, reunited with family and community, in long-term recovery from addiction to alcohol or other drugs. A recent New York Times article, “Stars Check In, Stars Check Out,” summarized June 18 by Join Together with the headline “Little Evidence That Costly Treatment Programs Work,” is a case in point. “Part of the problem in talking about a success rate is you’r... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3416332 Mon, 29 Mar 2010 14:12:43 +0100 3416332 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3411292&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FRecoveryIsSexycom%2F%7E3%2Fus90hpgupE8%2F Try to adopt the following approaches to your alcoholic / addict; 1. Try to learn the facts about alcoholism and other drug addiction. Keep an open mind. 2. Recognize addiction for what it is-a disease of the body, mind, behavior, and spirit from which people can and do recover. Like other diseases, nobody really intends to get it or wish it upon their loved ones once they have it. Try to remember that the alcoholic / addict in your family isn’t doing this at you. This is a disease beyond will power. 3. Practice detachment. Do not allow yourself to become obsessed with your family member. This is sometimes called “release with love.” In effect, there are times that you simply must let go and let the alcoholic / addict experience the consequences of their drinking and dru... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3411292 Thu, 25 Mar 2010 22:40:43 +0100 3411292 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3404152&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Falcoholics-anonymous-big-book%2F Alcoholics Anonymous – Big Book 4th Edition It’s more than a book. It’s a way of life. Alcoholics Anonymous-The Big Book--has served as a lifeline to millions worldwide. First published in 1939, Alcoholics Anonymous sets forth cornerstone concepts of recovery from alcoholism and tells the stories of men and women who have overcome the disease. Key features and benefits the most widely used resource for millions of individuals in recovery – not only alcoholics contains full, original text describing the A.A. program updated with 24 new personal stories This book has had a powerful impact on millions of lives for over seventy years now. It was written by the first hundred or so members of A.A. less than five years after the program was founded. The simple (not easy) ... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3404152 Wed, 24 Mar 2010 02:45:00 +0100 3404152 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3374391&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fsobriety-companions%2F Companions Everyday people in recovery often turn to support groups or an Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) sponsor when they face a possible relapse, but some celebrities and other wealthy addicts are turning to paid “sober companions” to help maintain their sobriety, the New York Times reported April 15. Sober companions like Ronnie Kaplan, a former addict and ex-con, can earn fees of up to $1,000 per day for their services. “I get there and I sit him down and relax his mind,” Kaplan said of his interaction with one wealthy client. “I ask him ’What brought this on?’ It’s always something.” Kaplan said he will even search the client’s home for drugs if he thinks it is warranted. Some sober companions become part of a celebrity’s entourage, like a pers... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3374391 Mon, 15 Mar 2010 21:39:26 +0100 3374391 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3339811&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FRecoveryIsSexycom%2F%7E3%2FgkbsJj4w360%2F Keep the monkey off your back Relapse prevention – TOOLS OF RECOVERY MEETINGS: We attend Alcoholics Anonymous meetings to learn how the Program works, and to share our experiences, strengths, and hopes with others. In meetings we learn that our struggles and troubles are not unique, and we gain the hope and assurance that we can recover and grow. SHARING AT MEETINGS: Being honest and vulnerable in front of our peers is frightening but worth it. Many of us believe that we recover in direct proportion to our willingness to share at meetings. TELEPHONING: We use the phone to contact members of AA between meetings. DEVELOPING A SUPPORT SYSTEM: Meeting with other AA members over coffee to discuss our program shows that we are not alone and allows us to get another perspective on our probl... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3339811 Sat, 06 Mar 2010 12:52:52 +0100 3339811 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3292024&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FRecoveryIsSexycom%2F%7E3%2F4ZoIMd6Fd8o%2F – $ 11.96 Passing it on is a key concept in the Twelve Step community and many of the traditions and knowledge of the Twelve Step recovery program have been passed down by word-of-mouth from one generation of sponsors to the next. Twelve Step Sponsorship effectively takes this knowledge and tradition and applies it to a working manual for sponsors, guiding them through their role in reaching out and helping new program members. Designed as a “how-to” program for sponsors, Twelve Step Sponsorship offers: reading assignments common questions that sponsors face procedural suggestions for leading a newcomer through the Twelve Steps general guidelines for becoming an effective sponsor Twelve Step Sponsorship offers sponsors the first complete handbook for worki... