MedWorm provides a medical RSS filtering service. Over 6000 RSS medical sources are combined and output via different filters. This feed contains the latest medical blog items that have been tagged with 'experiences'. Sat, 03 Sep 2011 01:55:58 +0100 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=5174665&cid=t_123837_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2011%2F08%2F29%2Fbeliefs-about-memory-interview-with-dan-simons%2F In a recent survey of the U.S. population, researchers Daniel Simons and Christopher Chabris assessed common beliefs about memory.  They found that common beliefs are often incongruent with scientific findings.  Recently I had an opportunity to ask Simons about some of the implications of the survey. What motivated this survey on understanding memory? Our goal in conducting the study was to supplement the research we had done for our book, The Invisible Gorilla. The book focuses on everyday illusions, cases in which people’s intuitive beliefs about how the mind works are faulty. In writing the book, we realized that nobody had ever conducted a national survey to measure how pervasive those beliefs are. Our PLoS One paper reports the results from a subset of the items in the survey,... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=5174665 Mon, 29 Aug 2011 11:53:28 +0100 5174665 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=5159203&cid=t_123837_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2011%2F08%2F23%2Fbest-of-our-blogs-august-23-2011%2F Every once in awhile, I like to snoop around my old diaries. Besides personally being one of the best non-fiction reads to me, it gives good insight into who I was and potentially who I will be. One of the jewels of wisdom I recently picked up from a 7 year old Winnie the Pooh journal contained information on my state of mind at the time. The details are not important. But the general feeling of that entire year was one of heartache and confusion. There was this sense of longing, emptiness, a feeling that whatever I was going through was not only uncomfortable, but unfair. I even wrote: “When I’m 50, I’ll probably look back on this moment and it will be a fleeting and insignificant memory. But right now, I’m having a hard time with it.” I smiled reading it bec... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=5159203 Tue, 23 Aug 2011 11:39:33 +0100 5159203 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=5086171&cid=t_123837_87_f&fid=39187&url=http%3A%2F%2Fgetbetterhealth.com%2Fnew-program-at-usf-health-hopes-to-mold-more-empathetic-physicians%2F2011.08.01 Can we teach empathy to the next generation of physicians?  The University of South Florida Health thinks so and they’re putting it on the line this week with the launch of the SELECT program, a new curriculum intended to “put empathy, communication and creativity back into doctoring.” The SELECT (Scholarly Excellence. Leadership Experiences. Collaborative Training.) program will offer 19 select students unique training in leadership development as well as the scholarly tools needed to become physician leaders and catalysts for change. During their first week on campus, instead of the old-style medical school tradition of heading to the gross anatomy lab, SELECT students are immersed in leadership training centered in empathy and other core principles of patient-centered care. The h... Better Health blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=5086171 Mon, 01 Aug 2011 12:00:15 +0100 5086171 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=5086260&cid=t_123837_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2011%2F07%2F31%2Fsometimes-im-tempted-to-fight-my-new-passion%2F For the last month or so, I’ve been possessed with a passionate interest in the sense of smell. I follow the resolution to cultivate good smells — I’ve read lots of books, I’ve started disciplining myself to be more aware of the smells that I encounter in my day, I’ve been eliminating sources of bad smell in my home (a very worthwhile endeavor, by the way), and I’ve also become interested in perfume. I’ve never had much interest in perfume, but suddenly I am, because so much of the energy and writing around the subject of smell is related to perfume. I’m newly fascinated by perfume, but I’m also fascinated by my own process of becoming fascinated. As Virginia Woolf noted in her Diary: “I must remember to write about my clothes next time I have an impulse to write. M... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=5086260 Sun, 31 Jul 2011 11:39:58 +0100 5086260 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=5077769&cid=t_123837_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2011%2F07%2F29%2Fbest-of-our-blogs-july-29-2011%2F I think I was about 10 years old when I was astounded by my teacher writing the word “ass” on the chalkboard. She asked the class, “Do you know what assume means? It’s to make an ass out of you and me.” I didn’t get it until years later. But the phrase stuck with me. I think about it every time I wrongly assume an ambivalent email is a slight or a lack of a response is a rejection. Unconsciously, I take one misunderstanding and assume the worse. As Alanis Morissette says in her song So Unsexy, “One forgotten phone call and I’m deflated.” Often our assumptions trigger something in us that makes us feel less than. Mark Lesser of Accomplishing More by Doing Less says triggers, “can be survival patterns from past experiences, or habit... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=5077769 Fri, 29 Jul 2011 11:22:06 +0100 5077769 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4968580&cid=t_123837_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2011%2F06%2F24%2Fintroducing-panic-about-anxiety%2F Lots of people experience panic attacks. For some people, it can get so bad that they also get agoraphobia — the fear of leaving one’s house. So I’m happy to introduce Panic About Anxiety with Summer Beretsky, a blog that will explore panic, agoraphobia and even topics about general anxiety in upcoming entries. If you’re not familiar with Summer, you can check out her archives at the World of Psychology blog. She is a graduate of the University of Delaware, where she received her Master of Arts degree in Communication. She enjoys writing about her experiences with anxiety, panic, and Paxil. She contributes to the World of Psychology blog here on PsychCentral and has written for the Los Angeles Times. You can follow her on Twitter @summerberetsky. You can read more about her here. W... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4968580 Fri, 24 Jun 2011 14:34:41 +0100 4968580 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4952986&cid=t_123837_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2011%2F06%2F21%2Fbest-of-our-blogs-june-21-2011%2F Today is my dad’s birthday. And in honor of his birthday and belated Father’s Day, I’m posting an old post I wrote for him and in honor of all dads out there… Perhaps the greatest evidence of age comes in comparison to those around you.  When I was big enough to walk, but small enough to need daddy’s hand to hold, the world was still young and so was he and I.  Big hands to cover tiny fingers were what security embodied looked like.  I needed him for support and he willingly obliged.  As I got older, my father would run past me calling me “slowpoke” because I would always fall behind. I remember our weekly walks to the neighborhood park where I would stare at his feet gigantic in comparison to mine.  To walk beside him I needed to take double steps to his... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4952986 Tue, 21 Jun 2011 11:10:26 +0100 4952986 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4921521&cid=t_123837_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2011%2F06%2F09%2Fhow-our-intuitions-deceive-us-part-2-interview-with-daniel-simons%2F In part one of this interview, we began exploring the limits of human perception with Daniel Simons, a Psychology professor and co-winner of an Ig Noble prize.  This conversation is part two of that discussion. Assuming you can name only one, what is one of the most popular myths associated with attention? How about one for memory? We assume that we will automatically notice anything that appears before our eyes, regardless of what else we’re doing.  But, in reality, we’re only aware of a tiny subset of the world around us, and our awareness depends critically on the focus of our attention. Without focusing our attention, we can look without seeing.  We tend to miss unexpected objects and events because they do not attract our attention. And, without our attention, we don&#8... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4921521 Thu, 09 Jun 2011 10:15:05 +0100 4921521 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4893554&cid=t_123837_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2011%2F06%2F03%2F6-tips-for-battling-loneliness%2F The more I’ve learned about happiness, the more I’ve come to believe that loneliness is a terrible, common, and important obstacle to consider. A while back, after reading John Cacioppo’s fascinating book Loneliness, I posted Some counter-intuitive facts about loneliness, and several people responded by asking, “Okay, but what do I do about it? What steps can I take to feel less lonely?” I recently finished another fascinating book, Lonely — a memoir by Emily White, about her own experiences and research into loneliness. White doesn’t attempt to give specific advice about how to combat loneliness, but from her book, I gleaned these strategies… 1. Remember that although the distinction can be difficult to draw, loneliness and solitude are dif... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4893554 Fri, 03 Jun 2011 20:22:22 +0100 4893554 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4734715&cid=t_123837_180_f&fid=38612&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2Fpickthebrain%2FLYVv%2F%7E3%2FjQGcsv9ocjM%2F Many of us go through life without truly living it. Jonathan Swift once said; “There are only few who live today, most of us live tomorrow”. I have mostly lived in tomorrow, always looking forward, aiming for my goals. Many times I have let my happiness and well being today slide so that I can produce results that will benefit me in the future. Find Balance I wrote about this in depth in an earlier post here at Pick The Brain: How to find Balance in Life but I want to mention it here since it is an important subject. If you cannot balance your needs of today with the needs of tomorrow you will not be able to focus 100% on your goals and you won’t be able to continuously produce high quality results. How I try to Increase “daily living” As I said I have had a lot of problems focus... PickTheBrain | Motivation and Self Improvement blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4734715 Thu, 21 Apr 2011 06:08:50 +0100 4734715 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4664230&cid=t_123837_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fweb.me.com%2Ftomasulo1%2FDanTomasulo.com%2FAppearances___Contact_files%2FDavid_Harp_DanDuetEtc_3-11.mov “I play the harmonica.  The only way I can play is if I get my car going really fast and stick it out the window.” ~Stephen Wright “Live as if you were to die tomorrow.  Learn as if you were to live forever.” ~Mahatma Gandhi David Harp is the Rosetta Stone of the harmonica.  He has taught over a million people how to play, and holds the world’s record for teaching the most people to play at one time (2,569).  How does he do it? Mindfulness.  Because that’s what he’s really interested in… If you’re like me you probably have at least one, if not two cheap harmonicas lying in the bottom of your closet or in the back of a drawer someplace.  When you see them you take them out of the box, lick your lips, wail unskillfully until you’re out of breath,... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4664230 Thu, 31 Mar 2011 10:00:11 +0100 4664230 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4554651&cid=t_123837_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2011%2F03%2F06%2Fpsychiatry-doesnt-do-psychotherapy-anymore%2F Despite a trend that started as early as the late 1980s, Gardiner Harris writing in The New York Times yesterday seems to bemoan the fact that most psychiatrists don’t practice psychotherapy any longer. Perhaps Harris should have interviewed Dr. Danny Carlat, who nearly a year ago wrote about his experiences as a modern psychiatrist (in the The New York Times Magazine, no less). Psychiatrists nowadays are generally poorly trained in psychotherapy, so they spend most of their time prescribing psychiatric medications. (Dr. Carlat’s book, Unhinged is well worth the read for further background about modern psychiatry.) So I wasn’t sure why I was reading this in the “Money and Policy” section of the Times. Surely it’s not news that psychiatry is no longer pra... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4554651 Sun, 06 Mar 2011 17:16:39 +0100 4554651 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4549779&cid=t_123837_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2011%2F03%2F04%2Fbest-of-our-blogs-march-4-2011%2F Life is a work in progress. When I think about who I was 10 years ago, that girl was barely distinguishable from who stands before me today. Ever read an old journal and feel astonished by who you were? I feel the same way. I was lost, confused and did not know who I was or who I wanted to be. I was a slave to my emotions and my experiences. I let others create the road in front of me and define my worth. While I have grown a lot since then, I am still a work in progress. I don’t know where you are on your journey, but if you are struggling to get to where you want to be in your life, I hope a few of these top posts this week will bring you solace. It takes a lot to get to your goals. You may be dealing with depression, body image issues or struggling with your own self-identity. If ... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4549779 Fri, 04 Mar 2011 12:44:20 +0100 4549779 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4450334&cid=t_123837_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2011%2F02%2F08%2Fbest-of-our-blogs-february-8-2011%2F From where I am sitting, the view is great. The sun is shining. It is 70 degrees. There is a light breeze and a warm summer vibe in the air. Yet regardless of what the weather is outside, when mental illness is an issue, what is going on inside carries more weight. Did you ever get exciting news — you got the job you wanted, your boyfriend proposed, or you found out you were having a baby — and felt wonderful despite the rain pelting on the windowsill? Or in contrast, have you ever felt horrible even when it was warm and summery outside? If you are suffering from Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD), then the weather outside can dictate your mood. But for those who don’t experience SAD, there are moments, experiences and hardship that impact us regardless of our external sit... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4450334 Tue, 08 Feb 2011 12:05:40 +0100 4450334 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4338024&cid=t_123837_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2011%2F01%2F11%2Fbest-of-our-blogs-january-11-2011%2F Today is 1/11/11. Maybe for you, it will be a day filled with firsts. The first time you sought therapy. The first step you took towards healing yourself. The first time you realized how far you’ve come and how much you have achieved towards your goals and your mental health. If so, I hope you will celebrate these firsts and remember them when times get tough. Because ever year brings with it a new challenge, an obstacle we didn’t foresee and with it an opportunity for self-growth and a chance for a better more balanced life. When that opportunity comes, will you take it? For me, I’ve finally come home. The holidays are over. And instead of being surrounded by the voices of my family members, I’m here sitting back at my home in silence. This Christmas was as chaotic... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4338024 Tue, 11 Jan 2011 19:02:06 +0100 4338024 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4302887&cid=t_123837_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2011%2F01%2F01%2F2011-the-power-of-positive-being%2F Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible. ~Dalai Lama Last year I began the Proof Positive blog here at Psych Central. The goal was to review the best research in positive psychology and offer applications from this research for everyday use. All of the techniques for promoting wellbeing and happiness were drawn from the research literature, and I experimented with each of them. Some had more power that others, and some were more difficult to maintain. But overall there was a clear, strong, positive shift not only in my way of thinking, but also in the degree of positive experiences noted, encountered, and received. This is not to say that the miserable things that come with being human stopped happening, or the sorrows and grief from losses weren’t there; they certainly were. B... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4302887 Sat, 01 Jan 2011 15:01:17 +0100 4302887 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4272359&cid=t_123837_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2010%2F12%2F20%2Fsavoring-2010%2F Resolutions — figuring out how to improve and move on — are fine. But resolutions snap us into the mindset of getting on with our lives, thinking about how we’d like to be, and glancing forward toward happiness. But there are new words in town. The positive psychology movement is all about savoring and flourishing. We know that negative thoughts seem to be stronger than positive thoughts and the tipping point in building up a critical mass for positivity is about 3 to 1 in favor of more positive thoughts. At that point there is a shift in our brain and perception toward looking for, and savoring, positive thoughts and experiences. When we do this we flourish. Savoring allows us to linger on the too-short-lived positive experiences that we have. The future always seems to be... