MedWorm provides a medical RSS filtering service. Over 6000 RSS medical sources are combined and output via different filters. This feed contains the latest medical blog items that have been tagged with 'gratitude'. Sat, 03 Sep 2011 01:53:40 +0100 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=5181901&cid=t_106345_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2011%2F08%2F30%2Fwhy-a-hurricane-filled-me-with-gratitude%2F Like much of the East Coast, New York City was hit by Hurricane Irene. On Saturday, we checked our flashlights, loaded up on food, filled the bathtub, and hoped for the best. We were extremely lucky. The hurricane didn’t affect us much — we didn’t even lose power. And I’m very, very grateful for that. The hurricane was a good reminder about gratitude. For one thing, it reminded me that I have so much to be grateful for that it seems a bit preposterous that I need to remind myself to be grateful — but I do. When life is taking its ordinary course, it’s so easy to take everyday life for granted. Also, the hurricane made me much more mindful of how much I love my apartment and my city, and how safe and secure I generally feel. It’s a sad foible of human nature that ... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=5181901 Tue, 30 Aug 2011 19:53:47 +0100 5181901 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=5159683&cid=t_106345_136_f&fid=39025&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2Feverythingchangesbook%2F%7E3%2FccYjD7AR3SA%2Flife-is-too-short-cancer By Sarah J. I keep finding myself thinking: If my doctor gives me a few months to live, would I want to live them the way I have been? The answer of course is no. I’m sure I’m not the first cancer patient who thought about quitting their job, moving to a tropical island, and having a torrid affair with a cabana boy (or girl) after writing a memoir. Yet here I am today, back to the same old grind as before cancer with only a few changes. Why? Reality. Medical and credit card bills prevent any job quitting or island hopping. Since cancer entered my life, and especially during my transition from cancer patient back to an average Jolene, I have struggled to find balance between the reality of my life and that feeling that I should be out living it my way. I call this “Life’s Too Short... Everything Changes blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=5159683 Thu, 25 Aug 2011 15:05:35 +0100 5159683 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=5139877&cid=t_106345_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2011%2F08%2F17%2Fquiz-do-you-make-other-people-happy%2F As put forth by the Second Splendid Truth: One of the best ways to make yourself happy is to make other people happy; One of the best ways to make other people is to be happy yourself. Everyone accepts the Second Splendid Truth, Part A; the Second Splendid Truth, Part B often isn’t as clear to people. But to focus on Part A here — how do you know if you’re making other people happy? What are some signs? Are the following statements true for you: Do people seem to feel comfortable confiding in you? Do people follow your recommendations? Are you a source of material comfort or security for someone else? Do people whom you’ve introduced often go on to have a continuing relationship? Do people seem to drift toward you? Join a conversation that you’re having, sit down next... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=5139877 Wed, 17 Aug 2011 16:46:16 +0100 5139877 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=5086257&cid=t_106345_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2011%2F08%2F01%2Flove-suicide-and-well-being-international-positive-psychology-associations-second-congress%2F We live in a world that needs our help. – James Pawelski, Director of Education and Senior Scholar at the Positive Psychology Center, University of Pennsylvania, just before asking for a moment of silence for the victims of the terrorist act in Norway. From July 23rd through July 26th, the International Positive Psychology Association’s second congress took place in Philadelphia.  Two years ago, during a particularly miserable time in my life, my best friend, Professor Joel Morgovsky, suggested we go to the first congress together. I wasn’t in the mood. But I went, and I was sitting in talk after talk and workshop after workshop; mostly they were interesting, but please, when do we get to go home? Then I heard Barbara Fredrickson speak.  There are a few transformative lect... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=5086257 Mon, 01 Aug 2011 11:17:53 +0100 5086257 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4945249&cid=t_106345_165_f&fid=37959&url=http%3A%2F%2Fhealthskills.wordpress.com%2F2011%2F06%2F15%2Fquick-update-from-earthquake-city%2F The aftershocks seem to have slowed a little, and they are not as powerful so hopefully things will settle down a bit. We still don’t have water, so we’re having to use our emergency stash (60 litres!) and boil it to wash, do dishes etc. Even when the water comes back on, we’ve been advised to boil the water again because there’s damage to the sewers. I feel OK in myself, in that I’m not fearful of the quakes (a bit fatalistic really, but there is so little time to react when a quake hits, there seems little point in being afraid – you can’t do anything!), but I am very tired and not sleeping all that well. I think the difference for people in Christchurch now, compared with the previous two big earthquakes is that the adrenaline rush that was ther... HealthSkills Weblog blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4945249 Tue, 14 Jun 2011 19:24:23 +0100 4945249 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4945250&cid=t_106345_165_f&fid=37959&url=http%3A%2F%2Fhealthskills.wordpress.com%2F2011%2F06%2F14%2Fwobbles-in-the-quakey-isles%2F By now, if you’re a regular reader of my blog, you’ll know that I’m from Christchurch, NZ, and yes, we’ve had a few earthquakes recently! I’m happy to report that while we’ve had some more damage to the surrounds of our house, and there are a few more cracks in the ceiling and bricks, we’re pretty well off. No serious damage done except a rather disrupted night! My nerves are a bit frayed and I keep monitoring any deep rumbling sound or rattle of the windows just in case it’s the beginning of another one – and yes, it’s a bit wearing. I’ll keep blogging but will keep the number of posts down, as I have been, just to reduce some of the (internal) pressure I put on myself to post often! It’s tempting to say something a b... HealthSkills Weblog blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4945250 Mon, 13 Jun 2011 18:50:07 +0100 4945250 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4852939&cid=t_106345_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2011%2F05%2F22%2Fbummer-the-world-didn%25e2%2580%2599t-end-now-what%2F “What the caterpillar calls the end of the world, the master calls a butterfly.” ~Richard Bach If I owned a restaurant I would have the morning after brunch special for Sunday, May 22.  It would, of course, be called The Day After Brunch, in honor of the day most of us knew would come –in spite of the media frenzy.  The meal would be a chance to celebrate and cope. On the menu? Eggs benedict, for those who felt betrayed by the hype. Glazed donuts for those who really didn’t see it coming. A Forgiveness Frittata for anyone needing to absolve themselves or others. And, yes, you are allowed to groan when you hear this, but the drink of the day would be: Orange Juice glad the world didn’t end? If you are reading this the end of the world hasn’t taken place.  Of cour... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4852939 Mon, 23 May 2011 01:31:35 +0100 4852939 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4803232&cid=t_106345_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2011%2F05%2F10%2Fbest-of-our-blogs-may-10-2011%2F A friend once asked me how to handle her disobedient son. She was going through a divorce and her son was taking out his pain, confusion and anger about his parent’s relationship on her. She wanted to distance herself from him because he was being so hurtful. But I told her to reconsider. My mom and I have an imperfectly perfect relationship. We’re close. But we rarely see eye to eye on anything. We’re as different as we are alike. I like to find good deals. She loves brand names. She chose a traditional 9 to 5 job. I went the opposite way and designed my own career. At the same time, we’re both sensitive and emotional, which is the perfect recipe for personal and sometimes heated debates. But I have to say one thing. I grew up as a child of divorce too. And I told ... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4803232 Tue, 10 May 2011 11:50:07 +0100 4803232 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4780347&cid=t_106345_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2011%2F05%2F03%2Fhonoring-your-mom-when-your-relationship-is-thorny%2F Mother-daughter relationships come in many different stripes. But all have one thing in common: They involve a complicated bond. Nothing brings this to light more than the holidays — especially if your relationship has been strained and shaky. On Mother’s Day, in particular, it can be “hard to figure out a way to honor a mom that has been difficult,” said Linda Mintle, Ph.D, marriage and family therapist and author of I Love My Mother, But…Practical Help to Get the Most Out of Your Relationship. I spoke with Mintle for my article on mother-daughter relationships. (Stay tuned!) And I wanted to share her straightforward and wise advice. So how do you honor your mother when your relationship is thorny? Let’s be honest, most Mother’s Day cards are mushy, nauseatingly so. (My... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4780347 Tue, 03 May 2011 11:40:43 +0100 4780347 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4768046&cid=t_106345_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2011%2F04%2F29%2Fbest-of-our-blogs-april-29-2011%2F You know what amazes me? No matter how far we come in life, there is always a point where we suddenly forget. Maybe it’s the relative who negated your recent accomplishment or the friend who brushed off your latest idea. It could be the classmate that surpassed you in school or the colleague who got one step ahead of you in your career. Suddenly, everything you ever did is just not good enough. How do you get back to that place of peace and gratitude? How do you return to the moment where you remember all of the trials and tribulations and trauma you have already overcame in the past? You get back to yourself. Whether it’s by yoga, meditation or walking, these posts will help inspire you to do just that. Yoga and Meditation: The Benefits (ADHD in Focus) – Are you mystifi... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4768046 Fri, 29 Apr 2011 11:07:25 +0100 4768046 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4753911&cid=t_106345_134_f&fid=35179&url=http%3A%2F%2Fscottsdiabetes.com%2F2011%2F04%2F31-year-diabetes-anniversary%2F A couple of years ago my dad helped me track down my official discharge records. We always knew I was diagnosed in April, but now I have the actual date. April 26, 1980 I was diagnosed with type 1 diabetes. It is a date that I mark with tremendous gratitude.  Two generations ago I would not be here today. It is a date where I mentally recognize all of the hard work, determined effort, humble appreciation, and downright stubbornness that I put forth to live with this disease. All of you in the Diabetes Online Community are a huge part of what keeps me going. Thank you! 31 Year Diabetes Anniversary is a post from: Scott's Diabetes (Source: Scott's Diabetes Blog) Scott's Diabetes Blog blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4753911 Tue, 26 Apr 2011 12:04:36 +0100 4753911 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4747924&cid=t_106345_180_f&fid=38612&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2Fpickthebrain%2FLYVv%2F%7E3%2Fn2kvrMYeInE%2F Why is it so hard for you to say, “thank you” to you, when you say thank you to complete strangers every day (or at least I hope you do). If someone holds the door, or even when a waiter brings you the check asking you for money, you say “thank you”. Heck many times you take the time to give lip service to be polite, but at least you say it, right? So if it’s that easy, when is the last time you told YOU thank you? Thank you for my beating heart, thank you lungs for my breath, thank you legs for all you do… Do you ever say that?  It’s doubtful. Yet, if you want to connect with your true power, your subconscious, or spirit, taking the time to simply say thank you is a GAME CHANGER. If you don’t believe me, try one of these 3 power tricks to supercharge your day wi... PickTheBrain | Motivation and Self Improvement blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4747924 Mon, 25 Apr 2011 07:50:55 +0100 4747924 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4566361&cid=t_106345_180_f&fid=38619&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FALifeCoachsBlog%2F%7E3%2FWBRtVMitfQY%2F I have talked a lot about gratitude in the past and even mentioned it my last post 20 Awesome Self Development Questions. Each time I’ve explained that being grateful for your life is an incredibly powerful and resourceful state that can literally change your live for the better. It wouldn’t be at all unfair to call gratitude a Ninja State, because it’s a silent assassin that kicks the ass of a whole host of usually really powerful negative states, such as negativity, jealousy, anger, self loathing, and disappointment. If used regularly and genuinely it can also also help ward off depression, improve physical health and almost certainly defeat red bull-drinking pirate cows with ease. That’s all well and good and I’m confident that as a sensible human being you’ll already be... Life Coach Blog: The Discomfort Zone : blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4566361 Wed, 09 Mar 2011 19:34:03 +0100 4566361 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4522106&cid=t_106345_87_f&fid=39187&url=http%3A%2F%2Fgetbetterhealth.com%2Fa-thank-you-a-day%2F2011.02.25 This is a guest post by Dr. John Schumann. ********** I just read the book “365 Thank Yous” by John Kralik. I heard an interview with the author on NPR and it caught my attention. Kralik had been down on his luck in 2007: Divorced twice, overweight, with a struggling law firm that he’d started, he was also failing in a new romantic relationship. He was worried about losing his seven-year-old daughter, too, in a custody dispute. He made a momentous decision: Instead of feeling sorry for himself (easy to do given his predicaments), he decided to be grateful for what he had. To show it, he vowed to write a thank-you note every day for the next year. What do you think happened? His life changed for the better. His relationship improved. His clients started paying their bills... Better Health blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4522106 Fri, 25 Feb 2011 18:00:00 +0100 4522106 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4522146&cid=t_106345_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2011%2F02%2F25%2F6-steps-to-living-a-good-happy-and-long-life%2F Compassion. Gratitude. Conscientiousness. Being humble. A little stress to keep you energized and motivated. Using common sense. Hanging out with the people that are doing healthy things. Having a stable relationship. You might think the secret to a long and happy life was hidden in a book or could be found by following that famous media guru, Oprah. The truth is, a long life and happiness are not obtained by doing extraordinary things or looking for that magical “dream job” (or dream spouse, for that matter). Research has shown — most recently by psychologists Friedman and Martin in The Longevity Project (2010) — that getting to a long life is really just a combination of simple, everyday things and an approach to life that some might say emphasizes a sense of resi... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4522146 Fri, 25 Feb 2011 15:46:57 +0100 4522146 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4501621&cid=t_106345_106_f&fid=36682&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FSutureForALiving%2F%7E3%2Fu-V7W2KskFw%2Fpositive-feedback.html Yes, I know it’s my job.  