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3292024 Sat, 20 Feb 2010 17:53:45 +0100 3292024 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3276090&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Falcoholics-helping-alcoholics%2F Alcoholics Who Help Other Alcoholics Help Themselves Too Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) is the largest self-help, mutual-help organization for alcoholics in the world with over 2 million members. Almost any village, town, city or community has at least one AA meeting. On every night and often day of the week one can easily find an AA meeting. One of the altruistic values followed by AA members is that of helping others find and maintain sobriety. A study by Pagano et al, found that AA members who were helping others were significantly less likely to relapse in the year following treatment. This was true for all demographic groups with older age having a slight advantage. The study concluded by saying; “Clinicians who treat persons with substance abuse disorders should encourage their clients ... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3276090 Tue, 16 Feb 2010 04:52:33 +0100 3276090 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3276093&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fpartners-of-alcoholics%2F Partner’s Criticism Linked to Alcoholic Relapse A new study published in Behavior Therapy apparently confirms that Al-Anon’s purpose of offering “understanding and encouragement” to those with drinking problems is best approach family members can take in dealing with the situation. The study, conducted by William Fals-Stewart of the State University of New York at Buffalo, found that men recovering from substance abuse are less successful if they believe their spouse or partner is critical of them, rather than supportive. The study found that of 106 married men studied, those who reported greater criticism from their partners were more likely to have relapsed, regardless of the severity of their drug problem, age or race. Al-Anon is a support groups for those who are affect... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3276093 Mon, 15 Feb 2010 01:42:00 +0100 3276093 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3267206&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FRecoveryIsSexycom%2F%7E3%2FIWEiwmvaa7k%2F Families may be reunited with Al-anons help Research proves that the Al-anon method of encouragement and support is one of the best ways to help a recovering addict stay sober A recent American clinical study examined the effect of perceived criticism on relapse back to substance abuse, and found that the perception of criticism was a very significant factor leading to relapse. Families can best help in the recovery process by remaining encouraging and supportive, and additionally attending both therapy with the alcoholic, as well as some form of family support organization. The Al Anon philosophy: Al-Anon has but one purpose to help families of alcoholics. We do this by practicing the Twelve Steps, by welcoming and giving comfort to families of alcoholics, and by giving understanding and... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3267206 Thu, 11 Feb 2010 18:47:52 +0100 3267206 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3236103&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FRecoveryIsSexycom%2F%7E3%2FOB_zljO5_4Y%2F What is A.A.? Alcoholics Anonymous is a voluntary, worldwide fellowship of men and women from all walks of life who meet together to attain and maintain sobriety. The only requirement for membership is a desire to stop drinking. There are no dues or fees for A.A. membership. Current Membership It is estimated that there are more than 100,000 groups and over 2,000,000 members in 150 countries. Relations With Outside Agencies The Fellowship has adopted a policy of ·cooperation but not affiliation· with other organizations concerned with the problem of alcoholism. We have no opinion on issues outside A.A. and neither endorse nor oppose any causes. How A.A. Is Supported Over the years, Alcoholics Anonymous has affirmed and strengthened a tradition of being fully self-supporting and of neithe... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3236103 Tue, 02 Feb 2010 01:56:29 +0100 3236103 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3223493&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FRecoveryIsSexycom%2F%7E3%2FoucdRTdMCGE%2F United States Mission Faces & Voices of Recovery is committed to organizing and mobilizing the millions of Americans in long-term recovery from alcohol and other drug addiction, our families, friends, and allies to speak with one voice. Our organization is dedicated to changing public perceptions of recovery, promoting effective public policy in Washington and in all 50 states, and demonstrating that recovery is working for millions of Americans. It is our collective strength that will ensure our success, and it is our mission to bring the power and proof of recovery to everyone in America. Goals Faces & Voices of Recovery is a national organization of individuals and organizations joining together to supports local, state, regional and national recovery advocacy by increasing acce... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3223493 Sat, 30 Jan 2010 11:10:26 +0100 3223493 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3208696&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fguiding-principles-of-recovery%2F Rays of hope from Recovery Summit Martin Nicolaus has written a great post on professionals finally trying to define recovery. A Recovery Summit under the auspices of the US Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) convened and its report has now been released. These principles of recovery can be applied to 12 Step Fellowships, (alcoholism, addiction, co-dependency, ACOA, mental illness) and any group or 1-on-1 therapy that includes some form of self-help / mutual-help. These were called “Guiding Principles” of recovery. The principles of recovery are; There are many pathways to recovery. Recovery is self-directed and empowering. Recovery involves a personal recognition of the need for change and transformation. Recovery is holistic. Recovery has cult... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3208696 Mon, 25 Jan 2010 15:28:36 +0100 3208696 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3208697&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fmy-12-step-sponsor%2F A Sponsor is a more experienced member in the recovery program who guides the newcomer through the process of recovery. In 12-Step circles, it is suggested that a sponsor should be of the same gender (unless gay or lesbian). The newcomer to the program is quite vulnerable; for some of us this is the first time we have expressed our true feelings, our secrets or our fears.  Experience has shown that this new relationship with a member of the opposite gender could be misinterpreted and if acted upon could reduce chances for sustained recovery for both parties.  It also will help to avoid gender based communication problems. A Sponsor Helps an Alcoholic and, Should have A working knowledge of the 12 steps and 12 traditions, Personal experiences dealing with life in recovery, A willingness ... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3208697 Mon, 25 Jan 2010 15:18:35 +0100 3208697 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3189414&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FRecoveryIsSexycom%2F%7E3%2F6yp9ytTXQ5I%2F It is important to put the responsibility for dealing with the alcohol problem squarely on the person in question while continuing to love him or her. What works depends on the individual. Doing the “right” thing can depend on how severe the alcohol problem is and on how in touch with it the person in question seems to be. What works for someone who is highly functional in daily life and who knows that alcohol is causing trouble, for instance, may not be the solution for someone who denies that there is a problem. Don’t make it easy for the drinker to keep on drinking Discontinuing “enabling,” along with putting the onus for the drinker’s behavior and its consequences on the drinker. Do not cover up for them. Let them be responsible for their actions. Accept yo... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3189414 Tue, 19 Jan 2010 05:14:00 +0100 3189414 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3167455&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FRecoveryIsSexycom%2F%7E3%2FJNokJCrScI8%2F This study examined systematically how predictors of substance use disorder (SUD) treatment outcome worked together over time and identified mediators and moderators of outcome. Design The MacArthur model was applied in this naturalistic study to identify how baseline, discharge and [...] (Source: Recovery Is Sexy.com) Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3167455 Tue, 12 Jan 2010 18:59:27 +0100 3167455 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3153650&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FRecoveryIsSexycom%2F%7E3%2FQhE9pUK_mtU%2F The biggest obstacle to treatment of alcoholism is getting the alcoholic to break through the denial that is a hallmark of this condition (Source: Recovery Is Sexy.com) Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3153650 Thu, 07 Jan 2010 13:08:02 +0100 3153650 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3149328&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fhelping-other-alcoholics-helps%2F Those who were helping were significantly less likely to relapse in the year following treatment, independent of the number of AA meetings attended. (Source: Recovery Is Sexy.com) Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3149328 Wed, 06 Jan 2010 19:14:19 +0100 3149328 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3136718&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FRecoveryIsSexycom%2F%7E3%2FYNki-y1FF94%2F Relapse is not total failure; its only a stage Failure rates to comply with treatment for alcoholism do not differ significantly from other chronic diseases. People with disease such as diabetes, asthma and hypertension frequently fail to comply with treatment. (Lewis 2002) Relapse can range from a return to chronic heavy drinking to binge drinking, to a [...] (Source: Recovery Is Sexy.com) Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3136718 Sat, 02 Jan 2010 16:11:27 +0100 3136718 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3133807&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fhow-does-alcoholism-treatment-work%2F Does Treatment and Self-help Work? Alcoholism can be treated similarly to other chronic diseases such as hypertension, diabetes and asthma in adults. There are a variety of treatment options, depending on the individual’s particular situation and needs. Clinical studies have repeatedly found that treatment substantially reduces drinking among alcoholics. Many alcoholics, like individuals with other illnesses, need to use a variety of services to treat their illnesses. Even if people with alcoholism relapse during their treatment, their lives, their families, their workplace and society at large benefit for as long as they remain abstinent. Largely due to the success of Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) and other voluntary recovery organizations, some alcoholics recover without medical treatment... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3133807 Thu, 31 Dec 2009 12:51:43 +0100 3133807 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3126797&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fhelping-alcoholics%2F Seeking Help Could Quadruple the Likelihood of Abstinence To quantify the effect of help seeking on recovery from alcoholism, researchers in the United States analyzed data from 4,422 adults who had participated in a nationally representative survey and developed alcohol dependence at least 1 year before their participation. Only 26 percent of subjects had ever sought help for their alcohol problems; 3 percent participated in a 12-step program only, 6 percent in formal treatment only, and 17 percent in both.  Help seekers drank more and had higher lifetime prevalence’s of other drug use, mood disorders, and personality disorders than did subjects who had not sought help. In analyses adjusted for potential confounders, help seeking significantly increased the likelihood of ... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3126797 Tue, 29 Dec 2009 10:50:58 +0100 3126797 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3115295&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FRecoveryIsSexycom%2F%7E3%2FjgFPsUsw_tw%2F Conclusion: Alcoholism interferes on an individual’s hearing and balance, causing harmful effects on the human organism. Marcieli Bellé, Sílvia do Amaral Sartori, Angela, Garcia Rossi. BRAZILIAN JOURNAL OF OTORHINOLARYNGOLOGY 73 (1) JANUARY/FEBRUARY 2007. Related Reading: Share/Save (Source: Recovery Is Sexy.com) Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3115295 Wed, 23 Dec 2009 11:12:34 +0100 3115295 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3083196&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fsober-companions%2F Everyday people in recovery often turn to support groups or an Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) sponsor when they face a possible relapse, but some celebrities and other wealthy addicts are turning to paid “sober companions” to help maintain their sobriety, the New York Times reported April 15. Sober companions like Ronnie Kaplan, a former addict and ex-con, [...] (Source: Recovery Is Sexy.com) Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3083196 Sat, 12 Dec 2009 16:13:00 +0100 3083196 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3056896&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FRecoveryIsSexycom%2F%7E3%2FJ4WKW-Q19JE%2F Reach for the sky with AA AA is free. AA is available near your home. Maybe even within walking distance! AA is available every day – several times per day in most cities. AA wants to support you and sponsor you. AA will be there for you if you are there for AA. AA sponsors have been there and know exactly where you are at. AA works for many people (if you give it half a chance and don’t fight it too much). AA points to the way out of a life of shame by insisting that you accept yourself in increasingly deeper ways. Mark Dombeck More at Mental Help Net Related Reading: Share/Save (Source: Recovery Is Sexy.com) Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3056896 Wed, 02 Dec 2009 11:35:33 +0100 3056896 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3037092&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fa-sick-cycle-of-dependency%2F Healthy Dependency Being dependent on others almost comes natural when we are in a state of confusion. We seek others opinions, beliefs, and advice. What others say, if we place them in a position of authority, becomes “The Word.” Unfortunately, the advice and opinion of the other person, is really a form of “approval” that we seek. The “approval” we seek is not healthy for the relationship. It forms a relationship of “one up and one down” (someone higher or a “step above” us). Doing Too Much To Cover Up Our Needs Unfortunately, no one can really give you advice as a prescription to your situation. Because no one really knows you, and knows ALL your history, and you ENTIRE situation. But because of alcoholism or in fact, anything ... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3037092 Sun, 29 Nov 2009 11:22:00 +0100 3037092 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2934953&cid=t_383100_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Fwhat-is-codependence-%25e2%2580%2593-a-room-of-mama%25e2%2580%2599s-own%2F The Isolation of Codependency What Is Codependence? – From A Room of Mama’s Own. ….. But codependence (or codependency) is harder to define and to recognize. After all,   codependents can seem, to themselves and others, like hapless victims, in the wrong place at the wrong time. Or they can be perceived (especially by the codependent) as doing good work rather than harm, because the harm they are doing is largely to themselves. But if addiction is an unhealthy attempt to escape trauma, codependence is an unhealthy attempt at damage control. More at; A Room of Mama’s Own. Related Reading: Share/Save (Source: Recovery Is Sexy.com) Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2934953 Wed, 28 Oct 2009 03:25:39 +0100 2934953