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4272359 Mon, 20 Dec 2010 11:20:59 +0100 4272359 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4251148&cid=t_123837_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2010%2F12%2F11%2F8-tips-to-stop-holding-a-grudge%2F I loved these bits of advice from Beliefnet’s Renita Williams. We all have experienced hurt and pain in our lives. Sometimes we are exposed to experiences so painful that they leave marks that are difficult to heal-especially if we feel somone has wronged us or harmed us. 1. Acknowledge the problem Figure out what it is that’s causing you to hold a grudge. You have to know what the problem is in order to solve it. When you allow yourself to see the real issue you can then make a choice to move forward from there. 2. Share your feelings. A grudge can form when an issue isn’t fully confronted. Without being judgmental about yourself or another, clarify your feelings on the situation. Then, decide if this is something you will work on in your own heart or by contacting the ... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4251148 Sat, 11 Dec 2010 13:45:41 +0100 4251148 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4179360&cid=t_123837_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2010%2F11%2F18%2Fone-third-of-a-college-class-caught-cheating%2F I must be getting old. When I was in college, and then again in graduate school, there was a simple expectation. I was there to learn, the university was there to help me learn. They do that through centuries’ old methods — teaching in classrooms, testing on that material, and occasionally having some hands-on experiences in the laboratory or on computers. This isn’t rocket science (unless you’re studying rocket science). So why was I so surprised when I watched the video (linked to below) where a professor teaching a management class discovered a statistical anomaly while grading his classes’ midterm exams. His startling findings? Rampant cheating. Because a kind of amnesty was offered to the class of 530 students, over 200 students eventually admitted to ... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4179360 Thu, 18 Nov 2010 22:49:27 +0100 4179360 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4133835&cid=t_123837_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2010%2F11%2F02%2Fbest-of-our-blogs-november-2-2010%2F Something I both admire and enjoy about our Facebook community is how honest everyone has been about their experiences. Besides divulging their feelings on everything from Seasonal Affective Disorder to the holidays (Yay or Bah Humbug!), many of our fans have comforted each other, provided tips and shared their own personal stories and life lessons that got them through some tough times. It’s just a reminder of how much we all go through on a daily basis, how important compassion is and how influential a community can have on the lives of individuals. Pretty powerful stuff! With that being said, I’d like to thank our Facebook community, blog commenters, and Twitter followers. And hopefully return the support and love with these fabulous five posts. It’s all about betterin... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4133835 Tue, 02 Nov 2010 11:30:58 +0100 4133835 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4119126&cid=t_123837_111_f&fid=36048&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FAHeartyLife%2F%7E3%2Fry4iUSydPNg%2F The Final Frontier — Do near-death experiences really happen? (via NPR) Post from: BlissTree (Source: A Hearty Life) A Hearty Life blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4119126 Tue, 26 Oct 2010 20:23:12 +0100 4119126 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4013260&cid=t_123837_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2010%2F09%2F28%2Fbest-of-our-blogs-september-28-2010%2F I just got back from a trip I took for a few weeks to London and Paris. Before you hate me, let me tell you that the trip was filled with challenges. From our hotel “losing” our reservations to getting sick, it was not the relaxing vacation I was expecting. That being said, it was also one of the best trips I ever had. Why? It reminded me that the idea of a retreat or vacation from reality is a temporary fix. Your problems do follow you wherever you go and can be a microcosm of your real life. Although taking a break is a necessity for our mental health, it should not be perceived as an escape or a cure for what’s really ailing us. In the end, it gave me the insight to see that I didn’t need to wait for big vacations and once-in-a-lifetime opportunities to change my... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4013260 Tue, 28 Sep 2010 11:23:58 +0100 4013260 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3994249&cid=t_123837_136_f&fid=37857&url=http%3A%2F%2Flifedancegirl.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F09%2Fblue-sportjacket.html "So, I tell you, don't worry about everyday life - whether you have enough food, drink, and clothes. Doesn't life consist of more than food and clothing? Look at the birds. They don't need to plant or harvest or put food in barns because your heavenly Father feeds them. And you are far more valuable to him than they are. Can all your worries add a single moment to your life? Of course not. And why worry about your clothes? Look at the lilies and how they grow. They don't work or make their clothing, yet Solomon in all his glory was not dressed as beautifully as they are. And if God cares so wonderfully for flowers that are here today and gone tomorrow, won't he more surely care for you? You have so little faith! So don't worry about having food or drink or clothing. Why be like the pagans ... The Dance of Life blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3994249 Thu, 23 Sep 2010 15:45:00 +0100 3994249 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3911740&cid=t_123837_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2010%2F08%2F27%2Fbest-of-our-blogs-august-27-2010%2F The other day I was driving when I heard a familiar song playing on the radio. It was Bob Marley’s Buffalo Soldier. In fact, as I type this I can hear it playing in my head. The funny thing is that the sound automatically took me back to my childhood. My cousins and I were sitting in someone’s living room. The radio was playing. That song was on. And my older cousin was sitting on this huge comfy chair while the rest of us kids were sitting on the ground. Why do I remember this seemingly mundane event? My cousin spontaneously began belting out the song, dancing to the beat and being as silly as a kid can be. We rolled on the floor and laughed until our sides hurt. It was a memorable moment. We were young, spontaneous and free. How does this relate to this week’s top post... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3911740 Fri, 27 Aug 2010 12:25:50 +0100 3911740 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3865305&cid=t_123837_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2010%2F08%2F13%2Fapa-brief-problem-child-affects-parents-well-being%2F A report from the American Psychological Association’s annual meeting this week suggests that parents’ well-being is negatively impacted even when just one of their children experiences problems in their life. The researchers defined “problems in their life” as health problems, drinking or drug abuse problems, divorce or other serious relationship issues or trouble with the law. Having a successful child doesn’t counter-balance the impact of having a child with problems. However, those parents who had a successful child without problems did have better well-being than those who did not have such a child. Read the full article: Parents Worry over Kids of All Ages (Source: World of Psychology) World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3865305 Fri, 13 Aug 2010 17:00:48 +0100 3865305 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3763062&cid=t_123837_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FRecoveryIsSexycom%2F%7E3%2FYVpYR3ECRo0%2F Women in psychiatric care have a pronounced record of marks on their bodies that were inflicted during sexual relations. Researchers studied 30 women with alcoholic partners and noted body marks, duration of marks and if the marks were inflicted during love-making. These were then compared to women from the clinic with non-drinking sexual partners. Their ages, gender, ethnicity and social class were similar. Their findings indicate that the spouses of alcoholic men are subjected to more aggressive and painful sexual experiences, more body marks in more regions that lasted an average of 7 days and more biting of body surfaces than wives of non-alcohol-dependent men. These behaviours are interpreted as subtle signs of domestic violence. If you have these experiences please contact your docto... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3763062 Fri, 16 Jul 2010 15:10:00 +0100 3763062 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3758065&cid=t_123837_136_f&fid=37857&url=http%3A%2F%2Flifedancegirl.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F07%2Fmy-final-six-month-check-up.html Yesterday I had my regular six month check up with the oncologist, in the new Stronach Regional Cancer Centre in Newmarket. This was quite a change from the informal temporary offices of the oncologists. The foyer of the new centre reminded me of Sunnybrook Health Sevices Centre in Toronto. I had a flood of memories when I first entered the building until even after I had left.At the reception desk I stated my name and presented my health card. The receptionist confirmed my information and then took a photo of me with a small digital camera for my medical records. She gave me a form to fill out rating the severity of various symptoms and told me to go upstairs to the waiting area where a nurse would then call me.After several minutes a nurse approached me introducing herself, took my compl... The Dance of Life blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3758065 Thu, 15 Jul 2010 18:52:00 +0100 3758065 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3683597&cid=t_123837_87_f&fid=36050&url=http%3A%2F%2Fblisstree.com%2Flive%2Fhow-often-do-you-have-sex-poll-of-the-day%2F photo: Thinkstock We swear we’re not being pervy, we just want to know more about how women (and men) tick, and about our readers’ experiences with sex. You seemed to really like the poll we did about your favorite way to groom your bikini line. So taking a sex poll seems like the next natural step. And don’t worry – it’s all anonymous. (Did we mention that we’re not creepy?) We hope that however often you have sex, you do it safely. Oh, and if you’re feeling chatty, feel free to leave a comment below, too. (You don’t have to use your name there, either.) So now that you know we’re not sexually depraved sickos, let’s commence with some frank sex talk: #MicroPollDiv_262156 { width: 250px; margin: 0px auto; } Post from: BlissTree How ... Breastfeeding 1-2-3 blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3683597 Mon, 21 Jun 2010 16:27:19 +0100 3683597 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3648598&cid=t_123837_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2010%2F06%2F10%2Fintroducing-the-creative-mind%2F We were sorry to see Susan K. Perry of our Writer’s Mind blog leave after only a few short months blogging with us. By all accounts, people enjoyed her blog and I know I learned something about writing from her insights. But producing new and interesting blog entries week after week can sometimes be more work than people realize. (Trust me, I understand!) But as they say, when one door closes, another one opens. With that, I’m pleased to introduce our new blog on psychology and creativity, The Creative Mind, with Douglas Eby. The Creative Mind will explore some of the main emotional and psychological topics that can affect how well or how freely creative people are able to express themselves. Douglas hopes to cater this blog to both professionals and to anyone who may want to f... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3648598 Thu, 10 Jun 2010 15:30:41 +0100 3648598 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3644833&cid=t_123837_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2010%2F06%2F08%2Fmoney-impedes-our-ability-to-enjoy-the-little-pleasures-in-life%2F Researchers remain fascinated by the relationship between money and happiness. Perhaps it’s because of the observation that money alone doesn’t appear to “buy” happiness, unless you give it away or spend it for experiences more than for material things. A new study out last week (Quoidbach et al., 2010) suggests that money’s effects on our well being and happiness may be even more subtle than previously realized. Simply seeing a picture of money — which appears to prime our brains, increasing the concept of money at a level below awareness — seems to impede our ability to enjoy life’s little pleasures. How did the researchers arrive at such a stunning conclusion? The researchers conducted two experiments in order to test their hypotheses abo... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3644833 Tue, 08 Jun 2010 16:25:39 +0100 3644833 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3599492&cid=t_123837_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2010%2F05%2F25%2Fdoc-am-i-normal-yes%2F In conclusion, if you are experiencing any of these things, hang in there, it is a normal part of the human experience. If these things become more severe or difficult to cope with, or you want to learn how to master your individual experience with them, then counseling can be a great help. PS: I am back! - Will Meek, PhD (Source: World of Psychology) World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3599492 Tue, 25 May 2010 23:14:31 +0100 3599492 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3564029&cid=t_123837_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2010%2F05%2F13%2Fon-being-a-student-therapist-end-of-semester-reflections%2F It’s taken me a while to compose this last blog of the semester. How does one wrap up the teachings of 52 client sessions in just a few hundred words? Of course, by no means is this the end of my writings about my work, but the end of my practicum experience has arrived, and with it, thoughts and reflections on my first months as a counselor. When my supervisor gave me my end-of-the-semester review, she gave me a great compliment, saying that I “seem very comfortable in my skin” and how that is a great asset for a counselor. Of all the words of praise she had given me over the past few months, those meant the most. Years of my own therapeutic work got me to the place I am today, a place where I can be of most help to others. It has been a long, often difficult, but also rewarding jou... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3564029 Thu, 13 May 2010 16:30:12 +0100 3564029 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3480936&cid=t_123837_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FRecoveryIsSexycom%2F%7E3%2F3wCr6OWF6as%2F Remembering the good times helps alcoholics stay sober Recovering alcoholics who remember positive experiences in their past may be more successful in managing their addiction. This is the finding of a study by Sarah Davies and Professor Gail Kinman of the University of Bedfordshire that was presented on the 16th April 2010, at the British Psychological Society’s Annual Conference in Stratford-upon-Avon. A hundred and one members of Alcoholics Anonymous (53 per cent male) completed questionnaires that assessed the extent to which they were oriented towards the past, present or future, and whether this orientation was mostly positive or negative. They were also asked about their spiritual experiences, level of abstinence, compulsion to drink and anxiety. The results showed that problem... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3480936 Sun, 18 Apr 2010 04:04:12 +0100 3480936 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3475873&cid=t_123837_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2010%2F04%2F15%2Fintroducing-writers-mind%2F As an author, have you ever felt blocked by needing to finish another writing project and the creativity is just not flowing? Have you ever pursued an idea and begun writing it, only to find it petering out after awhile, and you don’t know how to get it back on track? Have you ever wondered what made a writer or author tick? Now you’ll have the opportunity to explore answers to these kinds of questions and so much more over at our newest blog, Writer’s Mind by Susan K. Perry. This blog intends to help shed light on the writing experience, sharing wisdom as well as practical advice from successful writers. Whether you’re an amateur or professional writer — or just someone who appreciates good writing as an avid reader — Writer’s Mind will pull back the curtain on ... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3475873 Thu, 15 Apr 2010 17:38:47 +0100 3475873 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3420538&cid=t_123837_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2010%2F03%2F30%2Fthe-trust-gap-why-people-are-so-cynical%2F How do people come to believe that others are so much less trustworthy than themselves? Much as we might prefer otherwise, there’s solid evidence that, on average, people are quite cynical. When thinking about strangers, studies have shown that people think others are more selfishly motivated than they really are and that others are less helpful than they really are. Similarly in financial games psychologists have run in the lab, people are remarkably cynical about the trustworthiness of others. In one experiment people honored the trust placed in them between 80 and 90 percent of the time, but only estimated that others would honor their trust about 50 percent of the time. Our cynicism towards strangers may develop as early as 7 years old (Mills & Keil, 2005). Surprisingly peop... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3420538 Tue, 30 Mar 2010 10:00:16 +0100 3420538 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3370472&cid=t_123837_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2010%2F03%2F16%2Flessons-learned-from-sxswi-2010%2F Since 1999, I’ve been attending the SXSW interactive conference off and on over the years. This year’s SXSWi conference (one leg of the annual three-leg SXSW interactive, film and music festival) was in some ways no different than in years past, but in other ways, way different (with its highest attendance yet — somewhere between 13,000 and 14,000 people). Here are a few tidbits of random insights from this year’s conference outing. 1. Keynotes are Key Conference-goers look forward to the keynotes. They are, by definition, the highlight of the day and sometimes of the entire conference. Keynotes cannot just be individuals promoting their own work, product or company (and believing the audience can generalize from this usually very-unique set of experiences). They ne... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3370472 Tue, 16 Mar 2010 17:33:07 +0100 3370472 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4281406&cid=t_123837_122_f&fid=36506&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FBrainSciencePodcastBlog%2F%7E3%2FV_I8_LqbhOE%2Fthomas-metzinger-explores-consciousness-bsp-67.html Discussion Forum or on our Facebook Fan Page or send email to gincampbell at mac dot com. (Source: the Brain Science Podcast and Blog with Dr. Ginger Campbell) the Brain Science Podcast and Blog with Dr. Ginger Campbell blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4281406 Tue, 09 Mar 2010 20:29:54 +0100 4281406 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3339811&cid=t_123837_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FRecoveryIsSexycom%2F%7E3%2FgkbsJj4w360%2F Keep the monkey off your back Relapse prevention – TOOLS OF RECOVERY MEETINGS: We attend Alcoholics Anonymous meetings to learn how the Program works, and to share our experiences, strengths, and hopes with others. In meetings we learn that our struggles and troubles are not unique, and we gain the hope and assurance that we can recover and grow. SHARING AT MEETINGS: Being honest and vulnerable in front of our peers is frightening but worth it. Many of us believe that we recover in direct proportion to our willingness to share at meetings. TELEPHONING: We use the phone to contact members of AA between meetings. DEVELOPING A SUPPORT SYSTEM: Meeting with other AA members over coffee to discuss our program shows that we are not alone and allows us to get another perspective on our probl... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3339811 Sat, 06 Mar 2010 12:52:52 +0100 3339811 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3327027&cid=t_123837_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2010%2F03%2F02%2Fmore-top-ten-online-psychology-experiments%2F After the publication of our 2008 top ten online psychology experiments list — which detailed the best psychological science research projects seeking online participants — we’re back with a follow-up. At any given time, hundreds of online psychology experiments are going on. They are a great, cost-efficient method to gather experimental data from the multitudes of people online. These experiments can be fun to try, but also provide researchers with valuable data that future research may be based upon. Here are all-new experiments as well as a couple of classics: 10. Sexual Infidelity. Can you guess who cheats, from listening to their voices? New research, with voices speaking vowels, and some facial images, too. Unfortunately, no results shared. 9. Daily News Memory Test... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3327027 Tue, 02 Mar 2010 19:10:34 +0100 3327027 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3318436&cid=t_123837_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2010%2F02%2F28%2Fbecome-a-contributor-to-world-of-psychology%2F Unbeknownst to some of you, World of Psychology welcomes guest contributors! Please send us your essays, commentary, opinion or rational (or sometimes irrational!) thoughts about anything in the world of psychology and mental health. This is a wonderful opportunity for the writers in our audience — professionals and laypeople alike — to share their point of view with our 1.1 million readers. Entries should be about a psychology or mental health topic (obviously), and be something that hasn’t been published online already a hundred times before. We’re especially interested in folks who are interested in recent research or news on a specific topic, and can bring their own background, experiences and insight to bear on that topic. World of Psychology is about opening u... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3318436 Sun, 28 Feb 2010 20:58:10 +0100 3318436 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3306898&cid=t_123837_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2010%2F02%2F24%2Fintroducing-adhd-in-focus%2F Attention deficit disorder is a serious mental health issue that affects the lives not only of children and teens, but millions of adults as well. So we’re pleased to announce the launch of our latest blog, ADHD In Focus, that will focus on topics in attention deficit disorder (ADHD). ADHD In Focus is hosted by Kathryn Goetzke. Kathryn is the driving force behind the non-profit organization for depression called iFred (the International Foundation for Research and Education on Depression). iFred is dedicated to encouraging research on depression and reducing the stigma associated with the disease. In addition to her incredible work on iFred, Kathryn is someone who actually battles attention deficit disorder, hence the reason she agreed to write for this blog. I’m proud to welcome h... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3306898 Wed, 24 Feb 2010 17:57:35 +0100 3306898 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3018972&cid=t_123837_87_f&fid=36050&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.blisstree.com%2Fbreastfeeding123%2Fbreastfeeding-experiences-in-the-hospital%2F Welcome to the November Carnival of Breastfeeding! This month mothers share their experiences of breastfeeding in the hospital. I rather prefer a home birth myself, so this time I’m leaving the job up to two mothers who wrote to me to share their experiences. At the end of these comments, check out the links to the other carnival participants! Newborn breastfeeding in the hospital. Photo courtesy of Daquella Manera Sutter Davis Hospital in Davis, California Stephanie Cassidy emailed me the following: I just wanted to say that my experience at Sutter Davis Hospital in Davis, CA was great! They are pro breast feeding and fully support it. The nurses are encouraging and lactation consultants are available to support and educate you. The thing I liked was that if you chose not to breastf... Breastfeeding 1-2-3 blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3018972 Sun, 22 Nov 2009 23:50:49 +0100 3018972 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3012331&cid=t_123837_83_f&fid=38215&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2Forthologbook%2F%7E3%2FjEZgL7kt8QI%2Fgoing-under-knife-to-mold-surgeon.html I must admit, I'm a bit compulsive and sometimes painstakingly freaked whenever one of my closest person get sick or is undergoing a surgical procedure. In our family, I'm the only medically inclined person. Being a go to medical guy in a family felt like a whooping responsibility. Yes it is. The three or four surgeries my mom and sis went through plus the numerous getting sick moments of other family members exact a heavy toll on my stress scale. Not even my MD could ever down play such effect. On the other hand, being an MD tips the balance towards near compulsion and attention to details. Why? Frankly, I don't know. Of course our training helps, especially in the part where you plaster an emotionless face to keep cool. I've mastered that art I can even harbor the burden of my patients... The Orthopedic Logbook blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3012331 Fri, 20 Nov 2009 08:25:00 +0100 3012331 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3012433&cid=t_123837_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2009%2F11%2F19%2Ftwo-new-blogs-always-learning-and-the-y-factor%2F I’m pleased to announce the introduction of two new blogs here in the Psych Central family. The first is from Leigh Pretnar Cousins, MS called Always Learning. Leigh is a private tutor and is studying in educational psychology. Although her blog will focus on the topic of educational psychology and learning, she believes these lessons are of value to all of us throughout life: Every day my work teaches me some lesson that holds, not only for kids, but for all of us. I can hardly wait to share these things with you. I’m excited to have this place to talk about learning and all its facets… Learning and school, learning and work, learning and emotions, learning and relationships, Learning and Life. I agree. Learning doesn’t stop just because we don’t go to school any ... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3012433 Thu, 19 Nov 2009 19:27:02 +0100 3012433 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2871980&cid=t_123837_136_f&fid=37857&url=http%3A%2F%2Flifedancegirl.blogspot.com%2F2009%2F10%2Fvictorian-birthday-tea.html A year ago I had emailed my sisters the idea of having a birthday tea for my fiftieth birthday. I was so overjoyed at having survived ovarian cancer, that I wanted this birthday to be a special celebration. I wanted to celebrate with the women and girls who have been a part of my life. I left the details up to my sisters, Gayle and Brenda, knowing they would have some good ideas.As the day grew closer I started to worry about where Gayle was going to put all the women if it rained, so I hoped and prayed for good weather. The other worry was what she was going to do with her large dog. When I inquired about the dog I was told not to worry and "Don't ask any questions".My mom and daughter Joy went on ahead to help Gayle and Brenda set up and greet the guests. My husband Dan and I were to arr... The Dance of Life blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2871980 Wed, 07 Oct 2009 13:58:00 +0100 2871980 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2842725&cid=t_123837_133_f&fid=35124&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2Faspergerwoman%2F%7E3%2FjGN8yfCjN08%2Fit-was-fine.html The first date in years has resulted in a very nice meeting between two people. Yes, the magic click was there. We had plenty to talk of and afterwards there were another 1000 questions to ask him. So, we decided to take things slow and become good friends... After a week of intense emotions it feels good life returns to normal, however I must say my daily structure and inner rest has been disturbed in a strange way by all this. No one will take away yesterdays experiences, whatever the future might bring. Between butterflies and both feet on the ground. Yes, he knows about my ASD and understands. It was very sweet of him to tell me when he noticed I wanted to be on my own for a while at the end of the date. He told me he could see that on my face....That is good! Meanwhile several pro... The Art of Being Asperger Woman blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2842725 Mon, 28 Sep 2009 08:21:00 +0100 2842725 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2745607&cid=t_123837_136_f&fid=37857&url=http%3A%2F%2Flifedancegirl.blogspot.com%2F2009%2F08%2Flife-goes-on.html "Life goes on" can be said with a heavy heart that is burdened with cares; but I choose to say "Life goes on" as a declaration of praise! I recently had another 6 month checkup with the oncologist. My CA 125 count is 7 (normal is 0 - 35); it was originally 4095 when I was diagnosed with Stage 3 ovarian cancer in September 2007. My next followup appointment with be in January 2010.It is as if I have re-entered my life anew as a wife, mother and homemaker. I have a greater desire to live my life in a purposeful and organized manner. I want to rid my home of the unnecessary items that can accumulate over time. By nature I am a pack rat, but that is due to my desire to be prepared for any eventuality that could possibly occur!These are some of the ways that I have culled; organized; and made u... The Dance of Life blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2745607 Sat, 29 Aug 2009 13:36:00 +0100 2745607 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2734092&cid=t_123837_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2009%2F08%2F26%2Fwhat-is-normal-eating%2F Today, the definition of normal eating is blurry. It’s gotten lost amid buzz words like “diet,” “restriction,” “willpower” and “flat abs.” It’s sandwiched between the sizable stacks of “shoulds”: I should diet. I should abstain from dessert. I should count calories. I should avoid “bad” foods. I should have an invisible stomach, smaller hips and thin thighs. While reading Purge: Rehab Diaries (stay tuned for the review) by Nicole Johns, about the author’s experiences in an eating disorder center, I came across the following definition of normal eating. It was created by Ellyn Satter, an expert on eating and feeding. Satter writes: “Normal eating is going to the table hungry and eating until you are satisfied. It is being able to choose food you like and eat... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2734092 Wed, 26 Aug 2009 12:14:32 +0100 2734092 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2452705&cid=t_123837_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2009%2F06%2F04%2Fresearch-participate-in-an-online-support-group%2F This study will involve joining and taking part in an online support group as well as filling in questionnaires online about how you are feeling. Study participant requirements: The study is looking for participants who are Over 18 years old Live in the UK Are experiencing stress, depression, anxiety or similar mental health concern Have an interest in joining an online support group. Interested? Learn more: Online support group research (Source: World of Psychology) World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2452705 Thu, 04 Jun 2009 19:50:15 +0100 2452705 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2453061&cid=t_123837_136_f&fid=37857&url=http%3A%2F%2Flifedancegirl.blogspot.com%2F2009%2F06%2Fmementos-of-hope.html "Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but a longing fulfilled is a tree of life." Proverbs 13:12 (NIV)Recently, I noticed again the many mementos of "Hope" that others had given me while I was undergoing treatment for ovarian cancer. My mind went back to the times when hope was needed to carry me through and to continue trusting in God for healing.My sisters had designed a beige baseball cap with the word "Hope" embroidered on it for the first "mini-walk of hope" they had organized. The "O" is a stylized sunflower, which is the symbol of Ovarian Cancer Canada. http://www.ovariancanada.org/ I now wear this hat when I do yard work.At the suggestion of a blog reader, my sisters had contacted "The Lydia Project" and arranged for them to send me one of their bags. Mine is a small fabric bag with... The Dance of Life blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2453061 Wed, 03 Jun 2009 15:45:00 +0100 2453061 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2405966&cid=t_123837_136_f&fid=37857&url=http%3A%2F%2Flifedancegirl.blogspot.com%2F2009%2F05%2Fday-goat-rode-shotgun.html It was a late spring afternoon leading up to Easter. We were living on a hundred acre farm in a little house on a hill. We rented two of the acres including the house, while the remaining acreage was rented by farmers for cash crops. The neighbour to the north had a hundred acre farm with cattle and a dog kennel business. The neighbour across the road had an estate home on a large acreage with a horse barn and arena for English riding. The property to the south had been subdivided into four with a shared access to a private airstrip.Two of my children were at school, while the youngest was having his afternoon nap. I was sitting in the living room when I thought I heard an animal’s cry. I opened up the front door, which we rarely used, and stepped out onto the concrete porch. I looked ar... The Dance of Life blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2405966 Thu, 14 May 2009 17:08:00 +0100 2405966 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2376218&cid=t_123837_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2009%2F04%2F28%2Fwhen-you-disclose-too-much-in-therapy%2F A normal part of the psychotherapy process is something therapists call “disclosure.” This is simply your telling the therapist your thoughts, feelings, and experiences, which is a normal process of most types of psychotherapy. Sometimes, though, we have thoughts or feelings which are very near and dear to our hearts, or feelings or experiences that we are deeply embarrassed about. When we share such experiences or feelings in therapy, we might feel like we have “disclosed too much.” And once you let the cat out of the proverbial bag, it’s hard to know how to continue on in the therapeutic relationship. Disclosing “too much,” however, is not that uncommon an experience. The psychotherapy relationship is an odd one, the kind of relationship that you... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2376218 Tue, 28 Apr 2009 18:00:34 +0100 2376218 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2348544&cid=t_123837_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2009%2F04%2F16%2Fyoga-therapy-on-the-rise%2F Midweek Mental Greening (Yes, it’s Thursday.) “Since the days of Freud, research into the mind-body relationship has come a long way. Studies show that not only are your mental health and mood dependent in large part on physical factors like exercise, but also unchecked stress, anxiety and depression can affect physical health, increasing blood pressure, heart disease and even risk of death. So it was perhaps inevitable that patients would start bringing their yoga mats into therapy.” I’d planned on writing about something completely different today, but when I ran into this Time article on psychotherapy and yoga, I couldn’t resist rearranging the schedule – especially as we just talked about yoga last week. According to the article, yoga-therapy – which “is to... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2348544 Thu, 16 Apr 2009 17:46:27 +0100 2348544 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2313543&cid=t_123837_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2009%2F04%2F06%2Fnegative-anticipation-set-up-for-worry%2F Last night I was worried about a work thing that I felt less than ideally prepared for. Some parts were fine, but others worked against my weaknesses. In short, I was pretty worried. When I went in to work, it all went better than I expected. Some bumps in the road, but it was a great learning experience with good support. I knew this in my head going in, but I was still worried. And I was still somewhat worried about doing it the next time. So if my logic tells me it’s likely to be OK, why did I still get so worried? Worrying is feeling anxious about something that could or will happen in the future. The emotion usually includes fear of either something specific or of the unknown. Your heart beats faster, you might feel sweaty, and you often feel a sense of physical tension in your ... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2313543 Mon, 06 Apr 2009 13:55:00 +0100 2313543 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2313547&cid=t_123837_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2009%2F04%2F03%2Fhow-easily-is-your-memory-manipulated%2F You may be surprised to learn that it’s easier to manipulate your memory than you might have imagined. Or so says new research recently published that summarizes the findings of “false memories” and something found easy to manipulate — our feelings about food. In the article, researchers Bernstein and Loftus (2009) examine a half dozen studies that have been conducted examining whether researchers could place false memories — memories that are specifically not true — into ordinary people. The particular false memories implanted had to do with food preferences — such as a liking for asparagus that the person never had, or getting sick from eating egg salad (when that had never actually happened to the person). The researchers also conducted a number... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2313547 Fri, 03 Apr 2009 13:40:31 +0100 2313547 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2299042&cid=t_123837_136_f&fid=37857&url=http%3A%2F%2Flifedancegirl.blogspot.com%2F2009%2F03%2Fyard-work.html This morning, it was a bright sunny day that beckoned me outside. There were hundreds, if not thousands, of fir cones on our front lawn. We have a large fir tree that stands in the middle of the front lawn. It provides shade and privacy, as well as shelter for many species of birds.I decided that I would clean up the front lawn since the grass would soon be growing. I raked the fir cones into piles and then put them in a wheelbarrow, which I then dumped in a corner of the backyard. As I was doing the various actions I was reminded of the corresponding motions I use on the exercise machines at Curves. I was glad that I had been strengthening different muscles so that I was able to do this yard work.I worked steadily, remembering to drink some water from time to time. I also made sure that I... The Dance of Life blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2299042 Fri, 27 Mar 2009 17:10:00 +0100 2299042 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2263001&cid=t_123837_83_f&fid=38215&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2Forthologbook%2F%7E3%2FWu_cvmV5Zu8%2Fis-there-such-thing-as-blue-vs-red-pill.html "Lost".That's the best word to describe my general feeling the day after my graduation. I don't know where to start my medical career. There weren't any practical road maps to take on. I say practical because it's frustrating trying to figure out the nitty-gritty of establishing a practice on your own! Despite swallowing voluminous medical information and bombardments of idealism sans borders, I'm still lost in the opportunities in front of me. Regurgitating medical facts you learn in the lecture halls and clinics is not an easy thing to do. Those facts I learned (and still learning it) the hard way. The great enlightenment so far focused on two things- that career decisions solely depend on principles, values and capabilities and that you will be entirely responsible for whatever outcome... The Orthopedic Logbook blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2263001 Fri, 13 Mar 2009 09:36:00 +0100 2263001 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2196345&cid=t_123837_136_f&fid=37857&url=http%3A%2F%2Flifedancegirl.blogspot.com%2F2009%2F02%2Fnot-recognized.html Yesterday I was at a funeral for the founder of my husband's place of employment, where he has worked for almost twenty years. I saw some of Dan's co-workers there that I knew, but they did not recognize me or acknowledge me. They were used to seeing me how I looked before I was diagnosed with ovarian cancer. I did approach one of them, who is also the wife of a close colleague of Dan's. While she expressed surprise and hadn't recognized me, she also said it was good to see me. I could have gone to Dan's workplace for the reception afterwards, but I chose not to. Dan would not have been able to devote his time to stay by my side and re-introduce me to every colleague or client that I knew. It would have been too emotionally taxing for me to have to do this myself.I am now used to how I loo... The Dance of Life blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2196345 Wed, 18 Feb 2009 20:17:00 +0100 2196345 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2194865&cid=t_123837_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2009%2F02%2F18%2Fdepression-peeking-over-the-cliff%2F Anyone who’s had depression even once has to be aware of it creeping into their lives once more. Will it hit like a ton of bricks? Will it slide in from the back door? Everyone’s experiences are probably different, and particular to their patterns and diagnosis. One thing’s for sure. It’s still out there. This isn’t meant to scare you, making you fearful of the slightest bad mood or sad feeling. To have feelings is to be human, though it can seem sometimes like feelings are the enemy. Being aware of what is healthy and what crosses the line to depression can help you live a full life. How close do you get to the edge of the cliff? People with a history of depression need to remember that there is a deep canyon of pain and confusion on the map. No, this is noth... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2194865 Wed, 18 Feb 2009 10:00:21 +0100 2194865 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2177596&cid=t_123837_137_f&fid=35357&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FAlzheimersNotes%2F%7E3%2Fn3u624MSQwY%2F Watch out for your Alzheimer’s family member (and yourself if you’re “senior”) if Obama’s Stimulus Bill sneaks through in its current form.   Deep within the multiple pages of the bill is a provision for a collecting one’s medical records on a national data base and appointing health care coordinators who will “approve” your care and perscriptions.  As ultimately planned, your doctor will have to get permission for your treatment, possibly by someone not medically trained but only looking at the bottom dollar or cost effectiveness:  Is the cost of treating this person (you or your Alzheimer’s family member) economically worthwhile, considering age, life expectency and contribution or drain upon society? Will this person be a prod... Alzheimer's Notes blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2177596 Wed, 11 Feb 2009 15:19:22 +0100 2177596 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2169036&cid=t_123837_136_f&fid=37857&url=http%3A%2F%2Flifedancegirl.blogspot.com%2F2009%2F02%2Fprocessing.html I have not blogged recently because I have been processing a lot of what I have been through with having overcome ovarian cancer last year. Two weeks ago I had my routine follow-up appointment with my oncologist. My CA 125 blood count is well within the normal range and there is no change with my lymph nodes or abdomen. At the end of this month it will have been one year since I had my last chemotherapy treatment. Therefore, I won't need to see the oncologist until six months later instead of the previous schedule of every three months. This was cause for rejoicing and it brought much relief to my family, our friends, and me.I am a small group discussion leader for the new Bible study on the book of Esther. Often I am in awe of God's timing in how the Bible studies I am involved in are so ... The Dance of Life blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2169036 Sat, 07 Feb 2009 16:30:00 +0100 2169036 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2117441&cid=t_123837_136_f&fid=37857&url=http%3A%2F%2Flifedancegirl.blogspot.com%2F2009%2F01%2Ftickled-pink.html This morning, as I was deciding what to wear today, I thought "I feel pink today". I chose my pink turtleneck top; pink earrings; and grey socks with pink polka dots. As I looked at myself in the mirror, taking in my overall appearance including my nail polish, I thought "I am perfectly content with how I look; I am tickled pink!".I decided to look up the meaning of the phrase "tickled pink: thoroughly delighted or amused; elated" and I saw it was indeed appropriate. I have been transformed; it is like an extreme makeover, yet much of it has been gradual. I now wear earrings on a regular basis. My hair is now short and curly; that is how it has come in after the chemo. I have a membership at Curves and I am now doing two circuits. I have noticed a difference as my muscle strength has incre... The Dance of Life blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2117441 Tue, 20 Jan 2009 15:44:00 +0100 2117441 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2105578&cid=t_123837_136_f&fid=37857&url=http%3A%2F%2Flifedancegirl.blogspot.com%2F2009%2F01%2Fenthusiastic-exercising.html Monday night, just before dinner, I went to Curves. I had only gone sporadically during the Christmas holidays and I wanted to get back into a regular routine.As I went around the circuit, while doing an exercise that targets the arms, I thought about how far I have come since a year ago January. Thankfulness to God welled up inside me as I "pumped" my arms back and forth in time to the music. I was feeling good, so I decided to do the complete workout of two and a half circuits; usually I had only been doing two circuits.Later, at home, I carried upstairs a heavy laundry basket that was filled with blue jeans. It was then I started to sense that I had overdone it. The next morning my shoulder and upper arm muscles were a bit sore. I then remembered my workout at Curves and I did some of t... The Dance of Life blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2105578 Thu, 15 Jan 2009 00:00:00 +0100 2105578 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2104620&cid=t_123837_137_f&fid=35357&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FAlzheimersNotes%2F%7E3%2FkwHbSZ2iZg0%2F Journaling As a writer, I usually can write down my thoughts in my journal regularly. This also is something often recommended when people are going through difficult times, as well as joyful ones.  Sometimes, too, you simply want to chronicle events in your life so you can recall them later. However, as I look back, I find that sometimes during challenging times, I’ve found it difficult to write my thoughts immediately about the events.  My journal goes through a dry spell. This happened when my brother committed suicide, my mother died, and our daughter went through a grave illness.  Perhaps I’m too involved, my emotions too sensitive, my life too busy. “I’m a writer,” I’d think.  “Why can’t I write about these things…at least... Alzheimer's Notes blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2104620 Wed, 14 Jan 2009 15:18:51 +0100 2104620 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2098757&cid=t_123837_136_f&fid=37857&url=http%3A%2F%2Flifedancegirl.blogspot.com%2F2009%2F01%2Fcrazy-curls.html I have had my first "real" haircut and my hair is still curly! My daughter Joy is training to be a hairdresser, so I am having her practice on me. Joy has trimmed my hair quite a few times as it has grown.I had been forewarned that not all of the hair on my head would grow in at the same pace, so I would need some sections trimmed more often than others. The hair at the crown of my head is still fairly short, while the hair around my ears and neck has had multiple trimmings. I was starting to have the makings of a "mullet" going on before the last trim!My hair is the curliest when I first wash it. I wash my hair with shampoo for curly hair; then I scrunch my hair to help hold the curls in shape. My hair is still very soft; I have not yet used any styling gels on it. I think that soon I wil... The Dance of Life blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2098757 Mon, 12 Jan 2009 16:37:00 +0100 2098757 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2090080&cid=t_123837_137_f&fid=35357&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FAlzheimersNotes%2F%7E3%2FzOlMleRPRAw%2F Often caregivers feel isolated and think they’re alone in facing the challenges of caring for a family member, especially one with Alzheimer’s or some form of dementia.  Even if there is a caregivers’ support group in their community, it’s not always easy to get away to attend meetings. Online communities have become a boon to caregivers, where they can meet with others online who are having similar challenges. Forgetful Not Forgotten is a community that’s evolving out of the film of the same name, by Chris Wynn about his father’s experience.  In this community you’ll be able to share your experiences and gain encouragement from others. The movie, Forgetful Not Forgotten, premieres January 11 on TVO.  You also can see excerpts of the film at t... Alzheimer's Notes blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2090080 Fri, 09 Jan 2009 05:00:03 +0100 2090080 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2087966&cid=t_123837_136_f&fid=37857&url=http%3A%2F%2Flifedancegirl.blogspot.com%2F2009%2F01%2Fspecial-friend.html My journey of overcoming ovarian cancer was definitely a shared journey. While I have written about some of the people who have been a support along the way, there is a special friend, Anita, who has also played an integral part.Anita made herself available to visit me "at the spur of the moment" when I was first in the hospital in September 2007. While I was in the hospital Anita and my daughter cleaned my house in preparation for my homecoming. Later, she accompanied me when my wig was available for fitting. Anita knew how I longed to have a "normal" life and she sought to find ways for me to have one. While my parents were away in Barbados, Anita spent the day with me as I received my final chemotherapy treatment. Another day Anita spent several hours at my home so that I would not be a... The Dance of Life blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2087966 Wed, 07 Jan 2009 18:21:00 +0100 2087966 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2077165&cid=t_123837_136_f&fid=37857&url=http%3A%2F%2Flifedancegirl.blogspot.com%2F2009%2F01%2Ffinal-journal-entries-from-2008.html In reading over my journals from 2008, there were a few more entries that I wanted to post on my blog to help "fill in the picture" of what my journey of overcoming ovarian cancer has been like.(April 26 2008)"I think that I am at peace with my body. I have contentment, or a sense of acceptance, and appreciation for what my body has gone through these last few months. My eyebrows and eyelashes have not yet filled in. My hair is slowly growing in on my head. It is much like after a war; there is a time needed to rebuild. It is as if my body was shell-shocked and now it is enjoying the time of peace; the assaults have stopped. It is a sense of relief to be through the treatments and all the side effects that go along with them. There are many things that I want to do, but I do not have the e... The Dance of Life blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2077165 Sat, 03 Jan 2009 14:26:00 +0100 2077165 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2077166&cid=t_123837_136_f&fid=37857&url=http%3A%2F%2Flifedancegirl.blogspot.com%2F2009%2F01%2Ffebruary-and-march-2008-journal-entries.html I did blog a bit as I was experiencing the effects of having ovarian cancer; chemotherapy; and surgery, but there was much that remained "hidden away" in my journals. It was very traumatic and I was not always able to blog about it. Here are some more reflections; life experiences; and my spiritual journey:(February 1 2008)"I feel as if I have a responsibility regarding ovarian cancer. Brenda commented on my blog that I bring hope to those who have cancer and who have loved ones with cancer because I am a cancer survivor.""It is as if having cancer was a gift. Not that it was something to be desired or asked for, but rather it set in motion the blessings and calling from God."(February 15 2008)"Nothing can separate me from God's love, not even cancer."