Yes, I know the patient paid me.  But I love receiving notes like this.  Thank you. (Source: Suture for a Living) Suture for a Living blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4501621 Mon, 21 Feb 2011 12:04:00 +0100 4501621 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4501829&cid=t_106345_180_f&fid=38604&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2Fmakeitgreat%2F%7E3%2Fq_DRcL9xEXM%2F Today, find a way to make your Monday great. Make it better than any other day this week. Instead of complaining about a case of the Mondays, focus on all you have to look forward to this week. Think about all you are thankful for. For my focus, I will have an attitude of gratitude and I will share my thanks more with everyone, especially my wonderful wife. Who are you most grateful for in your life? If you’re not sure, ask yourself this question: Who would you miss if they were no longer a part of your life? Do they know how much they matter to you? Take time today to make someone else’s Monday great by sharing your gratitude with them. It will make your Monday your best day this week. Then do it again on Tuesday…and Wednesday…and Thursday..and Friday…and ... Phil Gerbyshak blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4501829 Mon, 21 Feb 2011 11:00:14 +0100 4501829 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4464542&cid=t_106345_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2011%2F02%2F11%2Fbest-of-our-blogs-february-11-2011%2F Everyone is looking for the holy grail of happiness. But what is happiness? Is it something that can be pursued? And is it something that can be sustained? It’s a discussion I have had with friends for decades. One that makes for an interesting debate, but does not give way to a single agreed upon answer. What do you think about it? What does happiness mean to you? We posed the question to our Facebook friends and learned that happiness is definitely subjective. But that in general, happiness to them means self-love, gratitude, presence and giving to others. Can you relate? To me, happiness means a lot of things. It means the knowledge that everything will be okay even during hardship. It is the freedom I have to make choices and the connection through receiving and giving love. It i... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4464542 Fri, 11 Feb 2011 12:16:42 +0100 4464542 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4439030&cid=t_106345_180_f&fid=38612&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2Fpickthebrain%2FLYVv%2F%7E3%2F3sf2l5b6vME%2F Over the last year I have read lots of material on self-improvement and success. One common theme I found in almost everything I read was an emphasis on gratitude. In an effort to increase gratitude in my life, I have listed the top 5 things that have been given to me for nothing: 1. My Car When my Gramma bought a new car, she sold her 1997 Ford Tauras to me for $1. A white Tauras isn’t exactly the coolest car on the block, but I have driven it for 7 years with minimal maintenance costs. After 14 years and 100,000+ miles, it still gets me where I need to go. 2. My Education I was fortunate enough to have great parents who decided at a young age to save money for my education. I graduated from Purdue University in 2009 with no student loans and $0 paid by me towards my tuition. They a... PickTheBrain | Motivation and Self Improvement blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4439030 Sat, 05 Feb 2011 19:32:29 +0100 4439030 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4389344&cid=t_106345_136_f&fid=39212&url=http%3A%2F%2Fbahtocancer.com%2F2011%2F01%2Fa-fresh-take-on-gratitude%2F I thought I was pretty good at gratitude. As I thrive after cancer, I make an active effort to be glad of the things that are good in my life. I am grateful for my family, my friends, the people who take care of my care, the people who support me. (This includes you, whether you email or comment or simply come silently by – the stats tell me you’re around, and that’s enough.) I try to tell those around me that I am grateful. And I’m grateful for the place that I live, the things that I do, the way that life lives and breathes around me. Oh yes. Gratitude was well and truly nailed. Then I went to ‘The Year I Would Love To Have’, a one day course run yesterday in London by hypnotherapist and transformational coach Gosia Gorna. And I discovered that I had g... Bah! to cancer blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4389344 Mon, 24 Jan 2011 06:41:21 +0100 4389344 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4253199&cid=t_106345_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2010%2F12%2F13%2Fexchanging-gifts-with-your-therapist%2F It’s that time of the year again — the time where gift-giving is a part of many people’s holiday rituals. While we don’t think twice about buying little gifts for close friends and family, sometimes it gives us pause to consider giving a gift to our therapist. Here’s a relationship with a professional that we see once a week, and yet it is a professional relationship (even if it doesn’t always feel that way). What should you do? Should you exchange a little gift with your therapist? Of course, before you do anything, you and your therapist should talk about exchanging gifts (especially if you don’t know your therapist’s policy). Some therapists are okay with it — as long as the gifts are small — while others have a strict, &#8220... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4253199 Mon, 13 Dec 2010 14:50:26 +0100 4253199 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4214538&cid=t_106345_180_f&fid=38612&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2Fpickthebrain%2FLYVv%2F%7E3%2FAxRAvdMlQv8%2F What is the single biggest roadblock to your dreams? Fear. Is fear of the unknown, fear of losing control, or fear of making the wrong decision keeping you from the life you’ve been longing to live? Is your confidence being sucked dry by your fears? I have the perfect antidote – gratitude. The power of gratitude is unrivaled by any other emotion, even love. In gratitude there can be no fear. If you don’t believe me, the next time you are afraid or worrying about the future, stop and be grateful for anything, then notice what happens. Just by thinking the words “I’m grateful for…” can change your entire outlook on life in that moment. Do you allow your fears to overcome you, forcing you into the fetal position, distracting you from the power of truth that lies deep within... PickTheBrain | Motivation and Self Improvement blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4214538 Tue, 30 Nov 2010 16:32:16 +0100 4214538 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4203159&cid=t_106345_87_f&fid=39187&url=http%3A%2F%2Fgetbetterhealth.com%2Ffeeling-pretty-thankful%2F2010.11.25 It’s Thanksgiving here in the States, and I’m feeling pretty thankful. While the day is reserved for turning hand tracings into turkeys, it’s also a good day to highlight what I’m thankful for this year: I’m thankful that we have a backyard that the cats can go [potty] in, because I was tired of cleaning that litterbox. (And I’m also secretly glad that our neighbors have a ridiculous cat that comes over and starts trouble with ours, because when they pile into the bushes out back and cause the shrubbery to vibrate with their Andy Capp-style battles, it cracks me right up.) I’m thankful for our family and friends, who have helped Chris and I adjust to our new lives as “parents” and who make “home” a place that matters.... Better Health blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4203159 Fri, 26 Nov 2010 00:00:21 +0100 4203159 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4203160&cid=t_106345_87_f&fid=39187&url=http%3A%2F%2Fgetbetterhealth.com%2Flots-of-thanksgiving%2F2010.11.25 A mom who took care of us kids far better than she did herself, always. A Dad whose advice grew better with years, although it was good then. Two brothers and a sister to share a driveway basketball court with, rain or shine. The infinite love of grandparents, who lived within hollering distance over an old Connecticut stone wall. A high school guidance counselor who said I wasn’t smart enough to go to medical school. A college biology professor who rolled out a cart of beers on that first Friday evening research conference. That I watched the movie “Hoosiers” and thought to look at Indiana University for residency, and while there met so many dedicated cardiology teachers. That I have so many great colleagues to work with now. Immersing oneself in a sea of committed peo... Better Health blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4203160 Thu, 25 Nov 2010 22:00:00 +0100 4203160 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4197142&cid=t_106345_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2010%2F11%2F23%2Fbest-of-our-blogs-november-23-2010%2F Gratitude. It’s a funny word, isn’t it? Being thankful used to make me cringe because I thought of it as an obligatory handwritten note or a required childhood greeting following birthdays and holidays and immediately after, “Hello.” But as I grew older, the words, “thank you,” and “gratitude” had a lot more meaning. You could say a powerful one at that. When I started to record what I was grateful for on any given day or send a note or even just an email to those who I was thankful for, it had a surprising effect. More than just ridding myself of childhood guilty from the expected etiquette of please and thank you, it changed the way I perceived the world and my role in it. It meant that the difficulties in my life had a purpose. It meant th... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4197142 Tue, 23 Nov 2010 12:36:16 +0100 4197142 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4175799&cid=t_106345_109_f&fid=38950&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.shockmd.com%2F2010%2F11%2F17%2Fgratitude-among-married-couples%2F When did you lastly thank your spouse? Gratitude is an excellent booster for your relationship, it improves the other well being both psychologically as well as physically. It gives him or her more satisfaction, and activates pro-social behavior. So go and do it. An individual who expresses gratitude is not only providing a positive expression to a partner, but is also conveying an acknowledgement of, and appreciation for, the partner. Someone who is expressing gratitude to a spouse is essentially celebrating the benefits that their spouse has brought to their life, which has the potential to leave the spouse feeling understood, appreciated, and empowered to continue providing effective and appreciated support in the marriage. Meanwhile let me tell you about some recent findings of a study... Dr Shock MD PhD blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4175799 Wed, 17 Nov 2010 06:21:25 +0100 4175799 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4139290&cid=t_106345_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2010%2F11%2F05%2Fbest-of-our-blogs-november-5-2010%2F Only a few days ago, it felt like summer and now the holidays are fast approaching. As the warm days sheds its last ray of summer sunlight, I can’t help but reflect on the past. It seems as though somewhere between childhood and today, there was a time when life seemed a lot simpler, and so much more magical. Instead of fear, worry and disappointment, there was excitement, joy and hope. And even though being an adult often mean less presents and more shopping during the holidays, I still believe in the possibilities of the end of an old year and what the beginning of a new one brings. Maybe it’s all in our attitude. If we can learn how to bring gifts to ourselves and those we love through appreciation and recognition for the things done well, then maybe we can forgo the need fo... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4139290 Fri, 05 Nov 2010 12:27:10 +0100 4139290 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=4077320&cid=t_106345_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2010%2F10%2F17%2Flet-me-live-until-i-die-an-interview-with-thea-bowman%2F Following are excerpts from an interview with Thea Bowman, a Franciscan Sister who became a huge inspiration to black Catholic communities, and to wider circles for her joy and gratitude, her nobility of spirit, and her very real spirituality. The interview, published in Praying magazine and US Catholic, was conducted shortly before she died from cancer, in March 1990, at the age of 53. For me, she is the picture of courage and perseverance of a person living gracefully with pain. Question: What kind of changes have you had to make in your life because of the cancer? Thea Bowman: Part of my approach to my illness has been to say I want to choose life, I want to keep going, I want to live fully until I die … I don’t know what my future holds. In the meantime, I am making a cons... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=4077320 Sun, 17 Oct 2010 13:21:40 +0100 4077320 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3972953&cid=t_106345_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2010%2F09%2F15%2Fwhy-thank-you-is-more-than-just-good-manners%2F According to positive psychologists, the words ‘thank you‘ are no longer just good manners, they are also beneficial to the self. To take the best known examples, studies have suggested that being grateful can improve well-being, physical health, can strengthen social relationships, produce positive emotional states and help us cope with stressful times in our lives. But we also say thank you because we want the other person to know we value what they’ve done for us and, maybe, encourage them to help us again in the future. It’s this aspect of gratitude that Adam M. Grant and Francesco Gino examine in a series of new studies published recently in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology (Grant & Gino, 2010). They wanted to see what effect gratitude has o... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3972953 Wed, 15 Sep 2010 10:02:50 +0100 3972953 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3935926&cid=t_106345_165_f&fid=37959&url=http%3A%2F%2Fhealthskills.wordpress.com%2F2010%2F09%2F06%2Ftemporary-downtime-christchurch-earthquake-aftermath%2F We’re fine after the earthquake, but things are not back to normal in Christchurch – to give visitors an idea of the damage, here are a couple of shots I took on Saturday morning. I was having a week off work anyway, which is well-timed given the circumstances, and I’ll blog occasionally over this time. My story: I was fast asleep until about 4.35am on Saturday morning.  The bed started to jiggle, a bit like when Manly Jack gets the leg twitch thing going, but instead of stopping, this became much more violent.  We could both hear crashing, tinkling sounds as things were falling off shelving, and we leaped out of bed to grab a torch and stand in the doorway.  We must have stood there for at least a minute while the house shook and a deep rumble continued.  The power w... HealthSkills Weblog blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3935926 Sun, 05 Sep 2010 20:57:20 +0100 3935926 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3764307&cid=t_106345_180_f&fid=38612&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2Fpickthebrain%2FLYVv%2F%7E3%2F9JcsVYwjhsI%2F Cultivating An Attitude Of Gratitude: Why You Should Bother If you regularly find yourself feeling stressed, are constantly running against the clock, often wonder if there’s any point to it all anyway, and occasionally contemplate just burying your head under the bed-sheets and refusing to face the day then you might want to try something that’s worked wonders for me. I’ll warn you – this might come off as a little corny at first, and you may wonder how it can possibly change anything. But the truth is that since I’ve employed this very simple 5-minute technique my life really has changed for the better. Not just my career as a blogger and freelance writer, but my health and fitness, and even the quality of relationship I have with my partner and my baby daughter. But before I s... PickTheBrain | Motivation and Self Improvement blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3764307 Mon, 19 Jul 2010 06:06:16 +0100 3764307 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3718643&cid=t_106345_136_f&fid=35301&url=http%3A%2F%2F2hands.