MedWorm provides a medical RSS filtering service. Over 6000 RSS medical sources are combined and output via different filters. This feed contains the latest medical blog items that have been tagged with 'good stuff'. Sat, 03 Sep 2011 02:50:47 +0100 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=5103479&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2011%2F08%2Fblog-post.html If you are reading this post on a site other than Not Just About Cancer (besides Facebook or a feed reader), you are reading stolen content. (Source: Not just about cancer) Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=5103479 Fri, 05 Aug 2011 23:48:00 +0100 5103479 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=5096899&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2011%2F08%2Fdogs-can-fly.html The day after I wrote the post about my friend Rebecca, I went to Take the Plunge, a fundraiser for local dog rescue organizations. It was a lot of fun. We had the chance to meet many different kinds of dogs and the people who love them. They came in all shapes and sizes, colours and temperaments. We also met a miniature horse and some ferrets. One woman was pushing a cat in a stroller. The cat wasn't strapped in and seemed quite relaxed amidst all the canine chaos.The central event of the afternoon was the dock diving competition. We watched all kinds of dogs leap after toys into the pool. Some of the dogs needed to be persuaded to get out of the water. Most seemed incredibly pleased with themselves. Everyone - spectators, dogs and their human handlers seemed to be having a wonderful time... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=5096899 Tue, 02 Aug 2011 20:17:00 +0100 5096899 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=5077769&cid=t_147104_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2011%2F07%2F29%2Fbest-of-our-blogs-july-29-2011%2F I think I was about 10 years old when I was astounded by my teacher writing the word “ass” on the chalkboard. She asked the class, “Do you know what assume means? It’s to make an ass out of you and me.” I didn’t get it until years later. But the phrase stuck with me. I think about it every time I wrongly assume an ambivalent email is a slight or a lack of a response is a rejection. Unconsciously, I take one misunderstanding and assume the worse. As Alanis Morissette says in her song So Unsexy, “One forgotten phone call and I’m deflated.” Often our assumptions trigger something in us that makes us feel less than. Mark Lesser of Accomplishing More by Doing Less says triggers, “can be survival patterns from past experiences, or habit... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=5077769 Fri, 29 Jul 2011 11:22:06 +0100 5077769 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=5057891&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2011%2F07%2Fdo-me-favour-honour-my-friend-by-having.html My friend Rebecca died this week. She was all of 37 years old (if I've done the math right) and she had metastatic breast cancer. She was also one of the funniest people in my online community. She was also generous, straigtforward and honest. My heart goes out to her friends and family - the people she loved, wrote about and who knew her best.Rebecca left strict instructions that we were to shed no tears after her passing (I'm afraid I've let her down on that front but I've been doing my best) and that, instead of a funeral she wanted a celebration of her life. I'd love to join the party and to hear the stories that those closest to her would be bound to share. Because Rebecca took her fun seriously.I won't be able to attend the celebration (Rebecca lived in Cape Cod) but I would like to ... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=5057891 Sat, 23 Jul 2011 21:29:00 +0100 5057891 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4992928&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2011%2F07%2Fgood-things-about-being-canadian.html Today is Canada Day. I've been feeling pretty out of sorts about my country lately, for a whole bunch of reasons (the most recent of which is our opposition to listing asbestos as a banned substance at the United Nations. Asbestos is a known cause of cancer. This kind of cancer is solely caused by asbestos. Asbestos is banned in Canada. But we still export the stuff. So it's OK to give people in other countries cancer. Shameful.)And I really don't care about the Royal Visit.I've only been to Parliament Hill once on Canada Day and that was more than twenty years ago, before I lived in Ottawa. I'll be spending the day on the road, in advance of an important family event in Toronto. We'll be listening to talking books, breaking up fights between the kids and trying to convince the dog to stay... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4992928 Fri, 01 Jul 2011 13:00:00 +0100 4992928 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4992929&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2011%2F06%2Fhow-ive-changed.html When I was a young adult, I definitely considered myself to be an extrovert. Then, in 2007, a year or so after my cancer diagnosis (and after being on leave from my job for most of that time), I did the Meyers-Briggs test. The person who explained my results to me said that mine was the most even split between introvert and extrovert that she'd ever seen.Fast forward to last weekend when I attended the PAB conference. Walking in the door on a Friday night to an environment where it felt like everyone already knew each other was terrifying. My chest tightened, my breathing became shallow and I felt something between "slightly queasy" and "I think I'm about to puke my guts  out." I texted Tim, "This is so hard" and sent out similar messages to the Twitterverse (I will be forever gr... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4992929 Thu, 30 Jun 2011 19:07:00 +0100 4992929 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4976144&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2011%2F06%2Fmind-blown.html  PAB2011 group photo by Maurizio Ortolani, uploaded to flickr by Martin Jones.A chance encounter on Bank Street with my friend Andrea Ross led to a plan for a dog walk, which led to a conversation about "PAB", which led to me having my mind blown.The conference is called PAB 2011 (short for Podcasters Across Borders), and is for anyone who is a creater of "content" of any kind, using any medium. You don't have to know a thing about podcasting to attend, just an open spirit and a readiness to share and absorb ideas. It took place this past week end (June 24-26) and my brain is still very, very full.This year's theme was "Your story needs to be told. Well." As with every year for the last few, the venue was the wonderful Fourth Stage of the National Arts Centre (no fluorescent lights!) ... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4976144 Mon, 27 Jun 2011 19:31:00 +0100 4976144 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4953279&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2011%2F06%2Fshort-term-planning.html I kind of left you in suspense yesterday.I was sitting an exam room, waiting to see my oncologist to discuss whether I could continue my break from chemo. Here's what happened next:We waited.We played a little Lexulous.I knit. My hands shook a little. And then the door swung open and Dr. B. entered the room. Dr. B. is not my oncologist. The cancer centre has a title called GPO (which I assume means general practitioner - oncology) for doctors who work with the oncologists. I hadn't seen Dr. B. in more than a year and without hesitating, we hugged each other - something I've never done with any doctor. She's wonderful and she's the only doctor I trust as much as my oncologist.After a physical exam (liver is where it should be and the size it should be. Chest sounds fine) and looki... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4953279 Fri, 17 Jun 2011 13:00:00 +0100 4953279 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4934729&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2011%2F06%2Fnot-so-jaded-after-all.html Yesterday, I had an appointment with my oncologist, the first since our decision that I should take a break from chemo and do Herceptin only for three months.I usually do my appointments over the phone but I decided to go into the cancer centre so that I could have a physical exam and meet with him face to face. Also, I wanted Tim to come with me, so that he would get the same info as I did first hand and have a chance to ask questions. One of the great things about doing appointments on the phone is that I can carry on with my life around the house as I wait for my call. I was reminded of this after waiting first in the waiting area and then in the exam room for nearly an hour.But it was worth it.The first person I met was the nurse who works with my oncologist. It was the first time we m... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4934729 Thu, 16 Jun 2011 23:38:00 +0100 4934729 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4893805&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2011%2F06%2Fpirate-day.html If you are reading this post on a site other than Not Just About Cancer (besides Facebook or a feed reader), you are reading stolen content. (Source: Not just about cancer) Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4893805 Fri, 03 Jun 2011 18:18:00 +0100 4893805 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4872365&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2011%2F05%2Fkitchen-conversation-hes-so-so-right.html My spouse (after listening to lengthy rant #342 yesterday): "Not to excuse that person's bad behaviour, but a lot of things piss you off these days."Me: "True."Spouse: "Oh! We forgot to put the compost out!"Me: (String of expletives, unprintable in a blog my children might read).Spouse (Meaningful silence)Then we both burst out laughing.I need to get some perspective.But at least I can still laugh at myself.If you are reading this post on a site other than Not Just About Cancer (besides Facebook or a feed reader), you are reading stolen content. (Source: Not just about cancer) Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4872365 Fri, 27 May 2011 17:00:00 +0100 4872365 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4872366&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2011%2F05%2Fgeneration-gap.html On Tuesday, as I waited at the Heart Institute for my regular echocardiogram, I had the following brief conversation with the older gentleman sitting beside me.Me: Is that a Playbook?Him: I don't play! This is an ipad!Me: Oh. I was just curious about the Blackberry version of the tablet.Him  (scornfully): Do you have a Blackberry?Me: I do.I didn't bother explaining that I don't find touch screens to be intuitive and that I prefer an actual keyboard for sending emails and texting. Instead, I pulled out my knitting, thus eradicating all doubt that I was the Luddite in our conversation.If you are reading this post on a site other than Not Just About Cancer (besides Facebook or a feed reader), you are reading stolen content. (Source: Not just about cancer) Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4872366 Thu, 26 May 2011 23:47:00 +0100 4872366 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4813613&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2011%2F05%2Ftaller-than-i.html My beautiful first born turned 13 yesterday. The cliche is true - it happens in the blink of an eye. He's a good person - smart, creative, caring and funny. We are so proud of the man he is becoming.If you are reading this post on a site other than Not Just About Cancer (besides Facebook or a feed reader), you are reading stolen content. (Source: Not just about cancer) Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4813613 Wed, 11 May 2011 17:38:00 +0100 4813613 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4803441&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2011%2F05%2Falone-on-mothers-day.html When my spouse first mentioned that he was thinking of taking the boys to the Toronto Comic Arts Festival in Toronto, I protested, "But that's Mothers' Day week end!"Then I stopped to think."Would you be taking both boys?" "I think I'd have to."After a moment's thought (empty house! to myself! quiet writing and reading time!), I bravely said, "I think you should go. I don't want to deprive the boys of this chance."My spouse (clueing in) "Do you want your Mother's Day present to be a week end by yourself?"Me shaking my head and stammering and not quite keeping a straight face, "I'll miss you."So they went. And I have missed them. I've also slept more than 8 hours each night, done a considerable amount of cleaning, read a book, watched stuff on Netflix, had dinner with a friend and taken the... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4803441 Sun, 08 May 2011 17:58:00 +0100 4803441 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4780458&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2011%2F05%2Fnot-really-end.html Did you know that the world is going to end on May 21st, 2011? I saw a guy on a street corner today with a sign that said just that. And then I saw a big-ass caravan with the same message. Contemplation of our impending collective doom helps to put yesterday's election into perspective. It doesn't matter if the Conservatives were gifted with a whopping majority if none of us is going to live long enough to deal with the consequences. There must be more of these end of the world types than I previously suspected. That would help me understand how it is that so many of us thought endorsing the Conservatives would be a good idea.Or something. You'll have to forgive me, it's been a hell of a day. I stayed up way too late watching the election results and then stumbled around like a zombie all ... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4780458 Wed, 04 May 2011 03:07:00 +0100 4780458 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4768198&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2011%2F04%2Fhow-he-moves-in-world.html My baby turned 8 on Friday. I love him so much.If you are reading this post on a site other than Not Just About Cancer (besides Facebook or a feed reader), you are reading stolen content. (Source: Not just about cancer) Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4768198 Fri, 29 Apr 2011 17:04:00 +0100 4768198 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4742616&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2011%2F04%2Fi-could-lose-myself-in-this.html Actually, I have.Someone posted a link to Hyperbole and a Half on Facebook this morning and I was so tickled (and so willing to procrastinate that I got sucked right in. I now have no time to write but I think you'll enjoy her more anyway.If you are reading this post on a site other than Not Just About Cancer (besides Facebook or a feed reader), you are reading stolen content. (Source: Not just about cancer) Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4742616 Thu, 21 Apr 2011 18:19:00 +0100 4742616 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4724182&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2011%2F04%2Fbittersweet-moment.html Yesterday afternoon, my baby fell asleep on my chest. He's almost 8 now and it had been years since this happened. He had two late nights followed by two early mornings, and he'd been tired and cranky. I suggested we curl up in bed for some quiet time. He had a new book to crack open and he was keen. But after awhile he grew restless. We talked about putting on a movie. I told him I felt tired and lazy. He said he did, too. After a few moments of lying quietly, his breath began to slow. Suddenly, he sat up, “Mama, could you stop feeling so lazy. I thought we were going to watch a movie!” “We could do that,” I answered. “But I thought we were going to have a little snooze first.” To my surprise, he said, “OK. I'll have a little snooze.” He put his head on my chest, and withi... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4724182 Mon, 18 Apr 2011 16:45:00 +0100 4724182 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4720046&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2011%2F04%2Fi-can-relate-to-this.html ...and so can, I would wager, anyone who has been harassed by  condescended to infantilized by dealt with an insurance company on health related matters. Especially if you have been on long-term disability for any length of time, you can expect regular correspondence. Blogger Katherine describes this experience:"But as sure as the swallows return to Capistrano, every March CIGNA sends me information on its Cancer Support program. Last year’s began “Good health is a gift.” This year’s reads like a grade school report:Dear KATHERINE O’BRIEN:The American Cancer Society estimates that two men and one in three women will face cancer in their lifetime. Although these are scary statistics, CIGNA HealthCare wants you to know we’re here to help…"Most of us just sigh, groan, maybe... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4720046 Fri, 15 Apr 2011 13:00:00 +0100 4720046 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4714969&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2011%2F04%2Fmy-kids-are-alright.html I had a dream a few nights ago.My kids were in a giant flash mob, dancing their hearts out, surrounded by dozens of other kids and adults. They were exuberant and focused, their movements fluid and in synch with those around them. My heart swelled with pride and joy.I learned that the flash mob had been created to drum up excitement over an upcoming performance. In a couple of hours, my kids would go on stage and perform. I could tell they were ready.Then I was handed a note. My own performance was scheduled for right after theirs. I was wholly unprepared. I hadn't even looked at my script. I was rushing off to find it when my alarm went off.Sacha was in a play very recently. And they did organize a flash mob a week before the performance, as a form of advertisement. And Sacha performed be... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4714969 Thu, 14 Apr 2011 13:00:00 +0100 4714969 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4693466&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2011%2F04%2Foptimism-tested.html As we were listening to yet another story on the news this morning about how the Tories and the RCMP have barred people from attending campaign events (for things like having a photo of Ignatieff on their Facebook page or having been involved in an youth environmental organization), my spouse announced "It's going to work."I was only half way into my first coffee, so I made him repeat himself. "None of this is going to matter," he said. "It's a story for now but it won't affect the election. The Conservatives will get a majority and then, next time, the other parties will have learned that hateful advertising and ignoring the truth are the best strategies to get ahead." (Forgive me, Tim, I'm paraphrasing. That's the gist of what he said)I fear that he's right. Even the revelations about fo... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4693466 Fri, 08 Apr 2011 17:40:00 +0100 4693466 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4684674&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2011%2F04%2Fearly-memories.html A few childhood memories remain incredibly vivid. Some have been worn into grooves in my brain, they have been retold so often. With those, I am unsure where my recollections end and those of others begin. Others, I am quite certain, are mine alone.Here are twenty memories, off the top of my head. Some I have likely shared here before but of some others, I have never spoken, let alone written:1. Sliding down the driveway at my friend's house, until my pants were worn out. I was wearing a jump suit with giraffes on it and I was in big trouble.2. Being in love with an airline pilot. He was my aunt's boyfriend and he brought me presents from all over the world. He also called me Miss Muffet.3. My father telling me that my baby sister had been born.Those first three memories were from when we ... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4684674 Wed, 06 Apr 2011 17:32:00 +0100 4684674 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4677038&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2011%2F04%2Frandom-on-rainy-day.html There's something about a cold, rainy day that makes me just want to crawl back under the covers. I've resisted that temptation all day but I'm fighting a cold and my brain doesn't seem to want to function, except in fits and starts.Here are some random thoughts, that I'm posting as a compromise between cogent and nothing at all.1. All four performances of my son's play went very, very well this week end. I could not be prouder of him. He worked very hard for many months, to learn his lines and his blocking and he got himself to every rehearsal on time. The director gushed about him and said that she'd loved to work with him again. He had a big part and he was brilliant.2. I thought, as his mother, that I was very restrained. I found myself reacting quite viscerally to the kids and teacher... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4677038 Mon, 04 Apr 2011 20:29:00 +0100 4677038 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4670300&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2011%2F04%2Fquestions-for-candidates.html From the Canadian Breast Cancer Network: Questions to ask your local candidates during the election campaign Question 1: The Financial Impact of Breast Cancer  In May 2010, the Canadian Breast Cancer Network released the research report entitled Breast Cancer: Economic Impact & Labour Force Re-Entry, which firmly positioned breast cancer as an economic as well as a healthcare issue.  The economic impact of breast cancer is significant, and in many cases devastating for patients and their families. 80% of respondents experienced an economic impact following their diagnosis, often with distressing long-term financial consequences.   Some report findings: Average decline in household income was $12,000 or 10% of family income44% of respondents used savin... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4670300 Fri, 01 Apr 2011 18:34:00 +0100 4670300 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4636618&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2011%2F03%2Fgiving-in-to-monkey-brain.html HerceptinI think I'm happy with the outcome of the brouhaha over Herceptin in Ontario. For those of you outside the province or outside the loop. Jill Anzarut, a 35 year old breast woman undergoing treatment for breast cancer made the news last week when she announced that the province had to pay for Herceptin because her Her2+ tumour was less than one centimetre (that's about 1/4 inch) in diameter. The province initially refused to budge but eventually caved after a massive campaign played out in the social and traditional media. Access to Herceptin will now much more room for discretion when it comes to providing access to the drug.I feel good about this. It's not that I think that every drug should be funded for every person. Her2+ cancers are very aggressive and, as best put by Stephen... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4636618 Fri, 25 Mar 2011 17:33:00 +0100 4636618 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4631619&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2011%2F03%2Fhow-i-fill-my-days-for-better-or-worse.html If you are reading this post on a site other than Not Just About Cancer (besides Facebook or a feed reader), you are reading stolen content. (Source: Not just about cancer) Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4631619 Fri, 25 Mar 2011 02:12:00 +0100 4631619 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4626992&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2011%2F03%2Fwhere-ive-been.html Hey there.March has been a busy month for our little household. And last week was March Break. We all drove to Toronto and then our oldest, S., went to visit two of his parental grandparents in Florida. It was his first flight (other than a short hop between Toronto and Ottawa) on his own (and he's now too old to be an "unaccompanied minor"). But I'm getting ahead of myself.It seems that I'm not so great at multi-tasking these days. I have lots of blog posts in my head but before I write them, I thought I'd catch you up on what we've been up to since my last post.On Saturday, March 12, I ran a bunch of errands and packed for our week away. We also went shopping for new clothes that my 7 year old could wear for a theatre date with his Grandma in Toronto. He was very pleased with t... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4626992 Thu, 24 Mar 2011 01:35:00 +0100 4626992 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4575216&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2011%2F03%2Fnow-this-could-be-fun.html I've written before about the one major limitation of Herceptin - that it doesn't cross the brain-blood barrier. A couple of years ago (after meeting several young women with metastasis that had spread to the brain), I underwent a brain MRI. To my very great relief, there was no evidence of trouble but I think I'll will be requesting another before too long.A few days ago, my friend Deanna posted a link to Breast Cancer? But Doctor...I Hate Pink and to Ann's take on the news that Viagra may help Herceptin to (ahem) penetrate the blood-brain barrier and thus help reduce the size of brain tumours. As Anne tells it:"Herceptin, the wonder drug, has a flaw: it does not cross the blood-brain barrier. The blood-brain barrier was erected designed by nature to protect our brains from dangerous... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4575216 Fri, 11 Mar 2011 16:18:00 +0100 4575216 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4575098&cid=t_147104_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2011%2F03%2F11%2Fbest-of-our-blogs-march-11-2011%2F I have a confession to make. Last year, I did something crazy and unlike me. I participated in a comedy show called Penn & Teller’s Bullshit on Showtime. For someone as introverted as I am, it was one of the most scariest and embarrassing things I ever did. It’s not something I am especially excited to share. But I’m doing so for a reason. The subject of the show was affirmations. It questioned whether there was anything really beneficial to it or just another laughable practice best turned into a parody on Saturday Night Live. You know like Stuart Smalley’s, “Daily Affirmations?” Surprisingly, it’s not all, “I’m good enough, I’m smart enough, and doggone it people like me.” There are actually real benefits to affirmatio... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4575098 Fri, 11 Mar 2011 10:37:29 +0100 4575098 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4495382&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2011%2F02%2Fscoped.html I once had a colleague who was a former Fleet Street journalist. I can't remember his name but I do remember a story he told over a particularly boozy dinner."The worst kinds of press releases," he said, "keep all the best bits for the end. That's just not how it should be done. It's like reading a news story that says 'A crowd gathered at Buckingham Palace today. There were also fire engines and ambulances. The corgies were brought out to safety. The Palace burned to the ground. The Queen is dead." As I went on to work in communications, I kept that anecdote in mind and tried to make sure that the most important facts were kept in the lead of my news releases.But this is not a news release and I can tell my story in way that pleases me.I had an endoscopy yesterday.I wasn't terribly worrie... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4495382 Fri, 18 Feb 2011 20:37:00 +0100 4495382 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4478018&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2011%2F02%2Ffeeling-better.html Because I've been able to go out for walks and for runs with the dog.Because I had a really nice weekend and a very nice Valentine's Day (especially for someone who doesn't really celebrate it).Because I have so many wonderful people in my life.Because some of my symptoms have improved considerably (and they most definitely did not improve at all before I was diagnosed with the recurrence of cancer).Because I have survived experiences that have been far more physically traumatic (like giving birth. Twice) than an endoscopy could possibly be.I am feeling better today.If you are reading this post on a site other than Not Just About Cancer (besides Facebook or a feed reader), you are reading stolen content. (Source: Not just about cancer) Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4478018 Tue, 15 Feb 2011 16:10:00 +0100 4478018 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4460140&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2011%2F02%2Fdog-ate-it.html My 12 year old has been asking for a Blu-Ray player. We've informed him, many times, that given our current need for fiscal restraint, this kind of luxury is not in the cards, for the time being. This morning, he and I were cuddling with the dog and talking about how much we love her. S. asked about her ongoing skin issues and when she's going to start her latest hypoallergenic diet. Me: "When the new food arrives at the vet."S.: "Poor Lucy."Me (sensing a "teachable moment"): "We had another big vet bill this week. Enough to pay for several Blu-Ray players."S.: "Really?"Me: "Yup. She's not the reason that finances are tight but she's one of our priorities. We love her and we have a responsibility to take care of her. The food, medicine and tests - it all adds up."S. (grinning aff... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4460140 Thu, 10 Feb 2011 16:44:00 +0100 4460140 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4372211&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2011%2F01%2Falmost-wordless-wednesday-playing.html He said, "That was perfect." If you are reading this post on a site other than Not Just About Cancer (besides Facebook or a feed reader), you are reading stolen content. (Source: Not just about cancer) Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4372211 Wed, 19 Jan 2011 20:47:00 +0100 4372211 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4361252&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F10%2Fdo-you-live-in-ottawa-have-you-been.html Do you live in Ottawa? Have you been treated for cancer or are you in treatment now? Can you get to Old Ottawa South on Wednesdays at noon? Maureen Fallis, Director of Surround Circle Yoga, Certified yogaTHRIVE© Teacher has put together what promises to be a great program. I'm excited and planning on participating. Care to join me?YOGA THRIVEA course specifically designed for people who have an experience with cancer.“Peace, ease, strength and a renewed sense of being human – this was my experience. It must have been the power of yoga at work!” S.B.yogaThrive© is a therapeutic yoga program that will help improve body mechanics, breathing, ease, flexibility and strength. This 8-week program is designed to work at a physical level providing for immense shifts physically, mentally, em... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4361252 Tue, 18 Jan 2011 16:55:00 +0100 4361252 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4338211&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2011%2F01%2Fi-forgot-important-one.html I read it last January and it still haunts me. The characters. The prose. The story. City Of Thieves by David Benioff manages to be devastatingly tragic, powerfully hopeful and sharply funny. It's on the list of my life-time favourites.Please forgive the hyperbole.I just can't believe I forgot this book when I wrote up yesterday's list. Set during the first world war and the siege of Leningrad, City of Thieves tells the story of a young Jewish man who, in order to save himself, must find eggs - to be used to make a wedding cake for an officer's daughter - during a time of famine. His companion on this quest is a worldly Russian soldier and aspiring writer. The two men encounter the best and worst of human character and become the most unlikely of friends.This one is beautiful.If you are re... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4338211 Tue, 11 Jan 2011 16:42:00 +0100 4338211 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4331193&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2011%2F01%2Fup-to-my-eyeballs-in-print.html I read a lot of books last year. Seventy-one books, to be precise. And some of them were really big.These are my favourites. These ten are the ones I think you should read, too.Wolf Hall by Hilary Mantel - winner of last year's Man Booker award. I found it slow going at first and then was completely swept up in the life of Thomas Cromwell and the intrigues of life in the court of King Henry the VIII. It's made me want to read a lot more about Henry and the folks who advised and served him.An Abundance Of Katherines by John Green- my twelve year old rediscovered reading when he found John Green and he begged me to read this book. I reluctantly agreed, not having read much young adult ficiton (or YA, as the kids call it) and then went on to devour this novel and almost everything else this a... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4331193 Mon, 10 Jan 2011 20:21:00 +0100 4331193 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4314188&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2011%2F01%2Fguest-blogging.html I was honoured to be asked to be this week's guest blogger for the Ottawa Regional Cancer Foundation (the folks who organized my recent makeover).Let me know what you think. I even like the photo they're using!  