(February 17 2008)"When I think of 'li... The Dance of Life blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2077166 Fri, 02 Jan 2009 12:59:00 +0100 2077166 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2077168&cid=t_123837_136_f&fid=37857&url=http%3A%2F%2Flifedancegirl.blogspot.com%2F2008%2F12%2Fjanuary-2008-journal-entries.html Today is the last day of 2008 and I have decided to read over my journals from this past year. Here are some of the notations that track my spiritual journey, life experiences, and reflections concerning ovarian cancer and surgery:(January 4 2008)"Yesterday I took encouragement from two things. The anesthesiologist's last name was Morningstar - Jesus is described as the Morningstar. When we were trying to find the parking lot at Sunnybrook, we passed by the Wellspring building that was featured in the video from Ovarian Cancer Canada. I was reminded of the women and their stories - that gave me hope; if they made it through chemo and surgery, then I will too." [My husband Dan and I had gone to Sunnybrook hospital in Toronto for my pre-op appointments.]"In a way I feel as if my life is on h... The Dance of Life blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2077168 Wed, 31 Dec 2008 16:38:00 +0100 2077168 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2054838&cid=t_123837_136_f&fid=37857&url=http%3A%2F%2Flifedancegirl.blogspot.com%2F2008%2F12%2Fwinter-in-country.html We once lived in a little house on a hundred acre farm. The driveway was over five hundred feet long and much of it was exposed to the north winds. Neighbouring farmers would plow our driveway several times after a snowfall, given the frequency of snow drifts forming. While it was blustery and cold outside we were warm and toasty inside. We had a wood stove in our dining room that not only provided heat, but on occasion was also used for cooking.We were on well-water that came from a well that was also about five hundred feet away, in a field closer to the road. There were two winters that we were without water for a couple of months as the line was frozen due to inadequate snow cover. Friends and family opened their homes to us for showers and laundry facilities. We got to know members of... The Dance of Life blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2054838 Fri, 19 Dec 2008 19:04:00 +0100 2054838 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3808805&cid=t_123837_136_f&fid=35300&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2Fmetastatic-liver-cancer%2F%7E3%2FeMygjUnXn2E%2F Nelson’s 5 year old has angiosarcoma cancer. Nelson asks you to exchange experiences with cancer treatments and day to day life regarding your loved one that has angiosarcoma cancer.   We would love to read your feedback and experience like you always do on our metastatic liver cancer site.   If you need some inspiration, then I would [...] (Source: Metastatic liver cancer) Metastatic liver cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3808805 Fri, 12 Dec 2008 07:47:41 +0100 3808805 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1980963&cid=t_123837_137_f&fid=35357&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FAlzheimersNotes%2F%7E3%2FOGOtsYcQvb0%2F Alzheimer’s Decisions Moving an Alzheimer’s family member to a nursing home presents a heartwrenching challenge for many people.  Some have made promises that they would never do this.  Others feel it’s their responsibility to care for their parent, spouse or sibling at home. However, there comes a time, I realized, when I couldn’t care for my mother, and she couldn’t care for her sister any longer   Mother was developing Alzheimer’s when I had to make other arrangements for the sister with Alzheimer’s who lived with her. Mother finally needed more care than I could give her when I moved her to the nursing home full time.  I had to realize I wasn’t superwoman and there was a point when both of us would become unable to function. I had t... Alzheimer's Notes blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1980963 Sun, 23 Nov 2008 04:24:24 +0100 1980963 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1977479&cid=t_123837_136_f&fid=37857&url=http%3A%2F%2Flifedancegirl.blogspot.com%2F2008%2F11%2Fwinter-is-coming.html It was quite traumatic being in hospital again and having an NG tube. It is a horrible experience when it is first inserted; and I later had to have it re-inserted because it was not properly situated the first time. It was also unsettling to be exposed to onlookers, sitting in a wheelchair with the NG tube still in place, while awaiting my daily x-ray. To top it all off my hair was often disheveled, while the members of the public, who were awaiting other tests, were often perfectly coiffed.I think that I had been overzealous in wanting to resume my regular activities when I should have taken the time to properly recover. I went to church the day after I was released from the hospital, but I was so weak I had to sit the whole time. It really was too soon for me to go, but I wanted to be e... The Dance of Life blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1977479 Fri, 21 Nov 2008 13:45:00 +0100 1977479 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1960914&cid=t_123837_137_f&fid=35357&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FAlzheimersNotes%2F%7E3%2FmryKvcJZ3AM%2F Quilting & Alzheimer’s After I wrote the post, Sharing Quilting with Your Alzheimer’s Patient and Family, Betty told about her experiences with her mom and quilting.  She told how she includes her mom in her activities. My Mom’s got dementia and she enjoys watching me select the colors for my quilts. She also likes to pick up the fallen scraps off the floor and carry them around. I let her keep them, unless they’re needed for a specific project. Last time I took her to a quiltshow, she wandered off and was lost for awhile. Now I go to the shows alone, but take lots of pictures for us to share together. I related an incident with my mom.  She enjoyed quilts in her Alzheimer’s years although she couldn’t do any quilting. My daughter made Mothe... Alzheimer's Notes blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1960914 Sat, 15 Nov 2008 05:00:10 +0100 1960914 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1933540&cid=t_123837_136_f&fid=37857&url=http%3A%2F%2Flifedancegirl.blogspot.com%2F2008%2F11%2Frecent-hospital-stay.html A week ago Saturday, while at a women's retreat, I developed extreme abdominal gas pains and vomiting. My husband picked me up and drove me to Southlake hospital in Newmarket. I was admitted to hospital and diagnosed with a "kink" in my bowel. The doctors said that it was probably a result of my previous surgery and not uncommon.I had a CT scan and then daily abdominal x-rays to monitor the situation. I did not want to have further surgery. I had an NG tube and I was put on "bowel rest"; I only had NaCl IV and later potassium was added. I was not even allowed to drink any water.Many people were praying for me. I had the NG tube for four days, but on the fifth day I was allowed a liquid diet. On Friday evening I was allowed to have a soft diet. I was informed by the doctor that the bowel wa... The Dance of Life blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1933540 Wed, 05 Nov 2008 03:02:00 +0100 1933540 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1928243&cid=t_123837_136_f&fid=37857&url=http%3A%2F%2Flifedancegirl.blogspot.com%2F2008%2F11%2Fhair-there-and-everywhere.html I never thought I would see the day when I would say that I don't like my hair. Well, I probably should qualify that statement by saying that I like my hair, I just don't like how it looks at the moment.When I was losing my hair due to chemotherapy I could hardly wait for my hair to grow again! It was a novelty when it started to grow in curly. It looked cute and fashionable when it was shorter, but now that it is a couple of inches long I think that it looks old-fashioned! I think that I look like I am from the 1950's or 1960's!It is now possible for me to awaken with bed-head and also to have bad hair days! Sometimes my hair seems to be going in every direction! I know that this is something that I should be grateful to experience, and I am, but... There is still the fact that there are ... The Dance of Life blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1928243 Mon, 03 Nov 2008 18:32:00 +0100 1928243 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1892644&cid=t_123837_136_f&fid=37857&url=http%3A%2F%2Flifedancegirl.blogspot.com%2F2008%2F10%2Fgift-for-healthy-living.html Since the summer I have now regained the weight that I had originally lost during my bout with ovarian cancer. I am looking healthier as a result and my clothes now fit me properly rather than just hanging on me. There is also a negative result of regaining that weight, in that I now have a "muffin top". This is probably a result of the bloating and the weakening of the abdominal muscles due to major abdominal surgery. I need to strengthen these muscles specifically.In early summer I had taken part in the Curves/Avon Thirty Days for Thirty Dollars Challenge and I had originally wanted to join Curves, but it was not financially feasible. I had recently borrowed a resistance band to try to strengthen some muscles, but I soon abandoned that plan. I felt as if I was in an unending cycle: I nee... The Dance of Life blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1892644 Mon, 20 Oct 2008 15:39:00 +0100 1892644 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1877272&cid=t_123837_136_f&fid=37857&url=http%3A%2F%2Flifedancegirl.blogspot.com%2F2008%2F10%2Fthanksgiving-celebration.html Last night we had Thanksgiving dinner with my parents, my sisters and their families at my sister Gayle's home. Gayle had hung streamers and balloons in the living/dining room. There was a large sign in the dining room window that said "Celebrate You!". While I had noticed these things, I did not think too much about them since it was soon time to eat. My brother-in-law was asked to say grace , so he said "Grace" and then he prayed. Gayle said "Debbie, you go first." I just thought it was because I had my birthday last month and this was the first family dinner we had had since.The food was good and the conversation varied from one topic to another. A couple of us said we should wait a bit before having our dessert; a few, mostly males, groaned in response. The table was cleared of the din... The Dance of Life blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1877272 Tue, 14 Oct 2008 23:28:00 +0100 1877272 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1870931&cid=t_123837_137_f&fid=35357&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FAlzheimersNotes%2F%7E3%2F2snQo4_1e3Y%2F AlzheimersNotes.com “Take pictures of my Alzheimer’s family member!  I’d never want to do that,” you say. However, this can be enjoyable, both for you and your Alzheimer’s patient.  I’m pleased I have now, a series of photos of Mother and Auntie during those years.  Many of Mother’s I’ve placed in  a scrapbook, calling it Legacy of Love. Included are photos of my grandchildren visiting their great grandmother and participating in activities and special events with her at the nursing home.  The photos bring back special memories for them. Also, at the nursing home, the staff took photos of the residents (with the families permission).  When I coordinated a scrapbooking program with some of the residents, we used these photos.  How much ... Alzheimer's Notes blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1870931 Mon, 13 Oct 2008 10:00:44 +0100 1870931 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1870932&cid=t_123837_137_f&fid=35357&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FAlzheimersNotes%2F%7E3%2Fjy7DvkUA6S4%2F AlzheimersNotes.com In my Alzheimer’s Word of the Week post last week, I wrote about nursing homes and mentioned some people didn’t like to mention the word.  Alicia, blogger at Mental Health Notes, wrote a very enlightening comment, which I think gives insight into the varying reactions to this term. The term “nursing home” always strikes different emotions from different people, doesn’t it? I think it’s due to a variety of reasons (the poor reputations some nursing homes have, the idea that putting your loved ones in a nursing home is neglectful and selfish, the sad fact that some people actually do “dump” their loved ones in nursing homes and fail to visit them, etc.). It’s sad that, because of these things, those of us who’... Alzheimer's Notes blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1870932 Mon, 13 Oct 2008 01:33:05 +0100 1870932 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1857427&cid=t_123837_136_f&fid=37857&url=http%3A%2F%2Flifedancegirl.blogspot.com%2F2008%2F10%2Fsignificant-events.html A lot has happened since I last posted an update here.I was interviewed by one of our local papers to tell my story about being diagnosed with ovarian cancer. I willingly agreed in the hope that it would help others be diagnosed sooner. What I had not considered was that they would also want a photo of me to accompany the article. I decided to submit one from before I was diagnosed so people who knew me would recognize me. At the present I do not look like I did in that picture. I am now glad that I chose that photograph because I can walk freely in town without feeling self-conscious around people I do not know.My hair is now longer and finally looks like a hairstyle that I have chosen! I have had it trimmed in order to give a more flattering shape as it continues to grow. My hair is quit... The Dance of Life blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1857427 Tue, 07 Oct 2008 12:54:00 +0100 1857427 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1851087&cid=t_123837_137_f&fid=35357&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FAlzheimersNotes%2F%7E3%2Fyth8Ur1j-50%2F AlzheimersNotes.com Yesterday I explained Sundowning in Word of the Week. I began thinking about Mother’s sundowning experiences. This wasn’t a big problem with her, but some crisis situations did occur in late afternoon. I found her sundowning activities usually were connected to something she customarily did in late afternoon in her earlier life.  When I delve deeper into other patients’ sundowning, I’ve realized this often is connected with an afternoon event of former days. *Feeding chickens - When I was growing up on the dairy farm, we also raised chickens and sold eggs.  We fed the chickens mid-morning and again in later afternoon.  After we discovered Mother regularly feeding invisible chickens in her back yard during her Alzheimer’s days, I fin... Alzheimer's Notes blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1851087 Sat, 04 Oct 2008 05:00:50 +0100 1851087 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2513537&cid=t_123837_177_f&fid=38133&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FTubalReversalBlog%2F%7E3%2FqNVwHruS4Pk%2Fmeet-momzilla.html Momzilla describes her worsening menstral, physical, and mental symptoms after her tubal ligation. (Source: Tubal Reversal Blog) Tubal Reversal Blog blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2513537 Thu, 02 Oct 2008 18:51:53 +0100 2513537 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1815453&cid=t_123837_137_f&fid=35357&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FAlzheimersNotes%2F%7E3%2FLgdy_k7DZQk%2F AlzheimersNotes.com In recognition of   National Alcohol and Drug Addiction Recovery Month, the Health & Wellness Channel has initiated a project.  Various bloggers are writing posts revolving around the Twelve Steps of Recovery designated by Alcoholics Anonymous.  The bloggers have selected one or more steps to write about in relation to their own blog topic.  Then Liz Lewis at Healthbolt will compile them. Although I didn’t participate by writing about any of the steps, I considered how this topic might relate to Alzheimer’s patients.  Do they become addicted because they are prescribed medications, depressants, stress relievers to enable them to cope? When my mother was very agitated, even hostile, at the first nursing home where she stayed, her doctor prescri... Alzheimer's Notes blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1815453 Tue, 23 Sep 2008 05:00:55 +0100 1815453 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1806152&cid=t_123837_87_f&fid=34825&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.wesleyjsmith.com%2Fblog%2F2008%2F09%2Fscientists-to-study-near-death.html I am not sure this kind of thing can be studied scientifically since the reports of such experiences are so ad hoc. In any event, scientists are going to try and find out if out of body experiences reported by people who have had full cardiac arrest can be validated: From the story: People who report seeing bright lights or tunnels as they leave their bodies in near-death experiences are having their claims treated seriously in a hospital study. Doctors in hospitals in Britain and the US will study 1,500 heart attack patients to see if people with no heartbeat or brain activity can have "out of body" experiences. Some people report being able to soar out of their bodies and look down on themselves and medical staff. The study at 25 UK and US hospitals will include doctors placing ima... Secondhand Smoke blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1806152 Thu, 18 Sep 2008 19:58:00 +0100 1806152 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1802726&cid=t_123837_146_f&fid=34960&url=http%3A%2F%2Fsleepdoctor.blogspot.com%2F2008%2F09%2Fnear-death-experiences-linked-to-rem.html According to a new study, many persons with a Near Death Experience (NDE) have symptoms of REM sleep intruding into wakefulness:For 60 percent of those who had been through an NDE, the rapid-eye movement (REM) state of sleep intrudes into their regular consciousness while awake, the study found. Both before and after their traumatic event, these people had experiences that include waking up and not being able to move, sudden muscle weakness in their legs, and hearing sounds that no one else hears upon waking or falling asleep. Persons with narcolepsy commonly have symptoms of REM sleep intruding into wakefulness, including sleep paralysis (waking up and not being able to move), cataplexy (sudden bilateral muscle weakness/limpness in response to strong emotion) and hypnagogic/hypnopompic ha... sleepdoctor blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1802726 Thu, 18 Sep 2008 02:54:00 +0100 1802726 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1802819&cid=t_123837_137_f&fid=35357&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FAlzheimersNotes%2F%7E3%2FgOAckZ0-GD4%2F AlzheimersNotes.com One of the most frustrating aspects of caring for an Alzheimer’s family member or one with some form of dementia is their lack of need for sleep at night and their wandering when you want to sleep.  