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F07%2Fthoughts-on-anniversaries-healing-and.html Each year, on this day, it has been hard not to look back and think about the day as it unfolded six years ago. Each broad-ranging emotion, each action, each word as it was said to me, the look on each person’s face as I told them of my diagnosis. At times those memories sting with the poignancy of the moment as though it happened seconds ago. This year, only one year out of treatment from the recurrence, I find myself place facing the day differently.As 2009 came to a close, I dedicated 2010 to a new start. I needed to put the cancer in its appropriate place in my life – in the past. So I set off on a journey. I had physical side effects that were lingering from treatment and side effects from the hormone-suppressing medication I would be taking for five years. I was trying to heal, p... Two Hands blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3718643 Thu, 01 Jul 2010 14:23:00 +0100 3718643 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3699546&cid=t_106345_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2010%2F06%2F25%2Fcongratulations-to-christine-stapleton-depression-on-my-mind%2F Earlier this month, Christine Stapleton, blogging for us over at Depression on My Mind, won a 2010 Media Award from Mental Health America, the national mental health advocacy group. This is a prestigious award honoring journalists, writers and producers who cover mental health issues during the previous year in newspapers, magazines and online. I “discovered” Christine through her wonderful column in The Palm Beach Post called “Kicking Depression.” But of course, tens of thousands of people were already aware of her writing! I thought she would make a great addition to Psych Central because she brought a journalist’s eye to covering her own battle with depression — a refreshing perspective to say the least. More amazingly, this has been a great fit for ... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3699546 Fri, 25 Jun 2010 16:20:29 +0100 3699546 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3687164&cid=t_106345_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2010%2F06%2F22%2Fbest-of-our-blogs-june-22-2010%2F How was your Father’s Day? Was it all you wanted, expected and hoped it would be? The activities of the day, however, are less important than the memories associated with Father’s Day. Even if you’re not a father yourself or were unable to spend time with your dad due to death or distance, there’s still a lot that can be celebrated. Things like treasured memories and happy moments and taking time to remember the fatherly figures in your life and how they have influenced who you are today. On Sunday, I spoke with my dad. He talked about his life as a child growing up in Hawaii. He reminisced about the way things were. The neighbors he knew, the small local-owned stores that used to be in existence, and the truck that sold produce picked from local farms. How simple l... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3687164 Tue, 22 Jun 2010 11:26:46 +0100 3687164 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3666234&cid=t_106345_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Flife-is-a-mystery-2%2F Many people in early recovery from addiction, alcoholism, gambling and co-dependency are challenged by philosophical questions such as posed here. My life is… a mystery which I do not attempt to understand, as though I were led by the hand in a night where I see nothing, but can fully depend on the Love and Protection of Him Who guides me.     – Thomas Merton – When I laugh, God laughs.  When I weep, God weeps.  When I need, God says, “Yes.” I have come to know that there are many different ways to express spirituality and  know that the Universe is showing me my way.  Spirituality is not defined only as religion.  Spirituality is the yearning of the heart toward something larger than ourselves and the desire to leap the chasm that di... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3666234 Wed, 16 Jun 2010 05:15:00 +0100 3666234 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3595903&cid=t_106345_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FRecoveryIsSexycom%2F%7E3%2FhIvc2vinbtU%2F It’s the little things: Everyday gratitude as a booster shot for romantic relationships In early recovery from alcoholism, addiction, co-dependency or gambling one can be so relieved at finally finding a solution that one may over-commit to the new activity. With all the attendance at meetings, coffee with other members, 12th Step work one tends to do so at the expense of quality time with family and friends. The Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous talks about this in chapter 8, ‘To Wives’. Additionally, the legacy of self-centeredness can run well into sobriety excluding again family and friends. As one gets further into recovery one tends to realize an element of gratitude for the people as well as making amends where necessary. Expressing gratitude is one way of making amends an... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3595903 Mon, 24 May 2010 15:04:00 +0100 3595903 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3556359&cid=t_106345_140_f&fid=35433&url=http%3A%2F%2F4thavenueblues.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F05%2Fattitude-of-gratitude.html I have a lot to be thankful for today.  I have a kind and proactive shrink.  Tonight is Mexican Tuesdays and that will be a nice treat.  I am still enthralled with my home theater and have had the most fun lately toying with it.  Maggie is happily going about her life and it makes me smile to watch her ever busy antics.  She’s always into something in the backyard.  I am under strict orders by my doctor to just rest, relax, and sleep.   That’s why the blog has been so quiet.  I’ve felt so mellow and spent so much time in my home that I just haven’t had much to write about lately. I hope you all are having a good day.  I will try to get up a proper blog post tomorrow.  (Source: The 4th Avenue Blues) The 4th Avenue Blues blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3556359 Tue, 11 May 2010 22:37:00 +0100 3556359 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3542660&cid=t_106345_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2010%2F05%2F07%2Fbest-of-our-blogs-may-7-2010%2F I love the sense of community that’s building over on our Twitter and Facebook pages. If you’re not already following us, please do so. The conversation is getting good! One of our Twitter followers this week called yesterday, “Therapy Thursday,” which I thought was quite catchy. I’d add to this and name it, “Thankful Thursday.” Thankful for all of you who I’m getting to know in the Psych Central community and who I admire for your strength, ambition and impervious spirit. While you’re struggling along trying to better yourself, I hope you take some time and feel a sense of gratitude for where you’ve been and how far you’ve come in the process. Life can be difficult, but you’re getting through it beautifully! With that... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3542660 Fri, 07 May 2010 11:49:35 +0100 3542660 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3519688&cid=t_106345_140_f&fid=35433&url=http%3A%2F%2F4thavenueblues.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F04%2Fmy-thoughts-for-blogging-day_30.html Attitude of Gratitude… I had a really good day yesterday mentally and for that I am thankful.  I never know what the fickle winds of mental illness will bring me everyday.  I try not to dwell too much about it on the blog.  I want this a positive place to come to.  I am also very thankful for mom last night.  She came over here lonesome and wanted me to go with her to Sonic to get some banana splits.  They were delicious and we had the best talk in the car as we ate.  I talked her into trying a cherry limeade and it is her new favorite drink.  Phone Phobias Arise… Mrs. Florene called me last night.  She had an argument with her sister and needed to vent.  It was over some property that needs to be sold which was her mother’s.  Mr... The 4th Avenue Blues blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3519688 Fri, 30 Apr 2010 10:18:00 +0100 3519688 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3519655&cid=t_106345_136_f&fid=35301&url=http%3A%2F%2F2hands.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F04%2Fso-many-times-i-have-started-to-write.html ...While I looked around; For my possibilities....I disappear for months and start back with a quote from the Bangles? Well, let me tell you, there are no hazy shades of winter here. Nothing is hazy at all. It's been full speed ahead.So many times I have started to write and as I write I get this odd feeling that I am either sounding a) whiny about the little things when really I should be grateful to be alive or b) a little full of myself regarding the things I find important as a survivor. Meh, all bloggers are a little whiny and arrogant, no? On with life as a survivor….This year is going by at lightening speed. Seriously. Where did the first four months go? I started the year teaching three classes in addition to my regular job. I’m not sure exactly what I was thinking with this sc... Two Hands blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3519655 Thu, 29 Apr 2010 18:55:00 +0100 3519655 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3508430&cid=t_106345_140_f&fid=35433&url=http%3A%2F%2F4thavenueblues.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F04%2Fmy-thoughts-for-blogging-day_27.html Attitude of Gratitude… I have a lot to be thankful for this morning.  I have food and it is a day before grocery day.  Maggie has taken to snuggling up in my arms every night.  This is a new turn of events and thrills me.  I sleep so much better with her so close to me.  I’ve gotten my six diet Pepsi this morning and am savoring them.  There is a chance my contacts will arrive today and for that I am excited.  I am hoping I will see extremely well with them.  Tonight is Mexican Tuesdays and I am getting the Burrito Supreme plate which will be a treat.  I thought this morning as I drove to my parent’s how reliable and what a good car I have.  It has held up well over the years.  You can’t beat a Honda.  Yes, I have much to ... The 4th Avenue Blues blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3508430 Tue, 27 Apr 2010 11:41:00 +0100 3508430 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3508246&cid=t_106345_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2010%2F04%2F26%2Fgratitude-grace-and-granola%2F “He is a wise man who does not grieve for the things which he has not, but rejoices for those which he has.” — Epictetus When I began my academic career and clinical practice, I would wake up every morning with a feeling of dread. The heaviness and ache on my chest and in my mind, the struggle to attack the day, was oppressive and demoralizing. This crush of morning depression weakened me so much, I was worn out even before the tsunami of “to do” engulfed me. Then one of my 12-step patients came back from a retreat marveling at how she was able to break this lifelong struggle she had in the morning, this heaviness and burdensome dread she’d wrestled with throughout her adult life. She was visibly more energized and jubilant. She had my attention. “Tell me more,”... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3508246 Mon, 26 Apr 2010 17:35:22 +0100 3508246 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3483097&cid=t_106345_140_f&fid=35433&url=http%3A%2F%2F4thavenueblues.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F04%2Frunning-late-this-morning.html I stayed up till midnight listening to radio programs and that is something I never do – staying up late these days.  I slept in this morning to make up for it.  So I am running late with my usual morning blog updates.  My camera is broken so no more Attitude of Gratitude videos for the time being.  I was moving my big CRT Sony TV last night to my computer room and knocked my nice Canon camera off the desk onto the floor.  It is still taking pictures and videos, but just won’t communicate via the USB cord with my computer.  I am going to have to buy a USB SD card reader to get the videos and pictures to my computer.  Maybe Wal-Mart will have one today.  I also want a new wireless router.  My old wireless router is ten years old, has an old w... The 4th Avenue Blues blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3483097 Mon, 19 Apr 2010 10:46:00 +0100 3483097 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3480915&cid=t_106345_140_f&fid=35433&url=http%3A%2F%2F4thavenueblues.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F04%2Fsunday-april-18-attitude-of-gratitude.html (Source: The 4th Avenue Blues) The 4th Avenue Blues blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3480915 Sun, 18 Apr 2010 09:15:00 +0100 3480915 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3480934&cid=t_106345_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FRecoveryIsSexycom%2F%7E3%2FcbTAXhrqxDY%2F Diffused nebula in Sagittarius; courtesy NASA Many people with newfound sobriety from addiction, alcoholism, gambling and codependency are challenged by philosophical questions such as posed here. My life is… a mystery which I do not attempt to understand, as though I were led by the hand in a night where I see nothing, but can fully depend on the Love and Protection of Him Who guides me.     – Thomas Merton – When I laugh, God laughs.  When I weep, God weeps.  When I need, God says, “Yes.” I have come to know that there are many different ways to express spirituality and  know that the Universe is showing me my way.  Spirituality is not defined only as religion.  Spirituality is the yearning of the heart toward something larger than ourselves and the desire to leap the... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3480934 Sun, 18 Apr 2010 08:11:36 +0100 3480934 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3472024&cid=t_106345_140_f&fid=35433&url=http%3A%2F%2F4thavenueblues.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F04%2Fthursday-april-15th-attitude-of.html (Source: The 4th Avenue Blues) The 4th Avenue Blues blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3472024 Thu, 15 Apr 2010 09:21:00 +0100 3472024 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3468003&cid=t_106345_140_f&fid=35433&url=http%3A%2F%2F4thavenueblues.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F04%2Fwednesday-april-14-attitude-of.html   (Source: The 4th Avenue Blues) The 4th Avenue Blues blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3468003 Wed, 14 Apr 2010 08:22:00 +0100 3468003 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3463830&cid=t_106345_140_f&fid=35433&url=http%3A%2F%2F4thavenueblues.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F04%2Ftuesday-april-13th-attitude-of.html (Source: The 4th Avenue Blues) The 4th Avenue Blues blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3463830 Tue, 13 Apr 2010 08:41:00 +0100 3463830 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3460381&cid=t_106345_140_f&fid=35433&url=http%3A%2F%2F4thavenueblues.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F04%2Fbirthday-attitude-of-gratitude.html (Source: The 4th Avenue Blues) The 4th Avenue Blues blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3460381 Mon, 12 Apr 2010 08:08:00 +0100 3460381 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3457991&cid=t_106345_140_f&fid=35433&url=http%3A%2F%2F4thavenueblues.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F04%2Fsunday-april-11th-attitude-of-gratitude.html (Source: The 4th Avenue Blues) The 4th Avenue Blues blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3457991 Sun, 11 Apr 2010 09:21:00 +0100 3457991 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3456868&cid=t_106345_140_f&fid=35433&url=http%3A%2F%2F4thavenueblues.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F04%2Fsaturday-april-10th-attitude-of.html (Source: The 4th Avenue Blues) The 4th Avenue Blues blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3456868 Sat, 10 Apr 2010 10:57:00 +0100 3456868 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3454163&cid=t_106345_140_f&fid=35433&url=http%3A%2F%2F4thavenueblues.