If you are reading this post on a site other than Not Just About Cancer (besides Facebook or a feed reader), you are reading stolen content. (Source: Not just about cancer) Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4314188 Wed, 05 Jan 2011 19:06:00 +0100 4314188 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4309818&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2011%2F01%2Fwhy-i-love-twitter.html People often ask what it is I love about Twitter. I tell them how useful it is to get advice and share information - about resources, local business, good things to read, etc. I also love the quick exchanges of ideas, the wit and the humour.Twitter is fun.And last week, I found a new reason to love Twitter. Trading. Check out the two exchanges below in which I gained a Canada Reads book from the author and the best quiche that I've ever eaten. Read each conversation from the bottom up (sorry it's so small and blurry - click on each image to make it larger and much easier to read).Postcript: When I couldn't figure out how to capture and embed Twitter conversations, I turned to Twitter for help. I got several great responses and, in the end a friend who I met via LibraryThing and got to know... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4309818 Tue, 04 Jan 2011 02:41:00 +0100 4309818 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4302958&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2011%2F01%2Fhappy-new-year.html In 2010, I:Made soup.Started running again and kept at it (in fact, I did the Resolution Run 5K last night before breaking into the wine and fondue).Started editing my novel. It doesn't really have an ending yet but I don't totally hate what I've written, so that's a start.Found a writing buddy.Knit a lot of dish cloths.Played lots of Scrabble/LexulousHad my heartbroken when my dog died.Went to Florida in the in the summer to get away from a heat wave.Spent some quality time with girlfriends.Organized a team for the Run for the Cure, called No Pink for Profit. By run day, we were more than 40 women and we raised more than $20,000.Fell in love with Twitter.Finally got a smart phone.Learned that grief is not a linear process.Spent a lot of time thinking about community, friends and family. I... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4302958 Sat, 01 Jan 2011 17:54:00 +0100 4302958 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4272359&cid=t_147104_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2010%2F12%2F20%2Fsavoring-2010%2F Resolutions — figuring out how to improve and move on — are fine. But resolutions snap us into the mindset of getting on with our lives, thinking about how we’d like to be, and glancing forward toward happiness. But there are new words in town. The positive psychology movement is all about savoring and flourishing. We know that negative thoughts seem to be stronger than positive thoughts and the tipping point in building up a critical mass for positivity is about 3 to 1 in favor of more positive thoughts. At that point there is a shift in our brain and perception toward looking for, and savoring, positive thoughts and experiences. When we do this we flourish. Savoring allows us to linger on the too-short-lived positive experiences that we have. The future always seems to be... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4272359 Mon, 20 Dec 2010 11:20:59 +0100 4272359 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4220422&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F12%2Fspeaks-to-me.html Thank you xkcd.If you are reading this post on a site other than Not Just About Cancer (besides Facebook or a feed reader), you are reading stolen content. (Source: Not just about cancer) Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4220422 Wed, 01 Dec 2010 15:54:00 +0100 4220422 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4203282&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F11%2Fit-gets-better-and-it-can-get-better.html Chances are very good that you've already heard of the It Gets Better Project, which was started in response to a series of suicides. Young people (some as young as 13 years old) are choosing to kill themselves rather than continue to deal with being bullied or shamed.I love this powerful, touching and often funny series of videos aimed to give hope to young (and older) teens who are feeling depressed or alone because of their real or perceived sexual orientation.This one from Pixar is the favourite in my house.A day or two ago, The Maven shared this video on Facebook. These kids are saying that things need to get better now, not just in the future. It's brilliant and I am in awe.Reteaching Gender and Sexuality from PUT THIS ON THE MAP on Vimeo.If you are reading this post on a site other ... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4203282 Fri, 26 Nov 2010 14:45:00 +0100 4203282 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4203283&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F11%2Fbut-i-have-excuse.html I bailed on National Novel Writing Month on the first day, having written just under 700 words.I felt like there were too many other interesting bits of writing that I wanted to do, including continuing to edit last year's novel.And then my life became insane. I've been really hard on myself for all the things I'm not doing lately. This week, though, I've had two people who are very important to me (my coach/therapist and my friend DM) listen to me unload and then tell me that I would have every right to feel overwhelmed with a fraction of what I've got on my plate.I tend to be hard on myself because I don't work outside the home right now. If I don't go to a job I feel like I should just sail through my other commitments. It felt really good to list everything going on in my life and have... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4203283 Thu, 25 Nov 2010 20:43:00 +0100 4203283 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4197303&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F11%2Fand-then-my-hair-got-did-final-makeover.html Of the four women being made over, two of us picked our clothes and shoes in the morning and then had our hair done after lunch. I was grateful to be in the afternoon group and have someone else do the work for a couple of hours. Actually, I did have to do a bit of work. It took concentration to separate those little papers. You can't really see all of them, but there are THREE little bowls of colout being applied to my head. This is my favourite part. And this is why my hair will never again look the way it did when Tony was finished with it. How does anyone do the back of their own head like that? Thanks so much to Tony from L'Elégance Salon (they don't have a web site or I'd provide a link), the St. Laurent Centre and the Ottawa Regional Cancer Foundation for making all o... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4197303 Wed, 24 Nov 2010 14:43:00 +0100 4197303 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4197304&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F11%2Fand-then-it-got-easier.html It's not that I don't have anything else to talk about. It's just that life has been really, really busy lately and when I finally get the time to blog, my brain is no longer working.I thought I'd continue sharing my makeover photo-story with you. Please feel free to move right along if you're bored with this stuff. Let me know in the comments if you've read anything interesting lately.Meanwhile, the shoe store was more fun than the changing room:First I had to pretend to be shopping for shoes, so that A Channel could get some footage.Check out the heels on these babies.I threw on this dress so that I could be filmed without ruining the surprise. It hadn't even been among the outfits that I considered but I loved it so much that I thought about changing my mind. Or going back a few days la... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4197304 Tue, 23 Nov 2010 21:34:00 +0100 4197304 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4190428&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F11%2Fchronological-order.html Arrived at the St. Laurent Centre with my friend SS, met the other women and realized that I was going to have an exciting day.I was impressed with Tony from L'Elegance. He was consultative but had a pretty clear idea of what he wanted to do.Trying on clothes was hard work. I don't have photos of some of the real duds or I would share (really I would). Finding items that fit and looked good was a real challenge and there were moments when I felt extremely frustrated. There were lots of great helpers, though.I was determined to be open-minded but this was just too much sparkly for me. I felt like I was wearing a very shiny washboard.If you are reading this post on a site other than Not Just About Cancer (besides Facebook or a feed reader), you are reading stolen content. (Source: Not just a... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4190428 Mon, 22 Nov 2010 13:49:00 +0100 4190428 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4183468&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F11%2Fmakeover-day.html We arrived at the studio very early.The anticipation was far worse than the experience of being on camera, which went pretty smoothly. And I didn't fall down!The Fab Four with Tony from L'Elégance Hair (Tony gave us hours of his time - all day Monday and early Wednesday morning - taking great care with our colour and cuts. This lovely man is an artist. You should all go to St. Laurent Centre and get him to do your hair).My favourite interviewer.Blogging on the fly today (more pics and words about all of this soon) but I didn't want to let another day go by without acknowledging those who made this possible.My friends AB for nominating me, SS for coming on Monday and MR for getting up early and joining my family at the studio.My man and my boys (all photos courtesy of SKW) for the nominati... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4183468 Fri, 19 Nov 2010 16:53:00 +0100 4183468 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4172294&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F11%2Fmakeover-show-tomorrow.html For those in the Ottawa area, my makeover will be televised on the A Channel tomorrow morning. My segments will air tomorrow morning at 9:13, 9:35 and 9:48.Yesterday, I shopped and had my hair done. Tune in tomorrow for the big "reveal." Look at my smile in this pic. I was very spoiled and surrounded by amazingly caring people all day. I was overwhelmed by the kindness and enthusiasm of everyone I met, including the other three women who joined me in this adventure.Thanks so much to the St. Laurent Centre and the Ottawa Regional Cancer Foundation for making this happen, to T. and AB for nominating me and to SS for coming with me for moral support (and taking all these great photos).If you are reading this post on a site other than Not Just About Cancer (besides Facebook or a feed reader), ... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4172294 Tue, 16 Nov 2010 16:55:00 +0100 4172294 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4163026&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F11%2Fmaking-adventure.html photo: M. SlavitchEarly Thursday afternoon, as I woke up from a nap (I'd been sleeping off the toxins of chemo), my spouse came down from his attic office with an odd look on his face."Are you ready for some news?""Is it good news or bad news?" I said, attempting wake up."Good news, I think." He was giggling and looked a little stunned."Remember when you asked me to nominate you for a makeover at St, Laurent Shopping Centre?"My eyes widened."You're in!"They he told me that I needed to go to the mall for shopping and consultation and then, on Wednesday, I would be going to /A\ Channel to be made over on the air.In case you missed that last bit, I'll repeat that this is a TELEVISED MAKEOVER."There's more," Tim added as I sat opening and closing my mouth like a fish. "It's a holiday makeover.... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4163026 Sat, 13 Nov 2010 00:50:00 +0100 4163026 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4152156&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F11%2Fcontested-irrelevance.html I'm going to be quoting this brilliant speech given by my friend Andrea today (I'm doing a talk at Carleton University) and I realized that I have never shared it with you here, even though I found it to be deeply inspiring.Please watch, and go and leave a comment over at We Can Rebuild Her so that Andrea can know the relevance and resonance of her words. It's a welcome reminder that nothing we do to effect positive change in this world is ever irrelevant.This talk got a standing ovation at PAB 2010. I've watched it several times and it still gives me shivers.If you are reading this post on a site other than Not Just About Cancer (besides Facebook or a feed reader), you are reading stolen content. (Source: Not just about cancer) Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4152156 Mon, 08 Nov 2010 18:00:00 +0100 4152156 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4134141&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F11%2Fthis-is-kind-of-nice.html TopOnlineColleges.com as included Not Just About Cancer in their list of "15 Inspiring Breast Cancer Blogs."Get inspired by this breast cancer survivor, who turned her unfortunate situation into a book about defying the odds and beating cancer.Pretty cool, no? It's nice to know that someone's reading and finding resonance in my words. As for the "beating cancer" part - I know it lurks there somewhere and that we who have gone to Stage 4 are never, ever out of the woods but I do like to think I'm beating it.If you are reading this post on a site other than Not Just About Cancer (besides Facebook or a feed reader), you are reading stolen content. (Source: Not just about cancer) Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4134141 Wed, 03 Nov 2010 16:22:00 +0100 4134141 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4134142&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F11%2Fmind-body-spirit.html Thanks to Andrea for the photo.I just spent an inspiring (and I don't use that word lightly) week end at Body, Mind, Spirit, 2010: National Conference for Young Women Living with Breast Cancer.My best parts:A Friday afternoon workshop: "Take charge of Your Treatment for Women with Metastatic Breast Cancer" with Dr. Maureen Trudeau. Engaging, accessible, interesting, informative and hopeful. A Saturday afternoon workshop: "Intimacy after Cancer: Rekindling the Flame" with Dr. Sally Kydd. Amusing, motivating, reassuring, helpful and just plain fun.A Sunday morning workshop: "Living with Metastatic Breast Cancer. Support that Works" with Dr. Tzeporah Cohen. Emotional,moving, cathartic, uniting, strengthening.Speakers who resonated: Deborah Dubenofsky (Ontario Region Board Chair, Canadian Brea... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4134142 Tue, 02 Nov 2010 15:28:00 +0100 4134142 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4125223&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F11%2Fsugar-hangover.html Lots to tell about the conference I just attended but I'm exhausted and it's not just the result of all the sugar that was consumed in our house last night. Instead of words, I give you some of the coolest kids in the world:How often does one see a lady bug hanging out with Captain Kirk and the Grim Reaper? Death himself is my adorable offspring. The little trekkie and the bug are his very brave friends.12 year old S. opted not to go trick or treating for the first time this year. Instead, he and his dad went to an early viewing off a movie that's usually shown at midnight. He's a character from that movie. Can you guess who he is? Those who've been privy to the discussion on Facebook are not allowed to vote!If you are reading this post on a site other than Not Just About Cancer (besides F... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4125223 Mon, 01 Nov 2010 14:17:00 +0100 4125223 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4119527&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F10%2Fwhat-i-would-miss.html I just did an interesting writing prompt from Old Friend From Far Away by Natalie Goldberg: "Tell me what you will miss when you die."The instructions were to write for ten minutes without censoring yourself. Here's what I wrote:My kidsMy spouseMy familyMy friendsMy dogBeautiful fall daysWalks along the canal with my dogGetting lost in a bookTaking a nap on a cold afternoonKnitting with friendsThe feeling of euphoria when I write something goodMusicGood foodLaughingWondering at artA hot bath after exercisePhysical intimacy (all kinds)The happy feeling when I unexpectedly run into someone I likeLearning new thingsAha! momentsSeeing people do good thingsBeing proud of my childrenNoisy gatherings around my dining room tableDoing fun things for the first timeDoing familiar things that make me ... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4119527 Tue, 26 Oct 2010 14:17:00 +0100 4119527 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4098334&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F10%2Fserendipitous-cycle.html I feel like a little kid again.On August 15, I won a bike.I was at the Ottawa Folk Festival and I bought three raffle tickets for five dollars. I told several people that I planned to win the third prize - a Kona Africabike 3, donated by McCrank's Cycles.And then I did!And here's the interesting part. I really, really wanted a new bike. I've been riding the same diamond frame (commonly called a men's bike) hybrid for almost twenty years. It's probably the wrong size for me and had started causing me neck and shoulder pain when I rode for more than a few minutes.Over the summer, I test rode at least a dozen bicycles from four different bike shops. I came close to buying three times but each time, something held me back.Our finances are really tight right now and I would have to commit to an... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4098334 Fri, 22 Oct 2010 14:52:00 +0100 4098334 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4086458&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F10%2Fottawa-october.html All photos: K. BruinIn October, I live in the most beautiful place in the world.On, Thanksgiving week end (two weeks ago for those of you reading outside of Canada), my family was so fortunate to have a wonderful guest. My friend K. and I have been friends since we were 17 years old. We met as new room-mates in Room 1 of McLaughlin House at Lester B. Pearson College of the Pacific. She was there representing the Netherlands and I hailed from Hawkesbury, Ontario.We became friends pretty much instantly, through struggles with friendships, school and heartbreak and whole lot of fun. We travelled to Vancouver together and she once took me out on a sail boat into the bay so I could engage in a little primal screaming.In my second year, after she'd graduated, I missed her terribly. We've been lu... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4086458 Wed, 20 Oct 2010 14:12:00 +0100 4086458 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4082276&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F10%2Fomg.html If you are reading this post on a site other than Not Just About Cancer (besides Facebook or a feed reader), you are reading stolen content. (Source: Not just about cancer) Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4082276 Tue, 19 Oct 2010 14:09:00 +0100 4082276 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4074343&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F10%2Fmaking-best-of-it.html I think I've coped with chemo week much better this time around (thanks in part to some good advice from a friend).If you are reading this post on a site other than Not Just About Cancer (besides Facebook or a feed reader), you are reading stolen content. (Source: Not just about cancer) Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4074343 Fri, 15 Oct 2010 23:14:00 +0100 4074343 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4065552&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F10%2Fdo-you-live-in-ottawa-have-you-been.html Do you live in Ottawa? Have you been treated for cancer or are you in treatment now? Can you get to Old Ottawa South on Wednesdays at noon? Maureen Fallis, Director of Surround Circle Yoga, Certified yogaTHRIVE© Teacher has put together what promises to be a great program. I'm excited and planning on participating. Care to join me?YOGA THRIVEA course specifically designed for people who have an experience with cancer. “Peace, ease, strength and a renewed sense of being human – this was my experience. It must have been the power of yoga at work!” S.B. yogaThrive© is a therapeutic yoga program that will help improve body mechanics, breathing, ease, flexibility and strength. This 8-week program is designed to work at a physical level providing for immense shifts physically, mentally, ... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4065552 Wed, 13 Oct 2010 19:23:00 +0100 4065552 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4045289&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F10%2Fbody-mind-spirit-national-conference.html From the Canadian Breast Cancer Network:Please circulate this to your network members, friends and family, we would love to see them there! OTTAWA, Oct 1 /CNW/ - Today, October 1, is the start of Breast Cancer Awareness Month and the Canadian Breast Cancer Network and co-presenter Canadian Breast Cancer Foundation will recognize the month with a unique networking event for 400 young women with breast cancer. The National Conference, called "Body, Mind, Spirit", will offer young women with breast cancer the opportunity to network with others who understand their situation, find out about the latest research directly from some of Canada's bright young researchers, and follow theme sessions on issues everyone with breast cancer is confronted with. Young women will have the chance to be supp... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4045289 Fri, 08 Oct 2010 13:00:00 +0100 4045289 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4040726&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F10%2Fletter-of-day.html Yesterday, CBC Radio's Q featured an interview with Samantha King, author of Pink Ribbons Inc. At the end of the interview, listeners asked the following questions (they were also posted to the Q blog): What are your impressions of cancer fundraising and awareness efforts? Are they working? Do you find any aspect of them troubling?My sister-in-law, B. alerted me to the interview (she listens on the east coast schedule) and encouraged me to write a letter in response. This morning, a slightly edited version of this letter was read on the air (I was the "Letter of the Day"):In January 2006, when I was 38 years old an the mother of two young children, I was diagnosed with very aggressive breast cancer. I underwent a brutal treatment regimen only to learn in November of that same year that the... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4040726 Thu, 07 Oct 2010 15:49:00 +0100 4040726 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4031304&cid=t_147104_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2010%2F10%2F05%2Fbest-of-our-blogs-october-5-2010%2F It’s October and Mental Health Awareness Week! How are you celebrating? Yep, there’s no denying it’s fall. I went to the park this weekend and the crispy air and falling leaves were signs that this is indeed the end of the ease of summer and the beginning of a new season. Every ending has a new beginning and like New Year’s it is another opportunity for self-growth and change. It beckons us to ask the question, “Will I embrace the coming season or mourn the lost of the one before?” If you are courageous, brave and on a mission for change, then you’ll be tickled with this week’s top posts. Why? Do you remember the scene in Bridget Jones’s Diary where Bridget’s enemy Mark Darcy suddenly turns into the love of her life over night wi... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4031304 Tue, 05 Oct 2010 12:32:22 +0100 4031304 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4031440&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F10%2Fi-ran-for-cure.html photo: Ian HendelWith my sister.At the finish line.Wearing my Songbird scarf.And my hat from Texas.Team NO PINK FOR PROFIT was 43 members strong. We raised a whopping $25,000.Sometimes life is very sweet.If you are reading this post on a site other than Not Just About Cancer (besides Facebook or a feed reader), you are reading stolen content. (Source: Not just about cancer) Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4031440 Mon, 04 Oct 2010 15:29:00 +0100 4031440 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4025744&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F10%2Fhappy-october.html If you are reading this post on a site other than Not Just About Cancer (besides Facebook or a feed reader), you are reading stolen content. (Source: Not just about cancer) Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4025744 Sun, 03 Oct 2010 00:29:00 +0100 4025744 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3994239&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F09%2Fwild-and-crazy-goal.html I have been overwhelmed and touched by all the donations I've collected for the Run for the Cure.Our team, No Pink for Profit, has more than thirty members.I'm - ahem - tickled pink.I've raised $1,558.00, way more than I'd anticipated. And maybe all this generosity and enthusiasm have made me delirious but I've begun to wonder, "what if I could make it an even $2000.00?"What do you think? Is it possible? Want to help? If you are reading this post on a site other than Not Just About Cancer (besides Facebook or a feed reader), you are reading stolen content. (Source: Not just about cancer) Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3994239 Tue, 21 Sep 2010 13:00:00 +0100 3994239 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3958033&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F09%2Fwomen-who-care.html A wonderful book was published this week. Women Who Care features stories of women's health care experiences - as providers and as patients. The book was the brain-child of Dr. Nili Kaplan Myrth:In her third year of medical training - discouraged by how little focus there was on caring - a young woman was faced with a decision: she could throw her hands up and quit or she could risk speaking up and work toward change. She decided to send out a call asking women to share their experiences with health care and caring. Her e-mail inbox immediately overflowed with stories from women across Canada Together, this amazing group of women wrote Women Who Care.The book was published by Pottersfield Press. I'm proud to say that an essay I've written has been included. It's called "Patient Personified... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3958033 Fri, 10 Sep 2010 16:14:00 +0100 3958033 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3946654&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F09%2Fopen-letter-run-for-cure.html Dear Friends and Family, This year, I am running/walking in the Run for the Cure in support of the Canadian Breast Cancer Foundation and I'm writing to ask if you'd be willing to make a donation. As you know, this is an issue that is very personal for me. In November 2006, when I was told that my breast cancer had spread to my liver, I knew no one who had survived this kind of diagnosis. Even my oncologist reluctantly told me that I had “years not decades” to live. But my response to treatment was immediate and dramatic – by June 2007, there was no longer any sign of cancer in my body. As I write this, I am still in remission. I'm also still in treatment, as we don't know enough about what happens when metastatic breast cancer disappears to make an informed decision about stopping. T... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3946654 Thu, 09 Sep 2010 01:26:00 +0100 3946654 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3889269&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F08%2Fmore-soup.html Starring (in order of appearance): olive oil, onions, garlic, garam masala, chipotle powder, water, vegetable stock, brown lentils, tomatoes, yu choy sum (Chinese greens), lemon juice, ground coriander. Served with a dollop of yogurt.Loosely based on a Lebanese lentil soup recipe from the Toronto Star. I was out of cumin so substituted the garam masala. Ditto on the chipotle powder instead of cayenne. Soup is spicy but very, very good (if I do say so myself).If you are reading this post on a site other than Not Just About Cancer (besides Facebook or a feed reader), you are reading stolen content. (Source: Not just about cancer) Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3889269 Thu, 19 Aug 2010 19:42:00 +0100 3889269 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3868901&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F08%2Fdown-time-at-ottawa-folk-festival.html My spouse and youngest son and I went to the Ottawa Folk Festival this past week end. I love these shots T. took of D. and I chilling out between the afternoon and evening programming.I didn't have any pockets, so I resorted to an old habit of sticking my cable needle in my cleavage. Except, I don't really have cleavage any more. The pointy cable needle kept falling over and I had to keep reaching into my bra to fish it out.This amused me.The scarf I'm making has one asymmetrical cable.This amuses me, too.If you are reading this post on a site other than Not Just About Cancer (besides Facebook or a feed reader), you are reading stolen content. (Source: Not just about cancer) Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3868901 Mon, 16 Aug 2010 01:28:00 +0100 3868901 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3865405&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F08%2F43-things-part-four.html 32. I can organize ideas, a campaign or a project but I can't organize my house or even a room to save my life.33. If I become interested in something, it can easily turn into an obsession. At least for a little while.34. I'm trying to ride my bike as much as possible. I think I'm becoming addicted (see above).35. I'm always a little surprised to discover that someone likes me.36. I didn't think Facebook birthday wishes were a big deal until it was my birthday. I loved getting messages from all over the world and from people from all parts of my life.37. I have already passed my minimum goal of raising $150 for the Run for the Cure. I dream of wildly exceeding that.38. Two of my favourite childhood memories are of a family cross-country ski trip and going sailing on my uncle's boat. I don'... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3865405 Fri, 13 Aug 2010 14:43:00 +0100 3865405 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3865406&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F08%2Fsoup.html Starring (in order of appearance): onions, garlic, tumeric, ginger, coriander, cumin, chipotle powder, cabbage, carrots, sweet potatoes, salt.If you are reading this post on a site other than Not Just About Cancer (besides Facebook or a feed reader), you are reading stolen content. (Source: Not just about cancer) Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3865406 Wed, 11 Aug 2010 18:01:00 +0100 3865406 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3854710&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F08%2F43-things-part-three.html 22. One day, when I was small, my aunt bought me a Buster Bar. Before I could eat it, it fell off the stick. She didn't buy me another one. 23 I had Dilly Bars instead of cake on my birthday this year. I ate two.24. I also had a beer during the day on my birthday, something I consider very decadent. I usually only do this with my friends L. and K. (otherwise known as Sassymonkey).25. The day after a social gathering, I spend a lot of time second guessing my behaviour, even when especially when I had a good time.26. I feel guilty about something several times a day. Only recently did I discover that this is not a universal experience. I'm curious what it's like not to feel guilty. 27. My life in treatment is a constant tension between search for structure and then rebellion against sel... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3854710 Wed, 11 Aug 2010 00:35:00 +0100 3854710 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3849040&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F08%2Fi-get-personal-with-run-for-cure.html This is the text from my page at Run for the Cure site;Thanks for visiting my personal page.I was diagnosed with very agressive breast cancer in January 2006. In November of that year, I learned that it had spread to my liver.My oncologist told me that the were "more tumours than they could count" and when I asked how long I could expect to live, he reluctantly answered, "Years. Not decades."Fast forward to June 2007, when after several rocky months of treatments, I started feeling much better. Then, on June 30th 2007, a scan confirmed what my body had been telling me - there was no longer any sign of cancer in my body!I have been in remission for three years. I'll remain in treatment (chemotherapy and Herceptin every four weeks) for the forseeable future, though. There are so few women in... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3849040 Mon, 09 Aug 2010 17:18:00 +0100 3849040 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3845251&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F08%2F43-things-part-two.html 15. My family gave me the Regretsy book, and two cds (Hannah Georgas and David Francey) for my birthday. All were excellent choices.16. I also had a birthday pedicure. I chose the least conservative colour, a sparkly blue-green. I have since lost a lot of time staring at my toes and smiling.17. My right foot is a half-size bigger than my left foot.18. The other names my parents had on the short list for me were Beverly and Andrea. I would have liked to be an Andrea.19. Sometimes people tell me I am intimidating. I don't understand it at all. 20. I read Pride and Prejudice for the first time when I was 8. I came across it while browsing the adult section (as opposed to the kids' section. Hawkesbury's library did not have those kinds of materials!) of my public library. I had already re... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3845251 Sun, 08 Aug 2010 20:47:00 +0100 3845251 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3831525&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F08%2Fno-pink-for-profit-at-run-for-cure.html We interrupt the regularly scheduled programming to bring you this open letter:Dear Ottawa area women friends and family, Last week end, my friend CR and I were talking about doing the Run for the Cure on October 3rd. I suggested forming a team named something along the lines of "We hate pink crap but we hate breast cancer even more." Elegant slogans were never my forte. C. reminded me that the brilliant KJ had already come up with "No Pink for Profit." I think this is perfect and I have registered a team with that name. Want to join me? We need ten women (anyone can participate but I'd really like to form a women's team) and you can run it or walk it, raise money or not. All it would involve on your part would be registering, raising money if you want (or just paying the registration fee)... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3831525 Fri, 06 Aug 2010 16:04:00 +0100 3831525 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3827320&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F08%2F43-things-part-one.html Yesterday was my birthday. I decided that it would be fun to write a post with 43 things that I had never written about on the blog. This proved to be quite a challenge, especially since I don't seem to have a lot of writing time these days (and it was my birthday, after all). I've decided to post the list in stages, since I stil only have less than 20 and a post with 43 things would be way too long to be interesting (and I'm hoping this is interesting). So here goes: 1. I am 43 years old (hence the 43 things). 2. I've decided that I want to lose 44lbs before my 44th birthday. 3. My most memorable birthday presents were my little black dog (who was a Mother's Day, birthday and Christmas present all rolled into one), my trip to BlogHer in '07 and the red bike with the banana seat that... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3827320 Thu, 05 Aug 2010 20:59:00 +0100 3827320 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3784456&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F07%2Fliving-large.html Chemo typically turns me into a horned, fanged, clawed she-devil for at least one day following treatment. Today is that day. My head knows the mood will pass but boy am I pissy. But I'm trying to re-commit to having something vaguely resembling content on this blog, so I thought I'd share a couple of shots taken in a parking lot outside a Sonny's restaurant in South Florida (we'd had lunch that day at my first ever Waffle House. We were on a greasy streak).We had just come back from a day at Corkscrew Swamp and filled up on ribs and other good fried things and I think I was a little giddy.Anyway, this car just called to me and I made the boys take photos.If you are reading this post on a site other than Not Just About Cancer (besides Facebook or a feed reader), you are reading stolen cont... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3784456 Fri, 23 Jul 2010 21:04:00 +0100 3784456 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3780523&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F07%2Fwatch-me-wave-my-hands-around-lot.html As promised, here is a direct link to the Connected segment on cancer blogging:http://www.cbc.ca/video/#/News/TV_Shows/Connect_with_Mark_Kelley/ID=1549366307If you are reading this post on a site other than Not Just About Cancer (besides Facebook or a feed reader), you are reading stolen content. (Source: Not just about cancer) Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3780523 Thu, 22 Jul 2010 17:21:00 +0100 3780523 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3776569&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F07%2Fwatch-me-on-tee-vee.html Or catch it online.I'm being featured in a story on cancer blogging on CBC News Network (formerly Newsworld). Tune in this evening, between 8:00 - 9:00 p.m. ET You can also watch online at cbc.ca/connect (I'll post a direct link to the video once the show has aired).I promise to blog more about the whole experience (I was interviewed at home with my family and in the chemo room) but I wanted to give all a chance to check it out..If you watch the show, let me know what you think.If you are reading this post on a site other than Not Just About Cancer (besides Facebook or a feed reader), you are reading stolen content. (Source: Not just about cancer) Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3776569 Wed, 21 Jul 2010 22:55:00 +0100 3776569 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3733246&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F07%2Fairport-vista-2.html If you are reading this post on a site other than Not Just About Cancer (besides Facebook or a feed reader), you are reading stolen content. (Source: Not just about cancer) Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3733246 Wed, 07 Jul 2010 22:48:00 +0100 3733246 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3733247&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F07%2Fairport-vista.html If you are reading this post on a site other than Not Just About Cancer (besides Facebook or a feed reader), you are reading stolen content. (Source: Not just about cancer) Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3733247 Wed, 07 Jul 2010 14:06:00 +0100 3733247 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3726741&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F07%2Fflying-by-seats-of-our-pants.html In a couple of days, my little family is heading to Florida.We'd been planning our road trip for some time. The decision to drive was partly about affordability but we also enjoy watching the scenery change and interacting with folks in the different states through which we pass. This time, we were planning on doing the trip a little more slowly in order to take in more than the outskirts of cities along the way. We'd been thinking of taking a detour to Gettysburg on our way down and visiting Savannah on our way back (we have twice stayed in chain motels on the outskirts without going into the city. This notion breaks my heart).The trip is long though (24 hours of driving) and exhausting (especially for T., who does all the driving) and while we have many great memories of our family road ... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3726741 Tue, 06 Jul 2010 01:01:00 +0100 3726741 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3644960&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F06%2Fspeaking-to-end-breast-cancer.html In 2004, I participated in the Weekend to End Breast Cancer in Toronto.In 2006, several women participated in Ottawa in my name.Next week, I'll be speaking at a fundraiser for the same event (now called the Weekend to End Women's Cancers) in Montreal. Sylvie Grégoire, a two-time breast cancer survivor is organizing the fundraiser luncheon. She was first diagnosed at 38 (the same age that I was at my own diagnosis) and had a local recurrence four years later. She's now, in her words, "healthy and happy!'This will be the sixth time that Sylvie takes part in this 60 km, two-day event. I am so impressed by this achievement and thrilled to be given the chance to help (I'm also more than a little nervous. I need to speak for around thirty minutes. The thought is a little daunting).You can contr... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3644960 Tue, 08 Jun 2010 20:13:00 +0100 3644960 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3632400&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F06%2Fmays-ten-things-how-i-did.html Here's how I did with May's "To Do" list (still playing along with the List Lovers at BlogHer):As with previous months, completed tasks are in blue, partially done tasks are in green and the tasks I didn't even started in purple.1. Spend an average of eight hours writing a week (I didn't even come close but I did make some progress on the editing of the draft novel and I started meeting - and exchanging writing - with my awesome writing buddy so I'm going to give myself partial credit anyway).2. Do strength training at least twice every week (I did it once all month but I've been suffering from some gastrointestinal issues that made strength training, especially ab work, less appealing. It's pretty lame but it's all I've got).3. Do an average of five hours of cardio every week (Completed a... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3632400 Sat, 05 Jun 2010 13:00:00 +0100 3632400 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3632401&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F06%2Fwell-hello-there.html Yikes!It's been a while, hasn't it?I seem to have lost my blogging mojo. I remember a while back when Average Jane wrote that her blogging had been derailed (my word, not hers) by Twitter and Facebook. I get that now. Whenever I have a quick observation or a link to share, I can gratify myself instantly with Twitter (I'm lauriek, by the way). And while each tweet does go to Facebook and the sidebar of Not Just About Cancer (on the right - see it there?), it hasn't done much for my blogging.I don't want to give up the blog though, so I'll try and re-commit to posting regularly (how's that for hedging my bets?).On the cancer front, there is a little news. I loved having a break in April. That month also brought another clean CT scan. My oncologist continues to be happy with how things are go... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3632401 Fri, 04 Jun 2010 17:09:00 +0100 3632401 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3564163&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F05%2Fof-books-and-birthdays.html It's my friend Sassymonkey's birthday today and she's asked us all to help with something.She's written a post for BlogHer about a very special campaign. It's called "Books Make a Difference: Share a Book That Changed Your Life to Donate a Book to a Child in Need."All you need to do is leave a comment on her post about a book that made a big impact on your life:"BlogHer and BookRenter, a company that rents textbooks to college students, have joined forces because we know that books makes a difference. From May 3-28, together we are working to make a difference in children's lives by generating new books for children who need them most -- via the nonprofit organization First Book. Want to help? For every answer we receive in the comments to the following question, one book will be donated: ... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3564163 Fri, 14 May 2010 15:41:00 +0100 3564163 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3560439&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F05%2Fjust-what-i-needed.html I was feeling a little sad and frustrated this morning (no bad news and no crisis just some things that made me feel, well, sad and frustrated).Then I saw this video that my friend H. posted to Facebook and I laughed, smiled and sang along. It made me feel hopeful, too.Then, via this post on BlogHer, I discovered Regretsy.Have you heard of Etsy? It's a great web site where crafters and artists of all kinds can sell their wares. I love Etsy and have spent many hours checking out its contents. I've also bought many wonderful things.However, the vendors are not adjudicated. This means that goods posted to Etsy can be, a little uneven in quality - sometimes a little (or a lot weird) and sometimes just plain atrocious.Regretsy brings together the best of the worst of these (the site's motto is ... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3560439 Wed, 12 May 2010 17:48:00 +0100 3560439 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3552506&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F05%2Fi-know-exactly-what-i-was-doing-on-may.html My heart aches, I'm so proud of him.Happy birthday, 12 year old.If you are reading this post on a site other than Not Just About Cancer (besides Facebook or a feed reader), you are reading stolen content. (Source: Not just about cancer) Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3552506 Tue, 11 May 2010 02:07:00 +0100 3552506 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3538355&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F05%2Fhavent-done-this-in-while.html Haven't blown my own horn in at least a few weeks.Alysa, who I met last year when she ran a wonderful workshop on writing your way through breast cancer (at the Living Beyond Breast Cancer conference for women living with metastatic breast cancer). I introduced myself and gave her my book.Yesterday, Alysa emailed me to say that she'd written a review of my book for oncolink and that she thought it would make me smile.It did.If you are reading this post on a site other than Not Just About Cancer (besides Facebook or a feed reader), you are reading stolen content. (Source: Not just about cancer) Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3538355 Thu, 06 May 2010 16:15:26 +0100 3538355 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3538356&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F05%2Fthank-goodness-someones-brain-is.html I've been staying  up way too late and drinking too much coffee to compensate. Then I have trouble sleeping. It's a bit of a vicious circle.As a result, I seem to be having problems jump-starting my brain.The items in this post have no real connection, except that I found them on the internet and they were all drawn to my attention by local bloggers.Zoom wrote about this lost cat. Is she yours? If her owners aren't found, do you have room in your home for this sweet girl? She's been taken in (and cared for) by the Crazy Cat Lady but she needs a forever home.Nat got my blood boiling with this righteous rant (on why she won't "shut the f. up") and made me laugh with this piece on Ottawa's ant plague (I feel so much better knowing thaat I'm not alone) and cry with her link to this amazin... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3538356 Wed, 05 May 2010 16:10:00 +0100 3538356 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3494504&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F04%2Fall-clear.html I got my CT results yesterday - via a very casual voice mail message:"This is A. calling from the Cancer Centre. Your scans were normal. Thank you."So there you have it. That's almost three years clean now.And now on to making two birthday cakes (D. is 7 today), cleaning the house and doing the myriad things one needs to do before going away for a few days.I'm not living the life I imagined for myself, but I'll take it.If you are reading this post on a site other than Not Just About Cancer (besides Facebook or a feed reader), you are reading stolen content. (Source: Not just about cancer) Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3494504 Thu, 22 Apr 2010 14:09:00 +0100 3494504 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3454140&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F04%2F10-things-to-do-in-april.html This month, I actually wrote up my 10 things and posted them over at BlogHer on April 1st. And then, I let chemo and the long Passover/Easter weekend sidetrack me. I seem to be somewhat lacking in motivation on the blogging front these days. I have lots to say but I don't always feel like saying it.Perhaps blogging should be on my list of May 'to-do's.For now, though, here is how I did in March (completed in blue, partially done in green and not even started in purple): 1. Finish re-reading the draft of my novel (carried over from February). I discovered when I reached the end of the document that I had just stopped writing when I'd written the required 50,000 words. The story has no end. And needs some serious editing. That will be a goal for a future month.2. Organize my clothe... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3454140 Thu, 08 Apr 2010 17:53:00 +0100 3454140 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3408596&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F03%2Finside-lauries-head.html saying "no" to:beating myself uppeople who make me feel bad about myselffeeling ashamedhiding from people who love megiving into my fearsjealousy Saying "yes" to:spending time with the people who fill me upreading for pleasuretapping my own creative resourcestrying new thingsfuntalking to my Mom more often giddy about:all the great books that are available to readthe way my kids and spouse make me laugh until I crydog bellies and snoutsthe potential of things I could knitthe thought that I am a Writerscared of:dyingnot being able to read, or write, walk my dogs or play with my kidswriting fiction and discovering that I don't have the talent for itanything bad happening to someone I lovedeeply inspired by: beautiful prosemy sister my friendsmy kidsLenebeing in loveobsessed with:the clu... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3408596 Fri, 26 Mar 2010 16:24:00 +0100 3408596 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3404093&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F03%2Fnot-unrelated-to-my-last-post.html Last night I dreamed that I had a lump in the lymph nodes above my collar bone.I woke up terrified.The comments on my last post were among the most thoughtful, moving and provocative that I've ever read. I have much to think about. Go read the stories that and responses that women shared with me. I feel grateful to each one of them. Today, I am going to take the dogs for a walk and then ride my bike (unless I decide it's too cold) to Sassymonkey's house, where we will eat, drink, knit, watch a movie that has nothing at all to do with cancer.If you are reading this post on a site other than Not Just About Cancer (besides Facebook or a feed reader), you are reading stolen content. (Source: Not just about cancer) Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3404093 Thu, 25 Mar 2010 14:23:00 +0100 3404093 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3378686&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F03%2Fhappy-news.html I'm in Toronto for March Break and having a lovely time and have been online only intermittently. Yesterday afternoon, though, I got some surprising news that I wanted to share.I found out yesterday that Not Done Yet is a finalist in the ForeWord Reviews 2009 Book of the Year Awards in the "autobiography/memoir" category."The finalists, representing 360 publishers, were selected from 1,400 entries in 60 categories. These books are examples of independent publishing at its best......ForeWord's Book of the Year Awards program was designed to discover distinctive books from independent publishers across a number of genres."I feel very, very proud.If you are reading this post on a site other than Not Just About Cancer (besides Facebook or a feed reader), you are reading stolen content. (Source... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3378686 Wed, 17 Mar 2010 22:04:00 +0100 3378686 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3354531&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F03%2Fgetting-there-hard-way-part-2.html When I left off yesterday, I was stranded at the Detroit airport, standing in a line-up for three hours waiting to re-book my flight to Atlanta. A very drunk young guy in front of me spent the whole time hitting on all the younger women in line (I was only brought into the conversation for affirmation, "Isn't she pretty?"). He also showed us the the alligator Crocs he'd bought for his young nephew (whom he called while standing in line. Not sure where his nephew lives but it was well after 10:00pm in Detroit) and asked if the shirt and tie he'd bought matched each other. Under different circumstances, he might have been endearing but I was well and truly done with him by the time we reached the front of the line.At the 2.5 hour point, the woman behind me in line, who had been reading ... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3354531 Thu, 11 Mar 2010 18:21:00 +0100 3354531 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3350510&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F03%2F10-things-in-march.html  It apppears that I have been afflicted with writers' block and spring fever (it's been unseasonably warm and sunny here in Ottawa). And for a while there, I was recovering from chemo.Those are the excuses I'm offering up for not writing very much lately.I do have a bunch of posts percolating, or at least on my "to write" to do list but I thought I would kick off my return with another kind of list - an update for my 10 things for February and the new list for March.Here's how I did last month (completed in blue, partially done in green and not even started in purple).1. Sock monkey hat done. The pom pom has already fallen off. Once I sew it back on, I'll take photos.2.  Socks not finished.3. I made jambalaya and sweet potato soup.4. I read 6 books, including the Canada Reads one... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3350510 Tue, 09 Mar 2010 18:53:00 +0100 3350510 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3322584&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F03%2Fquality-of-life.html I just returned from the 10th Annual Conference For Young Women Affected By Breast Cancer in Atlanta.I am so tired I can barely see straight.It was a terrific experience and I really learned a lot but I'm feeling too brain dead to share any of the many stories swirling around in my brain.Instead, I'll share some notes I took from a presentation by Dr. Julia Rowland, director of the National Cancer Institute's Office of Cancer Survivorship, called "Living Fully Is The Best Revenge."In particular, Dr. Rowland shared with us the "factors associated with quality of life outcomes" - the things that need to happen for those of us who have had cancer to live long and well. My editorial comments are in brackets.1. Accessing state of the art care (well, yeah).2. Social support (having it and using ... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3322584 Mon, 01 Mar 2010 20:56:00 +0100 3322584 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3302591&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F02%2Fsunday-was-good-day-by-lucy-as-told-to.html On Sunday, two of my humans and I went to a very special birthday party.There was cake.The birthday girl turned 17. She looked very pretty.A good time was had by young and old (I thought S. was a little too cuddly with that puppy).It was fun to be at a party.It was nice to have a nap, too.If you are reading this post on a site other than Not Just About Cancer (besides Facebook or a feed reader), you are reading stolen content. (Source: Not just about cancer) Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3302591 Tue, 23 Feb 2010 18:19:00 +0100 3302591 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3283784&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F02%2Folympic-figure-skating-ate-my-brain.html I've a post I want to write about the unreliability of eye-witnesses, inspired by this article in the Globe and Mail and something that happened a couple of weeks ago.I am, however, just too tired.I've watched four nights in a row of Olympic figure skating and I am bleary-eyed. I love the drama, the spectacle, the artistry and the strength of the skaters along with the feeling that anything could happen at any moment. I also love the personalities and the costumes. It's too much fun.I have, however, found myself thinking more than once that I would be able to take it all much more seriously if I hadn't seen Blades of Glory.If you are reading this post on a site other than Not Just About Cancer (besides Facebook or a feed reader), you are reading stolen content. (Source: Not just about canc... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3283784 Wed, 17 Feb 2010 20:55:00 +0100 3283784 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3280156&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F02%2Fupdate-on-10-for-february.html Last week, I joined a BlogHer Group committed to getting ten things done in February. In the spirit of accountability, here is my progress thus far:  1. Finish sewing the eyes and mouth on D.'s sock monkey hat.Still to do, but D. has really stepped up the nagging, so I promised him that I would get it done by Friday.2. Graft the toes on my sister's socks (both these projects have been very, very close to finished for months. It's embarassing). No progress yet.3. Make soup twice twice.I made sweet potato soup with roasted garlic. It was extremely labour intensive (and I made it worse by not paying attention to the directions and, instead of slicing 12 sweet potatoes in half, I sliced them all thinly. It was ridiculous and made every other step ridiculously complicated) but delicio... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3280156 Tue, 16 Feb 2010 17:41:00 +0100 3280156 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3262845&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F02%2Fon-canal.html I like to say that "I moved to Ottawa kicking and screaming." I loved living in Toronto and only moved because my spouse's short term contracts had led to longer term work and I had quit my job.But then I fell in love with the place. And yesterday's adventure skating sums up why.It was a beautiful sunny day, unseasonably warm for February. On impulse, I grabbed my skates and headed over to the canal.When I hit the ice, I found myself giggling like a little kid. My calves were burning (and when they loosened up my thighs took over. My butt still hurts today) but it was fun.There were folks out skating in office clothes (including at least one guy in a full suit and tie) and a teenager turning cartwheels on the ice. There were little kids that looked too young to walk, gliding past me. And t... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3262845 Thu, 11 Feb 2010 16:31:00 +0100 3262845 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3259185&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F02%2Fit-scares-me.html Every since I could read (and probably even before), I have wanted to be a writer of fiction.And now that I have the opportunity, I am terrified.My professional life helped me overcome a great deal of writing anxiety. When you have a writing deadline and you know that fifteen other people are going to comment and edit what you write, you learn to just put fingers to the keyboard and get the job done. This is a lesson it took me a long time to learn but I got there (more or less).I enjoyed doing the kind of writing that I was able to do for advocacy organizations and labour unions but I seldom got to pick the subject of the pieces I wrote. I learned to write in the voice of the organization I represented or the person for whom I was writing a statement or speech. It was fun and I got to be ... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3259185 Wed, 10 Feb 2010 16:30:00 +0100 3259185 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3254666&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F02%2Fspring-dreams-and-other-bits.html I had a dream last night that spring had arrived. Everything was green and lush and the tulips were in bloom. When I woke up, I was very disappointed. The current temperature is -9C with a windchill of -18C (that's 16F, with a windchill hovering around 0F, for American readers).In the spirit of "if you can't beat it, join it" I went skating on the canal yesterday with my family and a friend of my younger son. It was fun but I realized that I am seriously out of shape and out of practice. I think I fooled myself into thinking I was a decent skater when I was pushing the stroller. I'm a lot more wobbly now than I was in those days.I was in the library on Saturday and a woman ahead of me in the checkout line had a fit because she had a big fine for overdue books. She claimed that it was an ou... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3254666 Mon, 08 Feb 2010 17:59:00 +0100 3254666 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3247046&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F02%2Flists-are-good.html If you've been reading this blog for a while, you probably know that I find it hard to resist a good list.And while I've decided to keep my goals for the year very simple and specific, I was very intrigued by a recent post, written by my friend Sassymonkey, which in turn, led me to the BlogHer group, "List Lovers Unite!"It seems that a group of folks there have determined to set themselves ten monthly goals. This strikes me as a nice bridge between my very manageable goal for the year (make soup) and my nearly interminable daily to-do lists.I gave it some thought and then added mine. Here it is, with some editorial comment added:1. Finish sewing the eyes and mouth on D.'s sock monkey hat.2. Graft the toes on my sister's socks (both these projects have been very, very close to finished for ... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3247046 Fri, 05 Feb 2010 18:42:00 +0100 3247046 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3227963&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F02%2Fsoup-and-missing-muse.html I made three soups in January.Red lentil and carrot from Cooking With Foods That Fight Cancer.Broccoli cheddar from Looneyspoons.Jambalaya from Weight Watchers (heavily modified: I substituted white fish for shrimp, used more liquid and had sausage on the side, so folks could choose their level of spiciness. And I didn't use chicken. And I used different spices. This for me, was a wildly adventurous departure).If I don't run out of time today, I plan on making a pre-chemo Sweet potato and roasted garlic soup from the Eat Clean Diet. A friend gave this one to me. I recall it being time consuming but delicious..I have had a post on the tip of my fingers about my current highly ambivalent feelings about my life, identity and treatment but I can't seem to bring myself to write it.In fact, I ca... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3227963 Mon, 01 Feb 2010 17:15:00 +0100 3227963 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3212564&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F01%2Fguest-post.html This past Saturday, friends of ours threw a party for their daughter, who just had her first birthday (I had to miss it because I went to Syracuse, New York to pick up a dress but that's a story for another post). In lieu of more traditional birthday presents, they asked that friends and family bring something to put in a "time capsule" that their daughter would open on her 13th birthday.I think this is a fabulous idea.My oldest son, who is 11 years old, wrote the following letter to accompany our gift. With his permission, I share it (un-edited) now with you:Dear F., If you are reading this, we presume you are 13 years of age. The other main option is that you peeked, and that you do not truly deserve to keep this gift. On the other hand, you probably feel you were stiffed present-wise, s... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3212564 Tue, 26 Jan 2010 20:02:00 +0100 3212564 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3200628&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F01%2Fperfect-evening.html The kind when conversation flows easily along with the wine, all accompanied byexcellent food. Where all the kids get along and the adults are left to talk about books, movies and travel. The kind of evening when three and half hours goes by like five minutes and the time to go comes in what feels like the blink of an eye.And you have your boots on at the door by 9:06pm.I remember when Friday nights out didn't get going until after 11:00 and a 1:00am curfew seemed completely unfair. When we danced until the music stopped and got up to the kinds of things that make me dread my own children's adolescence.It's one of Mother Nature's little ironies that by the time we are mature enough to behave responsibly our definition of a late night (and of a perfect one) has been irrevocably changed. (So... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3200628 Sat, 23 Jan 2010 03:24:00 +0100 3200628 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3197844&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F01%2Fin-other-news.html I was felled by a yucky stomach bug this week and really didn't feel much like blogging. It's the price I pay for a weakened immune system. My older son is home sick today, too. Not sure what his excuse is.Also, my spouse is in Florida. As far as I know, he's not sick.To compensate for my bitterness at having been struck down during a week of single parenting (I know, some of you have to deal with this kind of thing all the time), I thought I would show off a little.Here is my latest clapotis. I made it for my mom.She thinks she's not very photogenic but I think she's lovely.I made this thing on tiny (2.75mm, if you care about these things) needles and a laceweight (read very fine) yarn. It nearly killed me. I was working on it during chemo one day and one of the pharmacists, herself a kni... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3197844 Thu, 21 Jan 2010 19:22:00 +0100 3197844 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3172162&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F01%2Fcanada-reads-2010.html Last year, I challenged myself to read all the books selected for Canada Reads 2009. There was only one that I didn't finish (Mercy Among The Children by David Adams Richards) but that was because it was just too relentlessly depressing for me. I had to call it at page 64.The book that won, The Book Of Negroes (published as Someone Knows My Name in most other countries) by Lawrence Hill had been my favourite read of 2008, so I was happy to see it selected as the winner. I also really enjoyed both runners up - The Outlander by Gil Adamson and and Fruit: A Novel About A Boy And His Nipples by Brian Francis.It was so interesting to listen to the debate. I had been sure that The Outlander would come second and was surprised when it was beaten by Fruit, which I had read very quickly.But you kno... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3172162 Thu, 14 Jan 2010 14:00:00 +0100 3172162 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3167393&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F01%2Finspired.html Last week, a comment was left on my blog that really moved me. It linked to BrCa: Blog on Risk, Cancer and Anxiety (it's an excellent resource if you are interested in learing more about genetic testing and the genes that carry breast cancer).It seems that the 29 year old woman who writes the blog has been reading mine for a long time. Last week was the first time that she left a comment and it was to tell me about a post she'd written about my blog, called Blogs that inspire me: Not Just About Cancer.I was so touched by this post. And so pleased to learn that some of my writing has been helpful to others looking for answers. I write to fill my own needs, of course but it does motivate me to keep going when I learn that I have been striking a chord with others. (Source: Not just about canc... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3167393 Wed, 13 Jan 2010 14:00:00 +0100 3167393 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3159942&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F01%2Fcoming-soon-10th-annual-conference-for.html Last winter, I was fortunate to receive a scholarship to attend the 9th Annual Conference For Young Women Affected By Breast Cancer in Dallas, Texas.It was an amazing experience.I expected to learn a lot and I really, really did.I hoped to be inspired and I was, beyond my wildest expectations.I didn't think about it being fun but it really, really was.The sessions I attended were informative, entertaining and gave me great hope. I met some terrific women. And more than once, I laughed until I cried (I will not soon forget the pajama party hosted by Pure Romance. The experience defies explanation but they're doing it again this year, so come and join in the fun). I came home with a pink cowboy hat and a renewed determination to live well.This year is the 10th anniversary of the conference a... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3159942 Mon, 11 Jan 2010 16:31:00 +0100 3159942 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3156627&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F01%2Fsurvivors-review.html I have a guest post up at Survivors' Review, a wonderful blog that "encourages the creative expression of cancer survivors."My piece, which is in the section called "Write Now!" is about my take on the importance of writing for cancer survivors and includes a few of my favourite (and completely unoriginal) writing prompts. And, I have to admit, that when I look at the list on the bottom of the page of former contributors to the column, I am tickled, well - tickled pink, I guess.My book also tops the list in the Resources section of the Review.I feel good about this. It's a nice thing to have happen at the end of a hard week. (Source: Not just about cancer) Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3156627 Fri, 08 Jan 2010 17:25:00 +0100 3156627 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3142784&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F01%2Fkeeping-it-small-and-specific.html It's time to dip my toe back into the regular writing of this blog by letting you know that I have scaled way back on the New Year's resolutions this year.In 2008, I had a list.Last year, I resolved to "treat my body as well as I treat my mind." Since I gained at least 10 pounds (I'm afraid to get on the scale) and even more than that since my breast cancer diagnosis in early 2006, abandoned yoga and did no strength or core training, I was inclined to view this year as an abject failure on the resolution front. But then my spouse reminded me that I rode my bike pretty much everywhere between April and the first snow. Also, I ran regularly throughout the summer (this was brought to a halt by H1N1 but I'll start again) and cooked more than I ever have in my life.So I've decided to tell mysel... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3142784 Mon, 04 Jan 2010 18:17:00 +0100 3142784 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3106865&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2009%2F12%2Fbeginning-to-feel-glimmer.html (Source: Not just about cancer) Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3106865 Sat, 19 Dec 2009 18:03:00 +0100 3106865 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3101021&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2009%2F12%2Fbetter-than-yoga.html Lucy could give lessons in how to relax. (Source: Not just about cancer) Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3101021 Thu, 17 Dec 2009 17:50:00 +0100 3101021 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3092891&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2009%2F12%2Foh-oh.html "CT scan radiation may cause cancers"but on the other hand"Study: Coffee and tea may lower diabetes risk" (Source: Not just about cancer) Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3092891 Tue, 15 Dec 2009 17:30:00 +0100 3092891 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3089503&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2009%2F12%2Fthese-are-questions-from-proust-quiz-in.html These are questions from the Proust quiz in a recent issue of Vanity Fair magazine. I stole the idea from a friend (she did it on Facebook, so I won't identify her here) and I've been thinking of it ever since.It was interesting to do. My answers reflect the fact that I have been in a somewhat melancholy mood of late. I tried to answer without censoring myself.Feel free to answer the questions in the comments or to link to your on blog if you do it there.What is your idea of perfect happiness?Being somewhere beautiful, being with someone I love. Happiness can come out of nowhere. I am better trained to notice it now.What is your greatest fear?That I will die and my kids will forget me.What is the trait you most deplore in yourself?Lack of discipline and the fear that causes it.What is the ... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3089503 Mon, 14 Dec 2009 05:09:00 +0100 3089503 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3079531&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2009%2F12%2Fwriting-your-way-through-breast-cancer.html It's been two days since chemo, so I feel lousy and have the attention span of a gnat.It works out well for me, therefore, that I have something I've been meaning to share with you all for a while now.I really like the Philadelphia based organization Living Beyond Breast Cancer. I've been fortunate enough to attend two of their own conferences (one called "News You Can Use" and one specifically for women living with metastasis) and the Annual Conference For Young Women Affected By Breast Cancer, which they co-sponsor (last year's was in Dallas and I'm applying for a grant, in the hopes of being able to attend in Atlanta this year. It will be the 10 year anniversary of the conference).A little while ago, LBBC contacted me to see if I would be willing to be interviewed for their Winter 2009/... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3079531 Thu, 10 Dec 2009 21:34:00 +0100 3079531 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3056838&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2009%2F12%2Fhello-again.html I'm back.All is well here, I just used up all my writing mojo in November writing a novel (more on that experience in a future post).Then I took a few days off to hang out with a wonderful friend and, well not write for a few days,And while I was gone from the blog November 24th (the anniversary of my diagnosis of metastatic breast cancer) and December 2nd (the anniversary of the night I found the first lump) came and went. I noted both events in passing, took the time to breathe deeply and be grateful, and then got on with my day.It's been four years since I found the lump. It's been three since the cancer spread to my liver. And it's been two and a half years since my first clean scan.I had an appointment with my oncologist yesterday. I had nothing to tell him. He said, "Shall we keep dr... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3056838 Thu, 03 Dec 2009 20:03:00 +0100 3056838 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2984983&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2009%2F11%2Fmy-husbands-chest.html You don't need to tell me how lucky I am.I have a roof over my head, great medical care and I'm surrounded by people who love me.And don't think I forget how very lucky I am to be alive at all. Why did I get to go into remission? Why me? I am indeed very fortunate.But there are times when I do feel sad that I will never put this cancer behind me. I feel the toll ongoing treatment takes on my body and my emotional well being.So last night I stood in my kitchen, with my head on my husband's chest (we say we were built for each other. My head lands flat on his chest and tucks under his chin). He put his arms around me and we just stood there, breathing together.He didn't need to say anything. He understood my frustration. Only a few hours before I was finallly feeling sharp and healthy and en... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2984983 Wed, 11 Nov 2009 19:33:00 +0100 2984983 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2977528&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2009%2F11%2Faware-of-irony.html Life is funny.This morning was perfect weather for a bike ride. The sun was out and the temperature climbed to 17C (that's 62.6 in American). It was my first time on the bike in more than a week - since before the plague toppled my family, like a series of dominoes.It was a fun ride, and I didn't even mind the big hill I have to climb on my way to the hospital. I arrived twenty minutes after I set out, a little sweaty and with my heart pumping. As I locked up and headed into the cancer centre, I noted with pleasure that I hadn't been coughing."It feels good to be healthy."I very nearly said it out loud.I was suddenly struck by the absurdity of my situation. Here I was, going to get my bloodwork done the day before chemo and thinking about how healthy I am.Three years ago, at almost exactly... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2977528 Mon, 09 Nov 2009 19:26:00 +0100 2977528 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2963287&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2009%2F11%2Ffirst-one-then-other.html My older son went back to school this morning. I did a little happy dance in the hall after he left. It's not that I mind having him around but the kid has to go back out into the world some time, you know?And then of course, my six year old woke up with a sore throat. He really doesn't seem too sick to me (he had the first part of the H1N1 shot last week) but these days, I prefer to err on the side of caution (we are relieved that there is no coughing, as D. has asthma and things can get scary pretty quickly).We've been hanging out in our pajamas on the couch. I don't know if this will help me reach my deadlines (or my NaNoWriMo goal) but it's pretty sweet. (Source: Not just about cancer) Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2963287 Thu, 05 Nov 2009 15:24:00 +0100 2963287 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2939508&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2009%2F10%2Fworth-1000-words.html (Source: Not just about cancer) Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2939508 Thu, 29 Oct 2009 13:00:00 +0100 2939508 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2934918&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2009%2F10%2Fblog-post.html Yesterday morning, I got a call from Oresta. She told me that she had read my article in the Centretown Buzz and wanted to reach out to me.Even though I love her store and spa (I asked for gift certificates for Christmas last year), I was not on her mailing list and had not received the letter that I posted above.It's hard to read, so here is the text, in full:OCTOBER is BREAST CANCER AWARENESS MONTHPinkwasher: (pink’-wah-sher) noun. A company that pur-ports to care about breast cancer by promoting a pinkribboned product, but manufactures products that arelinked to the disease.Dear clients,ORESTA organic skin care confectionery is committed to providing organic spatreatments and to supporting companies that manufacture truly pure and organicproducts. We believe in beauty without compromi... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2934918 Wed, 28 Oct 2009 13:00:00 +0100 2934918 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2920445&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2009%2F10%2Fbeautiful-night.html Thanks to everyone who came to the Toronto launch last night.My face hurts from smiling and my heart is so full it could burst.And the bookstore sold out the books. (Source: Not just about cancer) Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2920445 Fri, 23 Oct 2009 13:45:00 +0100 2920445 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2916401&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2009%2F10%2Flaunching.html I'm off to Toronto today to celebrate my book! If you're in town, come see me at the Toronto Women's Bookstore. We'll have a little nosh, a little drink, I'll read from the book...I think it will be a nice evening. Meanwhile, here's a link to a blog called "Incredible Women," where I am honoured to say that I am being featured today. (Source: Not just about cancer) Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2916401 Thu, 22 Oct 2009 13:00:00 +0100 2916401 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2912483&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2009%2F10%2Fmilestone-reviewed.html I am featured on a blog called "Women at Forty" today.When I was aked to submit a post, I thought it would be appropriate to re-visit a post I wrote on the eve of my fortieth birthday.I'm looking forward to writing my fiftieth birthday post. Only eight more years and countless clean scans to go. (Source: Not just about cancer) Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2912483 Wed, 21 Oct 2009 15:23:00 +0100 2912483 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2912484&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2009%2F10%2Fde-bunking-pink.html "Three years ago, I saw a story on the news while I was at the gym. An investigative feature on the breast cancer awareness contributions that various corporations pledged during Breast Cancer Awareness Month found that most of these promotions led to increased sales and windfall profits that dwarfed the piddling donations that the extra sales generated. Until that moment, I was gung-ho about buying products marked with pink ribbons."And so begins the best article I have ever read on the subject of the pink-washing of October (and not just because the author says you should all go out and buy my book). Suzanne Reisman hits all the bases in this piece and does it with eloquence and a sense of humour.If you have ever struggled to understand why some of us object to pinxploitation (I just mad... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2912484 Tue, 20 Oct 2009 16:33:00 +0100 2912484 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2908851&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2009%2F10%2Fadvice-with-benefit-of-hindsight.html Last week, the Centretown Buzz (an Ottawa community paper) asked me to write the article that "I wish I could have read when I was first diagnosed." It's on the front page of this week's issue, and begins like this: On December 1st, 2005, I found a lump in my breast, as I was getting undressed. One month later, I was diagnosed with breast cancer. I was 38 years old, with two young kids and a very hectic life. I felt completely blind-sided. Almost four years later, and with the benefit of hindsight, I share some advice for others who find themselves in my situation. As I looked back on the last few years, the following key points best summarize my advice: Bring someone with you to appointments, especially in the beginning. Be your own advocate. Be nice to the admin staff and nurses. Do... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2908851 Mon, 19 Oct 2009 17:34:00 +0100 2908851 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2894728&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2009%2F10%2Fwill-you-be-there.html Just a reminder to anyone who lives in Toronto or anywhere nearby or who would like to visit Toronto that my book party (postponed in June because of the flu) has been re-scheduled for October 22, from 7-9 pm.I have been washing my hands lots and lots so that this overdue celebration can happen.Also, I have been getting lots of interesting comments and messages in answer to my post on internet community. It's not too late to jump into the discussion. (Source: Not just about cancer) Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2894728 Thu, 15 Oct 2009 13:00:00 +0100 2894728 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2894729&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2009%2F10%2Frelative-accomplishment.html I just got back from riding my bike to and from the hospital to have blood work done. It's pretty cold out there (3C or 37.5F), so I was feeling pretty tough - like a real cyclist with frozen fingertips.When I came to the big hill just before the hospital, I passed a man riding on the sidewalk. "it's pretty steep," he said, as I edged past."It is," I laughed. I admit that I was feeling pretty smug.Then he took the wind out of my sails. "At 85 years old, it keeps getting a little harder."When we reached the top of the hill, we had to stop at the lights. He kept chatting, while I had to gulp for air before I could respond.When the lights turned green, he sailed past me, seemingly fully recovered from the climb.Maybe I need more air in my tires. Yeah, that's it. Or maybe I need to tackle that... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2894729 Wed, 14 Oct 2009 17:17:00 +0100 2894729 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2890889&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2009%2F10%2Faroun-table-and-around-world.html Boy, am I dopey today.We had our Thanksgiving dinner last night - turkey, mashed potatoes and stuffing (probably the best I have ever had) smothered in gravy. A beautiful salad with a basil and feta dressing. Lots of wine. And Guinness chocolate cake, pumpkin pie, whipped cream, ice cream and chocolate sauce for dessert (I don't think anybody actually had all of those things).And a truly lovely group of people.It was perfect.Today, I am trying to make notes for a presentation I am giving on Thursday. I need to talk about my transformation from individual cancer patient to a member of a vibrant and supportive community. I had lots of thoughts about this on the week end, when I really didn't have time to write them down. Today, my brain seems to have been replaced with mashed potatoes and gr... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2890889 Tue, 13 Oct 2009 17:54:00 +0100 2890889 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2871971&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2009%2F10%2Fnothing-ventured.html I have decided that I won't be doing NaBloPoMo this year.My heart just isn't in it. This is in part because two of my NaBlo compadres have died. It just won't be the same without Sara and Emily. I miss their voices so much and I just don't feel like blogging every day without them at my virtual side.But November can be a hard month for me and I still need something to distract and consume me.I also need motivation to return to the scary (for me) world of fiction writing. I got so much done during my online writing course last year but have done nothing since submitting my outline for a novel, as my final assignment on December 31.A few weeks ago Rachael suggested to Zoom that she try NaNoWriMo. And that got me thinking. If structure is what I need and my inner critic is my worst enemy then... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2871971 Wed, 07 Oct 2009 21:13:00 +0100 2871971 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2865881&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2009%2F10%2Frandom-book.html Last week, I saw my book on the shelf at Chapters. I had walked in the back door of the store on Rideau Street, which leads straight into the health section. And there it was - or rather there they were. Three copies of my book just sitting on a shelf in a book store. It was a thrill to see it there. I had to call my spouse right away to tell him.I had to go back to the same Chapters three days later (I had left my glasses in the store). I couldn't help going back to visit my book. There were only two copies left! They had sold one! I took a couple of steps away and then went back to pull a copy out so that the title page faced towards the front.My heart still belongs to independent book stores, though. They are owned by booklovers, have knowledgeable staff and are the most supportive of w... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2865881 Tue, 06 Oct 2009 15:31:00 +0100 2865881 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2855800&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2009%2F10%2Freally-random.html I had to turn on the heat today. I was hoping to wait until later in the month but the temperature dropped to 12C (53.6) inside the house.Late last week, I became convinced that something had crawled into our chimney or heating ducts and died. We have since had both cleaned. No dead thing was found but the smell is gone, too.I've been watching more television lately than I have in years (when I could go weeks without watching television). I have become hooked on So You Think You Can Dance (US and Canadian versions) and Glee. I also have just discovered House. I've clearly been missing out on something good, there.After yesterday's grumpy post, I want to say that I think there are lots of groups out there doing good work on behalf of cancer patients. I like Breast Cancer Action (although so... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2855800 Fri, 02 Oct 2009 00:49:00 +0100 2855800 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2824388&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2009%2F09%2Fk-and-colossal-colon.html On Friday evening, my friend K. will be arriving from the Netherlands for a long-anticipated visit. I haven't seen her since she flew to London to hook up with S. and me in the spring of 2008. I can hardly wait! Two more sleeps!K. is a gastroenterologist and is coming to Canada for a conference in Toronto. She's making a special trip to Ottawa to hang out with my family and me for the week end. The last time K. came to this part of Canada was in 2005, when she attended a conference in Montreal. I took the train to meet her, and we went out to dinner and had a sleepover. At that point, we hadn't seen each other in almost twenty years and I was worried that we wouldn't recognize each other. That turned out to not to be a problem, and I remember how my heart lifted when I saw her.I also remem... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2824388 Wed, 23 Sep 2009 14:42:00 +0100 2824388 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2814649&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2009%2F09%2Ftalking-not-done-yet.html I'm going to be on BlogTalk radio tomorrow!The show: Lovebabz Lovetalk.The time: 12:30-1:15 EST.The call-in number: (718) 766-4895The subject: Not Done Yet, Living Through Breast Cancer.Please call in, if you can. I am really looking forward to this on-air chat with my friend Babz. (Source: Not just about cancer) Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2814649 Mon, 21 Sep 2009 17:56:00 +0100 2814649 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2807842&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2009%2F09%2Frandom-out-of-necessity.html It's Day 3 After Chemo and my brain is jumping around like a puppy with a burr up her butt. I can't focus on anything for more than a few seconds so here is a little bit of randomness:One:It appears that my family and I will be among the first in line for the H1N1 vaccine. My kids will be so thrilled.Two:My friend Jeanne, the Assertive Cancer Patient, posted about a reader in Texas who has $187,000 worth of Neupogen that she can't use:"Texas doesn't have a drug repository that would take this medicine and pass it on to someone who needs it, and she hates to see it go to waste, as do I. Any ideas, readers? Obviously, we can't break the law and put this stuff on eBay or Craigslist, so I am looking for legal ways to get these expensive drugs to someone who can use them."Three:Yesterday, I got... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2807842 Fri, 18 Sep 2009 18:06:00 +0100 2807842 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2807843&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2009%2F09%2Ffrequent-flyer.html I had chemo on Tuesday. It was kind of a long day (I started with bloodwork at 8:30 and left the hospital at 3:30) which passed quickly due to the company of a really good friend. We had so much to say to each other that we needed the whole day to cover everything (except for when I was sleeping. The demerol/gravol combo really does knock me out).It would have been an even longer day if I hadn't been on the receiving end of a little preferential treatment. At one point, the nurse who coordinates the chemo floor came out to reception and wrote on the notice board that they were running an hour behind schedule. I happened to be standing nearby and she caught my eye and said to me, in French, "environ" (approximately). I was surprised, then, when my name was called a few minutes later. I pass... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2807843 Thu, 17 Sep 2009 18:59:00 +0100 2807843 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2790393&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2009%2F09%2Ftoronto-book-party-take-2.html If you live near Toronto or have plans to be around, I look forward to seeing you there!(the flu is not going to get me this time). (Source: Not just about cancer) Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2790393 Sat, 12 Sep 2009 18:29:00 +0100 2790393 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2786243&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2009%2F09%2Fct-results.html "It's good news!" said the voice on the other end of the phone. She sounded ecstatic. When you are nurse working in oncology, relaying good news must come as a welcome change."You're kidding!" I exclaim. Then, "I don't know why I always say that."She laughs. "Well, there is no change. It's stable." Seriously, she sounded giddy. We giggled some more.She said, "You have a wonderful week end." She really sounded like she meant it.Suddenly, I'm in the mood to celebrate. I already have dinner plans. And I probably would have had a beer anyway (they have Beau's. How could I resist?).Now, I may have two. But I doubt it. I will just enjoy the beer, the food and the company (six people I love), even more. (Source: Not just about cancer) Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2786243 Fri, 11 Sep 2009 18:17:00 +0100 2786243 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2778654&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2009%2F09%2Fthis-side-of-fence.html The view from my kitchen window. (Source: Not just about cancer) Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2778654 Wed, 09 Sep 2009 14:48:00 +0100 2778654 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2774887&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2009%2F09%2Fback-to-book.html And yes, that's 'book.' Singular. As in, Not Done Yet: Living Through Breast Cancer. I haven't talked about it in a while (I burned myself out and I'm sure that you all were pretty bored with all the self-promotion) but fall brings fresh starts, renewed energy and a willingness to get back to work (or something like that).Are you like me, in that you still find the return to school feels like the beginning of a new year (whether or not you have kids) and brings with it the impulse to make resolutions (or re-commit to those made in January that have long since been abandoned)? And to buy school related things? And read more?How about buying a book?I have been informed that Chapters/Indigo now has a bunch of copies in stock, so that you don't have to wait weeks when you order online. This al... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2774887 Tue, 08 Sep 2009 15:22:00 +0100 2774887 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2768814&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2009%2F09%2Fi-do-run-on.html The echocardiogram was fine, the doctor found nothing unusual when she examined me, my butt is sore today from all the biking, the technician got the vein on the first try before the ct scan, I will have results in about a week, I got to go on a great walk with my sister today, my kids and spouse have just left on a two night canoe trip and this evening, I am going out for a grown-up dinner.Life. Is. Good. (Source: Not just about cancer) Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2768814 Fri, 04 Sep 2009 21:30:00 +0100 2768814 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2762117&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2009%2F09%2Ffifteen-ok-seventeen-books.html "Rules: Don't take too long to think about it. Select fifteen books you've read that will always stick with you. Choose the first fifteen you can recall in no more than 15 minutes."My friend P. tagged me with a book meme on Facebook yesterday. I found myself laying awake last night, thinking through what my choices would be. It was fun to riffle through my mental library and pull out the books that have, for one reason or another, had a lasting impact.I suspect that if I were to do this meme again next week, my answers would be significantly different.Another friend, the pseudonymous Winnifred T. Poodle also tagged me. And then I found that my list replicated one of P.'s choices and two of Winnifred's. Would these books have been on my list without the power of suggestion?Consider yourselv... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2762117 Wed, 02 Sep 2009 19:13:00 +0100 2762117 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2758065&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2009%2F09%2Ffirst-day.html My insides are churning today. I am unable to concentrate on any one task. And I didn't sleep well last night. You see, today was the first day of school.D. started Grade 1 at a new school. S. went into Grade 6 at the same one.I remember Grade 6. It was when it started to be all about my peers. I remember the drama, the intrigues, the intense friendships that formed and broke up. And I remember the hormones.And as for D., I can't believe that my baby is old enough to be in Grade One. He has been counting down the days for weeks, complaining that the summer was too long and that he just wanted to start school already. His expectations are very, very high (although last night when he couldn't fall asleep, he asked my spouse, "What if I get bad grades?") and I worry that he will be greatly di... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2758065 Tue, 01 Sep 2009 20:13:00 +0100 2758065 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2752116&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2009%2F08%2Fall-good-things.html Today is a pretty emotional day for my little family.Tomorrow, my youngest, will start Grade One at a new school. While that's a pretty big deal in and of itself (at least it's the same school his big brother attends), this also marks his last day at the day care housed in his old school.My family has been involved (except for a few years between kids and when D. was in home care), with the Glebe Parents' Day Care since 1999, when S. was a toddler. It's a great day care but the staff at their First Avenue program are truly exceptional.When S. was "emergency airlifted" out of First Avenue in Grade One, they re-opened the day care an hour early so that staff could meet him at the bus (his temporary school was further away and the school day ended earlier) for the rest of the term (from Febru... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2752116 Mon, 31 Aug 2009 17:05:00 +0100 2752116 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2741568&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2009%2F08%2Fin-pictures.html These are some illustrations for the post I wrote on August 10, about our trip out east. Thanks to my sister in law, B. for taking the horse photos. There is NO WAY I was letting go of the reigns long enough to point and shoot. (Source: Not just about cancer) Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2741568 Thu, 27 Aug 2009 17:31:00 +0100 2741568 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2737981&cid=t_147104_136_f&fid=35316&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotjustaboutcancer.blogspot.com%2F2009%2F08%2Fottawa-folk-fest-2009.html It's a highlight of every summer for my family, and this year's Ottawa Folk Festival was no exception (although we did miss S. a lot. He's staying with his Grandma and going to comedy camp. He says they spend their days doing improv routines and watching highlights from Saturday Night Live. The kid is in heaven). And this year, despite forecasts to the contrary (and some really nasty looking storm clouds) the weather was perfect. I think I kept the rain away through sheer force of will.This is Vishtèn, a group we really liked from PEI and the Magdalen Islands. Other highlights for me included James Keelaghan, the Good Lovelies and a workshop called Outstanding In Their Field that featured Digging Roots (excellent musicians, great voices, hard rocking native musicians), the Arrogant Worms,... Not just about cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2737981 Wed, 26 Aug 2009 17:24:00 +0100 2737981