I found I cat napped and never slept soundly for the months Mother lived with us. One of my Alzheimer’s Notes readers shares with us and asks for a solution: I have a friend whose mother also has mild dementia and when she takes her turn at caring for her mother, she is up all night long. We have had many conversations about what she and her sisters can do because they get no rest at all when they care for their mother. It is very frustrating for them and they have not yet come up with an answer. Possibilities: Share the caregiving and try to alternate night... Alzheimer's Notes blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1802819 Thu, 18 Sep 2008 01:13:37 +0100 1802819 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1786044&cid=t_123837_137_f&fid=35357&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FAlzheimersNotes%2F%7E3%2FmMzE4EcEzRM%2F AlzheimersNotes.com Remembering 9/11 occurred across the country today.   At the school where I was substitute teaching, the students and faculty gathered at the flag pole in front of the building.  Police and firemen from the community, along with other citizens joined them for a short talk, pledge of allegiance, and to sing “This Land is Your Land.” On 9/11/01, I also was substitute teaching, in first grade that day, when the principal stopped by my room and handed me a note, mentioning what was happening and that the television in the teacher’s room was on.  Until we knew more, we weren’t to alarm the students. Since than we have comforted, found comfort, remembered, reminisced, and wondered “Why?”  Friends and relatives have gone abroad to defe... Alzheimer's Notes blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1786044 Fri, 12 Sep 2008 00:50:29 +0100 1786044 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1773271&cid=t_123837_137_f&fid=35357&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FAlzheimersNotes%2F%7E3%2FKF4KhmLJnTY%2F AlzheimersNotes.com My husband and I have been on planes all day and just got home from a business trip.  This reminded me of flying with his parents, when we took them from New Hampshire to visit relatives in Utah several years ago.  Dad was beginning to get confused, but Mum was still very alert.  However, both needed assistance in getting around. Jim and I realized we had to be with them all of the time so they didn’t get confused or lost. Have you traveled with an elderly family member or friend?  Have you traveled with someone who has Alzheimer’s? Do you have tips to share? (c)2008 Mary Emma Allen Share This (Source: Alzheimer's Notes) Alzheimer's Notes blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1773271 Mon, 08 Sep 2008 02:18:11 +0100 1773271 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1752132&cid=t_123837_136_f&fid=37857&url=http%3A%2F%2Flifedancegirl.blogspot.com%2F2008%2F09%2Fturning-up-volume.html (This is a continuation of my story of finally being correctly diagnosed with ovarian cancer)The bowel specialist in Orillia stated that the initial results of the CAT scan showed a spot on the liver and a tumour on the ovaries. After talking with the gynecologist on staff, they both felt that I would be better cared for by a local gynecologist since I lived closer to Toronto hospitals. We were given a CD of the results and my husband took it to my family doctor after we returned home. My doctor then obtained the written results the next day, and we met with her the following day (Wednesday) to discuss the findings. By this time I was very uncomfortable and I was having trouble breathing. My husband insisted that something be done for me. My doctor arranged for me to go to Emergency at Sou... The Dance of Life blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1752132 Mon, 01 Sep 2008 21:06:00 +0100 1752132 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1739309&cid=t_123837_137_f&fid=35357&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FAlzheimersNotes%2F%7E3%2FCykdE9Xo6XE%2F A personal story of a family dealing with Alzheimer’s disease… Tags: Alzheimers-disease, personal stories, videosShare This (Source: Alzheimer's Notes) Alzheimer's Notes blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1739309 Fri, 29 Aug 2008 09:58:22 +0100 1739309 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1735789&cid=t_123837_136_f&fid=37857&url=http%3A%2F%2Flifedancegirl.blogspot.com%2F2008%2F08%2Fchasing-natural.html I recently read a quote in the July edition of Canadian Living that encapsulates this new season of my life. "...If you chase the natural, it will come back full gallop, meaning don't fight who you are or what you look like - just work with it." - Frederic Fekkai (page 33, Style, Canadian Living July 2008)I now have a full head of hair, meaning my scalp is no longer visible. As my hair has filled in, I have discovered that it is quite curly. My hair has always had a natural wave, but I did not know that it could be this curly as I have never had my hair this short. The back of my head is the waviest and I often like to run my hand over it. I am not yet used to how it feels since it is in layers. So far the maintenance is rather easy; I just wash and towel dry my my hair; then I smooth down... The Dance of Life blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1735789 Tue, 26 Aug 2008 12:17:00 +0100 1735789 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1728190&cid=t_123837_136_f&fid=37857&url=http%3A%2F%2Flifedancegirl.blogspot.com%2F2008%2F08%2Ftrusting-in-god.html (I am not going to finish telling my journey until I process what I have written thus far. It is not a "quick fix" "get it out there...now that's done" kind of thing.)I had asked God what He wants me to do; what burden or passion does He want to lay on my heart? It came to mind that I have been asked to be a discussion leader for a new Bible study. I would have to rely on God. I know that I am gifted with the ability to lead such a group; it is the topic, "Walking By Faith: Lessons Learned In The Dark", that causes me to hesitate.I am still weak from the trauma of having had ovarian cancer; I need to lean on God. I do not want to "hurry" my recovery by suppressing things that need to be healed. Yet God is able to heal me as I walk through this study with Him. I was thinking about why I mig... The Dance of Life blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1728190 Sat, 23 Aug 2008 16:15:00 +0100 1728190 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1728191&cid=t_123837_136_f&fid=37857&url=http%3A%2F%2Flifedancegirl.blogspot.com%2F2008%2F08%2Fdisease-that-whispers.html Ovarian cancer has been described as "the disease that whispers". Looking back I heard the whispers, but I did not know what they meant. Last summer I noticed that I had a small "pot" that was hard, but I did not do anything about it. I thought that I would mention it when I had my physical in the fall. I started to notice that I "filled out" my capris, and my shorts were now tight around the waist. I was taking part in a liturgical dance and I needed to buy black dress pants that had an elastic waist; they were one size larger than I usually wore. After I was diagnosed with ovarian cancer my sisters-in-law mentioned that they had noticed my "pot", but at the time had only thought I had gained some weight.While we were away at a cottage in Muskoka, I started to experience indigestion and b... The Dance of Life blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1728191 Thu, 21 Aug 2008 10:43:00 +0100 1728191 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1711799&cid=t_123837_137_f&fid=35357&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FAlzheimersNotes%2F%7E3%2FrFzxqTRrzxw%2F Discussion with him proved unsuccessful and somehow he found the extra set of keys.  So family members disabled the car and kept delaying “getting it fixed.”  He finally lost interest in driving and seemed content to let others drive him. My neighbor’s aunt didn’t pass her sight test, and her doctor informed her that new glasses wouldn’t help enough to enable her to drive. She accepted this although she was frustrated and upset. However, it often is very difficult.  They even may pass a driving test and receive a license renewal, when you know they’re not safe on the road. Check out several  resources: The Alzheimer’s Association - Driving with Alzheimer’s The Hartford - Alzheimer’s, Dementia & Driving The Mayo Clinic - ... Alzheimer's Notes blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1711799 Mon, 18 Aug 2008 05:00:10 +0100 1711799 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1728192&cid=t_123837_136_f&fid=37857&url=http%3A%2F%2Flifedancegirl.blogspot.com%2F2008%2F08%2Flooking-back.html It was traumatic being ill with ovarian cancer. The treatment and subsequent side-effects added further trauma. My family had to cope with this as I was going through it; but now that I am well, they have moved on. I, on the other hand, did not experience the full impact of the trauma as I was going through it. All my energy and focus was on making it through treatment and surgery. As I am in new situations or returning to familiar activities the emotional impact of the trauma is released. Recently I was looking through the plastic container that held my medicine for a small pill holder. I had waves of emotion and memories flood over me.When I had ovarian cancer and was undergoing treatment I felt as though I was a "prisoner" in my own body. I had no real control over my body or my life at... The Dance of Life blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1728192 Thu, 07 Aug 2008 02:30:00 +0100 1728192 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1677268&cid=t_123837_137_f&fid=35357&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FAlzheimersNotes%2F%7E3%2FGSYpQltNrPc%2F Leeza Gibbon’s narrates this video about her mother’s journey into Alzheimer’s Disease and the creation of Leeza’s Place, an oasis for caregivers and loved ones dealing with Alzheimer’s Disease… Tags: Alzheimers-disease, Caregiving, Leeza's Place, Memories, the Leeza Gibbons Memory foundationShare This (Source: Alzheimer's Notes) Alzheimer's Notes blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1677268 Fri, 01 Aug 2008 01:51:46 +0100 1677268 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1642747&cid=t_123837_137_f&fid=35357&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FAlzheimersNotes%2F%7E3%2F342228017%2F AlzheimersNotes.com  Giving up their independence and seeing their ability to do tasks by themselves slowly erode, becomes one of the most frustrating aspects of the disease for many Alzheimer’s patients.  They know something is amiss, but often don’t understand why they’re not allowed to do the ordinary, everyday activities on their own.  Or why they can’t do them. Driving - this becomes difficult to explain and for them to comprehend Staying home alone Going outside on their own Cooking Living in their own home Taking care of their finances These are just a few areas that cause frustration as the Alzheimer’s patient loses their independence.  The loss of these capabilities can cause discouragement in the rest of the family as the dependence on them bec... Alzheimer's Notes blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1642747 Tue, 22 Jul 2008 05:00:36 +0100 1642747 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1728194&cid=t_123837_136_f&fid=37857&url=http%3A%2F%2Flifedancegirl.blogspot.com%2F2008%2F07%2Fcottage-memories.html A week ago at this time, my husband Dan and I were just ending a mini vacation at a cottage in Muskoka. We first went to this cottage nineteen years ago when Chris was 4 and Joy was 2. We had just finished unloading the car when we heard Chris crying loudly; he had tripped on his way into the cottage and had cut open his forehead. We all headed off to the hospital, which was 30 minutes away, for him to get stitches. We did not get back to the cottage until closer to midnight. One day during that week the four of us were in the lake; Joy and Chris had life jackets on and were sitting in inflatable toys. All of a sudden Joy was upside down with her feet in the air! I quickly turned her over. She was okay, it did not seem to faze her! Over the years we continued going to this cottage and we d... The Dance of Life blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1728194 Sat, 19 Jul 2008 15:03:00 +0100 1728194 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1631215&cid=t_123837_137_f&fid=35357&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FAlzheimersNotes%2F%7E3%2F337827377%2F I just finished reading a wonderful little book called High Heels to Hormones (A Woman’s Guide to Spine Care) by Christina Lasich, M.D.  Short and easy to read with plenty of cartoons to get the points across, I’d recommend it to any woman who suffers from back pain, and especially to anyone who is the role of caregiver. Caregivers, after all, are at great risk of back injury and would find this book useful for learning more about how to prevent and manage back pain. Christine has been kind enough to write a guest post for Alzheimer’s Notes looking at ‘Three Tips for Avoidng Caretaker Injuries’. The upcoming Olympic Games should inspire everyone to exercise and use proper body mechanics. These athletes compete at a high level and that requires them to take ... Alzheimer's Notes blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1631215 Thu, 17 Jul 2008 07:36:21 +0100 1631215 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1622275&cid=t_123837_137_f&fid=35357&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FAlzheimersNotes%2F%7E3%2F335759486%2F AlzheimersNotes.com Alzheimer’s disease is not always an isolated diagnosis.  You may be dealing with other illnesses and disabilities as well.  One of these could be breast cancer which the patient may have encountered before Alzheimer’s. Or she could have developed it while her memory was fading. Also, often the caregiver and/or other family members have health problems., which makes the caretaking more difficult. My aunt, who developed Alzheimer’sand ultimately became my responsibility (as well as my mom with Alzheimer’s) had experienced colon cancer several years before.  Surgery resulted, and fortunately Auntie didn’t have a recurrence. My mom had some lesions on her face that required removal.  The doctor said they were malignant.  Did I want furthe... Alzheimer's Notes blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1622275 Tue, 15 Jul 2008 05:00:14 +0100 1622275 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1582068&cid=t_123837_137_f&fid=35357&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FAlzheimersNotes%2F%7E3%2F327511873%2F AlzheimersNotes.com If you’ve thought about writing and publishing books, even newspaper and magazine articles, about your experiences as a caregiver or Alzheimer’s victim, you may enjoy the series of posts Yvonne Russell and I are writing (along with guest posts) at Home Biz Notes throughout July. I shall be writing a series on self-publishing, including my experiences with my book, When We Become the Parent to Our Parents, concerning my mom’s journey through Alzheimer’s and mine as her caregiver.  There will be posts on all types of writing from fiction and non-fiction, commercial writing, newsletters, and e-books. Come join us throughout the month to learn about writing and publishing from home.  Share with us and ask questions, too. (Amazon image) (c)2008 Ma... Alzheimer's Notes blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1582068 Sat, 05 Jul 2008 18:00:25 +0100 1582068 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1728197&cid=t_123837_136_f&fid=37857&url=http%3A%2F%2Flifedancegirl.blogspot.com%2F2008%2F07%2Fvisit-with-my-friend.html Yesterday I drove with my daughter Joy to Barrie; she had to meet someone at noon as she was going away for a weekend retreat. I had the idea of calling my good friend Dianne to see if she could meet me in Barrie for lunch. She had the day off and, since her husband also needed to go to Barrie, we met at Tim Horton's and not where we usually meet. This was a small window of opportunity that we were able to snatch.We greeted each other with a hug. "You look good!", Dianne exclaimed and then commented on my hair. We had easy conversation, updating each other on our lives and our families. As we were sitting in Tim Horton's, I said to Dianne that it is a "big thing" when I first do something I haven't done since before I was sick. She responded that me driving to Barrie and meeting her for lu... The Dance of Life blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1728197 Sat, 05 Jul 2008 14:32:00 +0100 1728197 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1575527&cid=t_123837_137_f&fid=35357&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FAlzheimersNotes%2F%7E3%2F326219506%2F Last year, Alzheimer’s Notes wrote about ‘Cruises for Alzheimer’s Caregivers’. Sounds like a great way to get away, so here’s update on cruises for 2009… February 9-14, 2009 Caribbean Cruise on Celebrity Century Miami to Miami September 4-11, 2009 Alaskan Royal Caribbean Rhapsody of the Seas Seattle to Seattle The cruises for 2010 are not yet scheduled but will be during same months as 2009: February and September. You can find out more at www.CAREGIVERCRUISES.com Tags: Alzheimers-disease, caregiver cruises, caregivers, cruises, respite for caregiversShare This (Source: Alzheimer's Notes) Alzheimer's Notes blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1575527 Fri, 04 Jul 2008 00:12:51 +0100 1575527 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1554504&cid=t_123837_137_f&fid=35357&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FAlzheimersNotes%2F%7E3%2F323072221%2F AlzheimersNotes.com  Alzheimer’s can strike any family whatever the walk of life.  Jim Nantz’s father developed this illness and has inspired the son to write a story as a tribute to his dad.  The result is the book, Always By My Side - A Father’s Grace and a Sports Journey Unlike Any Other.  At Alzhemer’s Weekly, you can see a video of Daryn Kagan’s interview of Jim Nantz.  There’s also the transcript accompanying it. (Amazon image; click on cover for details) (c)2008 Mary Emma Allen Tags: Always By My Side, Alzheimer's Notes, Alzheimer's Weekly, Alzheimers, Daryn Kagan, Emma, health, Jim Nantz, Mary Allen, Mary Emma, Mary Emma Allen, memory-loss, men's health, sportscasterShare This (Source: Alzheimer's Notes) Alzheimer's Notes blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1554504 Mon, 30 Jun 2008 08:00:34 +0100 1554504 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1553085&cid=t_123837_137_f&fid=35357&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FAlzheimersNotes%2F%7E3%2F322398441%2F AlzheimersNotes.com Something may occur that brings back memories of a special occasion with your Alzheimer’s parent. The announcement of children’s book author/illustrator Tasha Tudor’s death, at age 92, although sad, brought to mind my meeting with her years ago. Mother also was involved in this special day.  