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F04%2Ffriday-april-9th-attitude-of-gratitude.html (Source: The 4th Avenue Blues) The 4th Avenue Blues blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3454163 Fri, 09 Apr 2010 10:37:00 +0100 3454163 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3449115&cid=t_106345_140_f&fid=35433&url=http%3A%2F%2F4thavenueblues.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F04%2Fthursday-april-8th-attitude-of.html (Source: The 4th Avenue Blues) The 4th Avenue Blues blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3449115 Thu, 08 Apr 2010 10:40:00 +0100 3449115 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3449118&cid=t_106345_140_f&fid=35433&url=http%3A%2F%2F4thavenueblues.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F04%2Fwednesday-april-7th-attitude-of_07.html (Source: The 4th Avenue Blues) The 4th Avenue Blues blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3449118 Wed, 07 Apr 2010 09:24:00 +0100 3449118 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3441041&cid=t_106345_140_f&fid=35433&url=http%3A%2F%2F4thavenueblues.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F04%2Fattitude-of-gratitude_06.html (Source: The 4th Avenue Blues) The 4th Avenue Blues blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3441041 Tue, 06 Apr 2010 06:33:00 +0100 3441041 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3436394&cid=t_106345_140_f&fid=35433&url=http%3A%2F%2F4thavenueblues.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F04%2Feaster-sunday-attitude-of-gratitude.html (Source: The 4th Avenue Blues) The 4th Avenue Blues blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3436394 Sun, 04 Apr 2010 07:01:00 +0100 3436394 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3435231&cid=t_106345_140_f&fid=35433&url=http%3A%2F%2F4thavenueblues.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F04%2Fattitude-of-gratitude_03.html (Source: The 4th Avenue Blues) The 4th Avenue Blues blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3435231 Sat, 03 Apr 2010 09:44:00 +0100 3435231 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3420737&cid=t_106345_140_f&fid=35433&url=http%3A%2F%2F4thavenueblues.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F03%2Fattitude-of-gratitude.html “As we express our gratitude, we must never forget that the highest appreciation is not to utter words, but to live by them.” Today, I am thankful for medications and being able to afford them through the help of my family and the government.  My medications run over $1000 dollars a month – as much as what I get in disability each month.  I could never afford this without Medicare Part D which pays the full cost of my medications.  I am also thankful for AA.  Having a safe and supporting place to go everyday to talk about my drinking issues is amazing.  And it doesn’t cost anything.  People come together to help and support each other via a common cause – the simple desire to stop drinking.  I am learning to live in a healthy way by attending th... The 4th Avenue Blues blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3420737 Tue, 30 Mar 2010 11:15:00 +0100 3420737 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3420540&cid=t_106345_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2010%2F03%2F29%2Fnarcissists-who-cry-the-other-side-of-the-ego%2F Have you ever noticed that when you have gotten very sick or hospitalized the person you thought was your friend never asked or called? When the same situation had previously happened to them, you were there for them. Many of you have been in a relationship or been a friend with someone who was an extreme narcissist. These types of relationships are filled with drama unless you totally please the narcissist, which is impossible. The typical extreme narcissists are full of themselves and are overtly pompous. I would like to focus on a kind of extreme narcissist that most people fail to recognize. First, let me explain what extreme narcissism is all about. Extreme narcissism is an egotistical preoccupation with self. It focuses on personal preferences, aspirations, needs, success, and how o... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3420540 Mon, 29 Mar 2010 19:18:17 +0100 3420540 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3339692&cid=t_106345_112_f&fid=34971&url=http%3A%2F%2Fdoctorandpatient.blogspot.com%2F2010%2F03%2Fwhat-i-learned-from-my-failed-icsi.html This is a guest post from a patient, who is now a good friend !My first ICSI attempt failed. The first day after hearing this I was very disappointed and down. But the next day, I felt this strange sense of peace and happiness. I realized that I have learned so much from this experience, I am very grateful for that. Firstly, I am really proud of myself, I never in my wildest dreams imagined that I could be so emotionally and physically resilient. Secondly, I feel a deep sense of gratitude for everything I have, my family, my health and so many other blessings that I tend to take for granted. Life is fragile and it is important to be aware and thankful for all our blessings, every minute, every single day. Thirdly, I am much more compassionate than before and feel a strong inner desire to b... The Patient's Doctor blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3339692 Sun, 07 Mar 2010 03:40:00 +0100 3339692 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3322581&cid=t_106345_135_f&fid=35274&url=http%3A%2F%2Facidrefluxweb.com%2F%3Fp%3D4357 I am in such a fog today. The ADD medication so has been pretty good. There have been a couple drawbacks. One is that I can get far too easily stressed out, and I have to watch that. The old habit of drinking a pot of coffee isn’t what it used to be. That might have been tolerable when I wasn’t adding any supplementary stimulants into my body. Not any more! Yesterday I felt so stressed over some things that I just took a break and enjoyed the beautiful sunny day on what would normally gloomy cold February day. It has been such exceptional winter weather wise that it seemed to be a waste worrying about things that are just a blip in the radar in life. Don’t me wrong; I’m far from being a basket case of nerves. But sometimes when things are bothering me, I have to foc... acidrefluxweb.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3322581 Tue, 02 Mar 2010 15:57:48 +0100 3322581 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3185599&cid=t_106345_136_f&fid=39027&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.lrdlc.dreamhosters.com%2F2010%2F01%2Fthank-you-telly%2F In the last post, I wrote about how my resolution for 2010 is to focus on improving myself and my family emotionally/mentally. In that spirit, here’s a video weeks in the making. It is dedicated to my wife, Shawntel, a.k.a “Telly”: Watch Thank You, Telly in Family  |  View More Free Videos Online at Veoh.com I love you, bebe! Thank you to everyone who participated. Can you believe Lexi kept the secret? I filled her in about 2 weeks ago. I also want to give a special thanks to my wife for INSPIRING me. You make me want to create. I’m smiling, are you? (Source: Cancer, life, and me) Cancer, life, and me blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3185599 Tue, 19 Jan 2010 00:38:30 +0100 3185599 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3185418&cid=t_106345_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2010%2F01%2F18%2Flife-lessons-from-my-therapy-clients%2F Still floating in the haze of the passing New Year, I find myself reflecting further upon life, gratitude and noticing things around me that I might not be so tuned into during the hustle and bustle of daily life.  My psychotherapy clients, present and past, are on my mind.  Sure, they come to me for help for their individual and relationship strife and I am in a position of “knowing”  to them but I’d like to forget about that and focus on what I’ve learned from them about life and people in general. Here are some of the life lessons I’ve learned from my therapy clients: People can be incredibly brave. It is hard for some to even get through the door of a therapist’s office let alone open up their most wounded parts to another soul.  I am touched by the st... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3185418 Mon, 18 Jan 2010 18:35:37 +0100 3185418 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3120575&cid=t_106345_136_f&fid=39027&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.lrdlc.dreamhosters.com%2F2009%2F12%2Ftis-the-season-to-be-grateful%2F I wanted to get this message out before tonight. Thank you to all the well-wishers and online supporters. A special thanks to the following people: Mama and Dadda Pam and Jeff Gary Sr. Maytrella, Luis, and family Jessica Thania, Kenny, and the kids My bro, Alan and my newest bro Gary, his wife Kristen, and little Geegs Paul and Tommie Jean Marie L. Luis R. (for not giving up on me) Uncle Wayne Cora Lupea Let’s give ‘em a round of applause, ladies and gents! They have each helped ease our stress during this most stressful of times. But it worked. I feel the love and support and it’s wonderful. Your care and support fuels me and gives me strength. What a gift. From our family to yours: May you all have a joyful Me-mas (get it? My name’s Chris?) and new year! (Source: ... Cancer, life, and me blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3120575 Thu, 24 Dec 2009 19:37:14 +0100 3120575 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3084984&cid=t_106345_151_f&fid=36896&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FSuboxoneTalkZone%2F%7E3%2FgVxWqsjlozo%2F One of the primary insights that I want addicts to gain from reading this blog is the similarity between their own thoughts, feelings, and pattern of use and the thoughts and patterns of use of other opiate addicts.  We are all dealing with the same beast, we have all felt the same desperation, and we have all experienced the same distorted thinking.  I hope that reading the desperate stories of others will help the reader understand that he or she is not alone, and will help readers identify their own distorted thinking.  But tonight I finished the final performance of a Holiday play with Community Theater (I played the psychiatrist who interviews Santa in a take-off on Miracle on 34th Street) and so I want to tell a happy story related to something that I heard from a patient last wee... Suboxone Talk Zone blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3084984 Mon, 14 Dec 2009 05:58:30 +0100 3084984 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3026936&cid=t_106345_180_f&fid=38619&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FALifeCoachsBlog%2F%7E3%2FKa0IzQhxOK0%2F When I got an e-mail from the occasionally provocative, often completely nuts and always amusing, CT Kingston, asking if I’d do a post on gratitude for Tweetsgiving, it took me about 3 seconds to decide I wanted to do it. As some clever soul once said: “Gratitude is the most fleeting of emotions” That is so true in my experience, but it never hurts to remind ourselves how fortunate most of us are. I’ve known people that have been through horrible misfortune only to come out completely unscathed swearing to stay grateful and to change their lives for the better. It seldom lasts longer than a few days or occasionally weeks. I’m not knocking them whatsoever, because I know I all too often forget to be grateful. After all what have I got to be grateful for. Only a wife an... Life Coach Blog: The Discomfort Zone : blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3026936 Tue, 24 Nov 2009 23:01:41 +0100 3026936 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=3019260&cid=t_106345_180_f&fid=38619&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FALifeCoachsBlog%2F%7E3%2FxotkxwgYOok%2F That is probably as weird a title for a post as you will get from me, but it actually happens to be true, I did indeed earn about $30k in 2008 Trust me, unless they are doing corporate work and/or seminars, writing etc, the vast majority of Life Coaches are not very well paid. It’s not much is it? Especially when many people online are looking to impress you with how much they earn, not how little. But it is what is is and I am thoroughly confident this year will be better, and next year, better again. I’m sure you’re really curious to know why I’m sharing such personal information? After all, many people see their income as the Holy Grail of secrets never to be discussed outside (and in some cases even inside) their own home. So why would somebody throw that information out in... Life Coach Blog: The Discomfort Zone : blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=3019260 Sun, 22 Nov 2009 20:38:14 +0100 3019260 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2948456&cid=t_106345_136_f&fid=37858&url=http%3A%2F%2Fdessertyears.wordpress.com%2F2009%2F11%2F01%2Fgratitude-2%2F Sometimes we find ourselves in the midst of the hustle-bustle with no clue as to what we could be grateful for. Life is hard; it hits us in the face from the moment we open our eyes in the morning until we snuggle-down to sleep at night. So how can we discover gratitude? More … We can only be said to be alive in those moments when our hearts are conscious of our treasures.  ~Thornton Wilder (Source: The Dessert Years . . . (the sequel)) The Dessert Years . . . (the sequel) blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2948456 Sun, 01 Nov 2009 12:32:55 +0100 2948456 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2809695&cid=t_106345_101_f&fid=38969&url=http%3A%2F%2Ftheemtspot.com%2F2009%2F09%2F19%2F100-posts-later-building-a-blog%2F It doesn’t seem possible, but this is the hundredth post here at The EMT Spot. By clicking backward from here you can browse through 100 of my thoughts, insights, instructions and ramblings about our job and the diverse world that is prehospital emergency medical services. When I started writing this blog I anticipated some things. I anticipated that there would be some long hours at a computer screen. I knew that there would be productive moments and frustrating cycles of writers block. Momentum comes in waves, that’s just the nature of things. But there are several things I didn’t anticipate. I didn’t anticipate the connections I would make with other bloggers, podcasters and EMS folks from around the world. I feel so much more connected to EMS than I ever have be... The EMT Spot blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2809695 Sat, 19 Sep 2009 13:34:47 +0100 2809695 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2621852&cid=t_106345_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2009%2F07%2F21%2F5-ways-to-practice-gratitude-an-interview-with-sonja-lyubomirsky%2F Today’s interview is with happiness expert Sonja Lyubomirsky, Ph.D., who is Professor of Psychology at the University of California, Riverside and the author of “The How of Happiness.” In 2002, Lyubomirsky was awarded a Templeton Positive Psychology Prize. Currently, she holds a 5-year million-dollar grant (with Ken Sheldon) from the National Institute of Mental Health to conduct research on the possibility of permanently increasing happiness. Her research has been written up in dozens of magazines and newspapers and she has appeared in multiple TV shows, radio shows, and feature documentaries in North America and Europe. Question: I know that gratitude is one key component of happiness, and you mention keeping a gratitude journal, where you regularly write down the thing... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2621852 Tue, 21 Jul 2009 11:32:12 +0100 2621852 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2573131&cid=t_106345_180_f&fid=38613&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.stevepavlina.com%2Fblog%2F2009%2F07%2Fovercoming-cheapness%2F For much of my adult life, I didn’t have a lot of money, sometimes less than $100 (cash and bank balances combined). I always seemed to be able to afford the basics of life, and I learned to be very frugal financially, meaning that I got used to being cheap. I bought cheap food in bulk (I used to eat a lot of ramen noodles). When I needed furniture for my home office, I bought the cheapest particle-board furniture I could find and assembled it myself. I bought cheap shoes from Payless. I got hand-me-downs from relatives. I wouldn’t always buy the cheapest items available, but I tried to get the best value as I perceived it. I didn’t want to overpay for anything. This felt good to me in general. I liked that I was conserving cash and making my money last. My needs were ad... Steve Pavlina's Personal Development Blog blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2573131 Mon, 06 Jul 2009 11:00:20 +0100 2573131 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2341934&cid=t_106345_151_f&fid=35793&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.thejunkyswife.com%2F2009%2F04%2Fjust-swell.html I don't have much to say about my life lately. It's all going well. It's all just swell.There are things that could be better, of course. I could make some more money. My husband could get a job. I could work out some kinks in important family relationships.But overall, I'm happy. I am in love with my husband, and I feel loved by him. I have great friends. I have wonderful tools, and I'm learning to take better care of myself every day. There are fun things on my horizon...friends visiting, weddings, events. I am looking forward to these things. I am even thinking that my husband might be able to participate...which is exciting. He's never had it together enough to be able to come with me to a wedding or to visit family, and the idea that he can be my real date, a real boy, is exciting to ... Heroin Addiction Codependence blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2341934 Tue, 07 Apr 2009 17:33:00 +0100 2341934 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2302394&cid=t_106345_151_f&fid=35793&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.thejunkyswife.com%2F2009%2F03%2Fthis-is-kind-of-weird-and-jesus-freaky.html Something happened to me last night.My car was broken into. Someone shattered the passenger side window and stole my iPod. I hated to lose the iPod, but more than that, I hate having to pay to repair the window. I was afraid that I wouldn't be able to afford to do it until I get paid on the 15th, and I'd have to drive around with a plastic bag taped up where my window should be. It made me sad. I've lost lots of cool electronics in my husband's active using days. I felt pretty sorry for myself for losing more stuff. I felt sad that I can't have nice things. I was angry about having to drive around with a flapping plastic mess of a window.Lately, I wake up frequently at 4:30 in the morning to fret. I fret with amazing clarity at this time of night, and sometimes I'll get up and write to all... Heroin Addiction Codependence blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2302394 Tue, 31 Mar 2009 23:47:00 +0100 2302394 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2233446&cid=t_106345_151_f&fid=36047&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FADozenSteps%2F%7E3%2FsR0WrGhXaJ0%2F from AA History Lovers at Yahoo! Groups; March 1936 - AA had 10 members staying sober. At end of 1936 A.A. had 15 members. March-May 1938 - Bill begins writing the book Alcoholics Anonymous. Works Publishing Inc established to support writing and printing of the book. March 1940 - Mort J. came to LA from Denver; started custom of reading Chapter 5 Big Book at Cecil group. March 1941 - Second printing of Big Book. March 1941 - 1st Prison AA Group formed at San Quentin. March 1946 - The March of Time film is produced by NY AA office. March 1949 - Dr. Bob considers idea of AA conference premature. March 1951 - American Weekly publishes memorial article for Dr. Bob. March 1, 1939 - Readers Digest fails to write article on AA. March 1, 1941 - Jack Alexander’s Saturday Evening Post articl... A Dozen Steps blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2233446 Mon, 02 Mar 2009 23:30:15 +0100 2233446 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2169035&cid=t_106345_136_f&fid=37858&url=http%3A%2F%2Fdessertyears.wordpress.com%2F2009%2F02%2F06%2Fhappy-birthday-4%2F My grandmother always delighted in the fact that she shared a birth date with former President Ronald Reagan. She was particularly excited to receive birthday greetings from him when I served on staff with the United States Senate during his Administration! I keep thinking of her so much today … The second birth day [...] (Source: The Dessert Years . . . (the sequel)) The Dessert Years . . . (the sequel) blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2169035 Fri, 06 Feb 2009 19:59:57 +0100 2169035 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2163705&cid=t_106345_151_f&fid=36047&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FADozenSteps%2F%7E3%2FuPQUfCzlMaA%2F from AA History Lovers at Yahoo! Groups; FEB 1: 1918 - Original date set for Bill Wilson’s marriage to Lois Burnham. The date was moved up because of the war. FEB. 2: 1942 - Bill Wilson paid tribute to Ruth Hock, AA’s first paid secretary, who resigned to get married. She had written approximately 15,000 letters to people asking for help FEB. 5: 1941 - Pittsburgh Telegram ran a story on the first AA group’s Friday night meeting of a dozen “former hopeless drunks.” FEB. 8: 1940 - Bill W., Dr. Bob, and six other A.A.s asked 60 rich friends of John D. Rockefeller,Jr., for money at the Union Club, NY. They got $2,000. 1940 - Houston Press ran first of 6 anonymous articles on A.A. by Larry J. FEB. 9: 2002 - Sue Smith Windows, Dr. Bob’s daughter died. FEB. 10: 1922: Harold E. Hughes... A Dozen Steps blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2163705 Thu, 05 Feb 2009 15:00:35 +0100 2163705 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2115896&cid=t_106345_134_f&fid=35187&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeedproxy.google.com%2F%7Er%2FDiabetesDaily%2F%7E3%2Fn1VqhdIXKJM%2Fcare-to-share-a-minute-with-me.php Greatly inspired by all of you who have gone before me, I present to you my first VLOG post!See you next time!... (Source: Diabetes Daily) Diabetes Daily blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2115896 Sun, 18 Jan 2009 06:28:37 +0100 2115896 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2074614&cid=t_106345_151_f&fid=36047&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FADozenSteps%2F%7E3%2Fj-LTulaOc-8%2F from AA History Lovers at Yahoo! Groups; Jan 1929 - Bill W. wrote third promise in Bible to quit drinking. Jan 1940 - Akron group moves to new home at King School. Jan 1944 - Dr. Harry Tiebout’s first paper on the subject of “Alcoholics Anonymous”. Jan 1944 - Onset of Bill’s 11 years of depression. Jan 1946 - Readers Digest does a story on AA. Jan 1948 - 1st A.A. meeting in Japan Jan 1951 - AA Grapevine publishes memorial issue for Dr Bob. Jan 1958 - Bill writes article for Grapevine on “Emotional Sobriety”. Jan 1, 1943 - Columbus Dispatch reports 1st Anniversary of Columbus, Ohio Central Group. Jan 2, 1889 - Sister Ignatia born, Ballyhane Ireland. Jan 3, 1939 - First sale of Works Publishing Co stock is recorded. Jan 4, 1940 - 1st AA group formed in De... A Dozen Steps blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2074614 Sat, 03 Jan 2009 00:35:50 +0100 2074614 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2074083&cid=t_106345_135_f&fid=35274&url=http%3A%2F%2Facidrefluxweb.com%2F%3Fp%3D2065 Police: Man shot over noise during movie Assailant allegedly told the family to be quiet, then threw popcorn updated 9:21 p.m. ET, Sat., Dec. 27, 2008 PHILADELPHIA - A man enraged by a noisy family sitting near him in a movie theater on Christmas night shot the father of the family in the arm, police said. James Joseph Cialella, 29, of Philadelphia, told the man’s family to be quiet, then threw popcorn at the man’s son, police said. The victim told police that Cialella was walking toward his family when he stood up and was shot. Detectives called to the United Artists Riverview Stadium theater in South Philadelphia found Cialella carrying the weapon, a .380-caliber handgun, in his waistband, police said. For the rest you can go to…… But you’ve probably seen the story on t... acidrefluxweb.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2074083 Mon, 29 Dec 2008 16:34:23 +0100 2074083 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2074178&cid=t_106345_136_f&fid=35301&url=http%3A%2F%2F2hands.blogspot.com%2F2008%2F12%2Fpositively-negative.html I have not shared any news for a while because I have had no news to share. Somehow talking (or writing) about the lack of information left me uneasy as if I would jinx myself if I said too much or verbalized how I felt about all the possible outcomes. The original plan was to wait four weeks after surgery, have a PET scan, complete my staging, and proceed with chemo. Of course plans are made to be broken, or rearranged, or designed with a plan B in mind and everything changed. In the midst of all this I was trying to wrap up the term for two classes I was teaching (yes, I know two at the same time) along with maintaining my regular job, my sanity, and my health. Thank you to everyone who left messages, sent email, or called for updates (or provided great egret information – you have con... Two Hands blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2074178 Mon, 29 Dec 2008 00:49:00 +0100 2074178 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2056226&cid=t_106345_151_f&fid=36047&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FADozenSteps%2F%7E3%2FIomKLDPRe_k%2F Dr. Bob made many profound statements about recovery during a time when technology wasn’t really up to the task of recording him. This is but one paragraph of his written words from the A.A. Grapevine printed in September, 1948 which clearly demonstrates his devotion and commitment to A.A.’s”original,” God-based “design for living.” [Back To Basics - The Alcoholics Anonymous Beginners Meetings, pgs. 163-164] “As finally expressed and offered, they [the Twelve Steps] are simple in language, plain in meaning. They are workable by any person having a sincere desire to obtain and keep sobriety. The results are the proof. Their simplicity and workability are such that no special interpretations, and certainly no reservations, have ever been necessary. A... A Dozen Steps blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2056226 Mon, 22 Dec 2008 06:30:19 +0100 2056226 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2056689&cid=t_106345_165_f&fid=37959&url=http%3A%2F%2Fhealthskills.wordpress.com%2F2008%2F12%2F22%2Fpre-christmas-gratitude-5-things-im-grateful-for%2F In these couple of days before Christmas, it’s traditional to review some of the ‘best of’ 2008. It’s been just over a year since I started this blog, and the topic list and readership has grown a whole lot! What am I grateful for in 2008? Teamwork - the people I work with are fantastic. You can’t work alone in pain management IMHO,  a team of like-minded people to support you both professionally and personally just can’t be beaten.  I take my hat off to the team at Burwood Pain Management Centre who keep me honest, deflate my ego (gently), cushion my falls, keep me standing and give me inspiration to keep on caring about what I do. Motivation - using motivational approaches like motivational interviewing to help people make their own choices rather t... HealthSkills Weblog blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2056689 Sun, 21 Dec 2008 18:14:48 +0100 2056689 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2054836&cid=t_106345_136_f&fid=37858&url=http%3A%2F%2Fdessertyears.wordpress.com%2F2008%2F12%2F19%2Fnew-day%2F Ever carry baggage from the previous day with you into the “today”? As I sip on my mug of café mocha (will post some recipes later …) I am pondering this about myself. Why do we do that? Why do we insist of beating ourselves over yesterday? Today has quite enough worries and anxieties of [...] (Source: The Dessert Years . . . (the sequel)) The Dessert Years . . . (the sequel) blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2054836 Fri, 19 Dec 2008 14:04:30 +0100 2054836 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2008293&cid=t_106345_136_f&fid=37858&url=http%3A%2F%2Fdessertyears.wordpress.com%2F2008%2F12%2F03%2Ffirst-days%2F Today is the first day of the rest of your life. I have always liked that saying. It inspires me to consider new beginnings, letting go, moving on … New directions! What will you do with today? Pursuing one’s dreams — making little micromovements — too often begins “someday” or tomorrow. Got dreams? Why not [...] (Source: The Dessert Years . . . (the sequel)) The Dessert Years . . . (the sequel) blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2008293 Wed, 03 Dec 2008 14:18:27 +0100 2008293 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=2006129&cid=t_106345_151_f&fid=36047&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FADozenSteps%2F%7E3%2FKpKBSgYklvs%2F from AA History Lovers at Yahoo! Groups; Dec 1934 - Bill & Lois start attending Oxford Group meetings. Dec 1934 to May 1935 - Bill works with alcoholics, but fails to sober any of them. Lois reminds him HE is sober. Dec 1938 - Twelve Steps written. Nov/Dec 1939 - Akron group withdrawals from association with Oxford Group. Meetings moved from T Henry & Clarence Williams to Dr Bob and other members homes. Dec 1939 - First AA group in mental institution, Rockland State Hospital, NY. Dec 1939 - 1st home meeting in Los Angeles at Kaye M.’s house. Dec 1939 - Matt Talbot Club has 88 members, uses wagons to collect old furniture to recondition & sell, not A.A., used A.A. program, material, marked 1st effort reach alcoholics outside married middle- class category. Dec 1940 - 1st ... A Dozen Steps blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=2006129 Tue, 02 Dec 2008 14:00:57 +0100 2006129 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1993806&cid=t_106345_136_f&fid=37858&url=http%3A%2F%2Fdessertyears.wordpress.com%2F2008%2F11%2F27%2Fgive-thanks%2F Thanksgiving Day is a jewel, to set in the hearts of honest men; but be careful that you do not take the day, and leave out the gratitude.  ~E.P. Powell Although I routinely record my Spoons (ala Mary Poppins) … It is my habit to compile a record of what I am thankful on Thanksgiving. Amidst preparations [...] (Source: The Dessert Years . . . (the sequel)) The Dessert Years . . . (the sequel) blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1993806 Thu, 27 Nov 2008 14:28:13 +0100 1993806 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1991312&cid=t_106345_134_f&fid=36049&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FDiabetesNotes%2F%7E3%2FCLwPuqhUgcY%2F var iamInit = function() {try{initIamServingHandler(420,280,303052,"http://cdn.pis.picapp.com/IamProd/Resources/Css/css2.css")}catch(ex){}}() Happy Thanksgiving to those celebrating today! I love this holiday for many reasons. First, it gives us a chance to sit down and focus on gratitude. How often do we really get to do that? It also gives us an opportunity to be with family and friends, and celebrate what life is really about: caring for one another. It’s truly a day to realize how lucky we have it. We are blest. There might be some diabetics out there who are sad because they have a disease which causes a lot of maintenance, pain, and restrictions. Beleive me, I am with you in all of that. There are days when I’m more positive, and some days when I feel defeated. But not ... Diabetes Notes blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1991312 Thu, 27 Nov 2008 09:02:00 +0100 1991312 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1993811&cid=t_106345_136_f&fid=37852&url=http%3A%2F%2Fdonnatrussell.com%2F2008%2F11%2F25%2Fgratitude-come-hither%2F Post-cancer gratitude can be elusive. Many gratitude books and sites populate the world, but I believe gratitude forced is not gratitude, but rather an I’m-eating-my-broccoli exercise, often followed by acute indigestion. Robert & Donna Trussell, Thanksgiving 2001, halfway through treatment for ovarian cancer Like most writers, I put a high premium on honesty. But one man’s honesty is another man’s lack of social graces. You can’t just blunder around telling the truth. If you do, you’ll walk a lonely road. Because cancer is so traumatic—the experience would qualify as torture under normal circumstances—real gratitude can be rare. Still, I think it’s worth the effort. I was diagnosed with ovarian cancer the day after 9/11, but a few years ago I a... Donna Trussell blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1993811 Wed, 26 Nov 2008 21:25:00 +0100 1993811 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1996427&cid=t_106345_134_f&fid=35187&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.feedburner.com%2F%7Er%2FDiabetesDaily%2F%7E3%2F466311774%2Fgiving-thanks-and-being-grateful.php Thanksgiving arrives tomorrow and I wish you all a wonderful holiday filled with joy, friendship, love of family and gratitude. I'm going to do some dual wave boluses and test my bloodsugar more than normal, but it will have been... (Source: Diabetes Daily) Diabetes Daily blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1996427 Wed, 26 Nov 2008 15:01:15 +0100 1996427 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1985053&cid=t_106345_151_f&fid=36047&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FADozenSteps%2F%7E3%2FN3e8Gz1qgeE%2F Having searched through my alky mind for a quick-witted response to our neighborhood troll Micky/David/Patrick/Whatever and his insanity/stupidity, coming up with nothing more than immaturity on my part, I began looking around some of my “favorite” places and found Barefoots’ Place once again. Thought about referring to The Akron Manual which was reprinted at Barefoot’s to give us an idea how the oldtimers did it in the beginning but I decided on this - “The Insanity Of Alcohol.” Ya’ see Micky, you have some worth - you motivated my mind to what could kill me and I used the tools. Now I’ll pass on what I can… What exactly is “The Insanity Of Alcohol?” Do you believe it is the “goofy,” or silly behavior we all exh... A Dozen Steps blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1985053 Tue, 25 Nov 2008 04:52:47 +0100 1985053 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1981336&cid=t_106345_151_f&fid=35793&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.thejunkyswife.com%2F2008%2F11%2Fgratitude.html Earlier this week, I got a mantra from my guru, and I've been meditating with it since. It's working for me. I'm not sure if it's my commitment to meditating twice a day and my persistence in sticking with it, or if it's the mantra itself, but I feel like I'm finding authentic peace.This morning, I was walking between jobs, and the air was so, so cold, and the sun felt warm on my face, and the sky was beautiful and blue. I felt overcome with gratitude. I'm finding a better way to live, and it's working.When I finished sitting in meditation last night, I couldn't get up. It felt too good to sit so surely in myself. I bowed my head in prayer, and sat for a long time repeating, "Thank you. Thank you. Thank you."Thank you.Thank you. (Source: Heroin Addiction Codependence) Heroin Addiction Codependence blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1981336 Fri, 21 Nov 2008 22:25:00 +0100 1981336 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1943479&cid=t_106345_151_f&fid=36047&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FADozenSteps%2F%7E3%2F7yWO9Z92KhA%2F As usual, always worthy of consideration, any day, any time, imho. From Silkworth.net; Tradition Eleven: Our public relations policy is based on attraction rather than promotion; we need always maintain personal anonymity at the level of press, radio, and films. Do I sometimes promote AA so fanatically that I make it seem unattractive? Am I always careful to keep the confidences reposed in me as an AA member? Am I careful about throwing AA names around – even within the Fellowship? Am I ashamed of being a recovered, or recovering, alcoholic? What would AA be like if we were not guided by the ideas in Tradition Eleven? Where would I be? Is my sobriety attractive enough that a sick drunk would want such a quality for himself? Hmmmmm??? Tags: 11th-Tradition, alcoholics-anonymous, gratitud... A Dozen Steps blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1943479 Sat, 08 Nov 2008 04:15:55 +0100 1943479 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1939254&cid=t_106345_136_f&fid=35284&url=http%3A%2F%2Fcancerspot.org%2F%3Fp%3D1092 Big national news today: We have a new President and can now get on with living our lives under a new leadership. Big personal news too: I am still cancer-free and can now get on with living out my fifth year, post-diagnosis. Exciting stuff, all of it. Monday morning, I had a follow-up with my oncologist. [...] (Source: my Breast Cancer blog) my Breast Cancer blog blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1939254 Wed, 05 Nov 2008 15:42:43 +0100 1939254 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1926617&cid=t_106345_151_f&fid=36047&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FADozenSteps%2F%7E3%2FOHck6GMVo0g%2F from AA History Lovers at Yahoo! Groups; Nov 1934 - Ebby T. carries message to Bill. Nov 1936 - Fitz M leaves Towns Hospital to become ‘AA #3 in NY’ with Bill W and Hank P. Nov 1937 - Bill and Dr. Bob compare notes in Akron. Count forty cases staying sober. Meeting of the Akron Group to consider Bill’s ideas for how to expand the movement … a book, AA hospitals, paid missionaries. Passed by a majority of 2. Nov/Dec 1939 - Akron group withdrawals from association with Oxford Group. Meetings moved from T Henry & Clarence Williams to Dr Bob and other members homes. Nov 1941 - “First Mass AA Meeting” in Oklahoma City, 8 present, 1 was drunk. Nov 1945 - Bill’s article called ‘Those Goof Balls’ published in Grapevine. Nov 1986 - Big Book published in paperback. Nov 1, 194... A Dozen Steps blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1926617 Sun, 02 Nov 2008 01:02:15 +0100 1926617 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1889053&cid=t_106345_136_f&fid=35284&url=http%3A%2F%2Fcancerspot.org%2F%3Fp%3D918 My favorite of all cancer gifts was a pair of cozy, fuzzy, yellow socks sent in the mail from a friend named Ginger. Ginger, I don’t know where you are or if you’re reading, but I am so thankful for those socks. They warmed my tootsies and my heart. And every time I look at [...] (Source: my Breast Cancer blog) my Breast Cancer blog blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1889053 Sun, 19 Oct 2008 12:43:59 +0100 1889053 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1876158&cid=t_106345_136_f&fid=35284&url=http%3A%2F%2Fcancerspot.org%2F%3Fp%3D882 Today is Love Your Body Day. We’re talking about it on That’s Fit, readers here on my personal blog are sharing what they love most about their bodies for my latest giveaway—click here, reveal your most prized body part, and enter to win a dazzler of a dress—and now, I’ll tell you what I love [...] (Source: my Breast Cancer blog) my Breast Cancer blog blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1876158 Wed, 15 Oct 2008 10:38:17 +0100 1876158 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1871494&cid=t_106345_136_f&fid=37858&url=http%3A%2F%2Fdessertyears.wordpress.com%2F2008%2F10%2F13%2Fdirection-of-my-dreams%2F If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours. ~Thoreau After my first chemotherapy treatment I became physically limited. To this day there is no clear explanation of what actually occurred to restrict movement and [...] (Source: The Dessert Years . . . (the sequel)) The Dessert Years . . . (the sequel) blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1871494 Mon, 13 Oct 2008 15:42:00 +0100 1871494 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1818952&cid=t_106345_136_f&fid=37858&url=http%3A%2F%2Fdessertyears.wordpress.com%2F2008%2F09%2F23%2Fcome-hell-or-high-water%2F Life is the art of drawing without an eraser. ~John W. Gardner The truth is more important than the facts. ~Frank Lloyd Wright Somewhere in my personal history I came to know about this phrase. I can hear my maternal grandmother’s distinct, and rather loud, voice broadcasting these words. Perhaps this is the personal origin for [...] (Source: The Dessert Years . . . (the sequel)) The Dessert Years . . . (the sequel) blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1818952 Tue, 23 Sep 2008 15:33:59 +0100 1818952 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1813232&cid=t_106345_136_f&fid=37858&url=http%3A%2F%2Fdessertyears.wordpress.com%2F2008%2F09%2F22%2Fthe-key%2F Well I know it wasn’t you who held me downHeaven knows it wasn’t you who set me freeSo often times it happens that we live our lives in chainsAnd we never even know we have the key ~The Eagles, Already Gone Vision is not enough; it must be combined with venture. It is not enough to stare [...] (Source: The Dessert Years . . . (the sequel)) The Dessert Years . . . (the sequel) blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1813232 Mon, 22 Sep 2008 13:20:14 +0100 1813232 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1780610&cid=t_106345_136_f&fid=37858&url=http%3A%2F%2Fdessertyears.wordpress.com%2F2008%2F09%2F10%2Fpigs-and-lipstick%2F Well, I have to say that my life seems to filled to the brim with cliches and happy coincidences! Situations such as being completely focused upon one destination, seemingly missing my turn yet when I stop to ask for directions, I am greeted and told I was expected! Projects I didn’t get to finish [...] (Source: The Dessert Years . . . (the sequel)) The Dessert Years . . . (the sequel) blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1780610 Wed, 10 Sep 2008 14:37:00 +0100 1780610 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1779522&cid=t_106345_151_f&fid=36047&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FADozenSteps%2F%7E3%2FcZm7IXs6OwA%2F Since there is often much talk about this topic - Alcoholics Anonymous has provided a pamphlet filled with valuable information about medications and other drugs. This is the opening disclaimer; Alcoholics Anonymous is a program for alcoholics who seek freedom from alcohol. It is not a program against drugs. However, some A.A. members have misused drugs, often as a substitute for alcohol, in such a manner as to become a threat to the achievement and maintenance of sobriety. These incidents have caused all A.A. members to be concerned with what is popularly known as the “pill problem.” Often as a substitute. Yep, that’s me! I also used them to offer myself the opportunity to tell “you” that I didn’t have an alcohol problem, I had a drug problem. Worked - for a wh... A Dozen Steps blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1779522 Wed, 10 Sep 2008 06:15:38 +0100 1779522 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1764007&cid=t_106345_134_f&fid=35187&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.feedburner.com%2F%7Er%2FDiabetesDaily%2F%7E3%2F382122922%2Fdisclosure-part-2-its-a-small-world-after-all.php Turns out my previous concern over overtly disclosing my diabetes to my professor is obsolete. Ironically, the instructor of my fall writing workshop class is best friends with my former sixth grade teacher (who helped me nearly twenty years ago... (Source: Diabetes Daily) Diabetes Daily blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1764007 Wed, 03 Sep 2008 07:52:30 +0100 1764007 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1755068&cid=t_106345_151_f&fid=36047&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FADozenSteps%2F%7E3%2Ffrq54h3Ic5Y%2F from AA History Lovers at Yahoo! Groups Sept 1930 - Bill wrote 4th (last) promise in family Bible to quit drinking. Sept 1939 - Group started by Earl T in Chicago. Sept 1940 - AA group started in Toledo by Duke P & others. Sept 1940 - Journal of Nervous and Mental Diseases gives Big Book unfavorable review. Sept 1946 - Bill & Dr. Bob both publicly endorsed National Committee Education Alcoholism founded by Marty M. Sept 1946 - 1st A.A. group in Mexico. Sept 1948 - Bob writes article for Grapevine on AA “Fundamentals - In Retrospect”. Sept 1949 - 1st issue of Grapevine published in “pocketbook” size. Sept 1, 1939 - 1st AA group founded in Chicago. Sept 5, 2003 - Houston was saved - dAAve got sober! :) Sept 11, 2001 - 30 Vesey St, New York. Location of AA&#82... A Dozen Steps blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1755068 Wed, 03 Sep 2008 02:00:14 +0100 1755068 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1734158&cid=t_106345_151_f&fid=36047&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FADozenSteps%2F%7E3%2FtkjaqfeuEv4%2F The Eleventh Tradition of Alcoholics Anonymous Certainly we can all agree that there is no controversy surrounding this Tradition just like there is no controversy about “Conference Approved Literature” right? Well, I thought it would be interesting to hear what the moderator at the AA History Lovers Group at Yahoo! has to say regarding “Attraction Rather Than Promotion;” ‘Might I say that Tradition Eleven, which says that “Our public relations policy is based on attraction rather than promotion,” is talking about maintaining PERSONAL ANONYMITY in ads and posters and so on. It’s not saying you can’t do it, just that you should not put up a poster with a photo showing the face of a living AA member, and that person’s full name, as ... A Dozen Steps blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1734158 Wed, 27 Aug 2008 02:15:02 +0100 1734158 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1730759&cid=t_106345_151_f&fid=36047&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FADozenSteps%2F%7E3%2FsMXueac-Eig%2F And there was no solution… Then, I also thought you were the riddle and the solution was “If you’d only do things my way everything would be okay.” We all know how well that works out. From today’s Daily Reflection, “A Riddle That Works” “It may be possible to find explanations of spiritual experiences such as ours, but I have often tried to explain my own and have succeeded only in giving the story of it. I know the feeling it gave me and the results it has brought, but I realize I may never fully understand its deeper why and how.” And this explains to me exactly why Matt M. didn’t call on me in that meeting at the Talbot House years ago. He knew I thought I had the answer and I was about to spew it all over these less than me b... A Dozen Steps blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1730759 Sun, 24 Aug 2008 14:04:14 +0100 1730759 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1717395&cid=t_106345_151_f&fid=36047&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FADozenSteps%2F%7E3%2F4LVQMnBlzSs%2F And the only thing it has to do with AA is that an AA friend sent it to me… A gorgeous young redhead goes into the doctor’s office and said that her body hurt wherever she touched it. “Impossible!” says the doctor. “Show me.” The redhead took her finger, pushed on her left side and screamed, then she pushed her elbow and screamed even more. She pushed her knee and screamed; likewise she pushed her ankle and screamed. Everywhere she touched made her scream. The doctor said, “You’re not really a redhead, are you? “Well, no” she said, “I’m actually a blonde.” “I thought so,” the doctor said. “Your finger is broken.” And - oh yeah, I love redheads… Laff - Dammit!!! :) Tags: AA Humor, alc... A Dozen Steps blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1717395 Tue, 19 Aug 2008 23:10:43 +0100 1717395 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1709484&cid=t_106345_151_f&fid=36047&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FADozenSteps%2F%7E3%2F3cpm9q-IQis%2F A good friend (who sometimes visits here - ah hem) forwarded this to me today (sounds familiar); The Cuckoo Clock “Shortly after I got married, I was invited out for a “night out with the boys.” I told the wife that I would be home by midnight… I Promise! Well, the yarns were being spun and the grog was going down easy, and at around 3 am, drunk as a skunk, I went home. Just as I got in the door, the cuckoo clock started, and cuckooed 3 times. Quickly, I realized she’d probably wake up, so I cuckooed another 9 times. I was really proud of myself for having the presence of mind, even when smashed, to escape a possible conflict. Next morning the wife asked me what time I got in. I told her 12 o’clock. “Oh”, she said, “that’s nice&#8... A Dozen Steps blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1709484 Fri, 15 Aug 2008 23:18:45 +0100 1709484 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1674940&cid=t_106345_136_f&fid=35284&url=http%3A%2F%2Fcancerspot.org%2F%3Fp%3D364 I ran a 5K on my treadmill yesterday. Ran another one this morning. Now I know I can tackle this physical feat come October 4 when I participate in my fourth Making Strides Against Breast Cancer event. What I don’t know is if I can raise as much money this time. Last year, I gathered [...] (Source: my Breast Cancer blog) my Breast Cancer blog blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1674940 Fri, 01 Aug 2008 15:13:07 +0100 1674940 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1677290&cid=t_106345_151_f&fid=36047&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FADozenSteps%2F%7E3%2FfUl4s3PL-kE%2F from AA History Lovers at Yahoo! Groups; Aug 1934 - Rowland H and Cebra persuade court to parole Ebby T. to them. Aug 1939 - Dr. Bob wrote & may have signed article for Faith magazine. Aug 1981 - Distribution of Alcoholics Anonymous passes 3 million. Aug 1, 1943 - Washington Times-Herald (DC) reports on AA clubhouse, to protect anonymity withholds address. Aug 3, 1954 - Brinkley S. gets sober at Towns Hosp after 50th detox. Aug 8, 1879 - Dr. Bob born in St. Johnsbury, VT. Aug 9, 1943 - LA groups announce 1000 members in 11 groups. Aug 11, 1938 - Akron & NY members begin writing stories for Big Book. Aug 15, 1890 - E M Jellinek is born, author of “The Disease Concept of Alcoholism” and the “Jellinek Curve“. (Link is a pdf file) Aug 16, 1939 - Dr Bob and Sist... A Dozen Steps blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1677290 Fri, 01 Aug 2008 06:15:18 +0100 1677290 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1668739&cid=t_106345_151_f&fid=35793&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.thejunkyswife.com%2F2008%2F07%2Fdetox-day-3-redux.html I should note, however, that in spite of my grumpiness and glumness and insistence on staying in bed and being miserable, my husband is being something of a detox angel. He's not half so crazy and miserable as he usually is. He's miserable, but it's kind of quiet, and it's not mean at all.I'm grateful. (Source: Heroin Addiction Codependence) Heroin Addiction Codependence blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1668739 Thu, 31 Jul 2008 04:09:00 +0100 1668739 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1664683&cid=t_106345_151_f&fid=35818&url=http%3A%2F%2Frecoveryissexy.com%2Flife-is-a-mystery%2F Many people in early recovery from addiction, alcoholism, gambling and codependency are challenged by philosophical questions such as posed here. My life is… a mystery which I do not attempt to understand, as though I were led by the hand in a night where I see nothing, but can fully depend on the Love and Protection of Him Who guides me.     – Thomas Merton – When I laugh, God laughs.  When I weep, God weeps.  When I need, God says, “Yes.” I have come to know that there are many different ways to express spirituality and  know that the Universe is showing me my way.  Spirituality is not defined only as religion.  Spirituality is the yearning of the heart toward something larger than ourselves and the desire to leap the chasm that div... Recovery Is Sexy.com blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1664683 Mon, 28 Jul 2008 12:00:35 +0100 1664683 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1655607&cid=t_106345_151_f&fid=36047&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FADozenSteps%2F%7E3%2F56503325%2F The Lurking Notion (page 33) “If we are planning to stop drinking, there must be no reservation of any kind, nor any lurking notion that someday we will be immune to alcohol.” Thinkers Anonymous “It started out innocently enough. I began to think at parties now and then — just to loosen up. Inevitably, though, one thought led to another, and soon I was more than just a social thinker. I began to think alone — ‘to relax,’ I told myself — but I knew it wasn’t true. Thinking became more and more important to me, and finally I was thinking all the time. That was when things began to sour at home. One evening I had turned off the TV and asked my wife about the meaning of life. She spent that night at her mother’s. I began to think on the job. I knew t... A Dozen Steps blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1655607 Sat, 26 Jul 2008 06:15:33 +0100 1655607 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1596657&cid=t_106345_151_f&fid=36047&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.feedburner.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FADozenSteps%2F%7E3%2F329549903%2F Delivered at the first international conference of Alcoholics Anonymous at Cleveland, Ohio in July, 1950 “My good friends in AA and of AA. I feel I would be very remiss if I didn’t take this opportunity to welcome you here to Cleveland not only to this meeting but those that have already transpired. I hope very much that the presence of so many people and the words that you have heard will prove an inspiration to you - not only to you, but may you be able to impart that inspiration to the boys and girls back home who were not fortunate enough to be able to come. In other words, we hope that your visit here has been both enjoyable and profitable. I get a big thrill out of looking over a vast sea of faces like this with a feeling that possibly some small thing that I did a numbe... A Dozen Steps blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1596657 Tue, 08 Jul 2008 06:15:57 +0100 1596657 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1575567&cid=t_106345_151_f&fid=36047&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FADozenSteps%2F%7E3%2F130304387%2F from AA History Lovers at Yahoo! Groups; July 1939 - Warren C. joined A.A. Cleveland, caused debate because he was not hospitalized. July 1944 - Bob writes article for Grapevine “On Cultivating Tolerance”. July 1962 - ‘Victor E’ cartoon first appeared in Grapevine. (some say May 1962). July 1-3, 1960 - 25th Anniversary of AA in Long Beach, CA. July 2-3, 1955 - 20th Anniversary Convention at St. Louis, MO. The Three Legacies, of Recovery, Unity, and Service, turned over to the movement by the old timers. AA comes of Age. July 2, 1960 - Father Ed Dowling dies. July 2, 1965 - “Best of Bill” and Pocket-Sized “12 and 12″ 1st sold. July 2, 1965 - 1st “La Vigne”, Canadian Grapevine, published. July 2-4, 1965 - 30th Anniversary of AA in ... A Dozen Steps blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1575567 Thu, 03 Jul 2008 11:19:06 +0100 1575567 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1553092&cid=t_106345_151_f&fid=36047&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FADozenSteps%2F%7E3%2F321279023%2F This will come as a surprise to a couple of good friends. It is an example of “thinking?” My thinking overnight based on some words that were offered to me yesterday. But first - regardless of the outcome I am thankful because I have been motivated. The motivation was certainly from the God I understand today. All the frills that came along with it may have hidden its meaning for a day or two but I was finally able to see the signpost. Therefore, within a couple of days the SCCSCU will be in receipt of a letter, however poorly written or not it may be, that they had requested and my disturbance with them had put off. I am still disturbed by their lack of trust in me but I have more important issues to get past. So - from page 85 of AA’s Big Book; “It is easy to let ... A Dozen Steps blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1553092 Sat, 28 Jun 2008 21:57:34 +0100 1553092 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1546830&cid=t_106345_151_f&fid=36047&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FADozenSteps%2F%7E3%2F320493706%2F I’m going to offer you the “challenge” of determining where these quotes come from. They do come from our literature, including the title. I’m having a special time, for me. I have to say “for me” because I’ve been on the other side of this fence for a very long time. I understand the feeling of thinking nothing special will ever happen in your life. Especially when it seems like the phrase “This too shall pass” is a cuss word. And, this special time is full of fear - that it won’t last or isn’t real. Getting re-centered these last few days has actually been difficult. Thank God for Alcoholics Anonymous - in many more ways than one! If it doesn’t last, it will be okay because even the few moments have been full of elat... A Dozen Steps blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1546830 Thu, 26 Jun 2008 12:36:06 +0100 1546830 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1543689&cid=t_106345_151_f&fid=36047&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FADozenSteps%2F%7E3%2F318815036%2F So there were these two Italian guys, Vito and Angelo. Vito and Angelo were born the same day, the same year, in the same hospital, lived and grew up in the same apartment building on the same block in Brooklyn, NY. Of course they went to school together, were in the same classes, hung out together, played ball together, became interested in girls at the same time and double dated. They also began to drink together and found some trouble together. Eventually they met sisters that they fell in love with at the same time and got married together, honeymooned together, moved into adjoining apartments. Vito and Angelo worked at the same job together for many years. Both families became parents at the same time. Vito and Angelo’s drinking got out of control together. They even spent some ... A Dozen Steps blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1543689 Tue, 24 Jun 2008 11:03:00 +0100 1543689 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1492157&cid=t_106345_136_f&fid=35284&url=http%3A%2F%2Fcancerspot.org%2F%3Fp%3D327 I’m one of the lucky ones—I’m surviving cancer, have been since November 2004. That makes me three and a half years invincible, and I must say it feels good to go to bed each night knowing I’ve survived for 1,277 days. My neighbor is not so lucky. She was diagnosed with breast cancer—my same disease—a little [...] (Source: my Breast Cancer blog) my Breast Cancer blog blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1492157 Wed, 04 Jun 2008 12:24:37 +0100 1492157 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1492244&cid=t_106345_151_f&fid=36047&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.feedburner.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FADozenSteps%2F%7E3%2F122218207%2F from AA History Lovers at Yahoo! Groups; June 1, 1949 - Anne Smith, Dr. Bob’s wife, died. June 4, 2002 - Caroline Knapp, author of “Drinking: A Love Story” died sober of lung cancer. June 5, 1940 - Ebby Thatcher took a job at the NY Worlds Fair. June 6, 1940 - The first AA Group in Richmond, VA, was formed. June 6, 1979 - AA gave the two-millionth copy of the Big Book to Joseph Califano, then Secretary of Health, Education, and Welfare. It was presented by Lois Wilson, Bill’s wife, in New York. June 7, 1939 - Bill and Lois Wilson had an argument, the first of two times Bill almost slipped. June 7, 1941 - The first AA Group in St. Paul, Minnesota, was formed. June 8, 1941 - Three AA’s started a group in Kalamazoo, Michigan. June 10, 1935 - The date that is cel... A Dozen Steps blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1492244 Tue, 03 Jun 2008 18:30:22 +0100 1492244 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1467046&cid=t_106345_151_f&fid=36047&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FADozenSteps%2F%7E3%2F297448793%2F Have you ever felt like “If this is all there is to sobriety, then why bother?” Other than the disease talking to me, I discovered something about that state of mind a few years ago. It’s in the Big Book on pgs. 50-57. I’ll refer to what still makes the most sense to me; “When we became alcoholics, crushed by a self-imposed crisis we could not postpone or evade, we had to fearlessly face the proposition that either God is everything or else He is nothing. God either is, or He isn’t. What was our choice to be?” At those times in my life that were (and still can be) the most difficult, those that feel like everything is unfair and I don’t deserve this, I have this tendency to feel like God has gotten farther away. Fortunately, an oldtimer taugh... A Dozen Steps blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1467046 Sat, 24 May 2008 23:32:14 +0100 1467046 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1458746&cid=t_106345_151_f&fid=36047&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FADozenSteps%2F%7E3%2F294975380%2F Do you really mean that? Are you sure? It seems like this months Daily Reflections are more on target, for me, than most other months. What today’s actually speaks to my mind is: “Count Your Blessings, Not Your Troubles” “One exercise that I try to practice is to try for a full inventory of my blessings…” “What did I have to be grateful for? I shut myself up and started listing the blessings for which I was in no way responsible, beginning with having been born of sound mind and body.” Well, maybe he was born with a sound mind lol. “I went through seventy-four years of living right up to the present moment. The list ran to two pages, and took two hours to compile; I included health, family, money, A.A. - the whole gamut.” Inst... A Dozen Steps blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1458746 Wed, 21 May 2008 11:33:19 +0100 1458746 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1454526&cid=t_106345_136_f&fid=35284&url=http%3A%2F%2Fcancerspot.org%2F%3Fp%3D324 My oncologist told me today at my six-month follow-up that he couldn’t be happier with my progress. Ditto, I say. He told me it’s almost like I’m back to normal life. Ditto, again. Gosh, I really don’t have much more to report on my personal cancer front, which is such very good news. (Source: my Breast Cancer blog) my Breast Cancer blog blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1454526 Mon, 19 May 2008 19:12:56 +0100 1454526 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1449411&cid=t_106345_136_f&fid=35284&url=http%3A%2F%2Fcancerspot.org%2F%3Fp%3D322 Mammogram: Clear Ultrasound: Clear My mood: Great It could have gone the other way. One of my imaging tests today could have turned up something suspicious which would have dictated a completely different outcome and a much worse mood. It happened three and a half years ago when the doctor who’d seen my tumor on ultrasound said, “I [...] (Source: my Breast Cancer blog) my Breast Cancer blog blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1449411 Fri, 16 May 2008 19:03:23 +0100 1449411 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1442983&cid=t_106345_136_f&fid=35284&url=http%3A%2F%2Fcancerspot.org%2F%3Fp%3D317 Just three and a half short years ago, I was wondering if I’d live long enough to baby my babies. They were almost four years and 18 months old when I was diagnosed with breast cancer and more than anything in those early cancer days, I feared for my life—which made me fear for theirs. [...] (Source: my Breast Cancer blog) my Breast Cancer blog blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1442983 Thu, 15 May 2008 02:16:36 +0100 1442983 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1437147&cid=t_106345_151_f&fid=35793&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.thejunkyswife.com%2F2008%2F05%2Ffunding-terrorism.html "I just want to stop funding terrorism. I just want to pay taxes. Why can't I find some help?"My husband's plan to go to a medical detox facility today fell through, as I'd suspected it might. He'd been very attached to his plan, attached to the idea that going away for awhile would be a magical cure for the things that aren't working out for him, would help him break his bad mental habits. The medical detox is a precursor to handling more difficult problems and going away for an extended period of time, and he'd been excited to take this first step.I'd been encouraging him to call the facility. I'd called it months ago, during his last big relapse, and they'd told me in a brief conversation that they would take people in withdrawal who didn't have health insurance and help them through de... Heroin Addiction Codependence blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1437147 Mon, 12 May 2008 22:19:00 +0100 1437147 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1419136&cid=t_106345_151_f&fid=36047&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FADozenSteps%2F%7E3%2F113340490%2F