Perhaps some of you have her enchantingly illustrated books, have read them yourself or to your children.  She also took pleasure in the handcrafts of days ago and shared those with others. Tea Party Memories My memory involves a tea party with Tasha, when I was an aspiring author just out of college. I studied her art and writing in a children’s literature class and was fascinated by her work. When I had an opportunity to visit at her farmhouse in New Ha... Alzheimer's Notes blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1553085 Sun, 29 Jun 2008 05:00:23 +0100 1553085 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1546779&cid=t_123837_137_f&fid=35357&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FAlzheimersNotes%2F%7E3%2F320699648%2F AlzheimersNotes.com  Our first random drawing at Alzheimer’s Notes offers as the prize, Finding the Joy In Alzheimer’s, a book edited by Brenda Avadian and containing two of my essays. These include: A Child Shows the Way and Generation to Generation. Simply leave a comment with your name and e-mail and state how you’re connected with Alzheimer’s…caregiver, family member, victim, friend, concerned citizen, nursing home staff, etc.  You’re welcome to share  your stories, too. The contest will end Monday, July 7, 2008 at 11:59 PM (EDST) Only residents of the United States or those with a U.S. mailing address are eligible. (Amazon image; click on cover for details) (c)2008 Mary Emma Allen Tags: Alzheimer's Awareness, Alzheimer's Notes, Alzheimers, Alz... Alzheimer's Notes blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1546779 Thu, 26 Jun 2008 18:00:22 +0100 1546779 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1546780&cid=t_123837_137_f&fid=35357&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FAlzheimersNotes%2F%7E3%2F320350991%2F Second Wind Dreams, a national non-profit organization with a mission to change the perception of aging, one dream at a time, has a Virtual Dementia tour kit. It’s a training tool that provides people with the opportunity to experience how it might feel to have dementia. Sounds like something everyone who works with dementia patients should experience… Tags: Alzheimers-disease, caregivers, Caregiving, dementia, hospitals, rest homesShare This (Source: Alzheimer's Notes) Alzheimer's Notes blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1546780 Thu, 26 Jun 2008 08:20:55 +0100 1546780 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1728199&cid=t_123837_136_f&fid=37857&url=http%3A%2F%2Flifedancegirl.blogspot.com%2F2008%2F06%2Fsignposts.html I have "signposts" that mark where I have been and where I am now.As I was getting drinking water to fill some water jugs, I recognized a "signpost". When I just had chemo I filled a large water bottle on a regular basis. I needed to flush the toxic chemicals from my sensitive organs. When I was experiencing the side effects of "Stemetil", the anti-nausea drug that I was allergic to, I could barely walk downstairs; I needed to use two hands to carry a filled water jug. Now I can carry two water jugs, one in each hand. I still drink water, but I don't have the urgency or need to rid my body of toxins.I am now walking, quite briskly, by myself to Curves. I used to only go for a walk if I was accompanied by my husband or my daughter. I feel as if my oncologist gave me a gift or "the key" to n... The Dance of Life blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1728199 Tue, 24 Jun 2008 14:52:00 +0100 1728199 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1538097&cid=t_123837_137_f&fid=35357&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FAlzheimersNotes%2F%7E3%2F317784960%2F AlzheimersNotes.com  Stay tuned…I’ll be anouncing a random drawing for the book, Finding the Joy in Alzheimer’s edited by Brenda Avadian.  This anthology contains essays by caregivers and family members who have experienced the disappointments and frustrations, but still could find moments of JOY to share with others. Some of my essays appear in this book. I shall be posting details about entering this drawing. (Amazon image; click on cover for more details about the book.) (c)2008 Mary Emma Allen Tags: Alzheimer's book, Alzheimer's Notes, Alzheimers, Alzheimers-disease, Brenda Avadian, caregivers, Caregiving, Emma, Finding the Joy in Alzheimer's, health, Mary Allen, Mary Emma, Mary Emma Allen, men's health, women's healthShare This (Source: Alzheimer's Notes) Alzheimer's Notes blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1538097 Mon, 23 Jun 2008 02:45:53 +0100 1538097 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1535845&cid=t_123837_137_f&fid=35357&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FAlzheimersNotes%2F%7E3%2F317009639%2F AlzheimersNotes.com Liz Lewis, my co-blogger here at Alzheimer’s Notes,  writes a very interesting and informative new blog at b5media, Traveling the Green Way.  Going “green,” traveling “green,” wearing “green”, in fact, anything “green” that helps save the environment has become a very popular word.  So this new Traveling the Green Way should fit right in with current worldwide interests. Congratulations, Liz!  This is a very timely topic, so I know your blog will be widely read.  About 18 months ago, Liz decided to pursue her dream of becoming a full time writer.  She started a blog, My Year of Getting Published, detailing her experiences.  After about a year, she joined me as co-blogger here at Alzheimer’s Notes and i... Alzheimer's Notes blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1535845 Sat, 21 Jun 2008 18:47:31 +0100 1535845 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1728201&cid=t_123837_136_f&fid=37857&url=http%3A%2F%2Flifedancegirl.blogspot.com%2F2008%2F06%2Fphysical-exercise.html I am taking part in the "30 Days for 30 Dollars" challenge at Curves. I had wanted to start doing exercises to help build up my muscles, as they had been weakened through inactivity;the trauma of having cancer; the resulting chemotherapy; and major abdominal surgery. Also since I no longer have ovaries I am at a greater risk for osteoporosis.When I had my first follow-up appointment with my oncologist this month, I had mentioned my desire to one day join Curves; she thought that would be a good idea. I am taking it slowly and trying to not overdo it. I only go around the circuit once instead of the usual two and a half times. I was advised by a former physiotherapist to start with three repetitions and build up each time by one. I go three times a week and it usually takes me twenty minute... The Dance of Life blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1728201 Wed, 18 Jun 2008 16:31:00 +0100 1728201 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1728202&cid=t_123837_136_f&fid=37857&url=http%3A%2F%2Flifedancegirl.blogspot.com%2F2008%2F06%2Fwig-free.html I have "taken the plunge" by going without my wig in public. I have had a "love/hate" relationship with my wig. When I was losing my hair I appreciated having a "hair prosthesis" that helped to keep up the appearance of a normal healthy female. I grew accustomed to putting it on before I faced the public.At first I disliked all the hair around my face. I could not tuck some hair behind my ears, as I was used to doing, because I did not have any "sideburns"; the hair that grows just in front of your ears. I often felt it was like I was wearing a mask, in that it hid the true state of my hair or lack of it.My main reason for not wearing my wig was the fact that it is synthetic hair, so it was too hot to wear in the humid weather. So far I have had only positive feedback to such a short "hair... The Dance of Life blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1728202 Tue, 17 Jun 2008 19:46:00 +0100 1728202 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1502690&cid=t_123837_137_f&fid=35357&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FAlzheimersNotes%2F%7E3%2F307641708%2F AlzheimersNotes.com  Celebrities and their families have been “going public” during the last few years when Alzheimer’s strikes them.  This illness is no longer hidden, the person sequestered where no one sees them, and families refrain from talking about it. This week, as we pursue the theme of Celebrities & Health at the b5media Health & Wellness channel, we’ll be mentioning various celebrities and sharing how they and their families faced this disease and inspired and encouraged others. I’m pleased that celebrities’ families like those of Ronald Reagan, Charlton Heston, Rita Hayward, Arlene Francis, and  others have come forth.  Not that we should pry into their lives and make every nuance public, but the knowledge that they aren’t a... Alzheimer's Notes blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1502690 Mon, 09 Jun 2008 00:22:10 +0100 1502690 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1501480&cid=t_123837_137_f&fid=35357&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FAlzheimersNotes%2F%7E3%2F307011519%2F AlzheimersNotes.com  Unusual celebrations often have appeal for Alzheimer’s patients.  They need not make sense or even be ones they know about.  I discovered that Mother enjoyed parties, even if they were just for the two of us. At the nursing home, the residents also enjoyed gatherings.  They might be confused about the day or the era, but it often brought back reflections of some kind.  This broke the monotony of their day and was fun for the staff, too. Today, June 7, was Daniel Boone Day, I discovered, when I visited Sandra Mitchell’s All Holiday Cafe.  Even though it might be too late to arrange a pioneer celebration for your Alzheimer’s family member (and any children in your home) today, you could use this idea as a springboard for future fun times. What... Alzheimer's Notes blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1501480 Sat, 07 Jun 2008 22:28:28 +0100 1501480 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1494442&cid=t_123837_137_f&fid=35357&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.feedburner.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FAlzheimersNotes%2F%7E3%2F304914973%2F AlzheimersNotes.com  Recently Liz Lewis wrote the post, Alzheimer’s or Overmedicated, which struck a chord with me.  Sometimes, in order to control or address difficult behaviors in older patients, medications are used that could give the appearance of Alzheimer’s.  This doesn’t necessarily mean it’s being done deliberately. Sometimes it could happen because of interaction between medications. However, if someone is taking medication and begins to show Alzheimer’s symptoms, check out what’s being perscribed. I didn’t have an overmedicated problem with my mom, who did develop Alzheimer’s.  However, medication was described by her doctor to control difficult behavior as she exhibited some of the more aggressive symptoms of the illness at... Alzheimer's Notes blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1494442 Thu, 05 Jun 2008 00:35:12 +0100 1494442 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1728205&cid=t_123837_136_f&fid=37857&url=http%3A%2F%2Flifedancegirl.blogspot.com%2F2008%2F05%2Fafternoon-of-pampering.html Yesterday I was treated to an afternoon at a local spa. We had lunch in the cafe. It was good to catch up and reminisce about old times. Our lives are very different; she is a single business woman who owns her own home; I am a homemaker, married for 25 years this September, with 3 children, ages 23,21 and 18. Despite our differences we share a common heritage. We are not too distant cousins; our grandmothers were sisters. We have seen each other off and on throughout the years, but we each agreed that we needed to not let so much time go by before we get together again.It was my first outing wearing my stylish white and black sunhat, which complimented my outfit of black capris and white sweater. I knew I did not want to wear my wig because it would interfere with my spa treatments. I was... The Dance of Life blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1728205 Fri, 30 May 2008 14:32:00 +0100 1728205 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1469834&cid=t_123837_137_f&fid=35357&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.feedburner.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FAlzheimersNotes%2F%7E3%2F298582237%2F Best selling author Terry Pratchett who was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s Disease last year talks to John Humpheries at BBC’s On othe Ropes program. Tags: Alzheimers-disease, early onset alzheimer's disease, interviews, podcast, terry pratchettShare This (Source: Alzheimer's Notes) Alzheimer's Notes blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1469834 Mon, 26 May 2008 19:47:38 +0100 1469834 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1728206&cid=t_123837_136_f&fid=37857&url=http%3A%2F%2Flifedancegirl.blogspot.com%2F2008%2F05%2Fgod-directs-our-steps.html On Saturday, I accompanied my husband Dan and our youngest son Tim to the University of Toronto (U of T). Tim has been accepted to their "Track One" Engineering; it is a first year of undeclared field of interest that deals with the various disciplines of engineering.It has been a long process coming to this point. It had been hard for me to have an active role since I was undergoing chemo and not up to going to check out various universities. When I had chemo brain fog it was hard to think straight and to process the pros and cons. Dan took a more active role in taking Tim to a university fair, where they gathered brochures from various universities. Tim and I then went through them and weeded out the ones that didn't offer the specific courses he was interested in. We then discovered two... The Dance of Life blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1728206 Mon, 26 May 2008 12:47:00 +0100 1728206 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1466318&cid=t_123837_129_f&fid=36038&url=http%3A%2F%2Fblog.healthtalk.com%2Fmultiple-sclerosis%2Flife-with-ms%2Fthe-ms-know-it-all%2F Let me begin by stating, unequivocally, that I have never seen any of the traits described in this posting in the regular contributors (nor even the occasional ones) to our HealthTalk “Life with MS” blog community.Have you ever run across the “know-it-all?” You know, the guy or gal who has done, seen, tasted, smelled, tried, succeeded (hardly ever failed, at anything), studied and experienced whatever topic was at hand? And, have you noticed that KIAs (might as well give them a name, right?) usually have opinions about a subject that is opposite yours, on just about everything? How about the MS know-it-all or KIA? I’ve run into KIAs that will tell me that they have cured their MS – and attempt to make me feel bad for not curing mine. Or KIAs who have told me that my disease mod... Life with MS blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1466318 Fri, 23 May 2008 20:44:13 +0100 1466318 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1446220&cid=t_123837_137_f&fid=35357&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FAlzheimersNotes%2F%7E3%2F291278191%2F I posted last week about ‘Remembering the Caregivers’ a three part series from WXEL’s local ‘South Florida Today’ magazine show. Turns out that they have put out more videos featuring the personal stories of viewers… Check out the rest of these videos at WXEL’s You Tube page. Share This (Source: Alzheimer's Notes) Alzheimer's Notes blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1446220 Thu, 15 May 2008 23:50:56 +0100 1446220 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1439712&cid=t_123837_137_f&fid=35357&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FAlzheimersNotes%2F%7E3%2F289186929%2F AlzheimersNotes.com  Depression can overwhelm both caregivers and Alzheimer’s patients during the course of this illness.  Often doctors will check to see whether depression is causing the forgetfulness and other symptoms typical of Alzheimer’s patients.  Also, depression can cause symptoms to be more pronounced. Caregivers also have to watch that they don’t become discouraged by the situation so should seek help when they feel they are falling into a “black hole” of depression.  Those who have never cared for an Alzheimer’s patient, even your family members, may not understand the traumatic experience you’re going through.  Find professionals or other caregivers who can help you get through this time in your life.  Also find those who can he... Alzheimer's Notes blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1439712 Tue, 13 May 2008 05:00:08 +0100 1439712 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1434563&cid=t_123837_137_f&fid=35357&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FAlzheimersNotes%2F%7E3%2F288081265%2F Sports: Legendary coach, Frank Broyles, helped wife with Alzheimer’s battle - “Over the decades, the game changed, but one thing remained the same: The love always was there…” (more) Boy, 2, Suffers From Rare Children’s Alzheimer’s Condition - “A 2-year-old boy in England suffers from a rare genetic disease sometimes referred to as Children’s Alzheimer’s disease…” (more) Not your grandmother’s Alzheimer’s - “Carol Kirsch relished her demanding position as a sales trainer for Kaiser Permanente in Oakland. But a couple of years ago, a good friend told Kirsch she just wasn’t performing up to par. She was missing deadlines. And she’d forget meetings, so co-workers would have to come fetch her…... Alzheimer's Notes blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1434563 Sun, 11 May 2008 14:31:30 +0100 1434563 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1433818&cid=t_123837_137_f&fid=35357&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FAlzheimersNotes%2F%7E3%2F287262018%2F AlzheimersNotes.com  As I read Liz’s recent post, Sleep Disturbances in Alzheimer’s Patients & Their Caregivers, I recalled the lack of sleep when I cared for Mother.  