from AA History Lovers at Yahoo! Groups; May 1919 - Bill returns home from service. (Dec 1934 to) May 1935 - Bill works with alcoholics, but fails to sober any of them. Lois reminds him HE is still sober. March-May 1938 - Bill begins writing the book Alcoholics Anonymous. May 1939 - Lois W Home Replacement Fund started at Alcoholic Foundation. May 1949 - The first AA meetings in Scotland were held in Glasgow and Edinburgh. May 1950 - Nell Wing became Bill W’s secretary. May 1951 - Al-Anon is founded by Lois W. and Anne B. May 1, 1939 - Bank forecloses on 182 Clinton Street. (sometimes reported as April 26, 1939) May 1, 1940 - Rollie H, Cleveland Indians, first anonymity break on national level. May 1, 1941 - The first Wisconsin AA meeting was held at a hotel in Milwaukee. May 2, 194... A Dozen Steps blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1419136 Sat, 03 May 2008 23:25:59 +0100 1419136 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1413527&cid=t_106345_151_f&fid=36047&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FADozenSteps%2F%7E3%2F281459163%2F Simply a short collection of tongue twisters heard at meetings… :) “If we are panic-stricken about this phase of our development..” (BB, Ch 6) “Rarely have we seen a person in jail who has thoroughly followed our path” (BB, Ch 5) “Thoroughly have we seen a person fail who has rarely followed our path” (Big Book, Ch 5) “What! An Order? I can’t go through with it!” (BB, Ch 5) Step One: “We admitted we were powerless over alcohol, that our wives had become unmanageable” Step Four: “Made a screeching and thorough moral inventory of ourselves” Step Six: “Were entirely ready to have God remove these defective characters” Step Seven: “Humbly asked him to restore our shortcomings” Step Eleven: “Sought through prayer and medication to improve our conscious ... A Dozen Steps blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1413527 Thu, 01 May 2008 13:55:54 +0100 1413527 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1401439&cid=t_106345_151_f&fid=36047&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FADozenSteps%2F%7E3%2F278405014%2F (”Listen” for the rationalizations…) It says: “Happiness Is Not The Point” And I can somewhat agree. “I don’t think happiness or unhappiness is the point. How do we learn from the problems we face?” Which makes sense unless my negative mind works it into “Everything I face is a problem” therefore I’m “learning 24/7 and I’m sick of it!” Moving on - “How do we best learn from them and transmit what we have learned to others, if they would receive the knowledge?” Well, that is the deal… “In my search to be happy, I changed jobs, married and divorced, took geographical cures, and ran myself into debt - financially, emotionally and spiritually.” Oh, heck no! Is there something wrong... A Dozen Steps blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1401439 Sat, 26 Apr 2008 18:45:47 +0100 1401439 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1356268&cid=t_106345_151_f&fid=36047&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FADozenSteps%2F%7E3%2F265855444%2F Thanks to a good friend I’m now having a gratitude attack… My day didn’t start out that way. In the course of the day, my friend Mike called and offered me many, many reasons to be grateful - for him and for me! Mike has about a hundred different projects on his “plate.” I have substantially fewer. One item on my plate is my responsibility to this blog. I believe I follow through on this responsibility fairly well and can’t criticize myself regarding it. If you want to that’s fine. Just remember - “those that judge don’t matter and those that matter don’t judge.” In another 10 days I’ll celebrate two years of writing here at A Dozen Steps and I am also extremely grateful to b5media and Jeremy Wright for the opportunity... A Dozen Steps blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1356268 Mon, 07 Apr 2008 19:42:29 +0100 1356268 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1340810&cid=t_106345_151_f&fid=36047&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FADozenSteps%2F%7E3%2F106839723%2F from AA History Lovers at Yahoo! Groups; April 1935 - Dr. Silkworth told Bill to quit preaching at drunks & tell them of obsession & allergy. April 1950 - Saturday Evening Post article “The Drunkard’s Best Friend” by Jack Alexander. April 1958 - The word “honest” dropped from AA Preamble, “an honest desire to stop drinking”. April 1966 - Change in ratio of trustees of the General Service Board; now two thirds (majority) are alcoholic. April 1970 - GSO moved to 468 Park Ave. South, NYC. April 1, 1939 - Publication date of Alcoholics Anonymous, AA’s Big Book. April 1, 1940 - Larry J. of Houston, wrote “The Texas Prayer”, used to open AA meetings in Texas. April 1, 1966 - Sister Ignatia died. April 2, 1966 - Harry Tiebout, M... A Dozen Steps blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1340810 Tue, 01 Apr 2008 16:00:27 +0100 1340810 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1274939&cid=t_106345_151_f&fid=36047&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FADozenSteps%2F%7E3%2F98322625%2F from AA History Lovers at Yahoo! Groups; March 1936 - AA had 10 members staying sober. At end of 1936 A.A. had 15 members. March-May 1938 - Bill begins writing the book Alcoholics Anonymous. Works Publishing Inc established to support writing and printing of the book. March 1940 - Mort J. came to LA from Denver; started custom of reading Chapter 5 Big Book at Cecil group. March 1941 - Second printing of Big Book. March 1941 - 1st Prison AA Group formed at San Quentin. March 1946 - The March of Time film is produced by NY AA office. March 1949 - Dr. Bob considers idea of AA conference premature. March 1951 - American Weekly publishes memorial article for Dr. Bob. March 1, 1939 - Readers Digest fails to write article on AA. March 1, 1941 - Jack Alexander’s Saturday Evening Post articl... A Dozen Steps blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1274939 Mon, 03 Mar 2008 13:39:15 +0100 1274939 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1259927&cid=t_106345_109_f&fid=34750&url=http%3A%2F%2Fpsychcentral.com%2Fblog%2Farchives%2F2008%2F02%2F26%2Fla-recuperation-de-mme-trudeau%2F Margaret Trudeau, Canada’s lively and lovely former first lady turned bipolar advocate, talks about her recovery (récupération in French) process to stay balanced. “You need to develop a sense of forgiveness,” she says. “Forgiving myself and forgiving others for abandoning me, for hurting me, for their lack of understanding. I have to ask for forgiveness, and I have to forgive myself.” The other essential ingredient to recovery, Trudeau says, is gratitude. “When you are a grateful person, you are a generous person, and then you are a happy person. When you give, you get—you certainly do.” “I know what it was like to be so low, and to have that flame of hope—the one you should always have—go out. I have such gratitude for being well... World of Psychology blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1259927 Wed, 27 Feb 2008 01:34:44 +0100 1259927 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1225488&cid=t_106345_151_f&fid=36047&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FADozenSteps%2F%7E3%2F233824773%2F Reprinted from “The AA Group: Where It All Begins” What A.A. Does Not Do Tradition Ten: Alcoholics Anonymous has no opinion on outside issues; hence the A.A. name ought never be drawn into public controversy. 1. Recruit members or furnish initial motivation for alcoholics to recover. 2. Keep membership records or case histories. 3. Follow up or try to control its members. 4. Make medical or psychological diagnoses or prognoses. 5. Provide hospitalization, drugs, or medical or psychiatric treatment. 6. Provide housing, food, clothing, jobs, money or other such services. 7. Provide domestic or vocational counseling. 8. Engage in or sponsor research. 9. Affiliate with social agencies (though many members and service offices do cooperate with them). 10. Offer religious services. 11... A Dozen Steps blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1225488 Tue, 12 Feb 2008 16:22:17 +0100 1225488 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1225665&cid=t_106345_151_f&fid=35793&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.thejunkyswife.com%2F2008%2F02%2Fgratitude-list.html I'm struggling to keep my head inside my head, so I thought I should write a gratitude list.1. I have a beautiful family.2. My Nar-Anon family is an amazing resource, and I am so glad I have them.3. I have wonderful friends who are willing to come to me when I need them most.4. I have a relationship with a higher power that I'm learning to turn to more and more.5. I had a beautiful moment last week at the end of a yoga class. I could feel my heart beating, and I felt the sweat on my skin, and I knew I was in the right place at the right time...that there was nowhere else in the world where I should be. I am glad to have found a way to access the spiritual part of myself.6. I have a nice place to live and animals to love.7. I have a job that I enjoy and that pays me well enough to get by.8.... Heroin Addiction Codependence blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1225665 Sun, 10 Feb 2008 22:58:00 +0100 1225665 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1219973&cid=t_106345_151_f&fid=36047&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FADozenSteps%2F%7E3%2F232260719%2F It isn’t so hard to do… ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Post Office Box 607 Hollywood Station Hollywood, California December Fifth 1941 Irma Livoni 939 S. Gramercy Place Los Angeles, California Dear Mrs. Livoni: At a meeting of the Executive Committee of the Los Angeles Group of Alcoholics Anonymous, held Dec. 4th, 1941, it was decided that your attendance at group meetings was no longer desired until certain explanations and plans for the future were made to the satisfaction of this committee. This action has been taken for reasons which should be most apparent to yourself. It was decided that, should you so desire, you may appear before members of this committee and state your attitude. This opportunity will be afforded you between now and December 15th, 1941. You may communicate with u... A Dozen Steps blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1219973 Sat, 09 Feb 2008 17:45:02 +0100 1219973 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1218057&cid=t_106345_151_f&fid=36047&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FADozenSteps%2F%7E3%2F231794719%2F from AA History Lovers at Yahoo! Groups; FEB 1: 1918 - Original date set for Bill Wilson’s marriage to Lois Burnham. The date was moved up because of the war. FEB. 2: 1942 - Bill Wilson paid tribute to Ruth Hock, AA’s first paid secretary, who resigned to get married. She had written approximately 15,000 letters to people asking for help FEB. 5: 1941 - Pittsburgh Telegram ran a story on the first AA group’s Friday night meeting of a dozen “former hopeless drunks.” FEB. 8: 1940 - Bill W., Dr. Bob, and six other A.A.s asked 60 rich friends of John D. Rockefeller,Jr., for money at the Union Club, NY. They got $2,000. 1940 - Houston Press ran first of 6 anonymous articles on A.A. by Larry J. FEB. 9: 2002 - Sue Smith Windows, Dr. Bob’s daughter died. FEB. 10: 1922: Harold E. Hughes... A Dozen Steps blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1218057 Fri, 08 Feb 2008 19:27:35 +0100 1218057 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1207525&cid=t_106345_136_f&fid=35284&url=http%3A%2F%2Fcancerspot.org%2F%3Fp%3D240 Miss Melanoma wrote recently on her blog about how she sometimes misses her pre-cancer self. She wishes she could go back, could let go of the pity that surrounds her at times, could feel free to think of nothing but having fun for a whole evening. It’s getting better, she writes. “I’m so happy I’m [...] (Source: my Breast Cancer blog) my Breast Cancer blog blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1207525 Tue, 05 Feb 2008 23:08:41 +0100 1207525 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1188611&cid=t_106345_136_f&fid=35301&url=http%3A%2F%2F2hands.blogspot.com%2F2008%2F01%2Fthats-amore.html For some reason I can’t shake the idea of life imitating art in the last few weeks. Do you remember the movie, Moonstruck? Think back twenty years…Johnny Cammareri (played by Danny Aiello) must leave his fiancé, Loretta Castorini (played by Cher), to visit his dying mother in Sicily. He arrives to find people holding prayerful vigil over her frail body. Miraculously, the mother makes a recovery now that her son has come to visit. After a stream of visits from family, friends, nuns, priests, puppies, and neighbors, my mother’s condition has improved for now and we are grateful for this time we have had together as a family. It has been quite a rollercoaster that seemingly has no end, but for now things are somewhat stable. Although things remain emotionally difficult, the physical an... Two Hands blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1188611 Wed, 30 Jan 2008 08:43:00 +0100 1188611 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1158328&cid=t_106345_151_f&fid=36047&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FADozenSteps%2F%7E3%2F218408300%2F Offered to all by Hindsfoot… “By following the Ten Commandments and Twelve Steps to the letter we automatically lead a spiritual life, whether or not we recognize it. Here, however, is a set of suggestions, couched in the simplest of language: Elimination of sin from our lives. Develop humility. Constantly pray to God for guidance. Practice charity. Meditate frequently on our newly found blessings, giving honest thanks for them. Take God into our confidence in all our acts. Seek the companionship of others who are seeking a spiritual life. These are practical suggestions, mileposts on the road to a spiritual life. There is nothing mysterious about them,. Every one of the seven points is found elsewhere in AA literature, but here they are set down in a group for easier guidan... A Dozen Steps blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1158328 Thu, 17 Jan 2008 19:24:13 +0100 1158328 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1146598&cid=t_106345_151_f&fid=36047&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FADozenSteps%2F%7E3%2F215634691%2F Fear or Faith… The topic at today’s noon meeting revolved around the loss of a credit card and the subsequent change of actions recovery has brought about as a result. Most folks had a similar first thought - an alcoholic with a credit card? My … how our challenges in life have improved! For me, the consideration was what a credit card in my hands used to be used for - wants. From page 559; “We are taught to differentiate between our wants (which are never satisfied) and our needs (which are always provided for). We cast off the burdens of the past and the anxieties of the future, as we begin to live in the present, one day at a time. We are granted ‘the serenity to accept the things we cannot change’ - and thus lose our quickness to anger and our sens... A Dozen Steps blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1146598 Sat, 12 Jan 2008 19:37:23 +0100 1146598 http://www.medworm.com/index.php?rid=1146599&cid=t_106345_151_f&fid=36047&url=http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.b5media.com%2F%7Er%2Fb5media%2FADozenSteps%2F%7E3%2F214982774%2F Mary Christine got a nasty, stupid, “anonymous” comment the other day. Apparently she was waaaaay too real for someone else’s taste. Today MC responded with a wonderful post which basically says: I’m real, I feel and I’m not perfect. So anonymous - get over yourself! MC, you’ve motivated me. There is a topic for which I have a “purple” passion and, no coincidences, was reminded of it distinctly just yesterday. Pink With Pink, Blue With Blue! Newcomers have been given the opportunity to live a sober life by a God who loves them. We are all newcomers once! Thirteenth Steppers Are Killers! With all the deviousness of a terrorist a 13th stepper preys on his/her victim. A newcomer in a fog, fresh off the streets, is not thinking with a sober mind ... A Dozen Steps blogs http://www.medworm.com/rss/comments.php?id=1146599 Fri, 11 Jan 2008 13:35:17 +0100 1146599