An uninterrupted night’s sleep was something I received little of. Mother lost track of day or night, cat napped during the day, so was awake or only napping at night. Her sleep patterns (or non-patterns), always erratic  before Ahzheimer’s, became more so after she developed this disease. “Mary, one of the most difficult things about caring for someone with Alzheimer’s is you never get a good night’s sleep,” a friend said, when she learned I was moving Mother to my home from hers in another state.  Audrey had taken care of her father and found the sleeplessness most... Alzheimer's Notes blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1433818 Sat, 10 May 2008 03:20:51 +0100 1433818 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1426606&cid=t_123837_137_f&fid=35357&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FAlzheimersNotes%2F%7E3%2F285647630%2F A new study has found that “…sleep disturbances among Alzheimer patients vary significantly from those of their family caregivers, and that, surprisingly, poor sleep in either the patient or caregiver is not necessarily linked to disturbed sleep in the other. “ The study looked at sleep-wake activity of the Alzheimer’s patients and their caregivers over a week. The results found that the “… greatest stability for patients was observed for the time of night when they went to bed. For caregivers, the greatest stability was total wake time at night. The least stable patient sleep variable was total hours of sleep per night. Time in bed was the least stable variance for caregivers.” You can read the full report here… Share This (Source: Alzheimer... Alzheimer's Notes blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1426606 Wed, 07 May 2008 21:44:57 +0100 1426606 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1728211&cid=t_123837_136_f&fid=37857&url=http%3A%2F%2Flifedancegirl.blogspot.com%2F2008%2F05%2Fpassion-for-ministry.html Yesterday we had a guest speaker at church. He is a pastor to the workers at Christian Horizons, a Christian organization that ministers to those with "exceptional needs". He spoke about having a passion and ministering out of it. I had a passion and I was ministering out of it. I was using my gifts, talents and abilities as well. Instead of being "fired up" by the message I became depressed and angry. The doors to past ministry are firmly shut and no new doors have opened up.This morning I was thinking about it and my response had been one of resignation. I had a "what's the use?" type of response and I was quenching my passion. I had the impression of great pressure being put on me to "squeeze" me into acting. I spent too many years in believing the lie "what's the use?". God had put tre... The Dance of Life blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1728211 Mon, 05 May 2008 12:55:00 +0100 1728211 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1419682&cid=t_123837_137_f&fid=35357&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FAlzheimersNotes%2F%7E3%2F283508702%2F Here’s a three part series from WXEL’s local ‘South Florida Today’ magazine show. Featuring personal stories, it looks at the everyday challenges and a slice of life of dedicated caregivers. Share This (Source: Alzheimer's Notes) Alzheimer's Notes blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1419682 Sun, 04 May 2008 21:23:44 +0100 1419682 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1403001&cid=t_123837_137_f&fid=35357&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FAlzheimersNotes%2F%7E3%2F279153330%2F AlzhemersNotes.com  (My piece  about restraints for Alzhemer’s patients , to keep them from opening a door and escaping or otherwise injuring themselves, drew many comments.  I’m using some of these as guest posts or in collections of comments.  I thought Bob Matthews had a very insightful comment, based on his experiences while caring for his dad. I’m posting it below.) It’s a hard thing to do, and you are bound to get many negative comments from people who have never had to deal with an Alzheimer’s patient, but there comes a time when there is no choice. The only option is to carefully choose the minimum practical method of restraint. The less visible the restraint the better. Alzheimer’s patients can injure themselves struggling with restraints. ... Alzheimer's Notes blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1403001 Mon, 28 Apr 2008 05:00:27 +0100 1403001 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1400704&cid=t_123837_137_f&fid=35357&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FAlzheimersNotes%2F%7E3%2F278072567%2F AlzheimersNotes.com “Which one of has Alzheimer’s?  Mother or me?”I’d sometimes wonder when I tried to figure our which of the “me’s” I was.  At one time Mother thought I was two people…Mary Emma (me, moi) and “that other” woman who was trying to steal my husband!  Then there were occasions when I wondered which one I was.  Or was I someone else entirely watching the whole scenerio.  The first time it happened, Mother said, ”That other woman was here while you were at Joanie’s (Mother’s neighbor).” “Which woman?” I asked, thinking a friend had stopped by and Mother had forgotten her name. “That other one Jim has here.” WOW!  Now what was going on? “She was sitting with ... Alzheimer's Notes blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1400704 Sat, 26 Apr 2008 05:00:32 +0100 1400704 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1728214&cid=t_123837_136_f&fid=37857&url=http%3A%2F%2Flifedancegirl.blogspot.com%2F2008%2F04%2Fspring-has-sprung.html Spring has sprung and so has my hair! My hairline is now visible and the hair has poked through. The weather is warm enough for me to go around the house without a hat. When I go outside I usually wear a baseball cap. It is the hat my sisters designed for the "Mini Walk of Hope" they had organized last fall. The word "HOPE" is embroidered on the face of it. The "O" is a stylized sunflower, which is the official emblem of Ovarian Cancer Canada. I also have two stylish sun hats that I have begun to wear when I need more coverage from the sun.I have started to go for a walk most days with my daughter or my husband. Sometimes I go for a walk twice in one day, once with each of them! I don't venture off on my own yet. It is so nice to be outside after being cooped up all fall and winter. I even... The Dance of Life blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1728214 Sat, 26 Apr 2008 00:49:00 +0100 1728214 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1397698&cid=t_123837_137_f&fid=35357&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FAlzheimersNotes%2F%7E3%2F277516321%2F Uncle Ralph’s rapture - “Stefan Merrill Block had never met his Uncle Ralph, but he knew all about his catastrophic life. When they eventually came face to face, he found an old man finally - and blissfully - set free by the oblivion of Alzheimer’s..” (more) Remembering intimacy - “Hallie Pasko knew her mother’s new relationship had gotten serious when the 85-year-old woman told her she needed a bigger bed - so her boyfriend could sleep over…” (more) Let’s get it started: Family to hit pavement for Alzheimer’s research - “Kate Hassan, a Waltham resident, has fond memories of the time she spent with and things she learned as a child from her grandmother…” (more) Share This (Source: Alzheimer's Notes) Alzheimer's Notes blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1397698 Fri, 25 Apr 2008 09:37:24 +0100 1397698 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1373582&cid=t_123837_137_f&fid=35357&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FAlzheimersNotes%2F%7E3%2F270944725%2F OurAlzheimers.com has a feature article When a Mind Begins to Disappear: A Young Family’s Journey to the Dark Side that follows the Mueller family’s journey of change as Jim Mueller developed Alzheimer’s disease. Jim was in his early 30’s when the initial symptoms began… “When they said Jim had Alzheimer’s, I was in shock,” Jim’s wife, Michelle, quietly recalls. “I mean, I had heard of Alzheimer’s because of President Reagan. And I had worked at one time when I was younger to care for someone with Alzheimer’s (but) I thought that was for people when they got older. And I really didn’t believe it.” Read their story here… Share This (Source: Alzheimer's Notes) Alzheimer's Notes blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1373582 Tue, 15 Apr 2008 20:10:36 +0100 1373582 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1369730&cid=t_123837_137_f&fid=35357&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FAlzheimersNotes%2F%7E3%2F269792458%2F AlzheimersNotes.com  Facing Alzheimer’s With Love and Laughter is the subtitle of The Last Dance.  It brings to mind the question…“Should we laugh and joke about Alzheimer’s?” Some caregivers and spokespersons for Alzheimer’s became very upset because Julie Christie joked about memory loss during an interview associated with her movie, Away From Her.  However, others felt we should lighten up because she wasn’t meaning anything derogatory. What do you think when it concerns laughing and joking about Alzheimer’s?  In general, I feel,  it depends on the situation and how the remark was said.  I found, when caring for Mother, that laughter helped get all of us through.  I recall one day, when Jim and I laughed at a situation, that Mothe... Alzheimer's Notes blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1369730 Mon, 14 Apr 2008 05:00:41 +0100 1369730 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1368420&cid=t_123837_137_f&fid=35357&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FAlzheimersNotes%2F%7E3%2F268887268%2F Celebrated artist, Josh Dorman, explains what people with Alzheimer’s disease have taught him about the art of listening. (part of the Memory Bridge project) Share This (Source: Alzheimer's Notes) Alzheimer's Notes blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1368420 Sat, 12 Apr 2008 10:13:16 +0100 1368420 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1363783&cid=t_123837_137_f&fid=35357&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FAlzheimersNotes%2F%7E3%2F267637380%2F In 2002 Charlton Heston announced that he was suffering symptoms of Alzheimer’s disease. Last week he passed away. In memory of this actor, here’s a couple of videos reflecting on his life… Discussing Alzheimer’s Disease in a 2002 interview with Peter Jennings… Share This (Source: Alzheimer's Notes) Alzheimer's Notes blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1363783 Thu, 10 Apr 2008 10:53:07 +0100 1363783 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1360724&cid=t_123837_137_f&fid=35357&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FAlzheimersNotes%2F%7E3%2F267167874%2F AlzheimersNotes.com  One of my fears, as my mom became less capable of making decisions and more susceptible to suggestions of strangers, was the possibility of her getting caught in contractor or other type of fraud.  For some reason, at a certain age or stage of Alzheimer’s, parents often resent taking suggestions from their children, especially advice concerning financial and health matters. My husband Jim, who was a contractor, began making needed repairs to Mother’s house and put new shingles on the roof.  She didn’t understand why she needed a new roof even though the old was leaking into the attic space.  We lived 275 miles away and couldn’t be with her all the time.  After the roof was repaired, she told us a man stopped by and said those weren’t... Alzheimer's Notes blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1360724 Wed, 09 Apr 2008 18:00:06 +0100 1360724 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1352161&cid=t_123837_137_f&fid=35357&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FAlzheimersNotes%2F%7E3%2F264478778%2F This article, Mourning meets multi-tasking, continues to focus on Lorraine and Marjorie Jackson (mother and daughter) as they deal with the impact of Alzheimer’s disease. “…The first time Marjorie Jackson answered a collection agency call about her mom’s overdue credit card bill, she thought it was a mistake. After calls about three other missed credit card payments, a late phone bill and a past-due home heating oil contract, Marjorie added bill paying to her growing to-do list for her mom…” Read more… Share This (Source: Alzheimer's Notes) Alzheimer's Notes blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1352161 Sat, 05 Apr 2008 09:03:18 +0100 1352161 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1347457&cid=t_123837_137_f&fid=35357&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FAlzheimersNotes%2F%7E3%2F263203117%2F Not every problem has to be difficult to solve. For example, a Danish Rest Home for Alzheimer’s Patients had a problem with their patients wandering out to the bus stop and sitting on the bench. Some just sat and waited. Others boarded the bus. The solution: A virtual bus stop - complete with bench, clock, and timetable - set up inside the rest home. The residents are happy and the staff no longer have to keep an eye on departing buses. Brilliant. (this story came from Janus at Telegraph.co.uk) Share This (Source: Alzheimer's Notes) Alzheimer's Notes blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1347457 Thu, 03 Apr 2008 08:53:10 +0100 1347457 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1335285&cid=t_123837_137_f&fid=35357&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FAlzheimersNotes%2F%7E3%2F260055930%2F AlzheimersNotes.com  As I was responding to comments on the post about repetitive questions, I agreed that, yes, Alzheimer’s victims certainly can ask a question over and over and try one’s patience.  By the end of the day, the caregiver can be worn out. However, I realized,  this reminded me, too, of when my daughter and then grandchildren were small and going through the “Why, why, why?” stage. Or some days they may get on the “What’s that?” bandwagon.  I think parents often wonder if they’ll outgrow those days. I suppose I went through those stages and Mother had patience with me! The Alzheimer’s patients’ repetitive questions eventually subside and they go on to other stages, just as the toddler does with his/her inquis... Alzheimer's Notes blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1335285 Sat, 29 Mar 2008 05:00:23 +0100 1335285 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1332561&cid=t_123837_137_f&fid=35357&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FAlzheimersNotes%2F%7E3%2F259494044%2F I wrote about artist William Utermolen’s world exhibition of Alzheimer’s painting back in January. His work was about to be seen at a gallery in Sacromento. If, like me, you were unable to see the exhibition, you can now see part of it on this video… Share This (Source: Alzheimer's Notes) Alzheimer's Notes blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1332561 Fri, 28 Mar 2008 07:52:56 +0100 1332561 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1330010&cid=t_123837_137_f&fid=35357&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FAlzheimersNotes%2F%7E3%2F258816643%2F Are you a caregiver having to deal with challenging behaviors ? Then you should check out this great new resource I found. It’s called the Challenging Behaviors Index and provides ideas and advice on how to deal with the varying difficult behaviors that can confront you. The index is broken down into categories such as - activities - aggressive behaviors - agitation - behavior management strategies Choose a category and you move to a page that will provide ideas on how to deal with situation. For example, under aggressive behaviors, suggestions are listed under headings such as ‘try to minimize stress’ and ‘modifying the environment’. Most of these ideas are not new but sometimes it helps to re-read and re-learn. Share This (Source: Alzheimer's Notes) Alzheimer's Notes blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1330010 Thu, 27 Mar 2008 07:38:03 +0100 1330010 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1325185&cid=t_123837_137_f&fid=35357&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FAlzheimersNotes%2F%7E3%2F257503635%2F A series of personal Alzheimer’s experiences put together by the Alzheimer’s Society. Sue Daphne Peter Sheila Share This (Source: Alzheimer's Notes) Alzheimer's Notes blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1325185 Tue, 25 Mar 2008 07:40:31 +0100 1325185 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1320565&cid=t_123837_137_f&fid=35357&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FAlzheimersNotes%2F%7E3%2F255978942%2F Last week I posed about Terry Prachett’s speech to an Alzheimer’s Conference. Now you can see the speech… Part One Part Two Share This (Source: Alzheimer's Notes) Alzheimer's Notes blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1320565 Sat, 22 Mar 2008 09:15:58 +0100 1320565 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1316719&cid=t_123837_137_f&fid=35357&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FAlzheimersNotes%2F%7E3%2F254803094%2F CBS news has an interesting article and video about children growing up around Alzheimer’s Disease. It highlights the fact that Alzheimer’s is a disease that affects people of all ages and generations. Share This (Source: Alzheimer's Notes) Alzheimer's Notes blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1316719 Thu, 20 Mar 2008 09:19:39 +0100 1316719 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1301875&cid=t_123837_137_f&fid=35357&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FAlzheimersNotes%2F%7E3%2F251209234%2F Best selling author Terry Pratchett, recently diagnosed with Alzheimer’s Disease, is speaking out about the ’shameful’ lack of funding to help fight Alzheimer’s. Speaking at a conference of Alzheimer’s Researchers in Bristol this week, Pratchett said “There’s nearly as many of us as there are cancer sufferers, and it looks as if the number of people with the disease will double within a generation. And, in most cases, alongside the sufferer you will find a spouse suffering as much. It’s a shock and a shame, then, to find out that funding for research is three per cent of that which goest to find cancer cures.” You can read his full speech here. 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